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Janice Deci Obituary

Deci, Janice

Gastonia, NC: Janice Margaret Upchurch Deci, 97, formerly of Palmyra, NY, passed away peacefully on Thursday, January 1, 2015. Born in Loveland, Iowa, she was the daughter of the late Edward Franklin Upchurch and Garnet Haldeman Upchurch.

Mrs. Deci was a retired secretary, member of the Opti-Mrs club, and a longstanding communicant of St. Mark's Episcopal Church where she was active in numerous capacities. Prior to moving to Gastonia in 1966, Mrs. Deci lived in Palmyra, NY. She was a communicant of Zion Episcopal Church where she served on the Altar Guild and was active in the Order of the Eastern Star.

In addition to her parents, Mrs. Deci was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Charles Henry Deci; brothers, Fredrick M. Upchurch and Herbert F. Upchurch; sisters, Florence Upchurch and Nelle Geissler.

Mrs. Deci is survived by her children, Charles Henry Deci, Jr. and wife, Setsuko Deci of Houston, TX, Edward Lewis Deci of Rochester, NY, and Shirley Jensen of Gastonia; grandchildren and spouse, Brett Jensen, David Jensen, Fred Deci, and Lewis and Taranne Deci; great-grandchildren, Victoria Deci and Alexandria Deci; brother, Valere "Bill" Upchurch of Walden, NY.

Family and friends of Mrs. Deci are invited to attend her memorial service beginning at 1:00 PM Wednesday, January 7, 2015 at St. Mark's Episcopal Church. The Rev. Shawn Griffith will officiate. The family will receive friends from 7:00 PM until 9:00 PM Tuesday at McLean Funeral Directors of Gastonia and immediately following the memorial service in the parish hall.

Condolences may be sent online at www.mcleanfuneral.com

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be sent to Gastonia AM Optimist Club, P.O. Box 1283, Gastonia, NC 28053 or St Mark's Episcopal Church, 258 West Franklin Blvd., Gastonia, NC 28052.

McLean Funeral Directors of Gastonia is serving the family of Mrs. Deci.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Jan. 4, 2015.

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David Layel

January 6, 2015

In loving memory of a wonderful person.Will miss you and all you did for A.M Optimist. Will miss your homemade cookies too!

January 6, 2015

Shirley, I remember having met your mother. Sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys. Bob Hurd

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