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James Bostwick Nowak

James Nowak Obituary

Nowak, James Bostwick

Fairport: Retired Fairport High School teacher and peace advocate, James Bostwick Nowak, 59, died suddenly in a head-on collision in Kenya where he was building schools and a health clinic.

Jim is pre-deceased by his father, Joseph Nowak, and is survived by: his mother, Elizabeth Nowak; children, Michon (Terry) Ball, Stephen Nowak, and Zachary Nowak; grandchildren, Elyse, Evan, and Luke Ball; his siblings and their spouses, Paul (Janice) Nowak, Nancy (David) Rutherford, and Caroline (Robert) Rasmussen; his friend and ex-wife, Bonnie Karl; and nieces and nephews. Jim's passion for peace and teaching also touched the lives of many others. In lieu of flowers, donate to Jim's Kenya project 'Building Futures' (www.buildingfuturesinc.com), 5 Neuchatel Lane, Fairport 14450, or to a charity of your choice.

A memorial service to celebrate Jim's life will be held Sunday, February 6, 2:30, at Cleary Family Auditorium, Kearney Hall, at St. John Fisher College. Please park in lot A/B. If you have a memory of Jim you'd like to share with his family, please write it for inclusion in a memory book.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Feb. 1, 2011.

Memories and Condolences
for James Nowak

137 Entries

Judith Behrman

January 15, 2025

Jim was a history student of mine at Eastridge HS where he was an outstanding student athlete and an even better person. I moved out of Rochester with family shortly after he graduated but remember him telling me he was continuing his education at Cornell U. (I had three siblings who attended Cornell and knew he would succeed there).
To Jim´s family & friends, I am saddened to hear of his death. He certainly made this world a better place & left quite a legacy. May he rest in peace.
Judith Behrman

Benjamin Kieran

February 25, 2023

Tweeted this today and felt I should share it here - Jim was an amazing guy:

Noticed this bench outside Eastridge HS a few weeks ago.
Mr. Nowak was my teacher at Fairport HS. He taught history as well as a bunch of social studies electives like Eastern Religions. He was one of those teachers who stuck with you. Mr. Nowak was high energy, passionate, engaging and he had a way of inspiring students to embrace topics without it feeling laborious. Years after I graduated I heard on the news that he had passed away in a tragic accident while in Africa. I knew he had attended EHS because his plaque is on their wall of fame, but I just learned about this bench. It was a surprise. Brought a smile to my face. I´m glad he will be remembered.

John Fiset

January 26, 2023

Let us now praise famous men. James you are at the top of the list.

Matt Mandelaro

January 28, 2022

I never met Mr. Nowak. But he was the mentor of my mentor, Kyle Hargrave, a history teacher at Fairport High School. To see how James Nowak changed the world is nothing but inspiring. He somehow left a full legacy after just 59 years on this Earth. There is no doubt that his legacy lives on. I am so lucky to have been educated on this wonderful man, even if it is 11 years after he has passed. R.I.P. Mr. Nowak.

Brent Strine

January 26, 2022

Ah...Jim, the best friend of my early childhood. Your mother, my "second mom", Caroline & Paul my other siblings, your home my second home! May we meet again somewhere out of time...

Brent Strine

January 26, 2021

Ah...Jim, the best friend of my early childhood. Your mother, my "second mom", Caroline & Paul my other siblings, your home my second home! May we meet again somewhere out of time...

Christopher Carle

April 23, 2020

Mr. Nowak was my teacher 24 years ago.
I was a senior in the spring of 1996 and was in his Eastern Religions class.
He challenged me to think and question.
He was the kind of teacher and person who impacted my life and the lives of others in ways that go well beyond a high school classroom.
Our world needs more people like Jim Nowak.

Chris Carle Class of 96

Barbara Warren

January 27, 2019

Mr Novak was one of the few teachers who really "got" my kids. Neither was an easy student. My daughter is now a high school teacher herself, and Mr Novak is one of her main reasons for wanting to be a teacher, as well as a model for how to be a superb one. Which she is. So his gift keeps giving. I hope he knows.

Robert Webster

January 26, 2019

Jim was an exceptional human being. He was the most dedicated, caring, unselfish, teacher I ever knew. He deeply wanted to make a difference in the lives of his students. Beyond his teaching career he dedicated his life to making a difference in lives of kids and families in Africa. In the short time he lived, he did more to make the world a better place than most people could ever dream.

John Fiset

January 26, 2019

So nice to remember a great man. God be with him.

Christina I

February 26, 2012

I remember being in Mr. Nowak's Religions of the East class during my junior year at FHS. When he asked us to do snow meditations, I thought he was absolutely crazy. When he asked us to meditate over candles, I was convinced that someone would inadvertently set fire to the entire building. I have to say though, we all survived and came out of it a little more aware of the diverse world that surrounded us. I came out of it with a deep love of The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran, one of the many books in the big tub of philosophical books he allowed us to read during class. The Prophet has helped me throughout my life, giving me constant guidance and encouragement.
I saw Mr. Nowak after graduating from college and let him know that I was studying development and was particularly interested in West Africa. He encouraged me to continue my studies and to start working in this region. This year, I visited Africa for the first time. I was able to do research on climate change in both Morocco and Togo. I couldn't help but remember Mr. Nowak during my trip to Togo and wish that I could have shared this experience with him.
I feel so blessed to have had him as my teacher. He taught me that acceptance and love are world values.

Rose Bonaccorso

August 31, 2011

A great teacher and inspiration.

August 10, 2011

Linda, I remember both Jim (from the old 'hood" and you from school. I was stunned and saddened when I learned about Jim's death. Please contact me.

Karen Daskawicz

August 10, 2011

Linda, I remember both Jim (from the old 'hood) and you from school. I was stunned and saddened when I learned about Jim's death. Please contact me.

April 5, 2011

Mr. Jim Nowak was the best teacher I had at FHS!! He made learning fun and taught so many good things in Consumer Ed that helped prepare me for lfe. His light and good work shall never dim. We loved you! Kim FHS '83

Shannon Hyde

February 25, 2011

Today is one month since Jim's been gone and it doesn't get any easier, trying to understand how such a life could be taken from us so early. We love you Jim.

Anne Giudice

February 19, 2011

Smile down on us Jim

Heather Dodge (Kopp)

February 19, 2011

Mr. Nowak encouraged us to look at the world in a different light. We learned not to judge, but to embrace the differences of others through his teaching. What I learned from Mr. Nowak has never left me. This is a sad loss to this world. Fairport 2000 grad.

Barbara Warren-Wilson

February 18, 2011

My memories of Jimmy are from his younger years. He always had that fabulous smile and sweet personality. I am so proud of all of his accomplishments. He will be terribly missed but as his work goes on, his memory will live on.

Bob Webster

February 14, 2011

As most people who met Jim knew, Jim was a rare and inspirational human being. How many people in the world touch and change as many lives as Jim did? He made the world a better place while he was here and his life and vision will continue forward now that he is no longer with us.

Beth Reinhardt

February 14, 2011

Dear Jim, You were a colleague, friend, teacher and humanitarian. I honor you, for you have changed me and the world into a forever better place.

Jennine (LaMay) Sweeney

February 13, 2011

I am sure his family has heard this over and over again....But he was a GREAT teacher and impacted many lives, including my own. Not many people can say they changed the world, he did. He will be missed.

Sheila Harris Scott

February 11, 2011

Mr. Nowak was my favorite teacher at FHS. He inspired me so much with his passion for people. He shaped who I am today. Rest in peace.

David Sacco

February 10, 2011

I was very saddened to hear of Jim's passing. I first met Jim when I was on the freshman football team at Eastridge High. I remember him teaching me how to tackle someone by going for their legs. He nearly broke my knees. He always had a great sense of humor. My memories of him are of a gifted football player and wrestler. I last ran into him at the airport about six years ago and he looked the same as when I knew him in high school. Still full of life and excited about his new project in Africa. I always wondered why such good people leave us so soon when they have so much to offer. Jim was and still is a giver, someone we should all try to emulate. He was one of a kind. There is a special place in heaven for him. My prayers go out to Jim's family. God Bless You, Jim.
David Sacco EHS 71

Patti Mason

February 8, 2011

Fun, spirited, caring, happy, energetic, helpful, dependable, inspiring....just a few of his many qualities that made Jim the special man he was.
When my daughter had a void to fill in the summer of 2006....I called Jim. He said....I'll take her to Kenya! She can teach and help me with my project...so off she went. And what an experience she had.
Together, we were part of the Fairport School Family for many years. Most recently...just this past Oct. we were one of the last pools he closed before heading off to Kenya. He was so excited to get to work over there....he brought his most recent album and showed us all the progress since my daughter was there.
Since we recently moved to Fl. my daughter, my husband and I took a walk on the beach recalling our experiences with Jim as the memorial went on at St. John Fisher. We shed some tears as we looked across the Atlantic thinking about him. But soon smiled thinking about all he accomplished in Kenya.
May you as a family find peace in knowing just how many lives he touched.

CHRISTOPHER BURRUTO

February 7, 2011

Jemo:

You wanted to change the world; you did...you changed us...
May I follow in your footsteps...

Carol Thompson

February 7, 2011

There are only a few people you meet that actually change the course of your life. Mr. Nowak was my teacher at FHS, but he also helped shape what I am today. He was such an incredibly special man and will be missed by all.

Jen Henry DeRycke

February 7, 2011

Never underestimate the power of a teacher. Mr Nowak asked two teen suburban girls to serve meals at the Open Door Mission. We were scared, but so blessed. Today I continue to serve. Thank you for making us think outside of suburbia. Thank you for teaching us. FHS '92

Sadaf Dreitlein

February 7, 2011

Mr Nowak was my most favorite teacher at FHS. He was so unique and had such a zest of life. He taught each person to look beyond the immediate friends and families but to our community, nation, and world.

Sadaf Rauf, FHS Class of '04

Jim hiking in Glacier National Park, 2003

Lisa Gates

February 7, 2011

I believe Jim completed his life's mission earlier than most because he lived each day fully expressing unconditional love to everyone he met. He gave all of us the opportunity to continue his mission by loving each and everyone who is in the beautiful web he wove.
Lisa Gates

Doug Noble

February 7, 2011

I met Jim through our anti-war activism at the start of the Iraq invasion. I so admired how rock solid he was in his conviction yet so tender in his humanity. And he always brought students with him to meetings or rallies, gently leading them, by his own example, into a life of courage and passion.

Where does all that vitality and compassion go when such a man as Jim is so suddenly, so unbearably gone? I wish I knew.

Jim Coyne

February 7, 2011

Jim was very helpful and supportive when we began our efforts to assist the Bulati Primary School in Tanzania. His efforts in Kenya inspired us to push forward. He was generous with his time and I was saddened to learn of his death in the field.
Jim Coyne
Bulati Project Manager
Journeys of Solutions

Joanne and Steve DeLorm

February 6, 2011

What an amazing legacy Jim has left behind. We are not surprised he went on to do so much, and make such a difference in so many lives. My husband Steve (EHS '69) and I (EHS'71) knew Jim many years ago, and were impressed then of the kind of leader he was both in athletics and as class president. To Jim's family, may God give you strength through this difficult time, and give you comfort knowing what a wonderful human being Jim was.

Maryann Stenta

February 6, 2011

"your smile is the light in the window that tells me your heart is at home" my favorite quote that Jim shared with me. From the moment that I met him @FHS I knew he was a special man and I learned so much from him. Jim simply loved life and was always ready to change the world. We had some great times, shared some heartfelt stories, and I always felt loved and safe when I was with him. He gave so much and I feel so blessed to have him in my life.... omshanti omshanti my sweet dear friend

Gayle Rachford

February 6, 2011

Jim, you added something special to the world. I hope that all of us are better people because we knew you. Peace and love, ~ Gayle

Dan Gorski

February 6, 2011

I've returned to read all the wonderful things said by so many people who's lives were touched by Jim. He had a way of making each one he met feel special. He was the only one who ever referred to me as 'Danny', and after reading all the posts here, it seems I was the only one who called my Jimmy...his favor to me returned I guess. I could not make it back to Rochester to offer what I could to his family, but Jimmy was on my mind and in my prayers that day and will return to them often. His students were so lucky to experience his passions and his friends to share his space. I'll miss Jimmy.
(my previous contact link was broken..another is provided here)

Eddie Hathaway

February 6, 2011

The memories I have a of Jim are vivid and wonderful. His short tenure as a teacher in Rochester still inspires me. I have followed Jim's work in Kenya with great respect and pride. I am so very saddened that we have lost him. But, I know, his spirit endures. Thanks, Jim for all that you taught me.

Heidi Grenek

February 6, 2011

Like many others who have written, I, too, was fortunate to have Mr. Nowak while I was a student at FHS. As my homeroom teacher for two years, my sociology teacher, and my consumer economics teacher, he quite literally, taught me about everything from group norms ( we watched The Breakfast Club as a case study!) and child development to how to buy a used car and how to write a check. He had the BEST stories about hitchhiking across the US but always started every story with, "You should never hitchhike, but let me tell you about this one time...."

But the memory of Mr. Nowak that means the most to me was one that I didn't even experience directly. A couple of years after I graduated, during my sophomore year at Cornell ( which BTW, he wrote my application recommendation letter), my mom was hit by a drunk driver. Her car was totaled and she was seriously injured -lucky to be alive. Mr. Nowak heard about the accident, and arranged for the FHS Students Against Drunk Driving to come to our house, bring her flowers, and offer their help. That act of kindness meant so much to her and has never been forgotten by our family. Thank you, Mr. Nowak.

jenette cohan

February 6, 2011

By far the best teacher ever!

Shannon Rynkiewicz

February 6, 2011

I am so sorry for the loss of this wonderful man. I was blessed to have him as my sociology teacher at FHS MANY years ago. I will never forget that man and how he would jump on top of his desk and clap his hands. We had class outside, deep discussions and learned so much from him. He has made such an intense impact on so many.

My thoughts are with you!! Mr. Nowak will NEVER be forgotten!!

February 6, 2011

Erin Carinci

February 6, 2011

Jim Nowak changed my life the moment I met him. It began when I had him as a teacher for his Eastern Religions class. His energy captivated his students the second he walked into the room. I've never met someone so passionate about learning, teaching, and life itself. He was my main inspiration for becoming a teacher. He reached out to all of his students and made sure they knew he truly cared about each and every one of them. Although I know I will never reach it, my goal is to be able to someday have that same kind of impact on my students.

In college I got back in touch with Jim through his wonderful daughter and my good friend, Michon. I was blessed with the opportunity to spend time with and care for her amazing children and heard about all of the wonderful things Jim was doing in Africa. I then started meeting with Jim to talk about his work in Kenya and decided that I was going to go over to Africa with him. He started teaching me Swahili so that I would be able to communicate with the children. While I have not made it over to Africa yet, I plan to go in the future to help continue his mission and dreams.

The world has lost a true hero in Jim's passing. I feel so lucky to have had the chance to know him. Thank you Jim for everything you did for Fairport High School, our community, Africa, and for me. You have changed the world.

Nakupenda Sana... I love you and I will miss you every day.

- Erin Carinci (Erin Dromgoole) FHS 2002

Dan Weddle

February 5, 2011

I knew Jim through his son Stephen. I was astonished by his energy and kindness, also by his ability as a father. I've followed his accomplishments from a distance and was just commenting to my partner, Peter, about the accomplishments he was making in his retirement.
My condolences are with Stephen, Bonnie, Zach, Jim's family, and I share in a small way the loss so many have expressed here.

mark kruzinski

February 5, 2011

michon i am very very sorry to hear about your father i met him a few times and thought he was a great guy. i would really to get to get in touch with you and talk to keep in touch mark kruzinski -749-4846
i have lost contact with you and would like to get back in touch with you
i have lots of joys in my ;life now would like to share with you

BOB SEBRIS

February 5, 2011

This is "Seebs" from Seattle. Betty, Paul, Nancy, Caroline, Zach, Michon and Stephen -- I only learned last night of our very great loss. My heartfelt sympathy and best wishes go to each of you. My life was touched by Jim, and so by each of you. Our years together at Cornell were special, and perhaps the best summer of my life was working for Nowak Brother Pools! My family so enjoyed Jim's visits here to Seattle. Jim's bright smile, zest for life, and love of his fellow man were his signature features. His commitment to service and opening hearts and minds was a gift. All of us who were able to get to know him are among the fortunate in this world. I am among those so touched. Much love and special thoughts go your way. Jimmy, I miss you.

Charlene Tiffany

February 5, 2011

Stephen
I am so sorry for your loss of a wonderful teacher, mentor, friend and father. There are no words to express the loss. The world will miss him. Thoughts and prayers to your family.

Lois Freas

February 5, 2011

As a neighbor of Jim’s son Stephen, I could always tell when Jim had arrived for a visit as the neighborhood quickly became friendlier and noisier….and everyone was suddenly smiling and talking to each other. Jim was a man who was a pleasure to have around!

Joette Vahey

February 5, 2011

I first met Jim when my life was particularly challenging. My first impression of him was that he was a modern renaissance man. Just talking to him was inspiring and soothing. As I got to know him my respect for him grew- he was smart, intriguing, unassuming, and comfortable in his own skin. He was genuine and giving- a loving father and grandfather, a good soul, and a dedicated helper for those less fortunate. I know he will be missed by many people but I am confident that his impression will last a lifetime.

Janine (Adami) Mooney

February 5, 2011

I still have a poem Mr. Nowak gave to our class over twenty years ago entitled "I'm Special". Here are a few lines of that poem..."I'm special. And I'm beginning to realize it's no accident that I'm special, I have been made for a special job. Out of all of the billions of applicants only one is qualified, only one has the right combination of what it takes. That was you Mr. Nowak...because you were so special.
The world is a better place because of you. God Bless You

mike dorr

February 5, 2011

my fondest memory was many years ago...his son stephen had invited myself and my 5 year old daughter to the christmas tree farm for our tree.my name is michael dorr and my daughters name is erin. stephen if you need any thing please call me @585-301-6732 my cell is always on.

Laura Ouimette

February 5, 2011

I remember when Mr. Nowak played Harry Chapin’s “Flowers Are Red” in class encouraging us to live life seeing all of the colors of the rainbow and to refuse allowing others to pigeon hole us into a set frame of mind.
Thank you Jim Nowak for adding so much color to our world!
- Laura Bender FHS '81

Kathleen Cadle

February 4, 2011

Jim Nowak was larger than life! He was a whirlwind of warm, positive energy.

His teaching techniques were far from the 'norm.' Because he felt his pupils might not have an 'older' person of whom they might ask anything, Jim brought his Mom into the classroom. Lucky Mrs Nowak and lucky the students! Once Jim lead a discussion dealing with 'hippies' and invited me along to tell about my life on a commune back in the '60's.

Among my sweetest personal memories are the decades of 6 AM Friday morning breakfasts; we would hash out whatever school or family 'stuff' was happening. There must be hundreds of students who remember when Jim and Dennis Bielewicz, FHS Librarian, WERE the Blues Brothers and performed to 'Soul Man.' They wore black suits, sunglasses and fedora hats. Their dancing made for side-splitting hilarity.

And then there was Jim's generosity.One Saturday he and Zack moved a half-ton stove into my old house. Jim gave countless 'pots' of honey from his own bees. On his retirement Jim was clearing his office and handed me a poster of the Dalai Lama because he remembered my lifelong love of Tibet.

Jim was one of the MOST altruistic people I have ever known. He chose not to wait until 'retirement age' to follow his bliss. He left FHS early to build the school and clinic in Kenya. Marcia Steffer, an Art teacher at FHS, and Jim cooked up a brilliant idea to have her students paint portraits Kenyan pupils from photos Jim would take. Then Jim would carry these portraits back to Kenya. Can you imagine the excitement of each pupil as he or she received his very own portrait painted by a teenager in America?

Not only did Jim give of himself, but he encouraged others to be the best they could. Many of us gave gladly to his projects, first to build the school, one room at a time, and then for tuition at that school and for scholarships, especially for nurses because their clinic would need them.

Jim loved to hear and to tell storiea. One of the best stories was the one that Jim DID: building the school and clinic in Kenya. These are not a dream, a fiction, but a TRUE story.

Jim's infectious enthusiasm gladdened our world. He is too soon gone.

Last Friday when I learned the awfulness of Jim's death I was shattered. Now, a week later, I try to remember that man whose joy and generosity overflowed, whose compassion is evidenced in Kenya and whose wondrous friendship I shall not forget.

Kathleen Cadle
(Fairport High School,'61 and '99)

Elizabeth Strader

February 4, 2011

I only saw Jim twice a year, at SUPA conferences. However, we were invited to Gary Spencer's house where we had the opportunity to speak at great length. I was astounded at his true spirit of humanitarianism and sense of humor. His smile lit up the room. My sincere condolences to his family.

Tammy Basile

February 4, 2011

A heart of gold stopped beating
Two shining eyes at rest
God broke our hearts to prove
he only takes the best.

God knows you had to leave us
but you did not go alone
for part of us went with you
the day he took you home

To some you are forgotten
To others just part of the past
But to US who loved and lost you
The memory will always last

February 4, 2011

Mr. Nowak was one of those true teachers that inspire students beyond the classroom. It is so evident through the many messages and articles written since his death. He was a man who impacted those around him just by being himself and by caring. I know that all he has done in Kenya will continue to thrive and grow because of the love and respect so many people had for him. My thoughts and prayers to his family.

Nicole Santillo (FHS '02)

Pat Martin

February 4, 2011

I want to send my condolences to the Nowak family. I knew the family from my work in East Irondequoit and worked with Nancy at Ridgewood Middle School. I know that Jim's spirit will live on in your memories and the good works you will continue to do.

Len Martin

February 4, 2011

My favorite memory of Jim was from a SUPA Sociology seminar at the SU campus. As we sat around the table and were asked to introduce ourselves to each other and to the guest speaker, Jim said, "Hi, I'm Jim Nowak, from Fairport High. I'm opposed to the U.S. invasion of Iraq, and I hope you are, too." Jim always made us smile, and more importantly, think about the world and our place in it. He was an original, a free spirit, and a teacher, in the truest sense of the word. Condolences to his family and friends.

Jim Fredrickson

February 4, 2011

It's been well over 40 years since I spent any time with Jim.....he was my "Little Brother" at our fraternity at Cornell. Like most classmates, we went our separate ways after school and have lead different lives.

Jim was a "good guy" back then and it's good to hear that he's made such a positive impact on others throughout his life.

My thoughts are with his family and extended network of friends....

Jim (aka Tucker) Cornell class of 1972

February 4, 2011

Jim Nowak taught the Syracuse University Project Advance Sociology course at Fairport High School for many years. I remember the first time I ever walked into his classroom and met him. It was very clear from that very first moment what a unique and special person and teacher he was. All of us at Syracuse who worked with Jim will always remember his special gifts and what he brought to students and to our program. He will always serve as a shinning example of what a great teacher and person can do in this world.
John Fiset, Syracuse University Project Advance

Debbie Alderson, (Class of 1977)

February 4, 2011

I am deeply saddened to learn of Mr. Nowak's passing. Mr. Nowak, like others have said, was the best teacher I ever had. I had him for a teacher his first year at Fairport High School. He inspired me to learn and to be better. He believed in me, which made me believe in myself. I have tried to pass along the lessons he taught me to my children and now to my grandchildren.

I wrote him a letter about 14 years ago, telling him what a difference he had made in my life. He wrote back. I am SO glad I wrote him. I am so sorry that his family, friends, the people of Africa and the world have lost such an amazing man, much too soon. He will always be missed...and will never be forgotten!

Lee Steinfeldt

February 4, 2011

Words fail me in trying to describe the impact Jim has had on everyone who has known him. His dedication to Building Futures and classrooms for Kenya was contagious...he made such sacrifices and gave so much of himself to build schools for Kenyan children, literally sunbaked brick by brick, classroom by classroom. Jim lives on in those classrooms, but we have lost an amazing, gentle, loving friend who would have given the world much, much more. Lee Steinfeldt, East Irondequoit Central School District

At the EHS reunion - doing what he loved best

Anne Adams

February 3, 2011

Memories of Jim remain some of the happiest and best from kindergarten on through High School (he was my first "boyfriend" in kindergarten - and I remember many good times spent with him after school at our respective homes). In fact, he reminded me of a few that I had forgotten when we reconnected at the reunion! His infectous laugh and vibrant smile will remain...as will all the wonderful and meaningful things that he accomplished in his much too short life. Jim, you will be missed, and my heartfelt condolences to your Mom, Paul, your sisters and your family.

Lei

February 3, 2011

Dear Mr. Nowak:

You are a good man. God will remember your work and your dedication to the wellbeing of the Kenyan people. I salute you and wish that your family be well and that the school project will continue. Thank you, sincerely, for all you have done.

A Cornell student to alumni Mr. Nowak '73

February 3, 2011

Mr Nowak was my school supervisor for our schools S.A.D.D group he was always in a great mood . he was always there whenever you needed him. I will always remember and miss you Mr Nowak :(

Shannon Hyde

February 3, 2011

Jim was a huge inspiration in high school. So many people looked up to him and loved him. The world was a better place with his smiling face in it. He was the best teacher I have ever had, hands down.

I had lost touch with him after high school, but thought of him often, and knew of his great work in Kenya. I felt at ease just knowing he was out there somewhere in the world... and now I am trying to find peace knowing he is still out there, we just can't see him now in his physical form.

He taught us to go out and DO something in the world, and he was my inspiration to become a social worker. I am now planning a trip to Kenya, to help with Building Futures- I know Jim would only ask that people ACTED now, and didn't just sit around and be sad about his death.

See you again, someday, Jim.

Shannon (FHS grad 2000)

February 3, 2011

I just got word of Jim's passing and was shaken badly...it is one of things that is not supposed to happen...but I am happy in my heart to know he was doing work that had so much value to him, and those who it was helping. Knowing Jim and his family since our Whipple Lane School days, he is and will remain one of my positive memories growing up, he lived on Walzer to my Walzford. My condolences to Nancy, Paul, Caroline, their mom, as well as to Jim's own family.
-Lynn Smith Canada-

Heidi Ahern

February 3, 2011

Mr. Nowak was my sociology teacher during my senior year. I remember his amusing family stories and overall younger approach to teaching. It was a fun, crazy class. We made a time capsule that year that was to be opened at some future reunion. Not sure if it ever was. I am a teacher now myself and reflect often on the wonderful teachers I had at Fairport High School.
Heidi (Schluter) Ahern
Class of '82

Brooke Thiroux

February 3, 2011

Sitting on a bench overlooking the pond Jim created for Zach, he pointed out birds in the sky and fish breaking the surface in front of us. We talked about life, I asked stupid questions, he answered them gently, as he always did. For any kid who felt "different", for any kid who didn't quite fit in, for anyone who's path was not straightforward but instead crooked and convoluted, Jim was, simply put, important. High school is a time for teen angst, drama, self discovery. It can be fun or a struggle, kind or cruel. But whoever you were, whatever your experience, all you had to do was walk into the most cluttered classroom at FHS and everything else melted away. Jim was important.

Donna(Bonsignore) Moynihan

February 2, 2011

Growing up on Walzer Rd., I remember Jim as an awesome babysitter who made milkshakes! I also remember his smile. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Nowak family.

My FAV from Kenya

Gail V Damon - EHS'69

February 2, 2011

I was out of town when I heard the news that Jim had died in an auto accident in Kenya. I prayed that somehow it was a media mistake. This is SO WRONG.

Even after I read it myself, it still does not seem possible. My heart goes out to his family. I am sorry that I cannot be in Rochester for his memorial. I will be there in spirit - to celebrate Jim's life, a life cut too short and too soon. While Jim's life with us has been short on time, it has been long - and wide and deep and full - of more love and compassion, wit and warmth, trials and triumphs, memories sweet and bittersweet than most of us can ever hope for in one lifetime.

I was fortunate to have known Jim since grade school. He always had a smile and a friendly word for me or anyone else who crossed his path.

Our paths crossed again as Jim was retiring from his teaching career. Since then, we've shared many stories/memories over coffee, lunch and lots of email. You could not help but get caught up in his enthusiasm for life. His love for his family, his children and grandchildren came across in his words and his deeds. I cannot begin to imagine the painful loss and shock that his entire family must be dealing with at this time.

To Jim's mother and family, I add my deepest sympathy at the devastating loss of such a great human being.

To my dear friend... Lala salama,Jemo. Na Kupenda Sana.

February 2, 2011

Never think that educators do not have a huge impact that can be life changing. Mr. Nowak changed my view of myself as a learner and I am forever grateful to him. I remember his passion for the book "Love" by Leo Buscaglia. I thought his quote appropriate: He told others: “It’s not enough to have lived. We should be determined to live for something. May I suggest that it be creating joy for others, sharing what we have for the betterment of personkind, bringing hope to the lost and love to the lonely.” Leo Buscaglia Foundation

God Bless Jim and his family. I will keep you in my prayers. Shiela Scarantino ~ Class of 82 FHS

Linda Indovino

February 2, 2011

Jim was our paperboy when I was a kid living in East Irondequoit in the 1960s. What a remarkable man whose vision and dedication achieved so much! This is a tragic loss to family, friends, and... humanity.

Diana Moore

February 2, 2011

Jim was a dear friend of mine for over thirty-five years. I will never forget all the many kindnesses he showed me over the years. He had a charism about him that is rare and which allowed him to have a powerful influence on so many of the people he came into contact with. I add my condolences to the many which are being given to Jim's mom, Betty, to his former wife and loving friend, Bonnie Karl, to their three children and three grandchildren, to Jim's siblings, and to all the people who loved him and who will never forget him.
Rest in Peace, dear, dear Jim.

Nicole

February 2, 2011

HE CHANGED OUR WORLD!

asante sana Jemo...

Brent Strine

February 2, 2011

Jim was my best friend growing up on Walzer Road in Irondequoit. Together we roamed the woods of Titus and shared the many joys of a simpler time. We were "blood brothers" and fellow Boy Scouts. He was one of the hardest workers I have ever known. My love and heart goes out to all his family...

Barbara Warren

February 2, 2011

Mr Nowak gave both my children a reason to go to school, and inspired my daughter to become a teacher. Such a great man!

Meryl Scheible

February 2, 2011

Mr. Nowak was instrumental in making the "Fairport Angel Walk" (a memorial walk in memory of the 5 Fairport Girls killed in 2007)happen and I am forever grateful to him for that. He actually was the first person I spoke to after I simply had the "idea" for the walk. He gave me his insight and lead me in the right direction. I was blessed to have him as a teacher, but his impact on my life was far beyond the classroom. I am so thankful for his inspiration.

Meryl Scheible (FHS '06)

Don Horner

February 2, 2011

To the Nowak Family,

I am deeply saddened about Jim's passing. He was a true friend and a wonderful person. I also regret that I will not be able to attend his memorial service. I am in Florida and the blizzard weather conditions have made booking a flight impossible.
I luckily was able to see him last spring. We had a drink at the Winfield Grill and agreed that I would come to Kenya last fall (regtretfully I did not follow up).

I will fondly remember installing above groung pools with Jim (The Polish Shovel), Sly Bell (Jim Seidel)and myself (The Sand Man). Hard work but fun.

Only the good die young is so appropriate.

Regretfully - Don Horner

Kara (Davenport) Finlayson (FHS '94)

February 2, 2011

Mr. Nowak touched my life deeply, and I am a better person for having been lucky enough to have him as a teacher. He truly enjoyed each and every day teaching at FHS, and he made learning so appealing. I will be forever grateful that he was able to perform my wedding and share our special day. He was a wonderful man and he will be deeply missed.

Shirley Barone

February 2, 2011

Jim's friendship is a gift we will cherish forever. He touched and inspired everyone lucky enough to know him. Shirley Fontana Barone, EHS '69

Anna (Gordon) Risse

February 2, 2011

Mr. Nowak was an amazing teacher-- he was so passionate about life and was such a huge presence in the lives of so many students at FHS... he taught us so many important life lessons.. and he was an inspiration to so many of us long after our high school years. To his family, I am so sorry for your loss-- you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kate Langham

February 2, 2011

Mr. Nowak was one of those teachers that made one of the biggest impacts on your life. He opened my eyes to the world, he introduced me to what I consider now my favorite book Siddhartha in his Religions of the East class, and he was a teacher who was ALWAYS there if you wanted to talk to him. He and another teacher would take me and my friend to breakfast some mornings at a diner in East Rochester and fight over who would cover our food.

He was a man that will never be forgotten, by anyone who was lucky enough to have his presence in their life. He will be greatly missed and always on my mind.

Peter Boulay

February 2, 2011

To Zach and family. I was a Social Work Intern in 1995 at FHS and had frequent interactions with your father. He was a great guy with a huge heart! Your Dad leaves a legacy of teaching and pride. I am so sorry for your loss.

Adam

February 2, 2011

Mr. Nowak was one of a rare breed of people. He didnt care what kind of person you were all he cared about was you as a person. He inspired me as well as looked out for me during my time at FHS. He will be greatly missed by the world. I feel blessed being able to have met such a person and having them impact my life. Nameste Mr. Nowak, may our paths cross again in the next life.

Erin Tochelli FHS '02

February 1, 2011

I am absolutely crushed over Jim's passing. As has been echoed time and again in these messages, he inspired me more than he ever knew. In every day life, he reminded me to live every moment. To be present. Beyond that he encouraged continued learning by, as he always put it, "getting the hell outta here". The last time I saw him he met me for coffee after I had left college with one semester before graduation. He reassured me that life is not a straight path and I would find my own course. I only wish I had kept in better touch with him so he knew more about my journey! I'll miss you Jim. Namaste.

class of 06

February 1, 2011

unbelievable man, teacher, friend, hero!!

Shana (Hillman) Mularz

February 1, 2011

Mr. Nowak was such a wonderful man. He left such a lasting impression on me. I hope that his hopes and dreams live on forever.

Stephanie Zito

February 1, 2011

I remember all of the Nowak family as a child growing up with them. Swimming in your back yard pool....at my Aunt June's house.
I send my condolences to the entire family and the hope that you all find peace. Feel his love in your hearts always.
Very sincerely,
Stephanie Tisa Zito

Ashley Russell

February 1, 2011

Jim you were an amazing and inspirational person! Thank you so much for giving the St. John Fisher nursing students and I the opportunity to experience Kenya with you! You are so passionate about your work and the Kenyan people I am so thankful I got to be a part of it. Rest peacefully

Linda Courtney

February 1, 2011

I worked at FHS for 10 years and had the pleasure of seeing Jim daily. He was the kindess, most caring man and such a wonderful teacher. Both my sons had him as their teacher and he was their favorite. He touched so many lives. I am honored to have known him. He will be missed.

Betty Henehan

February 1, 2011

Both of my daughters had him for Social Studies and thought he was great. I'm so sorry.

Katie Colosi-Bower

February 1, 2011

I graduated from Fairport in '88. I always made a point of scheduling my electives to have him as a teacher as much as I could. Mr. Nowak taught me so much, not just academics but great life lessons as well. He truly cared about his students- he could always tell when I was down or if something was bothering me and he always made a point to ask about. He didn't mind my fiesty behavior and willingness to debate- in fact he welcomed it! I think about him all the time-and, I always thought to write him and thank him, I regret now that I never did. I am now a teacher myself and have shared Mr. Nowak with my students as well as other teachers. I have attended trainings where they are teaching us "new" methods of teaching and relating to students- but, in those trainings I always realize that Mr. Nowak was WAY ahead of the game!! He was already doing the stuff they teach in these trainings! What an amazing person, who went on to do amazing things- I will never forget him!

Robin Benoit

February 1, 2011

Jim had a profound influence on all three of my children, as well as on my husband and myself. His charismatic personality and his commitment to making the world a better place were awe-inspiring. When my youngest son was a senior in high school (Jim's last year of teaching), he and his friends formed a "Peace Club" and Jim was their faculty advisor. He helped them stage marches and concerts and truly showed them that they could make a difference in the world. This past July, Jim officiated at my older son's wedding, and my husband and I finally got a chance to meet him. Within minutes of shaking hands with him, we felt like life-long friends. Jim had that kind of warmth. I am so saddened by his passing.

February 1, 2011

You will be missed.

Joan (Poehlein) Ellison '84

February 1, 2011

Mr. Nowak made a difference in my life. I remember him as being a teacher who cared about every student...and the students knew it. If everyone aspired to be just a little bit like him, the world would be a much better place. Thank you, Mr. Nowak.

Kris Jacoby Yusko

February 1, 2011

He was a teacher, a mentor and a friend. I am so thankful for having learned from Jim both as a teenager and as an adult. His passion and energy for his work and for the children in Kenya was contagious and he has forever changed me. I will miss his smile and his open arms for a big hug. Peace and love.

JoAnn

February 1, 2011

I knew Jim briefly in 1971 - I was a college student in Syracuse and he was at Cornell. Even though I never saw him again after that, he made an impression on me. I knew he would do great things with his life. The world will miss him.

Mary- FHS '00

February 1, 2011

Mr. Nowak was an inspiration to all that he taught. His passion for education was immeasurable and it will live on in the many students he deeply effected and influenced. His is a tremendous loss for many communities and he will be missed greatly.

A Ranger

February 1, 2011

Jim was a great competitor and I recall sharing mat time with him as one of the best experiences of my high school career. He was a class act. I am not surprised to hear of his work later in life. My best wishes to his family and friends.

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