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Jeffrey Miller Obituary
Pittsford: Passed away unexpectedly on June 2, 2013. Survived by his loving children, Maxx, Jake & Madeline; siblings, Cindy (Jon) Kammerdiener, Barry (Ginger) Miller, Michael (Linda) Katz & Elisa (Sean) Keenan; step-mother, Simone Miller; adored by his many nieces & nephews, and special friends, Anita Black & Howard Sumi. Predeceased by his parents, Murray & Lorraine Miller. Jeff will be remembered as a loving father, son, brother, avid sports enthusiast & Giants fan.
Funeral Services will be held on WEDNESDAY at 11 AM in the All Seasons Chapel of White Haven Memorial Park (210 Marsh Rd.). The family will receive friends on WEDNESDAY 7-9 PM & THURSDAY 2-4 & 7-9 PM at 40 Kitty Hawk Drive. In lieu of flowers, consider donations to the Miller Children Education Fund c/o Canandaigua National Bank, 18 State St., Pittsford, NY 14534. To leave a message of condolence, visit:
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for Jeffrey Miller
Uof R Lacrosse 1984-87
Erv Chambliss
June 19, 2013
Jeff Miller ( U of R #31 ) was everything that friends have said and more. He worked tirelessly at everything in his life, and with great passion. His drive was hard to match. I did not know his family,as he married after I had left the Rochester area. I know they must be devastated. You can see how he affected those around him. I cannot imagine the loss that they are feeling at this time. My heart breaks for them. Knowing Jeff as his college coach and hearing from former teammates and what he meant to them will attest to the person we admired, respected and loved. It hurts but I can only smile when I see and think of him… how can't you help but smile… he forces you to and he makes you want to feel as he did about life… Livin it … Lovin it… Sharin it … with everyone… with any one.
Love you Jeff ( UR Lax -#31 )
Coach Erv
Erv Chambliss
Former U of Rochester
Head Lacrosse Coach 1984-89
Yelann Momot
June 10, 2013
I was so sorry to hear about Jeff's passing. He was my 7th grade Science teacher in the late 80's and one of the best and only teachers I remember to this day. I always looked forward to his class and be greeted with such enthusiasm. He will be greatly missed.
Caryn Eve Murray
June 9, 2013
To my cousins Barry and Cindy, I am at a loss as to where to begin, but so grateful that Barry reached out to let me know about Jeff's tragic passing. I have read the news accounts and am trying to make sense of how such things happen, though I know they do. What a hard and unfathomable loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you in the difficult days and nights ahead. With love and Sympathy to you all.
Jeff at Play
June 8, 2013
Christine Swan-Johnson
June 7, 2013
Jake,Maxx and Madeline, I met you, your Dad and Mom, Ellen, over ten years ago at Hunt Hollow ,where I was the "Lodge girl". Talking with you all and your dad always made my day better, happier and you were honestly my favorite member family. I always looked forward to seeing you bright and early on the weekend. Your Dad was so nice and very personable. He was such a great guy and he loved you all so much. I will miss him and never forget his kind ways. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers. The days ahead will be tough but just stay true to yourselves and to him-Jeff is so proud of you and loves you. He will always have your back and be with you through your lives.
Michael Mundy
June 7, 2013
When you asked Jeff how he was you were really asking how were Maddie, Jake and Maxx. He was an inspirational father and it is reflected in his amazing children. Maxx's words at the service were beautiful and spoken with love and a fierce strength. As I listened in awe I found solace as I thought to myself that is Jeff. Only Jeff would be thrilled because in the image of Maxx he is younger, trimer and has hair. Jake is the embodiement of the pure love Jeff had for all those around him. Maddie represents his drive for excellence and his quiet strength and grace.
There are so many memories of Jeff for me. Literally everytime I saw him was a memory and I saw him four times a week. One of my favorites is the first time he did an organizied running race on July 4th in Irondequoit about 12 years ago. It would be the first of about 600 races for him. He was so excited and joyful that he was stopping and personally thanking each spectator on the course for their support and if they had a dog then remarking what a beautiful dog it was while petting or wrestling with it. Finally, we had to send someone back to get Miller or the 10K would have turned into one of his 24 endurance events he loved. That was Jeff. He could have cared less about the finish line. He was there to enjoy the moment, support his friends, share his love and thank every citizen of Irondequoit in person while petting their dogs.
He was deeply loved.
Dave Schumann
June 7, 2013
I was lucky enough to be one of the many friends of Jeff from the Lacrosse community. He was liked and admired by all, both teammates and opponents, as a hardworking hustler who selflessly put the team first. I especially appreciated his words of encouragement when we would chat on the sidelines between shifts and pre&post games. He truly honored the game, his family and those who were priviledged to call him friend. He will be sorely missed.
The Nunziato Family
June 6, 2013
To Maxx, Jake and Madeline,
There are no words to express the sadness we feel over the loss of your father. May your hearts be filled with special memories of times spent together and may you find healing in the company of family and friends. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Melody Giacomino
June 6, 2013
I was deeply saddened to hear about Jeff. I had the privilege of working with Jeff ten years ago, but he is the kind of person that you never forget meeting. I was always so impressed with his drive, determination, and positive attitude. It truly is a loss to have him gone. My deepest condolences.
Schutterop
June 6, 2013
So sorry for your loss. Your family is in our prayers
Dorothea Sanchez
June 6, 2013
May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories. Jeff truly was a great guy and decent human being. I had the pleasure of working with him.
Catherine Meyler
June 6, 2013
Dear Maxx, Jake and Madeline,
I met your dad often over the years, while out walking our dogs or at school sporting events.I will never forget him as one of the nicest people I have known. His energy and drive were remarkable. I was in awe of how committed he was to everything in his life: his job, his athletic endeavors, his education and most especially you, his beloved children. You have so many people in your lives who care for you and you have the amazing legacy given to you by your father. Keep those precious gifts in mind as you get through this painful, confusing time.
Tommy Doehler
June 6, 2013
To the Miller family, My sincerest condolences. Jeff was my 7th grade science teacher at Webster. I believe we were his first class (1992). He was extremely engaging and always put a smile on everyone's face. His sense of humor was legendary. I always knew no matter how my day was going that when I entered Mr. Millers class I was going to have a good day. I'm forever grateful to have had the honor of having him in my life.
June 5, 2013
Rest in peace
Tracey, Matthew, & Elizabeth Pederson
June 5, 2013
I first met Jeff many years ago through a mutual friend during college. After returning to the Rochester area our paths crossed again in the pharmaceutical world, and then again through our children and sports. He was someone I always enjoyed seeing and catching up with. Today during his memorial service I was once again reminded of how small the world is and how we are all connected. Many thanks to the Miller family for sharing with us Jeff's life story. It was a beautiful tribute to the special person he was. The Pittsford community lost a great man who clearly impacted and inspired many through his kindness and infectious smile. He was a man who was better than words. His actions spoke loudly. His legacy will continue through his children whom he loved dearly and was so proud of. Whenever I saw him that was clearly evident. I am certain they will grow to do great things, thanks to Jeff as well as you Ellen & family. I feel blessed to have known Jeff and his family. May you always feel his love and know he will never be far from you. With deepest sympathy.
June 5, 2013
At this most difficult time, the family of Anita Black and the McCarthy children give support and prayers to the Miller Family and friends, and to Anita Black and the McCarthy children. Family time with Jeff was always special, and so was he.
Love and peace to you, Jeff.
Grandma Cindy Black, (Anita's Mom), and
Grandma Mary Jane Ippolito
Melbourne, Fl, and
Ken and Barb Ippolito, Avon, NY
Anne Guerrein Wahl
June 5, 2013
Jeff and I first met at the UofR in student teaching seminar. We both did our student teaching at Webster High School and drove to school together many mornings. He was a light and a spark each and every day. Adventures with Jeff were constant - we chaperoned dances, attended football games, played in golf tournaments, pulled pranks, and too many others to name. I am comforted by two things: he lived joyfully in the moment each day and he will live on in his children - maybe his laugh, his light, or his spark . . .
I wish you continued adventures old friend.
Vicki Snyder
June 5, 2013
Dear Miller Family-
I am so sorry for your loss. I know that the entire community of East Rochester is praying for your family and for your husband and father. This is such a horrible tragedy and prayers of healing are being sent to you in this time of need. Please remember all the wonderful times you had as a family and may those help you get through this.
June 5, 2013
During his Schroeder/Spry Middle School years, Jeff was an enthusiastic and energetic teacher and LAX coach. More importantly, he was an animated, thoughtful individual. We shared many laughs and ideas together. My sympathies to your family.
Gary Hayden, teacher
Ron DiFelice
June 5, 2013
Miller family, please accept my deepest condolences. I was very saddened to hear of his passing and will keep you all in my prayers. I knew Jeff 20 years ago as a young man while he was an assistant lacrosse coach at Webster. I remember Jeff as just a great guy who had an extremely positive influence on me and the team. He touched many lives and will be remembered fondly.
Your Light Will Shine On
Lloyd Hilton
June 5, 2013
I had the privilege of working with Jeff. I will miss him for his eternal optimism and passion for life. He touched a lot of lives during his time here and he will be greatly missed. My prayers will be with you all during this difficult time.
Dan Wheeler
June 5, 2013
You were a great coach, great teacher, and a great guy. I enjoyed being the manager of your modified lax team in 1993. Thoughts and Preyers with you and your family. Our graduating class from Webster Schoreder 1998, and many former 7th grade students you had remember you and are saddened by your loss.
Ray and Jody Seward
June 5, 2013
We are so sorry for your loss Jeff is a awesome Dad and Coach. God Bless The Miller Family
Fran Godgart
June 4, 2013
So sorry for your loss. I am a dear friend and neighbor of Linda and Mike and will always remember Jeff fondly. May you all find the strength you need to get you through this difficult time. Thinking of you all.
Jane McNeill
June 4, 2013
I'm am so sorry for your loss. Jeff was a born leader and coach. He put you at ease with is smile and contageous personality. Jeff knew how to get the best from those around him. I am happy that I had the opportunity to work with Jeff at Eisai. May he Rest In Peace and know that his legacy lives on in his children.
Jeffrey Kokinda
June 4, 2013
I met Jeffrey many years before he became a family man. How well I remember how proud he was as a father of twin boys. Jeffrey later moved away from East Rochester as I will never forget the kindness and respect he showed me as his mailman. It was about a year ago I caught up with Jeff at Reed Eye Associates as we converse of our lives since then. My sincere condolences to his family. May you all find comfort.
John McKenna
June 4, 2013
We graduated from UR together but really got close over the last 10 years living in Rochester.....riding the Bristol hills or running through Mendon Ponds with his dogs. Jeff was a fiercely strong person who always persevered when times were tough and never showed an ounce of weakness. Challenges seemded to just make him stronger. His family was always first on his mind, followed closely by friends. Almost every conversation wound its way back to Jake, Maxx or Madeline.....his love for you and pride in you was clear and strong. His smile was infectious. He'll be sorely missed but his life, accomplishments and the way he's impacted our lives will endure. Be well my friend!
June 4, 2013
Our families very deepest sympathies to the children.
The Gilligan Family
June 4, 2013
My deepest sympathy. Jeff was an outstanding teacher and coach who touched the lives of many students.
Carol Clarke, former Spry Middle School Principal
WES
June 4, 2013
Miller family,
Very sorry for your loss. May the memories you have created with your son,dad,brother, friend get you through this sad time
Emily Healy
June 4, 2013
Dear Miller Family:
I can't tell you the sadness that came over me when I heard. I can't imagine the loss and shock you are feeling. I knew Jake the best of all of you. Your love for him always shone through whenever we met or when Jake would talk about all of you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jake, you are an amazing young man and your dad knew that. It came through every time he came to school to talk to me. He loved you so very, very much. I loved being your teacher and I loved that your amazing family included me in their thoughts and plans to help you become the truly great person you are. Just know you have your mom, Maxx and Madeline who love you so much and will take such good care of you. You take care of them too.
Praying for you and thinking of you.
-Mrs. Healy
Nina Hodge
June 4, 2013
To the Miller family: Words can't express the shock and sympathy that goes out to all of you at this time. I knew Jeff through my first husband Mark who worked with him at Eisai. Jeff was a good man and helped Mark through his health challenges and balancing the demands of work. This loss is unimaginable especially for his wife and kids...prayers and hugs to all of you.
June 4, 2013
There are no words to say that will help. We just hope it helps to know that we are thinking of you and praying for you.
Don and Helen Toy
Tammi Leclerc
June 4, 2013
An amazing man!!! Someone who I absolutely respected and who represented compassion leveraged with honesty.
Soheyla Azizi
June 4, 2013
It was heartbreaking to hear of Jeff's untimely passing. He was one of the kindest and most considerate people that I have ever known. His positive attitude and his love for life was contagious. His children meant a world to him and he was so proud of them. My thoughts and prayers are with his children and his family. May God bless you all.
Rest in peace Jeff.......
John Almansberger
June 4, 2013
I will miss my friend who was as honest, sincere and caring as anyone could possibly be. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family who he loved so much.
Jeff Hilst
June 4, 2013
Thoughts and prayers to Mr. Miller's family. I am sorry for your loss. He was a student teacher for my 10th grade Biology class at Webster High and ended up taking over as the permanent teacher. I remember his extreme positive energy and smile every day. You couldn't help but pay attention, learn and have fun. One of the best teachers I had.
Doreen Gorlach
June 4, 2013
I was so deeply sad to hear the passing of Jeff. He was a kind soul who embraced life with all of his heart. His children meant the world to him as he was a phenomenal father. My thoughts and prayers are with his children and his family at this very difficult time.
Rest in peace Jeff we will miss you.
June 4, 2013
I will always remember that big smile and stern handshake upon seeing Jeff at the beginning of a meeting. The world lost a magical man. My prayers for his family for his memory will live on forever..
Tracy Perry
June 4, 2013
I had the pleasure of working with Jeff at Élan and Eisai. Jeff was such a force of life! So positive, full of integrity and life. My prayers go out for all of his family, especially his children. Jeff talked about them all the time and he was so proud of them and they were clearly the loves of his life. He will be missed by so many people. God Bless all of you.
Nancy Caviness
June 4, 2013
Peace and prayers to family and dear friends at this time. May Jeffrey's spirit of community and giving comfort you now and in the days to come.
June 4, 2013
Jeff: What a great friend and father to your children. Thanks for your support thru the years, I will miss you.
Much love, FL
Jan Case
June 4, 2013
To the Miller Family : I'm so sorry for your loss. My family lives on Main Street in East Rochester, and my son ran to the scene - but there was nothing he could do. We hope that your memories help you through this terrible time. Our thoughts and prayers are with Dr. Miller's children, family and friends. Rest in Peace.
Deb Gephardt
June 4, 2013
I am deeply sorry for your family's loss. I always enjoyed being included in the family holidays when I was in town. Praying for you all.
Shelly and Andy Kane
June 4, 2013
The world has lost a truly wonderful human being. We will remember his joy for living, his kindness and his fierce dedication to his children, friends and work. Our hearts go out to his children Maxx, Jake and Madeline , his siblings, his loving friend Anita and the McCarthy children , and the countless people who were lucky enough to call him a friend.
Mary Kay Knorr
June 4, 2013
To the Miller family, I live in East Rochester, and our whole town feels your pain. Hopefully the memories will get you through this tough time!!
Karen Cole
June 4, 2013
My deepest sympathies to the family. Cindy spoke all the time of the great love she shared for her brother & family. Stay strong my friend, I'm here for you now and always.
Jim Blaakman
June 4, 2013
To the Miller Family,
While I never came to know Jeff, I've worked with Maxx in the Pittsford Wrestling program. Maxx is an extremely hard working, polite, fun loving, generous, and talented young man. You don't often see such a smart and athletically gifed young man giving his time to teach young kids in spare time he doesn't really have. That says a lot about who Jeff Miller was and how he impacted his children's lives. He must have been a great man that will be missed dearly, but remembered forever by the family and friends he left behind. Stay strong Miller family. You're in our prayers.
Fondly, The Blaakmans (Coach Jim)
Ryan Nelson
June 4, 2013
My deepest sympathies to the Miller family and friends in the wake of this terrible tragedy. I knew Mr./Coach Miller from junior high Science class as well as Freshman Football. I have vivid memories of his aboundless energy, caring and great smile. He was a great role model to me and countless others.
Marsha Smith
June 4, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
June 4, 2013
Jeff, I'll never forget your Kindness.. Go GMEN!!
Patrick Mundy
Brett Moulton
June 4, 2013
To the family of Dr. Miller,
I am really sorry for your loss and I know that words cannot makeup for his passing. My fiancee and I were the only witnesses to the incident in its entirety and I wish I could have done more to help/prevent this. I tried to do all I could but there was just a feeling of helplessness when ariving... Please know that you all have been in the thoughts and prayers of both of us. I am sorry I was not able to do more.
Andy Shuckra
June 4, 2013
Jeff Miller was lacrosse coach at Webster High School in the late 80's to me and many of my friends. We all remember him fondly. Everyone was drawn to his enthusiasm, positive energy, and love for the sport. He was a new teacher and coach, but connected right away with all of us. I can only imagine the positive impact he's had on young peoples lives over the years. Our deepest sympathies to his family, students, and players.
Jamie Hewlett
June 4, 2013
I was sorry to hear about Jeff's death. He and I worked together at Eisai. I have fond memories when he came to AZ to see his beloved Giants play. Thoughts and prayers to his family.
Mischele Hoffman
June 4, 2013
Jeff was an amazing father, friend and colleague. Always a smile and words of encouragement coming from him. Thoughts and prayers go out to his family, especially the children he loved so much and was so proud of. What has been lost here has been gained above. Rest In Peace
Tom Sluby
June 4, 2013
To the Family and Friends on Jeff,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Jeff was a loving and thoughtful man with boundless energy. His first thoughts were always with his family; particulary his children. He will live on.
Alaka Reid
June 4, 2013
Although I didn't know Jeff a very long time, I knew he was a kind spirit filled with positive energy.
kristen McNally
June 4, 2013
Maddie I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of your dad, He was a great man with such a warm heart I still remember when he first signed you up for the YMCA after school program and how much he love his little girl and saying how he disliked putting you there but because of me he was OK with it; feel blessed that I had the opportunity to know him love to your family please know I'm thinking of you all .
Rob Nixon
June 4, 2013
He was a mentor and a great friend. I owe so much of who I am to Jeff. I am so lucky to have known him. He will always be remembered and his advice will go one forever.
Una Kennedy
June 4, 2013
Dear Maxx, Jake and Madeline: I was very sorry to hear about your dad. I saw him many times here in the office and often saw him standing waiting for the school bus with you, Jake. I know how much he cared about you and loved you and I'm sure that his love will continue in your life. You have my sympathy. Miss Kennedy, Mendon High School main office
Jack Somers
June 4, 2013
Jeff was a special man of positive strength with a caring heart, and he'll be deeply missed by everyone.
Kevin Russo
June 4, 2013
Mr. Miller was one of the most memorable teachers of my childhood. Always had a smile on his face and always found a way to make Science fun and interesting. I use to always remember he would wear a tie with his shirt sleeves rolled up and was always chewing gum in class. Very laid back, fun filled classroom. Made it so easy to pay attention and actually absorb the information. RIP Mr. Miller. You postively impacted so many people's lives.
Tom Kleinhammer
June 4, 2013
There aren't any words that will stop the pain of this terrible loss. I hope the entire Miller family can find peace in knowing that Jeff was known as a man of great love for his children and respected by all of his friends. You are in our thoughts and prayers
Jim Zorzi
June 4, 2013
I will always remember Jeff as a leader and friend. He was the utmost of integrity and dedicated to his family. You will be missed Brother!!
Love you Buddy!
Eric Truelson
June 4, 2013
Jeff will be missed by all of us that had the pleasure to know him. His energy, enthusiasm and love of his children was abundant. My deepest sympathies to his loving family, you will all be in my thoughts and prayers.
Loren Penman
June 4, 2013
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Carol Greene
June 4, 2013
Dear Cindy, Jon, Leah & Jason (& Jeff's family),
I'm so sorry and keep you all in my prayers that God will comfort all you of during this difficult time.
I believe that you all have a special angel that will watch over you all.
Much love and prayers,
Carol Greene
Chavez Family
June 3, 2013
Jeff was a man among men who loved to compete, but his best attribute was the love he had for his children. His glowing enthusiasm and warm personality will be forever cherished and eternally remembered. Peace, strength and love to his family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Bob, Amy, Alex and Graciela
stacey falcone
June 3, 2013
Maxx, please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers, our hearts are with you. Your Service Desk Family.
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