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Joseph Gattelaro Obituary
Pittsford: Surrounded by his loving family, Joseph peacefully went to Heaven on May 24, 2013. An outstanding husband, father, grandfather, successful restaurateur, and do-it-yourselfer, Joe lived with an unending sense of humor and common sense.
He was born the sixth of eight children on September 10, 1928, to parents emigrated from the Abbruzze Region of Italy. Always ambitious and hard-working, Joe's career started as a busboy at the Town Tavern on Gibbs Street and continued on at Loperfedo's Italian Restaurant on Court Street, Valley Echo Caterers, Pittsford Tavern on the Mall and Gatson's Restaurant in the Renaissance Apartments on East Ave. He was a U.S. Army veteran serving in the Korean War.
Joe is predeceased by his parents, Mary & James; brothers, Andy, Dominic, Patrick; and sister, Angie; and many close friends. He is survived by his devoted wife of 58 years, Clara; children, Laurie (Anthony) Sagona, Joseph (Debbie) Gattelaro, and Brad (Jennifer) Gattelaro; his grandchildren, Lindsay (James) Reap, Christie, Kyle, Alexandra and Patrick, were his pride & joy. He is also survived by his sister, Rosemary Gattelaro; and brother, Fred (Lena) Gattelaro; many nieces & nephews.
A special thank you to Joe's doctors, Hani Rashid, Joe Delahanty and especially Diego Cahn-Hidalgo for their excellent medical and personal care of Joe and his family.
Contributions may be made to the Golisano Children's Hospital, Office of Gift and Donor Records, 300 East River Road, P.O. Box 270032, Rochester, NY 14627 and the Veterans Service Agency, 125 Westfall Road, Rochester, NY 14620.
No prior calling hours. Please join the family at Joe's funeral mass on Thursday, May 30, at 11am, St. Louis Church. Interment to follow at White Haven Memorial Park. To share a memory of Joseph or to send a condolence to the family, visit: www.anthonychapels.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Joseph Gattelaro
Teresa Akers
October 15, 2013
Joe: So sorry to read about your loss of your loving dad. I know he is your hero and you are following in his footsteps making him proud. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Rick Zeiner
June 13, 2013
I worked for Joe at the tavern when I was a kid. He treated me as if I was one of is sons. I will never forget that. Thanks Joe.
June 3, 2013
Dear Clara, Laurie, and Joe, I am so sad to hear that your Joe has died. Please accept my condolences. I know you all have some wonderful memories of the special family moments. Love to you all.
Debbye Vangellow Hilfiker
Mart & Nancy Gulllen
June 1, 2013
Sending our prayers and a hug to a wonderful family. Although we cannot take the pain away somehow knowing others care sometimes helps to ease the struggle of loss. Know that we care.
With our love,
June 1, 2013
Prayers of healing to you all and may you take comfort in knowing that Joe's was a life truly well lived. Nora Moulton
May 30, 2013
Dearest Laurie, Though I never met your father, you over the past four years have told me again him. I am grieving with you and your family at this time while also celebrating his ascent to heaven. I am very confident that when your father went before our Lord and Saviour, He said, "Well done Joe, well done". Love, Linda
Mary & Joe Giorgi
May 30, 2013
To Clara, you have our deepest sympathy in the loss of Joe. Memory brings to mind the wonderful friendship you both shared with my parents (Ida & Stro) so many years ago. May Joe rest in the peace of Our Lord. Mary Strobino Giorgi
David Miran
May 29, 2013
Dear Joe & family,
I'm sorry to hear of the passing of Papa. Your dad was my mentor back in the day. He taught me that an eighteen hour day was normal. I've taken that to heart. My fondest memory of your dad was working with him at the tavern. Cooking for him Wednesday nights at Crummer's will always be special to me. I'm sorry I will not be able to attend mass tomorrow. I can hear the keys jingling. I know he's close by.
Love,
David Miran
Lauren Morgan
May 29, 2013
I worked at the Pittsford Tavern, Green Hills, and Gatsons. Joe was a great boss who made it a pleasure to come to work. He was funny, smart, and kind. I am so sorry for your loss and will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Tom & Donna Proietti
May 29, 2013
Laurie & Family,
Donna and I are sending our love and condolences to your entire family and to everyone touched by the life of your Dad.
Tom & Donna Proietti
Jim Sousa
May 29, 2013
Back in the late 60's and early 70's I was a busboy at Pittsford Tavern on The Mall and Joe was the owner and he was a jack of all jobs. He was going to teach me the restaurant business and I decided to go to college for it and when I got done with college he said I could have a job working for him any time I wanted. Raising a glass up in the air *cheers to you Joe*
Kimberly Myga
May 29, 2013
I will hold your family in my heart and my prayers.
May 29, 2013
Dear Clara,Laurie, Joe and Brad,
Please know of my prayers and thoughts during this difficult time for your family,
Sister Barbara
Diane (Vacca) Mason
May 29, 2013
Dear Clara, Laurie, Joe & Brad, I'm so sorry to hear of Joe's passing. I have so many fond memories of your beautiful family going all the way back to Laurelton Rd. My good thoughts and prayers are with you all and I wish you comfort and peace.
Darlene Piersall
May 28, 2013
Laurie,
I will always remember talking to Dad at our annual Christmas Mass about how I made my sausage. He couldn't believe how easy it was. He was always very nice to talk to each year. You and your family will be in my prayers. He will be missed by all.
May 28, 2013
Laurie and Tony,
We're so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved father. Our thoughts and prayers are with you
Barb and Scott Osterman
Chuck LaRocco
May 28, 2013
Dear Gattelaro family, I am so sorry for your loss. Joe was very special to me. He was a great man and he will be missed. You are all in my prayers. God Bless!
May 28, 2013
Dear Clara and Family,
We only knew Joe from St. John Fisher at Mass but, he was always made us
laugh. He will be missed.
Sincerely, Bill and Kathy Pierce
Pat Villareale
May 28, 2013
Thoughts and prayers from the Mazzie and Villareale families. Fond memories of the old neighborhood, Pittsford Tavern, and Gatsons.
Pat Villareale
May 28, 2013
Deb and family - I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Lisa B RCSD
Paige Hutchins
May 28, 2013
Mr. G gave me my very first job at Green Hills. So many fond memories of Mr. G and family. I am so sorry for your loss.
May 28, 2013
Dear Clara and family,
I am so sorry for your loss of Joe. I will be praying for your comfort. May you know His strength and grace in the days ahead.
Flora Clements (Pennetta)Giulio and Anna Marie's daughter
May 28, 2013
Dear Clara and family, Charlie and I are very saddened to read about your loss. He was a great person and will be missed. May god who knows our every need, help you during this trying time.
Our deepest sympathy,Charles and Terry Marino
Lynn Doescher
May 28, 2013
Dear Laurie and Family:
I am so very sorry for your loss. I did not have the good fortune to know your Daddy, but he certainly impacted your life and helped to make you the special person you are, so he undoubtedly was a wonderful man. He will be missed but surely not forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Thomas and Marjorie Badger
May 28, 2013
Dear Laurie, Tony and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are w ith you.
Love,
Tom and Margie Badger
May 28, 2013
Dear Mrs. Gattelaro, Laurie, Joe & Brad:
I am so sorry to read of the loss of your husband; father. My prayers are with you. God's Peace
Margie Pizzarelli-Goodison
ESTHER BICEK
May 28, 2013
Clara and family I have no words to say how sad I'am He brought some much laughter to so many so many people. My prayers are with all of you.
Darlene Hudson and Polito Family
May 28, 2013
Clara and Family, I cannot began to tell you how very sad we are to hear about Joe. He was a great humane being and we always enjoyed and treasured your special friendship with our family. Such a great loss. Much Love, and our deepest sympathy goes out to you Clara, and your family.
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