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David Phelps Obituary

Phelps, David J.

Ogden: Monday, December 16, 2013, at age 63. Predeceased by his father, Donald; brother, Douglas. He is survived by his loving wife, Mary (Pennello) Phelps; sons, David (Melissa) Phelps, Christopher Phelps (Michelle Miller); grandchildren, Dominic and Jacob Phelps, Emma Phelps and her mother, Kim; mother, Margaret Phelps; mother-in-law, Lisa Pennello; sisters, Kathleen (James) Lamb, Linda (Otis) Taylor; brother-in-law and sister-in-law, Anthony and Patty Pennello; many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins. David was on the Board of Directors of Gates Ambulance and a proud Air Force Veteran of Vietnam.

Friends may call FRIDAY from 4-8PM at the DiPonzio Funeral Home, Inc., 219 Spencerport Road, Gates. On Saturday morning, friends are invited to attend his Funeral Mass at 10:00 in St. Christopher's Church, N. Chili. Interment, Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be directed to Honor Flight Rochester, Inc.. PO Box 23581, Rochester, NY 14692 or to Gates Ambulance,1600 Buffalo Rd., Rochester, NY 14624 in his memory.



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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Dec. 19, 2013.

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Sharon Oppedisano

December 23, 2013

Dear Mary, Don and I are so sorry and send our love and sympathy. We're praying that you will continually be comforted and strengthened by God's Word, knowing His love and grace and peace in new ways as He carries you on His strong arms through your grief. "Because You are my help, I sing in the shadow of Your wings. My soul clings to You; Your right hand upholds me." (Psalm 63:7-8)

December 22, 2013

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December 22, 2013

The Hull family , formerly of West Henrietta. Please accept our condolences.

Elaine Lombardi

December 22, 2013

Mary, my prayers are with you and your family. David's long road of suffering is now over. Try to find comfort, knowing he is now with The Lord

Elaine Berner

December 21, 2013

Mary, Chis and David,
May the loving memories you have of Dave get you through this very tough time! May your love for Dave help you smile, even through the tears.
Love and prayers,

Stephen Palmer

December 21, 2013

Mary I am praying for you and your family at this time. Dave was a very caring person and I will never forget all the fun times we had at Gates Ambulance. RIP Dave.

Peter and Kathy Post

December 21, 2013

Mary, Our sincere sympathy to you and your family. We remember Dave as one of the really good guys and so proud of you and his family. May you all have peace of mind in dealing with your loss.

December 21, 2013

Mary our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family David will be deeply missed love Anthony and carol pepe Bella cucina

Judy & Dick Inclima

December 20, 2013

Dear Mary, David, Christopher & Family, sending our thoughts & prayers to all. Dave suffered so much & you were always by his side caring for him. May the wonderful memories of him comfort you. With deepest sympathy, Judy & Dick

pete and moogie ranalletta

December 20, 2013

Mary chris and david. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time.
God bless

Stephanie Miller

December 20, 2013

Mary,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire family! Dave was a great guy! So glad to have met him through the ambulance!

Rod and The Speer Kids

December 20, 2013

Mary, family and friends,
We send our deepest sympathies to you all. I will always recall David's smile and his service to the community. Our Master called David to answer his last alarm. May he rest in peace...

Jim and Linda Pepe

December 19, 2013

Our prayers and heartfelt sympathies are with you in your tragic losw

Carla Collichio

December 19, 2013

Prayers and thoughts to you, Mary, and your family. Dave was nice guy !

Malora Zavaglia

December 19, 2013

Dear Mary & Family -
My prayers are sent for you to have faith that David is happy and at peace and strength to support each other at this sad time.

God bless.

Debbie Rozzi

December 19, 2013

May you rest in peace.

Debbie & Dick Rozzi

December 19, 2013

Mary, Dave and Christopher, We enjoyed having the Phelps as neighbors. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very difficult time. We regret that we will be out of town for the service and not able to attend. God Bless you. We wil be in touch.

Sue (Ashley) Mitchell

December 19, 2013

Mary,
My sincere condolences. May the Peace, Love & Comfort we find in our Lord & Savior, Jesus Christ, be with you and your family.

Florence Layton

December 19, 2013

Mary,
I know what you are going through having gone through it myself. Dave fought some amazing odds and endured much more than anyone should have to endure. It is hard to watch someone you love go through so much but he fought to stay with you and the kids until he knew it was time. You will go through so many ups and downs but you will find comfort in knowing that he is now resting in peace. May GOD give you and your family the strength to get through the rough road ahead. R.I.P. Dave !

Joanie Cooke

December 19, 2013

Dear Mary and family, I am so very sorry.
You have my prayers and sympathy. From what I read about Dave, he was such a great father, grandfather, and friend. God love all of you.

December 19, 2013

Mary & Family,

I am very sorry for your loss, May God wrap His arms around you at this diffcult time.

Karen Jefferson

Krista Compton

December 19, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Phelps family. Dave was a wonderful man and will be deeply missed. I am glad that I was blessed enough to know him for the last 9 years. Love you all.

Sarah and Andy Malburg

December 19, 2013

Dear Mary, Dave and Family-

We are truly sorry for your loss as we know how close you all are as a family. Andy has talked repeatedly about Mr. Phelps and what a great guy he was along with both of your generosity towards Dave's friends through high school. Our prayers are with all of you at this difficult time but know he is at peace and watching from above. God Bless.

Kevin and Kasey Baker

December 19, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss. We send our love, and promise to pray for your entire family.

Janet Quetschenbach Wojtas

December 19, 2013

My deepest sympathy to Daves family. I use to work at Phelps Glass Studio with my Grandma Carrie House. My family was friends with them for years. Many years have passed but I still remember the good ole days. Wonderful memories. May he rest in peace.

Mary Grace Callipare

December 19, 2013

Dear Mary,David and Christopher,
We are sending our sincere condolences to all of you during this difficult time.
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
You now have a special angel watching over you.
Phil and Mary Grace Callipare

Janet Andolina-Pelliccia

December 19, 2013

Dear Mary and Family,my thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.The loss of a loved one is heartbreaking but reflect on the fond memories that you shared to find comfort. May God Bless David and all of you. With Deepest Sympathy, Janet Andolina-Pelliccia

Tony Dentino

December 19, 2013

Mary so sorry for your loss. Rest In Peace Dave.

Shemiyah Wallace

December 18, 2013

My prayers are with your family through this difficult time. I will never forget the laughs we shared during your visits to Unity. It was my pkeasure to get to know you and your wife. God Bless You and your loved ones...

Jo Ann & Ron Durrer

December 18, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Phelps family at this time.

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