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Thomas Cottingham Obituary

Thomas L.

Cottingham

"Cannibal"

AGE: 27 • Wilmington

Thomas departed this life September 14, 2015. Son of Meta Cottingham and Thomas L. Robinson; brother of Kieara Robinson and Zequina Harrison; grandson of Derinda Reams and William Cottingham; a host of other relatives and friends. Funeral 11am, Thurs., Sept. 24th at Congo Funeral Home, 2317 N. Market St., Wilm, DE 19802; viewing 9-10:45am only. Burial, Silverbrook Cemetery

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Published by The News Journal from Sep. 20 to Sep. 23, 2015.

Memories and Condolences
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Michelle Denise Williams

October 3, 2021

Very blessed to have known him.
We miss you Thomas, and we are very, very proud of you! Hero!

Lucina Ramirez

October 1, 2020

Time has not lessened the impact you had on people. You're in my thoughts friend. We miss you.

Shakila Faulkner

October 7, 2015

U are a hero ur were awesome friend a dope rapper and the sweetest man I've ever met I'm missing u everyday cannibal u will always hold a spot in my heart for ever I just hurts knowing I will never be able to hug u or speak to u ever again

Maureen Hurley

September 27, 2015

I feel so honored to have not only been given the privilege of knowing you, but to have been called Ma by you. You will always be a hero to me and Pop. Rest in Paradise sweet boy, one day we will all be together again and what a great day that will be. To your family, May God and His Angels always comfort them and May they find peace until you are reunited again.

September 25, 2015

RIP Hero..A brave man, wonderful son, loyal friend, rapper, "family" to so many! My condolances to those who's lived we're touched by this great man, who sacrificed himself to save the lives of a woman and her child!

smokey baker

September 24, 2015

Cannibal you are truly a hero I will miss you everyday R.I.P fam you will never be forgotten.

September 24, 2015

At Isaiah 65:17, 22-24 our Heavenly Father holds out a grand promise. May your faith in His promise strengthen you as you look forward to its fulfillment.

maria ross

September 24, 2015

Cannibal you are a true hero what you did took guts not everyone has im so sorry you had to leave us I will always miss you and love you I will never forget you or anything you said to me..R.I.P homie we will always be family..you will always be in my heart and thoughts..

Stephanie Griner

September 24, 2015

Cannibal is like one of my kids! I met him when he was a teen and he would come over my home with friends all the time! He is one of the sweetest most generous young men I got the pleasure to know! My husband, son and myself will always cherish the time we got to spend with him!

Jenny Briseno

September 24, 2015

Our deepest condolences go out to the family and friends left behind. A true hero, an amazing friend, and beautiful free soul, was taken to soon. You will always be remembered, always missed, and always loved. Rest easy brother, watch over us all. Love you always.

Kendall Howell

September 23, 2015

Tom and Missy you have my deepest sympathy in your time of bereavement. Thomas death is not in vain because He sacrificed his life that other's may live.He is a true hero and a legend.Thanking God for sharing him with us.

B MILLER

September 23, 2015

rest easy cannibal.. i'ma miss skating with you at Rodney square .. but ill be okay knowing my friend died a hero ..its just shocking knowing the fact that i just spoke to you 3 days before your death .. my last words to you where "there go my bus be safe cannibal ill hit you when i get back intown so we can hit the studio at my crib" ... i wish i could of said something different because now i cant even talk to you .. i'll see you when i get there bro whoop whoop clown love till next time we meet again my friend.

Michelle Williams

September 22, 2015

My daughter and I met Thomas(and his mother),when Thomas and my daughter were about three or four years old at the daycare center at the Y. Thomas and Dee always walked hand and hand, and were best friends into their adult lives. I have watched Thomas, and my daughter Deadra grow up to became beautiful adults. We are very honored to have known Thomas," the HERO"; in our lifetime. We will miss Thomas a lot. My condolences to Ms.Cottingham.
Michelle Williams

Heather M

September 22, 2015

THOMAS COTTINGHAM = HERO = 1.a person, typically a man, who is admired or idealized for courage, outstanding achievements, or noble qualities.
THANK YOU! YOUR ARE A HERO!!

Lucina Ramirez

September 21, 2015

He was one of the coolest guys I've ever known. The way he passed didn't even come as a surprise to me because that's exactly the kind of person he was. Fearless and selfless. A soldier in our dark world.

Robin Foraker

September 21, 2015

Thank you for doing what most are scared to do, stand up and fight back. Many would turn and walk away, but you were bold and strong and did what you felt was right. I pray that all of your sins are washed away and you rest in heaven.

September 21, 2015

My sincerest condolences to the Cottingham Family. May the God of all comfort (Psalms 83:18) help you during these difficult times.

Elizabeth Clice

September 21, 2015

I did not know you personally but, I have heard from my daughter you were a wonderful guy, I know you will be greatly missed by every one who loved you.

Christine Adams

September 21, 2015

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Marie Blest

September 21, 2015

I didn't know the brave young man but you are an inspiration to many. Anyone else would have not got involved but you did and sorrowfully it cost you your life. Prayers to your family and friends.

Cathy Wilkins-Stawicki

September 21, 2015

I, like so many others, did not know you but was touched by your heroism and the outpouring of love for you. Rest in peace, brave one. Much love & peace to your loved ones.

September 20, 2015

I did not know Tom and I am so sorry for your loss. It is so hard to understand why such a tragedy could happen. Please try to keep the Faith. God puts Angels on this earth and Tom was one of them. I will be praying for your family every day. Blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted.

Mary "Twitchy" Ferrell

September 20, 2015

you truly were an amazing person, one I will never forget. rest easy homie. <3

Raven Sullivano

September 20, 2015

I'll miss you dearly you were a great friend an brother at heart. Your life hasn't died in vain an never will because of your selfless act of love, compassion, bravery, an honor, an heroism. You were an will always remain in the hearts of those who knew you as more then just a juggalo. I love you an may you rest in peace. Your family will be in my prayers an thoughts always.

Kryssie D

September 20, 2015

Hey Cann. I just wanted to say thank you for your friendship to me. I know you may not get this message but i hope someway somehow you can hear me. I never got the chance to thank you in person so im thanking you now. You will never be forgotten. You are a HERO. Sleep in peace friend. Ill see you again one day.

Andrea Rogers

September 20, 2015

Thank you for your courage and selflessness. I wish you eternal peace and happiness, and hope that your friends and family find comfort in knowing that others care. My thoughts and prayers are with them all. May they accept my heartfelt sympathy, and may you rest in peace.

Desiree Pulliam

September 20, 2015

I will forever miss Tom and his animated personality. He was a really good friend of mine and I can only image how his family feels. My heart goes out to missy and the others. He was a hero always and he went out like one. His memory will forever be carried on in my heart and soul. I love you Thomas Cannibal Cottingham may you rest in paradise.

Sarah Wright

September 20, 2015

Sleep in Paradise baby boy

Sarah Wright

September 20, 2015

My sincere Condolences and Prayers go out to the Cottingham and Reams families. May God give you the strength and peace much needed at this difficult time. Cannibal earned his wings and the gates of heaven was opened, know that he is watching over all of you, gone but will never be forgotten. Sleep in Paradise baby boy

September 20, 2015

May all those whose lives you touched find some solace in your courage and the lives you saved.

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