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Matthew Wilson Obituary
Carlsbad, CA: Matthew Craig Wilson of Carlsbad, California died suddenly on June 19th, 2016 following a motorcycle accident. Matthew was born on September 27th, 1978 and grew up in Penfield, New York. He is survived by his beloved wife Renee, step-daughters Juliane and Hope, parents Robert John Craig and Mary Ellen Wilson, sister and brother-in law Colleen and Brett Donovan, niece Elizabeth Rose. Also survived by many loving aunts, uncles and cousins. He is pre-deceased by his grandparents John Craig and Margaret Wilson and Walter and Esther Willkens. Matthew loved the outdoors; skiing, surfing, biking and riding his Harley. While living in Rochester, Matthew was a member of the Local 85 Carpenter Union and recently the Southwest Carpenter Union Local 1506. Matthew was so proud to enlist in the United States Navy in 2003 and earned the rank of First Class.
Matthew received full military honors at his funeral mass in Carlsbad and we couldn't be more proud of all he accomplished in his short life. Matthew's Celebration of Life will be held at St. Anne Church, 1600 Mt. Hope Ave., Rochester, New York, Thursday, July 7th at 10am. There will be a reception to follow at St. Anne Church Hall.
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Carlos Aguilar
September 8, 2016
Matt Wilson was one of the greatest Union carpenter in the new San Diego court house in down town! I had conversations with him always smiling it's hard to know that I lost a friend and brother! Because in the union we are brother!! R.I.P Matt Wilson
Brenda T
July 11, 2016
My heart felt condolences to the family. I didn't know him or his family. That day, I drove by the scene of the accident right after it happened, not knowing who he was my mother and I said a prayer for him and his family. My husband happens to be a military member from NY as well. May you find peace and comfort in all the wonderful memories he left in you.
July 10, 2016
Mary Ellen, I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I can not imagine the pain that you and your family are feeling. Time will heal the pain but it will never, ever erase the memories. Gretchen Rehberg
John Maher
July 6, 2016
Mary Ellen and Bob just heard today. My thoughts and condolences are with both of you.
July 6, 2016
Mary Ellen, Bob, and Colleen-
I have had the absolute pleasure of hearing many stories of your wonderful family through my dear friend Mary Ellen. I cannot imagine how devastating Matthews death has been for you all. I am truly sorry and wish you nothing but peace and solace. Mary Ellen - there are many, many people thinking of and praying for you. I miss you terribly.
With Love, Sue Moody
July 4, 2016
Dear Colleen, Brett, Elizabeth, and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. He seemed like a wonderful man, and I'm so glad that you have so many good memories together. I'm thankful for his service to our country. I think that he is living on through you, Colleen, and through Elizabeth; she resembles him.
Love, Jenn, Jeff, and Conner
CherylAnne Enos
July 3, 2016
Thank you for your service Sir. You may be gone, but you will never be forgotten. May you rest in peace.
I am so very sorry for your loss. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless each and every one of you.
Anne Leach
July 2, 2016
To our dear, sweet Godson and nephew....you were the epitome of joy, wisdom, ethics, loyalty and love. We have loved you with all of our hearts and will carry you in our hearts forever. You taught us about justice, fairness and how to sort the relevant from the unimportant. Your unsurpassed wit and love for humankind made the world a better place. Thank you Matthew for giving us the joy of you! Not a day will pass that we won't see the glint of your smile and miss you deeply....till we meet again, with deep love and affection, Auntie Anne and Uncle Steve
Mary ellen Wilson
July 2, 2016
Matthew, I will always love you and you will be in my heart forever. You touched so many lives and your dad and I are so proud of the man you became. Love Mom
Bridget Palmer
July 2, 2016
I love you Matthew, my cousin, my friend. Thinking of all our great times together. Thanks for always making me laugh and smile. Sending all my love today and always.
Deanine & Troy Dolphin
June 30, 2016
Our deepest condolences go out to Matts parents, sister, Renee, and the girls. We are saddened to hear of his passing.
Charles Mottashed
June 24, 2016
Dear Bob and Mary Ellen,
Danielle and I can't imagine the enormous grief that you are experiencing to have lost a child, especially a son as wonderful as Matt. The times we met Matt on our occasional cross border family get-togethers, it was obvious to us what a fine son he was and what a terrific relationship you had with him and how proud you were to be his parents. He will certainly be sorely missed.
Our most sincere condolences,
Charles (Bob's Canadian cousin) and wife Danielle
Elizabeth Osta
June 24, 2016
Matthew brought such pride and joy to his family. His parents and his aunts and uncles and cousins and extended family adored him. His loss is seismic as was his spirit. He was a loving, laughing, living to the fullest, sensitive man who will be so missed. We are lucky he passed this way. Here's to you sailor. You inspired in your life and will be remembered forever.
Elizabeth Osta and Dave Van Arsdale
Fairport, New York
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