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John Honeck Obituary

Honeck, John W.

Hamlin: John passed away suddenly on 10/20/15 at age 55. Through his work at Lifetime Assistance John dedicated his life to helping individuals with developmental disabilities live with dignity and independence. The betterment of humankind was not only his career, but his passion. John was a devout Catholic and activist who believed it was his duty to fight for social justice on a global scale, working closely with both Pax Christi and ROCLA on causes both close to home and in Latin America.

John was an avid tennis player and could often be seen at the Brockport high school courts working on his backhand. John was a sports fan, rooting for the Sabres, Bills and The Boston Red Sox.

John is pre-deceased by his mother Constance and is survived by his wife Brenda and children Megan, Kate and Liam, his father Richard Honeck, brother Thomas, aunt Margaret Barr as well as the family's cat, Dot. He also leaves a large extended family.

Calling hours will be held at Fowler Funeral Home Inc. 340 West Avenue, Brockport on Sunday from 2-4 and 6-8 pm. His funeral mass will be on Monday at 11 in St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Church (SEAS) in Hamlin, where John was an active member.

John will be missed by all that knew him.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his name to Lifetime Assistance or The American Diabetes Association.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle from Oct. 22 to Oct. 23, 2015.

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jennifer banister

November 20, 2015

Somehow I missed that we had lost John. Am very sad to hear. His enthusiasm & demand for justice from such a loving, peaceful conviction in his heart fortified all the efforts he was part of. Am glad to have known him.

Helen Cheves

November 8, 2015

I am shocked and saddened to just learn of John's passing. I worked directly with John at Lifetime Assistance on Sweden Walker Rd. in Brockport. Through our conversations, my life was so positively impacted because of his compassion for mankind.

November 3, 2015

Simply a beautiful soul who is and forever will be in so many hearts. He touched the world and made it better for all. Simply the impitamy of love as is his wife brenda, children megan, kathrine, and liam, his brother thomas and father richard. God bless you all, prayers are in abundance for strength to see you through your healing. Love to all of you.

Jim and Anne Georger

October 26, 2015

We didn't know John personally but were always struck by his presence and devotion at Mass. He had an aura of Jesus around him.

Nancy & Jerry Morrison

October 26, 2015

Our prayers are with you.

October 26, 2015

Brenda and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.I am so very sorry for your loss.John was such a good person and touched so many lives.He will be truly missed.
Terri Brown

Ann Koral

October 25, 2015

Dear Brenda, I was shocked to read of John's passing. My prayers and condolences to you and your children. I worked with John on a few occasions and he was always very helpful and kind. Ann Koral

Maria Lincoln

October 25, 2015

To ,Liam,Richard Honeck and family,
My deepest sympathy and prayers are with all of you. I remember John from Nativity. He will be deeply missed.

Joanne and Les Tandler

October 25, 2015

What a loss to our community.
John was a special caring individual and will truly be missed by so many people that he shared his gifts with. May God bless his Family!

Marcia Mosele

October 25, 2015

We are truly sorry for your loss. John was a positive presence in church and will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Charlene & Bob Capo

October 24, 2015

We are very sorry to learn of John's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with Brenda and the kids. Heaven has gained a very special and energetic angel. He will keep them all on their toes up there. Have a Diet Pepsi for me John.

Grania Marcus

October 23, 2015

John was a shining light in an often dark world. My condolences to Brenda and his children on their profound loss.

October 23, 2015

We are shocked and saddened to learn of John's passing. Our condolences to Brenda and family. May you take comfort in memories of happier times and the fact that John made this world a better place to be and that he touched so many lives. May God give you strength, comfort and peace.
Bonnie and Robert Quackenbush, Ocala Fl

Jennifer Davis

October 22, 2015

Words cannot express the shock and sadness I feel. I enjoyed the years working with John at LAI. He touched so many lives and will be missed tremendously! My thoughts and prayers are with Brenda, Meg, Kate and Liam.

Kathleen Desautels

October 22, 2015

John was a beacon of light, humor and goodness to all who knew him. John, Pesente!

Ruth & Walt Lapinski

October 22, 2015

John was one of a kind. He was a light every time he entered a room. We will miss him bounding into the chapel for daily Mass at the last minute with a big smile on his face. Always ready to compliment you with kind words. He will be missed by everyone. May he rest in peace. Our sympathy to his family.

Mike Connell

October 22, 2015

I am so sorry to learn of this and wish to extend my condolence to you, his family. John was the salt of the earth.

Linda Fogg

October 22, 2015

John was truly one of a kind and always kept me thinking. It was a pleasure getting to know him. May Gods love get us through his sudden departure, especially his family whom he loved dearly.

Linda Fogg

October 22, 2015

It was truly a pleasure getting to know John. He was one of a kind and always kept me guessing. I am saddened by his sudden death and for your loss. May God's love help us all through this, especially the family whom he loved so dearly.

Yolanda Davis

October 22, 2015

My condolences to Brenda and your children. John was always positive with a great spirit. He will be greatly missed!

October 22, 2015

John will be remembered for his willingness to live life on the edge for his principles and for other people. He was a great example to all of us who went through school with him (like me) even though we may not have always chosen to follow such an example....especially during our school years. Thank you to John for that example and a life well-lived. May you rest in peace, John. Praying for comfort and consolation for John's wife, children and the family and friends.

Debbie (Burton) Fitzgerald

James Cordeiro

October 22, 2015

The first time I met John was in the 1980s at his parent's home with him playing Billy Joel on the piano. Since then he was always a good friend to my brother and I, and I am glad my daughters had the chance to meet Brenda and John often at SEAS. John was a kind and decent person widely known for his commitment to social justice and he will be very sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers to Brenda, Meagan, Kate, Liam, Dick and Tom.

Donna- Burlingame Gividen

October 22, 2015

My son Matthew lives at Hollybrook. John was a good man and made Matthew's life a better one. Matthew and I will miss him. I am so sorry for your loss I will pray for John and for you.

Linda Caruso

October 22, 2015

We have truly lost an angel. Working with John was always a highlight and he will be missed by so many who loved him. Condolences to Brenda and your family. R.I.P.

October 22, 2015

My deepest sympathies to Brenda, Meagan, Kate & Liam. You were a great guy! May you dance with the angels. You will be missed! RIP John!

October 22, 2015

Deepest sympathies to Brenda, Meagan, Kate & Liam! May John rest in peace. You were a great guy! May he dance with the angels! John you will be missed.

Tamara Carpenter-Kopp

October 22, 2015

My thoughts and Prayers are with John's family. Peace be with all of you.

Gail Ribbeck

October 22, 2015

Brenda and family: I was very sad to hear of John's passing. I didn't know well; but hearing the stories of his good works. I know that God needed someone special in Heaven.
God Bless you all
The Ribbeck's

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