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Raymond Amilcare Obituary
AGE: 58 • Newark
Raymond E. Amilcare, age 58, of Newark, DE passed away peacefully on Monday, September 26, 2016 surrounded by his loving family.
Born on December 12, 1957 in Philadelphia, PA, Ray was a son of Carlo R. Amilcare of Naples, FL and Dorothy Mascellino (Rudy) of Hammonton, NJ.
Ray attended Cherry Hill East High School where he played football. He then went on to play football for Shawnee High School in Medford, NJ, graduating in 1976. For a period of time, he also attended Burlington County College.
Prior to working for Public Service and Electric & Gas in Salem, NJ, Ray worked for Hydro Nuclear Services and Salem Nuclear Plant.
Ray was an avid Philly's sports fan and loved to cheer on his favorite teams, the Philadelphia Flyers and Eagles. He and his dad enjoyed attending games together since 1968 as season ticket holders. He was well known for his passion for animals (especially exotic pets), love of music, and talent of rebuilding computers. He will always be remembered as a very caring, compassionate person who was willing to help anyone. With a huge heart of gold, Ray will dearly be missed by the many lives he touched.
He was preceded in death by a sister, Lisa Marie Amilcare. In addition to his parents, Ray is survived by his loving wife, Donna; daughters, Melissa A. Amilcare of Wilmington and Julie L. Amilcare of Newark; sisters, Angela Amilcare of Mullica Hill, NJ and Carolyn Amilcare of Mt. Laurel, NJ; brother, Anthony Amilcare of Medford, NJ; grandson, Gavin King; many nieces and nephews, as well as many dear friends.
A visitation will be held on Sunday afternoon, October 2, 2016 at Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Home, 121 W. Park Place, Newark, DE from 2-4 pm and on Monday morning, October 3, 2016 from 10-11 am, where funeral services will be held at 11 am. Interment will follow in All Saints Cemetery, 6001 Kirkwood Highway, Wilmington, DE.
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Julie Norris
October 9, 2016
So sorry to hear of your tragic loss. There is not much more devastating that the loss of a child at any age. May you be comforted by happy memories of times you spent together. God bless you and help you through this difficult time.Julie the handshaker from St Joan in Marlton
October 5, 2016
I am sorry for the loss of your love one . May the God of all comfort provide you with the strength needed to cope with your grief. For God is close to the brokenhearted.
Pam O'Bryhim
October 1, 2016
Forever with the Angels, always in our Hearts. You are the bestest of the best Music Man and will truly be missed. Rest in Peace Ray Ray
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Glenn Andrews
September 30, 2016
So many good memories with Ray, Flyers and Phillies games. 3 day weekend parties at Mrs. A's. Working on are cars in the driveway. Playing street hockey out front with the old guy across the street occasional running out and stealing the ball. Hanging out watching TV in the family room with Mrs. A, Ray, Carol, Angie, Ant and Lisa. The weekend at the Bennet's shore house where we watch Jaws when it first came out and nobody would go out in the water past their Knees. Cruisin and boozin at Jungle Jim's, The Maze and The poles. The time we went 4-wheeling in my parent's VW bus and I sank it in a waist deep puddle. Then after I moved on from my GTO to a 4 wheel drive truck the many time we got stuck or swamped and Bob would have to pull me out. I will miss my good friend.
September 29, 2016
Such a great loss - our hearts go out to you.
Mike and Fran Schiavo
Jill Flynn
September 29, 2016
Dear Julie and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. I am unable to attend the service but I am thinking of you and sending love during this difficult time.
Fondly,
Jill Flynn
Donna Keenan Wilson
September 28, 2016
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Praying you find comfort at this time of sorrow. I'm sure Ray is with Lisa now watching over you all.
Jay Magrann
September 28, 2016
My deepest sympathy to Ray's family and friends for their tremendous loss. Such a great friend during our high school years...and even back to CCD classes at Holy Rosary.
Jan Narducci
September 28, 2016
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jan (Mascellino) Narducci
and Marc Narducci
Alexandria Packard
September 28, 2016
Julie, although I wish I could have spent more time getting to know your dad, I can see through you the man that he was. You are a reflection of him and his beautiful heart. You will carry his legacy on forever with you. I love you so much, and God our Father loves you more than you could ever fathom. He knows every hair on our heads and he knows exactly what you and your family are going through. He sees the hurt and He will give you peace beyond all understanding (Philippians 4:7) Stay strong in the Lord and he will support you the whole way. I am so proud of how strong you are - you have been an inspiration to me in this situation and an encouragement.
- God bless the Amilcare Family
Carol Williams
September 28, 2016
I had the pleasure of praying with Ray at his fund raiser. God be with his family as they mourn this sad loss.
September 28, 2016
Our deepest condolence.
Sam & Vrana Anderson
Judy Oelenschlager
September 28, 2016
Every Thanksgiving your loving sister, my Angie-Pangie, brings together a very special group of family and friends to share more than just a feast. We open our hearts, hold each other's hands, laugh a lot, cry a little and connect. Your amazing self will be so dearly missed. The struggle is over. Your beautiful soul is free. Your spirit continues to surround us all in love. Remembrance of you brings a sense of peace. Such a blessing...my friend Ray.
September 28, 2016
Julie: Condolences from the McKenna/Gonzon family to you and your family.
With deepest sympathy,
Bernard McKenna
Dave Daniels
September 28, 2016
Muhammad Ali once said, Friendship . . . is not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything.
Ray was the type of friend that always had your back in good times and bad. Had so much trust and confidence in people that you never had reason to question his motives. He would give you the shirt off his back if you needed it. Don't know who said this but is also true, Good friends are like stars. You don't always see them, but you know that they're always there. Ray will be remembered as a Great Guy - At work, online, and in the Real (outside of work)World. The day we moved the jungle gym /swing-set for your daughter and grandson was an adventure to say the least, but one I'll not forget. My Football Buddy in several leagues for many years, My tech buddy that could fix anything, Twisted - JRZ / AON/ and many others he helped create, build,and maintain online bonds with people around the globe. Work also will never be the same without you there. The strongest of fighters, tough as they come. Battled this cancer very hard for so very long time, RIP Bro, & may I be lucky enough to talk with you again someday. Thank you for being my friend.
Angela Amilcare
September 27, 2016
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Anthony and Tammy
September 27, 2016
Forever in our hearts we love you Ray you will truly be missed
Angela Amilcare
September 27, 2016
You were truly a first class brother. I will miss you and your beautiful smile that lit up any room but thank God you are no longer suffering and in pain. Fly with Lisa and watch over us all ~ you are forever in my heart. I love you, Ray. ❤❤
Your little sister ~ Angie
Forever in our hearts
Tammy Schulkins
September 27, 2016
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