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Robert Vanderloo Obituary

Robert A. Vanderloo

Wilmington - Age 55, passed away Thursday, February 20, 2020.

Born April 2, 1964 in Wilmington, DE, Bob graduated from Brandywine High School in 1982 and Rider University in 1986, and then became a CPA. He was the co-owner of The Friendly Gift Shop in Branmar Plaza. Bob enjoyed Longwood Gardens, traveling, taking care of flowers, and family vacations in Virginia Beach, VA.

He is survived by his wife of 32 years, Pam (nee Schaffer); children, Michael (Kayla), Steven, and Bethany; parents, Bob and Evelyn (nee Shelmire); sisters, Linda (Heidi) and Terri (Dino Grigorakakis); brother-in-law, Scott Schaffer (Maria); and sister-in-law, Barbara Paris (Kevin).

A visitation will be at 10:00 am followed by funeral services at 11:00 am, Tuesday, February 25, 2020 at Congregation Beth Emeth, 300 W. Lea Boulevard, Wilmington, DE 19802. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests contributions to the Blood Bank of Delmarva (www.delmarvablood.org).

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Published by The News Journal from Feb. 21 to Feb. 23, 2020.

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Alice Shannon

February 15, 2021

I will always have fond memories of Bob and him sharing wonderful stories about his family and the neighborhood. God bless them all.

Patricia Carty

March 22, 2020

Our hearts are broken at the death of such a wonderful husband and father. Praying for Pam, Michael, Steven & Bethany. The days and months ahead will be difficult, but grief is the price we pay for love.
The Carty Family: Patty, Kevin, Christine & Kyle
WALDWICK, NJ

Tim P

March 3, 2020

Oh my gosh! Happened to think of you all over the last days and find this saddening news while searching for you. I'm so sorry to hear and send blessings and prayers to all.

Tom Burkett

February 27, 2020

We are so immensely saddened to learn of Bob's passing. We knew Bob and his family through Naaman's LLB. He was a kind, gentle, genuine person. I'll miss catching up with him at the card store. Our heart felt condolences go out to his family.

Kim Williams

February 26, 2020

Wilmington will be missing a wonderful, gentle man. So incredibly sad to hear this news. Friendly Gift Shop is (and always will be) a favorite of mine. My condolences to the entire family. Will be thinking of Pam and kids especially during this tough time. Keep those memories close. ♥

Coach Bob & Mike LP

Jerry Horgan

February 25, 2020

Coach Oda & Coach Bob

Jerry Horgan

February 25, 2020

Coach Bob V

Jerry Horgan

February 25, 2020

Mike Vanderloo & Mike LP (2009 Regionals)

Jerry Horgan

February 25, 2020

February 24, 2020

Roger met Big Bob in the 70s and grew to be best friends.
Along the way we had the honor to watch the kids grow into adulthood . It was great. Bob and Evelyn are so proud of them all. Now I look back on those times and enjoy the memories of their journey.
Robert grew into an amazing young man and enjoyed the business as much as his father.
today is such a sad day.
I am sorry for your loss
carol goldyn

February 24, 2020

We are just devastated and saddened by Bob's death. Our connections to the Vanderloo family go back many years as our Branmar and Foulk Woods neighbors. Our heartfelt condolences to the entire family. We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Fondly,
Iris and Jack Vinokur

Suzanne Skibicki

February 24, 2020

Very sorry to hear of Bobs passing.
Thinking of Pam & his children during this difficult time.
David & Suzanne Skibicki

Esti

February 24, 2020

I didn't know Bob well, but always had the impression that he was a kind, gentle soul. I'm so shocked and saddened at the news of his passing and wish his family know no more sorrow. May his memory be for a blessing. .

Nancy Scallan

February 23, 2020

So sorry for your loss. May God watch over you all. RIP Bobby.

February 23, 2020

So sorry for your loss. We are thinking about you and praying for you.
The kountourzis family

February 23, 2020

I am so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. You are a truly wonderful family, and I send my deepest sympathy for your loss. May God bless you with his presence and give you courage and strength at this sad time. I'll always remember my chats with Bob about the family and the neighborhood when visiting my favorite gift shop at Branmar Plaza.

God bless you

Alice Shannon

February 22, 2020

Our family is so saddened to hear this news. You are in our thoughts. We will always remember fondly carpooling the kids to Hebrew school .

Susan and Randy Glick

Dick and Barbara Armen

February 22, 2020

May you rest in God's hands and may He bring peace and comfort to your family and those who will miss you.

Ken Pineault

February 22, 2020

On behalf of the entire Talleybrook Community we are all saddened by this terrible news. Bob was a great neighbor and his help on the Board was much appreciated. We'll miss the frequent conversations with Bob (and Pam) on their walks around the hood. A great guy, a great Dad and provider for a wonder family who be surely missed by all.

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