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Darin W. Mantell

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Doser Funeral Home and Cremation Service

76 South Main Street

Fairport, New York

Darin Mantell Obituary

Mantell, Darin W.

Fairport: June 8, 2012 at age 40. He was predeceased by 2 daughters, Alexandra and Amanda. Survived by wife, Jennifer and daughter, Samantha; his parents, Allan (Tex) and Sue Mantell; mother and father-in-law, Joanne and Joseph Fusco; his brother, Daniel (Denise) Mantell; brother-in-law, Joseph Fusco; nieces Norah and Julia; along with other family and dear friends.

Visitation will be Wednesday 2-4, 7-9 at the David A. Doser Funeral Home and Cremation Service, 76 S. Main St., Fairport. On Thursday please join the family at Church of the Assumption, 20 East Ave., Fairport at 9 AM for Darin's Funeral Mass. Interment St. Mary's Cemetery. Memorials to Samantha Mantell c/o 23 Saldo Lane, Penfield, NY 14526.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Jun. 12, 2012.

Memories and Condolences
for Darin Mantell

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79 Entries

Mom and Dad

June 9, 2016

Dearest Darin...it's our forth year without you. Isn't any easier. You are thought of every single day and you are so very much missed by all who knew you. I still hear wonderful stories of you by friend's I happen to meet. Your family goes on the best we can with heavy hearts not having you in our lives. Your daughter is a beautiful young lady who makes us all proud and a wonderful student in school. You would be so proud of her. I know you are always watching over her. Your nieces, Julia and Norah, are growing in leaps and bounds. I always picture you playing with them and making them laugh. You were always so good with kids.
Just wish you were still with us. Love you always. Mom and Dad xoxo

September 4, 2015

D..I didn't get to stop by on your birthday but you were in my thoughts and prayers..as always!! We think about you everyday and miss you so very much. We play your row at the club always will refer to it as yours!! much love, Carol

Lisa Laurro

August 24, 2015

Happy belated birthday Darin!! I know your family & friends miss you so much. May you continue to watch over them!!!

Mom Mantell

August 22, 2015

Dearest Darin....you would have been 44 years old today. I remember that day you were born as if it were yesterday. You were such a good baby. You brought so much joy to our family then and continued being a kind wonderful human being in your adult life...and, a son we were so proud of even now.
Birthdays are suppose to be happy but today brings sadness because you aren't here with us. But, the memories of birthdays passed keeps you in our hearts and minds to get through the sadness.
Saw Sam last week as she was doing a "show off cheering show" with her team. Just fantastic. She is so beautiful and talented. It took us back in time as there were four age groups. K to 6th. Seeing the little one's cheer brought back a time when you were there watching her the very first time cheering. A proud Daddy.
Sam is unbelievable now.
Well, D, love you, miss you. Our hearts will always be full of love for you and our thoughts remembering your wonderful smile on passed birthdays. Love always and forever, Mom and Dad xo

Lisa Laurro

June 12, 2015

Sue, not a day goes by that I don't miss my little guy. He loved Darin & playing with Frazier. I hope you're feeling well, I hope you're recovering from the stroke. I felt awful when I read that... Enjoy each moment.. daty by day my friend. Hugs, Luigi xoxo

Sue Mantell

June 11, 2015

Thank you, Lisa. I'm sure Nico and Frasier are keeping him laughing. Use to love seeing them playing around the condos!
Love, Sue

Lisa Laurro

June 10, 2015

Prayers for the Mantell family during this somber time. Life is precious and you are missed Darin by so many. I may be in Arizona however I often think & pray for your family. You are one of a kind!!! Prayers, "Luigi" Lisa Laurro

Mom Mantell

June 8, 2015

Dearest Darin....It's been three years now that you've left us and it doesn't get any easier. We miss you terribly. Went to your resting place tonight and John (Johnny Pockets) and George were there sobbing. So we joined in. You continue to affect peoples lives with the person you were.
Julia, your Goddaughter, is 4 year's old today. I just wish she got to know you better. She's a real pip and keeps us laughing. Norah will be 6 in two weeks. I know you would have been a proud uncle.
Talked with Sam tonight to see how she was on such a sad day. So good to hear her voice. Don't see her much as she's a very busy young lady now. You would be so proud of her and her accomplishments. As with us she misses you terribly.
Danny misses you and we'll often talk about old times and stories on the golf course with you. Rob emailed to see how we were doing...such a dear friend who is always so thoughtful.
Wish you were still here. So much has changed and will never be the same without you.
Just know you are always on our minds and in our hearts every day. Love you, miss you. Love always and forever, Mom and Dad xo

Ma mantell

April 16, 2015

It's hard to believe our Darin will be gone three years this June 8th. I'm glad his loving friends still visit. But, Carol, please don't take those chances with the wild life that often come to the area. It could have been a male guarding his harem, which is dangerous. But, you have that feeling of Darin being present is priceless. Please be careful and I know D would have loved your visit. I do. Thank you so very much. Love, Ma M xo. Hope you are feeling better.

April 14, 2015

I went to see Darin last week just stood there talking to him and said a prayer...I turned around to see 8 full sized white tail deer watching me. One by one the deer left but one who stood there waiting for me to walk over to him. I did and we made eye contact and just watched each other I was within 3 feet of the deer...after a while he turned and left I know it was Darin with me!!! Miss you so much
Love,
Carol

Lori Laurro

April 3, 2015

You are deeply missed Darin! By family, friends, neighbors so many that had the privledge of knowing you. I know it was heavens gain but THERE is such a void here without you. My thoughts & prayers always with you dear family. It is not easy for them but there is hope in that you will be reunited in heaven with our precious Lord for all eternity..

April 1, 2015

Thanks, Lisa. Life hasn't been the same without our Darin. I know, he's watching over all of us. Hope all is well with you. Sue

Lisa Laurro

March 31, 2015

Praying for your family and you, Darin. It is not easy for them without you however we have peace knowing you're with the Lord and we will reunite. We will bowl with you again.

Ma Mantell

January 31, 2015

That was funny, Carol. I can see him kidding you about that. Having a hard time typing after my stroke 11/13 so haven't visited his website to write and saw your post. hope you are doing well. Think about you all the time. Darin always held your friendship highly. Talk to you soon. Love, Ma Mantell

August 31, 2014

Darin,
I visited with you last week on your birthday...remember the year I graduated you were born!!! I still laugh when I hear you teasing me.. You are truly missed and have left an ache in our hearts. The good Lord took you way too early but I'm sure he has you busy watching over all of us. Love and miss you,
Carol

Jan

August 22, 2014

Happy Birthday in Heaven, Darin. Whisper in God's ear to give your family strength. You are missed by many.

Mom and Dad Mantell

August 21, 2014

Dearest Darin...you would have been 43 today. Your absence from our lives is so evident and heartbreaking still and will always be. Rob wrote a note today checking up on us. Told him the emptiness will always be there and I know how hard it is for him as well. Had to go to the shop this week to get my car inspected. I've been unable to go there as I always remember how you would greet me with a big smile, we'd have a cup of coffee together, talk and I knew how proud you were being partners with George and having your own business finally. I hold those times and miss them dearly. To this day, no matter were I go someone that knew you always comes up to me and tells me how they miss you and what a wonderful person you were. It makes me feel good when that happens. I tell them you were my angel on earth. With all our love, son, wish you were here. But, I know you're being well taken care of by our loved one's in heaven. Love you always and forever, Mom and Dad xo

Perkins loved these BOYS!

August 21, 2014

Two Ukies pretending to be Irish!

August 21, 2014

Mom Mantell

June 9, 2014

Thank you David, John and Pat for yesterday at Darin's resting place. You made a hard day a little brighter. Thanks again...it meant a lot to me. Love you guys, Mom Mantell

Johnny Pockets

June 8, 2014

We miss you!

Mom Mantell

June 8, 2014

Dearest Darin...it's been two year's now that you have been taken from us. The heartache will always be there forever. We all have this emptiness that can never be filled in our heart's and mind's since you left us. To this day, people will come up to me and tell me what a wonderful person and friend you were. I tell them you were an angel on earth. Your brother's from L.I. came to visit recently and it was like old times but your absence was hard for all of us. Sam really loved seeing Uncle Rob and Uncle Jim and families again. The folks at the VFW have your picture up on the mantel with a little American Flag at the hall. Your memory still is present by all that knew you there. They put a flag and planted a geranium on your resting place as you will always be one with them. Your daughter, Sammie, is turning into a beautiful young lady. She's one heck of a cheerleader and soccer player. She's a very busy girl but when we have the occasion to see her, I see you in her. Your Dad and I, Danny, Denise and your neices all miss you terribly. Your pictures are present all over their house. Jen seems to be doing okay but like your daughter, she's busy and don't see her much. We will always be there for both of them. I know you are in good company up in heaven with your Grandma's, Grandpa's. Grandpa Ed wasn't the same after your passing. He always said it should have been him instead of you. I know you're taking good care of all of them up there. It brings me solice to know you are all together. Our hearts will always be full of love for you. I believe in life after death. What brings me happiness as we'll all be together again someday. With all our love on the second year without you, we miss you and we are so proud to say you were (are) our son. Love you forever and ever, Mom and Dad xo

Mom Mantell

September 12, 2013

A memory of Darin 12 year's ago on 9/11. His Dad would take him up to the Twin Towers all the time. Tex had many customers from his job with Kodak there. Darin loved the Twin Towers, the heliport and just looking over the homeland. That morning, he called me up from work pretty upset and said, "Ma, some plane just went into one of "my" Twin Towers." He thought it was an accident. I turned on the TV while on the phone with him. While we were talking the second plane went in and I said, "Honey, this was no accident. It's terrorism." He was so upset and worried for all his friend's down there. He couldn't get anyone on the phone because cell towers were atop the Twin Towers and the phone lines were so busy no one could get through to Long Island. HE wanted to get right in his car and head down to the homeland to make sure everyone was okay. He would put himself in peril for his L.I. buddies who were (are) like brother's to him. I was glad they shut down the city and bridges, in a way, because I knew he would go down there and who knew what other horror was planned by those dam terrorists. That's the kind of guy my son was. If you were his friend and you were in danger he'd be the first one there to help no matter what. We were so proud of him for that. Such a kind soul.
Miss you, Darin, every minute of every day.

Mom Mantell

June 20, 2013

Thank you, Rob, for being there for all of us. It's been a hard year without our Darin. I wrote you last night saying you and Jim would only understand this....Darin was a huge fan of the Sopranos. Darin being the kind soul he was could never emulate "Tony" but he sure emulated the kind person James Galdofino was. Darin had the same SUV, tried to act like "Tony" at times but would bring more laughs than anything else. They both died suddenly with a heart attack in the month of June, they even looked alike. It's uncanny. I'm sure Darin was first in line to welcome "Tony" into heaven with Grandpa, too....setting up poker games.
My heart will always ache and have a big hole in it. But, we all have to remember the good times and the great memories. That nothing can take away. I want to thank every single one of you for your support and help getting our family through this first year. Without that, I don't know what we could have done.
Miss you Son and every time I look at your daughter, I see you. You do live on in her. Love to all, Mom and Dad Mantell

June 20, 2013

Darin,how r the twins? We r all very sad down here on your anniversary, but I think u r playing w/ your little girls and telling them all about Sam and their Mommy.

June 19, 2013

Rob Rom

June 19, 2013

Darin. Well, a little over a year has gone by since you've passed and although the shock of your departure has diminished a bit, the loss of you as one of my closest friends still consumes me. I am trying to make sense of what has occurred and have realized that day will never come. The only lesson I've been able to take out of this is that you never know what life will deal you and that you need to make sure that you don't let the little things in life bring you down. A lesson that you mastered, and as you know, I did not. I hope you know that I'm here for Samantha and Jen and will continue to be a part of their lives as they too are a part of my family. Until we meet again brother....Rob

June 19, 2013

We miss you my brother....Rob and Jimmy

November 30, 2012

brian bush

August 9, 2012

Jennifer,

I was very sad to hear today from you that Darin passed away. Very upset. He was a good, honest guy in his shop. You don't see that much today. From my family to yours, I am very sorry. I hope you are doing as well as can be expected.

Respectfully,

Brian Bush and Family

Denise Handley

July 17, 2012

My heart felt sympathy goes out to you Jennifer, Sam, Sue, Tex, Dan, Grandpa, and the entire Mantell family! I will always cherish the friendship I had with Darin growing up! The great fun we had on Norman Street.. He will be greatly missed! Love and prayers today and always to you all!

Eileen Fedorowich

July 16, 2012

I woke up this morning to the sad news that my nephew had passed away. He was a quiet and gentle little boy and man.

When I think of him I remember how he always accepted the annoyance of a little brother with great love and kindness. He even showed him “things,” especially “things” that had to do with motors and moving parts. Like his father, he was fascinated by machines of all sorts and though we might have had all kinds of aspirations for him, it wasn't surprising to us that he became a mechanic. And…I think a good mechanic.

He was also a husband, and father to a little nymph named Samantha. He loved her so very much, but was also very sad that this grandmother never got to meet her. I remember “dancing” with 6 month old Samantha at Darin's friend Rob's house one weekend when they were down from Rochester. It was a joy to watch the baby's face as we moved to the music. When Darin saw me in the living room with his daughter, the smile on his face was magical. I'm sure he was remembering all the many times that his grandmother “danced” with him.

I will always remember his sweetness and hope that when he left this world, it was with a serene heart and with love surrounding him.

My deepest condolences to his family.

Ed & Heidi Fedorowich

July 16, 2012

I am in shock! Today, July 14th, I learned that my nephew, Darin, has passed away. I've no details, but that is unimportant.He was a good man. I remember holding him on my knee, and it seems like seconds later he was blasting a drive passed my ball. He was a great golfer, among other things, and it was fun listening to him and Danny bantering on the golf course as to who was the better golfer. Heidi and I will miss him. Our deepest sympathy to Jen, Samantha, and all who loved Darin as we did.
Ed and Heidi Fedorowich

Tammy Herring smith

July 16, 2012

Our deepest of sympathy to the Mantell and Fusco family

Lisa Laurro

July 2, 2012

Dear Mantell Family,
My deepest sympathies to each of you. I am in shock as I just received an email that Darin passed on the 8th of June. He was a great neighbor. I rememeber when I first moved in the townhouse & had no heat he came over to help me out. He loved 4th of July & we lit off fireworks in our neighborhood. He loved them and now each time I see fireworks I will smile & think of him. He lit up a room with his laughter, sense of humor, smile & personality. May God give you peace. My thoughts & prayers always, Lisa Laurro Fountain Hills, AZ

Dennis Heidenis

June 24, 2012

As a long time friend and co-worker, I was floored and distraught that Darin had passed.I worked with Darin as a boss and best yet as a friend. I really do not what to say as I am stunned and extremely saddened by Darin not being here. I can't even express my thoughts and feelings about this.......I have tears running down my face as I write my thoughts....Darin was a good friend and always a pleasure to be around. I loved when he played Dean Martin and Frank Sinatra at The Monro in Penfield to get the boys movin' along in good spirits. I don't know why you left us so early, but I am sure the Lord has big and better things on his agenda for you. Rest in Peace Darin....you are missed. Your friend.....Dennis Heidenis

Sue & Tex Mantell

June 19, 2012

We want to thank all that came to help support us in this horrible time in our lives. Without all of you we could never get through. Please know how much we appreciate your love and friendship. One day at a time. Thank you again. Sue and Tex Mantell

Jan Considine (Woods)

June 18, 2012

Mantell Family, I was shocked and saddened to hear the news that Darin passed away. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Scott Hacker

June 17, 2012

Sue & Tex, I am so sorry. Darin will always be part of my happiest memories.

Carin Raymer

June 15, 2012

Darin was a great friend. He will be forever missed! May he rest in peace. May his smile shine on forever.

Laura Fasy

June 14, 2012

Jen & Family,
You are in my thoughts and Prayers. May your memories give you strength.
Laura & Geoffrey Fasy

Mark Davitt

June 13, 2012

Jen,
May peace come to you, Samantha and your whole family so you may celebrate the joy of Darin's life and the continuing influence he has on all he has met.
Mark and Maureen Davitt

Lori Decker - Clark

June 13, 2012

"U the Man!" the famous phrase at his 25th surprise party. Great day Jen. Darin was an awesome individual with a huge heart. Forever in my heart. I feel very blessed to have been able to call him my friend. Jen, you are in my prayers.

gail gropp

June 13, 2012

Dear Jen and Family, We are very sorry. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Gail and Jerry Gropp

Colleen & Eddie Boyle

June 13, 2012

We are deeply saddened by the death of Darin. He will be missed by all those who have been lucky enough to have him touch their hearts with his goodness. Our sympathies go out to his wonderful family.

Joel Durham Jr

June 13, 2012

Darin and I were friends in high school. We didn't keep in touch afterward, but nevertheless, his passing comes as a shock - and it fills my heart with sorrow. My deepest and sincerest condolences to his loved ones.

Brett Marinaccio

June 12, 2012

Darin and I had not seen eachother in quite some time but he was a great man. There's nothing I can say that hasn't been said already. We rode Harley's together along with a few other friends in irondequoit. I was very sad to hear about his passing. Via con dios Brother....

Paul & Nicole Schneller

June 12, 2012

For the entire family of Darin and all their friends, the news of Darin's passing is such a shock and saddens us more than words could say! He will truly be missed by all!

Ed & Susie Pevear

June 12, 2012

Dear Tex,
My wife Susie and I are good friends with George & Linda Pierce. That is how we heard of your loss. Susie had met Darin a couple of times at the shop. We can not imagine your pain and send our deepest sympathies to all the Mantell and Fusco families. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

June 12, 2012

We were terribly saddened when we heard this news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you . May your love for your husband/father guide you through this.
The Dorland's

Diane Indovino

June 12, 2012

Dear Jen, Samantha and family,

My heart is filled with sadness and want you to know how I am thinking and praying for you. Darin was a very special person who, like so many have already said, was a good friend to all. I have happy memories of the old days on Broxbourne and of recent years when I would see him. I can still hear his laughter and I will miss him so much.

Kevin & Lek Rossiter

June 12, 2012

Our deepest of sympathy to the Mantell and Fusco family. Our thoughts are with you all.

The Millers

June 12, 2012

Our son knows Sam from Dudley. We were extremely saddened to hear the news yesterday. It is especially difficult when it is someone so young. May God bless Sam and her family during this very trying time. You are in our prayers and thoughts.

Stacie Fell

June 12, 2012

Jen:
I am not sure if you will remember me. We were in girl scouts together way way back. I heard through a friend about your loss and wanted to send my condolences to you and your family.

Stacie (Coyne) Fell

Darla Sherrier

June 12, 2012

The Mantell family, you don't know me but my brother Erick Schickler was a great friend of Darin's. He always talked about him whenever I would see him. When I received the call from my brother all I could hear were tears, that tells me how much of a good person Darin must have been and I wish I could have met him. I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Darla (Schickler) Sherrier

Gen Schultz

June 12, 2012

Jen and Samantha, I am so sorry for your loss. Darin was a great guy and I am glad to have been a friend with him. You are in my prayers and thoughts.

Melissa Crane

June 12, 2012

Jen. Samantha, and family,
It has been forever since we have seen you, and we are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Will, & Melissa (Kubiak) Crane

Carol Ludwig

June 12, 2012

We are so sorry for your loss. Darin was an amazing person, who would do anything for anyone. He touched the hearts of many and will truly be missed. Love and prayers to Jen and Sam and Darin's family...

Sherlonda Patterson

June 12, 2012

Jen and Samantha Mantell and family you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Shannane Trowbridge

June 12, 2012

I am so sad and sorry to hear about Darin..He was an incredible person/friend. My love, prayers and support go out to his family.

Sara De Witt

June 12, 2012

I am at a loss for words. Jen and Samantha and family. I am deeply sorry for your loss. He will be missed by many! Darin was a wonderful man.

June 12, 2012

Darin was not only a great customer in our store here at BanD, but also a great friend to one and all!!! He will be deeply missed and will live on in our hearts!!! Our deepest sympathies and prayers go out to all of Darin's family and friends during this trying time... Sincerely, The staff at BanD Parts Plus

June 12, 2012

Jen- Although I never knew your husband, I have known and worked with you for over 10 years. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your entire family. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.~Paul Cataldo

The Cook - LaManna's

June 12, 2012

Love, prayers and lasting support for Jen and Sam! Darin was an incredible person. Forever in our prayers !!!

Jennifer Klossner

June 12, 2012

God has another angel with him. Darin was a friend that no matter what, he would be there for you if you broke down in your car, if you needed an ear for listening, or someone to do an odd job. He was selfless. He was always bringing his friends something to comfort them in their time of loss. He always had a smile on his face no matter what was going on with him. You knew you could depend on Darin. A once in a life time friend. He is looking down on Jennifer, Samantha, Ma, Tex, Danny and his family, and the many friends he had made, smiling, and looking out for all of us. Darin will always be in our hearts. I will miss you, my friend, more than any words can say. RIP. Until we met again.

Sara De Witt

June 12, 2012

Jen and Samantha, I am deeply sorry about your loss. My heart stopped when i heard about your loss, Darin was an wonderful man. And a great bowler, He will be miss by all. You are in my prayers.

David Indovino

June 12, 2012

Dear Mantell family, so sorry to hear of your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Darin before and becoming great friends. I'll always remember his laid back personality, love of music, and ability to make me laugh all the time. I thank God for letting us cross paths and I pray for your family at this time.

June 12, 2012

We are so sad and sorry about Darin. A real tragedy. He will be missed and remembered by all. Our thoughts and prayers to Jen, Sami and family. Alice and John Kane

June 12, 2012

Jen, Sam, Sue, Tex, Danny, Denise and Mr & Mrs. Fusco,
Joel and I are so sad that we have lost such a special person.
The brighest stars go out most quickly. Darin's star was very bright.
Wtih love and prayers from the Durham family

Deb Reichert-Lauko

June 12, 2012

You are all in my prayers. Darin will be missed by all.

Linda Forbes (VFW8495)

June 12, 2012

Jen & Sami,so sorry for your loss,Darin was a great dad and husband. He will be missed by all who knew him. May he always live on in that special piece of heaven in our hearts.

June 12, 2012

Jennifer, Samantha, family and friends of Mr. Mantell: you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
The O'Donnell Family (Dudley School)

Jill Angle

June 12, 2012

I have known Darin since I was in 8th grade as we both bowled at Fairview on Saturday mornings. He was a fantastic bowler! I then got to know Darin better as he and my friend Jen have been together forever. One time when Jen and I were in High School, we went to Long Island to visit Darin. After about three hours of driving back "home" to Rochester we saw the "Welcome to Long Island" sign on the bridge - oops wrong way. I bet Jen just wanted to go see her Darin again - they sure were inseparable. Darin is such a caring, generous, and laid back person. He was so easy going and a great person and friend. When I found out about his passing on Friday, my heart broke. My thoughts and prayers are with Jen and Samantha and the Fusco and Mantell family. Lots of love to you Darin, you will be deeply missed by everyone that you touched. XOXO

June 12, 2012

Jennifer,Samantha,the Mantell and Fusco families, you are all in our every waking prayers!! Words will never be able to describe our sorrow! The Allen's (Fairport, NY)

June 12, 2012

Jen and family, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
-Donna Harper

June 12, 2012

Darin,
I am a loss for words. I have so much that I would Love to say to you. I will never forget the first time we met on that snowy day shoveling snow in the driveway at the town house.I will never forget but will miss your laugh and smile.You are truely a great friend whom I will miss dearly.God Bless You and Jen and Sam
Love You
Dave Muir

The Richards

June 12, 2012

Jen, Samantha and families, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We hope your memories will sustain you and help you through this...The Richards Family

June 12, 2012

Jen,Sam,and the Mantell and Fusco families, our deepest of sympathy to all of you. Darin will truly be missed. Our hearts are broken. The Brunettes

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