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Stuart Cotler Obituary
AGE: 63 • Chadds Ford, PA
Stuart passed away suddenly on February 23, 2014. He was born on April 3, 1950 in Brooklyn, NY to Nathan and Terry Cotler. Stuart received his BA (pre-dental) from Columbia University in 1972 followed by his D.D.S. from Case Western Reserve School of Dentistry. In 1978, he completed his MS in Orthodontics also from Case Western. Stuart was a member of several professional organizations including the American Dental Association; Dental Associations of Ohio, New Jersey, and Pennsylvania; American Association of Orthodontics; and the World Federation of Orthodontics.
Stuart was President of Cotler Orthodontics for more than 30 years establishing offices in Cleveland, OH followed by offices in Mays Landing, NJ and Exton, PA. Most recently he was employed by American Dental Solutions in Pottstown and Wyomissing, PA.
Stuart was an avid history buff. His passion for sports, both present and past was unending. He was a huge NY Yankee fan and the reining family Jeopardy champion. The delivery of the Sunday NY Times gave him reading pleasure throughout the week.
Stuart loved each of his children with all his heart and was blessed to be able to attend his son's first collegiate baseball game. This was something that he dreamed of doing for a very long time. All of his family and friends meant the world to him.
Stuart was preceded in death by his father Nathan. He is survived by his mother, Terry; sister Karen; his loving wife, Cindy (Gooding), of 22 years; three children, Naomi, Dara, and Brady; and three grandchildren, Omani, Odessa and Braelyn.
A memorial service will be held on Saturday March 1, 2014 at 11:30 am at the McCrery and Harra Funeral Home, 3924 Concord Pike Wilmington 19803. Friends are welcome for visitation beginning at 10am. Burial will be held privately. In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to Juniata College Baseball, 1700 Moore St. Huntingdon, PA 16652. To send messages of condolence visit www.mccreryandharra.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Stuart Cotler
Eric Bonds
February 20, 2020
Dr. Stu. You are forever in my heart and I will never forget you. ❤
February 20, 2019
Sending love to you Stu. We all miss you but are comforted in knowing that you are watching over your beautiful Cinz and your loving children. Rest in peace, our friend.
Brianna Torres
March 20, 2014
I knew dr. Colter as my doctor but every time I went for my braces he always brought smile's to the room. I was always surprised to see how happy he always was. And I remember the last thing he ever told me was how I would get my braces off before my b-day. And he said he was exited to see my pearly whites. Now when I go back for my braces It won't feel the same. I will always keep mr colter in my prayers. R.I.P. Brianna Torres (age 14)
Brianna Torres
March 20, 2014
I knew dr. Colter as my doctor but every time I went for my braces he always brought smile's to the room. I was always surprised to see how happy he always was. And I remember the last thing he ever told me was how I would get my braces off before my b-day. And he said he was exited to see my pearly whites. Now when I go back for my braces It won't feel the same. I will always keep mr colter in my prayers.
R.I.P.
Wendy S. Mace
March 17, 2014
Dear Cotler Family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Dr. Cotler was wonderful and I am going to miss him so much. I was one of his older patients and had the worst anxiety about braces. I was the biggest wimp and he went out of his way to baby me at every visit. He'd always say "here's my favorite patient" & I would reply "you know I'm your worst patient ever" & he would just laugh. I had some really bad teeth & I only gave him a year & a half to work with me & he did an amazing job. When I got my braces off I gave him a mug with a little stuffed bear because I always called him my papa bear. I was still seeing him for retainer checks & he would always ask me to let him put braces back on for just 6 months & at my last appt. I finally agreed & he was telling me some of his plans for when he retires. I just can't believe he won't be at my next appt. I took a planter & card for the family to the Exeter office & they told me they had no way to get it to you & were not allowed to give me an address so I wanted you to know I am keeping it in my home in his memory & if any one of you would happen to come near my area you are welcome to have it. My thoughts & prayers are with you all. He will be deeply & sadly missed.
DAMARIS GUADALUPE
March 11, 2014
I AM DEEPLY SADDENED TO HEAR OF DR COTLER'S PASSING! I KNOW HE WAS LOVED BY ALL HIS FAMILY, FRIENDS, PATIENTS, AND CO-WORKERS!! I AM HONORED TO HAVE WORKED WITH HIM AND OBTAIN THE KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM HE BESTOWED UPON ME. HE TAUGHT ME THAT YOU CAN NEVER STOP LEARNING! HE WAS A VERY LOVING MAN WHO TALKED PASSIONATELY ABOUT HIS FAMILY AND HIS ENDEAVORS! HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED AND FOREVER IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS!!! RIP STAURT COTLER:-*
Lisa Budrow
March 6, 2014
We are saddened to hear of the passing of Dr. Cotler. He was a very caring man. My son Brenton looked forward to his orthodontic appointments so they could talk baseball. Dr. Cotler, you will be missed.
Anita English
March 6, 2014
Cindy and family,
So sad to hear of docs passing! What a wonderful man and boss! I have many fond memories of the generous man he was! So sorry for your loss.
Becky Heimbach
March 5, 2014
Very sad to hear that my daughters orthodontist has passed. He was such a kind man and very good at what he did. When we would see him we would always chat sports. My son is a year ahead of his son and also plays baseball so we would share our stories. He also gave good advice to my daughter. He will not be forgotten. Will always think of his kindness when I see my daughters beautiful smile! Thoughts and prayers to your family. God bless...
Brenda
March 2, 2014
My son is a patient of Dr. Cotler. He was a wonderful, kind hearted person and he always talked about his kids and wife and his face lit up when he would mention them. We have only known him for over a year but he made my son's appointments easy and pain free. He will be greatly missed.
Pat Hand-Harris
March 1, 2014
Cins-z, I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Stuart was so kind and generous. I will always have fond memories of him.
February 28, 2014
Dear Cindy,Brady,Dara and Family
We are deeply saddened to hear of the loss of Stu ..."Uncle Stu" to the boys.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these very difficult times. Stu was such a wonderful,kind, family man and we were lucky to have known him. May all your beautiful memories carry you through these times. I'm so happy to know he got to see Brady play his first game in college. We Love You and our Prayers are with you. The Merulla's
Kennett Square, PA
February 28, 2014
Our thoughts love and prayers go out to all the Cotler family, especially to Cindy and the kids. Hoping you will find some comfort in all the wonderful memories you share. We will miss you. Love Carlos, Avonte' and Jawanna
Jennifer Lyons
February 28, 2014
Dara & Family-
I am so sorry for you loss. Thoughts & Prayers are with you all during this hard time. Dara- If you need anything at all, please let me know. Much love!
Judy Rhodes
February 28, 2014
Dear Cindy and Family,
I am so, so sorry for your loss of Stuart. I know his family meant the world to him, and he will surely be missed. I want all of you to know that you are in my thoughts during this very difficult time. Much Love and Sympathy to All.
Mimi & Mark Stellini
February 28, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers go out to all the Cotler family, especially to Cindy and the kids. Hoping you will find some comfort in all the wonderful memories you share.
February 28, 2014
Beautiful obituary for a wonderful person Cindy & Brady. He was a great person and I enjoyed always being in his presence!
Donna Hummel
February 28, 2014
To the Cotler Family, our deepest sympathies to you and may your special memories carry you through this most difficult time. Dr. Cotler put my son, Michael's fears to ease when he saw him at the Wyomissing Orthodontic office, we loved his humor and gentle kindness. He will be missed by many.
The Laverty Family
February 28, 2014
I am so saddened and shocked to hear of the news of Dr. Cotler. He was my son's orthodontist. Always so sweet and personable. I am going to miss seeing him. It's times like this that really make us realize how short life can be. Your memories of him will live on forever in your heart. Thoughts and prayers to all of you during this difficult time.
Diana
February 27, 2014
To his family, I am so sorry for your loss. As an adult patient, I always enjoyed the conversations that we had while waiting for treatment about both of our son's new ventures into college. He really put his family on a pedestal. My prayers are with you all.
Stephanie Wickwire
February 27, 2014
Cindy,
You and your family are in my prayers. I will continue to pray that you find peace in your heart quickly. Please let me know if there is anything you need.
Diane Alcamo Juda
February 27, 2014
Cindy, My heart is breaking for you and your family. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.
Traci Costanza
February 27, 2014
Dr. Cotler was a wonderful orthodontist. My daughter was currently under his care and she enjoyed him very much...very friendly and warm. Thinking of his family at this very sad time.
Margaret Timmons Quinn
February 27, 2014
Cindy so sorry for your loss to you & your family my prayers are with you at this time ! Love you if you need anything don't hesitate to ask !!
February 27, 2014
It was a pleasure to have you be my son's orthodontist.
thoughts and prayers are with your family
eric bonds
February 27, 2014
Sorry for the loss my dear friend at hesrt.
February 27, 2014
Dara and Family, So sorry for your loss. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Fred & JoAnn Neutz
February 27, 2014
My sincere condolences on your great loss. May you find peace and comfort during this sad time…Psalm 25:16,17
Rachael Cain
February 26, 2014
Dr.Cotler was my son's orthodontist and we are so sad to hear of his passing. He always had such a warm smile when we saw him and made my son's experience with braces so easy and comfortable. He will be sorely missed whenever we go back to the office.Prayers to his family.
Shevelle, Shaq, Khris, Krystal Cannon
February 26, 2014
Cindy, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you and the family. Stay strong honey, we are here for you. Love yall.
Scott & Mina Fulton
February 26, 2014
Cindy and Brady~ we are truly sorry for your loss. Please know that we are here for you both ANYTIME. Stu will genuinely be missed at the baseball games. Our prayers will always be with you.
Craig A Eisenhart DMD
February 26, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss. I will do my best to make Brady's Juniata experience the best.
February 26, 2014
Cindy, I am so sorry for your loss. If I can help in any way, please let me know. Love to all. Judy Milan Campellone
Adriana (unji)
February 26, 2014
You will never be forgotten
Uncle Stu! Thanks for all the great memories, you guys are like family. Rest peacefully.
Amo Cianci
February 26, 2014
Cindy, Brady and Family,
In the short time I have known Stu, I came realize what a great and loving father he was. Our prayers are with you all.
Fran Wincek
February 26, 2014
What a wonderful man!! When I would take my 2 girls Roseanne and Marguerite in for braces he would look at my one screwy lower tooth and say, 'I can fix that' and he did...and it's still fixed!! Thank you, Stu.
Our love to your family
the Winceks
Fran wincek
February 26, 2014
What a wonderful man!! I would bring my 2 girls Roseanne and Marguerite to him and he would look at my one screwy lower tooth and say, "I can fix that" and he did!! That was almost 20 years ago and it is still fixed, thank you, Stu!!
Much love to all of you,
the Wincek Family
Jim and Deb Wicker
February 26, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all the children.
The Skalski Family
February 26, 2014
Prayers for you Dara and your family. We are sorry for your loss.
James Troha
February 26, 2014
Cindy and family,
Please know that the entire Juniata College family is thinking of you and praying for your family during this most difficult time.
February 26, 2014
Cindy and family, Stu was such a genuine man. Sensitive, loving, kind, generous and funny! You will all be in our prayers for a very long time, as this is most difficult for sure, for you. Love, Mark and Kathie
Dave Johnson
February 26, 2014
He did the braces for 2 of my children. He remembered my sons name and that he played football. I waited too long to get my daughter braces. He was so good with her. Making an unpleasant process as pleasant as possible.He was so proud talking about his son playing college baseball. He was by far the most genuine doctor that I have ever been around. We are so sorry for your loss!!
The Reen Family
February 26, 2014
Cindy ~ Stu was a kind, thoughtful and generous man. Even though we haven't seen you lately, we feel as though we've lost a very dear friend. Please know that our entire family sends you our most heartfelt sympathy and will keep you in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
Love,
Burton Reen
February 26, 2014
A warm and wonderful man. I will miss your friendship. God bless you Stu.
Natalie
February 26, 2014
He was my son's Ortho and a wonderful person. Thoughts and prayers to his entire family.
Annette Montes
February 26, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Justin Damore
February 26, 2014
I have never met a man more proud of his family. Always a pleasure to talk to you. And many thanks to you, too.
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