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Paul Sagrafena Obituary
Gates: Friday, Nov. 2, 2007, after a courageous battle with cancer at age 56. He is survived by his loving wife of 34 years, Diane Valone Sagrafena; children, Alana (Anthony) Dentino, Paul L. (Dana) Sagrafena, Melissa (J.) Wall; grandchildren, Bryanna & Domenico Dentino, Louis Wall; parents, Enzo & Elida Sagrafena; sister, Maria (Mark) Rybke; mother-in-law, Amber Valone; brother-in-law, sister-in-law, nieces, nephews and treasured friends (compari). Paul was a loving and caring husband, father and grandfather who enjoyed spending time with his family and friends. He was an avid outdoorsman with a passion for hunting.
Friends may call SUNDAY ONLY from 3:00-7:00PM at the DiPonzio Funeral Home, Inc., 219 Spencerport Road, Gates. On Monday, Nov 5, family and friends are invited to attend his Funeral Mass at 9:30am in St. Theodore's Church, 168 Spencerport Rd. Interment, private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be directed to Roswell Park Alliance Foundation, PO Box 631, Buffalo, NY 14240 in his memory.
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Memories and Condolences
for Paul Sagrafena
Your Loving Wife
November 5, 2008
To the Love of My Life,
Paul it's been 1 year since you left us.{Nov 2,08} My heart was taken away with you when you left. On your day, all of your children and grandchildren went down to the cabin and planted 2 pine trees and we all took turn walking your ashes to your resting spot. The hardest thing for me to do was to put you in a hole and watch your son, son-in laws cover you. It was if I lost you again............You were all that I wanted in my LIFE other than my beautiful children. We miss you so dearly. You will never be forgotten.
You live each and every day in my heart, soul, and mind. Thank you for the marriage made in heaven. Please wait for me, even though I might be a Behita when I get there.
I miss you with all my heart,
Love your Wife
Alana Dentino
November 4, 2008
Daddy,
One year has passed (11/2) since you left us here and continued your life in heaven. You are so deeply missed and loved. The one year that you have been gone, feels like a life time. You are sadly missed by all that loved you, but your memory will live with us forever.
I heard a saying that couldnt be more than perfect and it was as follows: "When a person you love becomes a memory, the memory than becomes a treasure".
There will never be a man more perfect, more loved and admired than you are.
I was blessed to have you in my life, even though it was for a short 30 years, but I will carry you in my heart and with me until the day we meet again.
All my love forever,
your daughter
Your Wife of 35 Years.
May 26, 2008
My Love Of MY Life:
Today would of been our 35th Wedding Anniversary. It was a dream come true when I said: I DO...
I Miss You with all my Heart and Soul. There is not a moment that I don't think of you. You will always be in my HEART............
All My Love Forever
Your Love of Your Life
Benito Fusco
April 28, 2008
I was just looking at my calendar when it occured to me that it was your birthday. Not a day goes by when we are not thinking about you and your family. I raise my glass to you and say 'Salute Paul and Happy Birthday'
Love Always from the Heart
Benito & Stefania Fusco
Diane Sagrafena
April 27, 2008
Happy Birthday My Love:
I miss you more and more each day. My heart breaks, my tears fall, but all I have is no more. You were everything to me. Always and forever in my heart you will be.
Love forever,
Your Wife
Alana Dentino
April 25, 2008
First Love
As a little girl, I looked up to you.
Walking in your footsteps was all that I knew.
The games we played,
the times we've shared.
You've shown in everything,
the way you've cared.
The older I got, the more I knew
the joy it was to be with you.
You've always been around for me
and always loved me unconditionally.
You've often shown me right from wrong
and taught me to be meek and be strong.
Your patience and your gentle care
was everlasting and always there.
A young lady I soon grew up to be
and academics I accomplished successfully.
With all your love and all your praise a successful woman you surely did raise.
Dad, in writing this I just wanted to say, how much I miss you and
how much I love you in every way.
You'll always be the king of my heart
because you were my first love from the very start.
Happy belated birthday daddy, you are missed by us all very very much.
Carla Collichio
March 2, 2008
Dear Paul,
You gave some very heartfelt advice from heaven. Yes, I will follow your words and help someone in sorrow and pain. Your presence while with us brought joy, laughs, love and warmth. We do miss you and know we will see you someday. Rest assured and in peace that your loving wife Diane is foremost in the hearts of your friends and her care is a loving gift from us to you.
Love,
Carla
Diane Sagrafena
February 2, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
The Love Of Your Life Your Wife
December 26, 2007
Paul,
THE LOVE OF MY LIFE,MY EVERYTHING
Words can not expressed how hard it has been without you. For 34 plus years, that we have been together you have always been the LOVE OF MY LIFE, Whe I cry, I wipe away your tears, When I breath, I feel your breath,When I walk I turn and there is nothing behind me.Your were everything that made me whole. During your illness I took care of you with all my heart.When we said, Till Death Do Us Part, I said it with my whole being. It is so hard not having you here with us.
The Holidays are going to be very hard without you. You have been the core of our family, and we miss you so very much. All of our friends miss you so very much. There is not a moment in the day that I don't think about you. When I leave for work in the morning I say, Bye honey, I love you. And when I come home, I say.....Honey I'm home. But there is no answer..I know you are here with me.Because I feel Your Love and Warmth. Please protect all of our children, and grandchildren.And also the new one on the way.I know that you have already seen that beautiful child. Bryanna, Domenico, and Louis always ask for you.
I go and watch Domenico play Hockey, and look up in the stands to see if you are there watching over him, but your not there. I know your with Domenico on the ice watching over him. He takes a part of you on the ice each time he skates.
Honey, Please know that no matter where I am THERE'S ALWAYS A PART OF YOU WITH ME.
Forever your Wife, The Love Of Your Life...........
Alana Dentino
December 25, 2007
Merry Christmas daddy, I miss you very much and can't wait till we meet again. You are my heart and soul, and not a day goes by that I don't think about you. Each passing day gets harder and harder not having you here. Please continue to watch over us all especially mom.
With all of my love,
Alana
Roger Beil
December 3, 2007
Diane and family I find myself going the guest book today the last day avilable...Its hard for me to say how much I miss such a good friend. Paul and I met 37 years ago as I moved to Rochester getting a job at kodak...Paul was the first guy I met..So many great times and laughs we had together....I miss you "SAG"...You were such a great friend to me....
Bob and Mimi Guardino
November 25, 2007
On Wednesday, July 25, 2007 we visited Paul at home. It was during this visit that Paul prayed to receive Christ as his Saviour. It is not what Paul did in his life that is so important now, though many of the other entries speak of the wonderful man Paul was, it is his faith in Jesus Christ that assures that he is with Christ in heaven this day. Truly, for Paul there is no more sorrow, no more pain, and death is swallowed up of life. God bless Paul and his family. Our prayers are with you.
Joanne & Jim Orlando
November 22, 2007
Diane,Alana,Paul,Missy,and family:
We have lost a great friend and neighbor. We miss Paul deeply. What I will miss is when I would come over to visit, Paul would be in the garage or family room. When he would see me he would always say Aunt Joanne's hear. He would always come and sit with us over coffee. Diane you had a marriage not to many people have,cherish every memory and moment of it.
Elide and Enzo you should be very proud of Paul. You raised Paul to be a loving husband,caring dad and grandpa and a son that was always there for both of you.
Paul is at rest but will always be with us forever. With love the Orlando's
Ben and Vicki Caputo
November 18, 2007
If you look up "neighbor" in the dictionary, the meaning is someone that lives in your neighborhood. However, if you look up "wonderful neighbor" you would find a picture of Paul. He was the best neighbor and friend anyone could ask for. We have lots of great memories that we and our children will remember always. We'll never forget you Paul. We expect to see you getting in or out of your truck everytime we look out the window. Heaven must be filled with trucks. We love and miss you. (Paul I am really lost. Your "buddy" Ben)
Ben and Vicki
Carol and Vito Dentino
November 18, 2007
Hi Sag,
It's Saturday at 5am, only 2 weeks after you leaving us. I find myself thinking of you and your family constantly. I miss you so much and I hope you know that you're the best friend anyone could ever have. The empty feeling and heavy heart I'm carrying with me just won't go away. I hope that your Mom and Dad are getting stronger with each passing day, and of course Diane and the kids are also in our thoughts & prayers. I keep using the word "I" in this message, but it's my whole family I'm speaking for. We all love you buddy.
They say in life, that someone is truly lucky to have one true friend. Well, I guess we were all lucky to have you. Paul, you're gone, but not really. All of the wonderful times we all shared, no one cant ake that away. You made me laugh every time we were together. Our family outings together were so much fun. From picnics at Churchville, to baseball & hockey games with our sons, well, who could forget.
I could write endlessly. I know that you're doing fine Sag, and truly at peace. My family will always and forever stay close with Diane and the kids. We love them as much as ever and will not forget anyone of them. So, for now Paul, I guess I'll say goodbye. But I'm sure someday our spirits will reunite.
I love you Paul.
God bless you.
Vito
Marie Windover
November 14, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss, may God Bless you all. Rest in peace Paul.
Paul Dentino
November 13, 2007
Alana and Family, Sorry for the lose of your Dad,Papa and son he was a wonderful man. Sorry I could not be in town for your time of need. He will always be in my heart. Paul may you rest in peace
Patricia Fournier
November 13, 2007
Dear Anthony,Alana,Domenico,Bryanna,
What a beautiful testimonial to your Dad ( PaPa ) by the show of those who came to show their respect. Although he left this world at such a young age his life will live on in his family and friends. In todays world you do not find such a warm and close family. I am proud that my son Anthony is part of this family and I have Alana for a daughter-in-law,and my grandchildren are a special blessing.
Don (Cuz) Carusone
November 13, 2007
Dear Diane and Family:Our families have known each other for many years.Not only have you's lost a Husband and Father we have lost a great friend and person.There are so many memories to talk about it would take forever.He was a great person and always had that smile on his face.He will never be forgotten.Diane ,I want you to know I will always carry of piece of Paul with me. Our condolences to you and your Family.
Linda and Phil Sidore
November 11, 2007
Diane, Alana, Paul and Missi,
The many memories we shared with Paul make this very difficult. Yet, we are SO thankful for those precious memories, and thankful for Paul, our dear friend. Our memories go way back...the exploding cake at our first apartment, the guys building the hunting cabin, and New Years Eve parties. Watching our children grow (remember 9 yr. old Alana and Gina painting Alana's room...to our surprise!), the hockey games, and taking Paulie, Philip and Carla hunting. I remember the "debates"/conversations we would have over coffee...always with a smile on Paul's face when he would get me going. And our guys "shared interests" ...if one got one, the other followed suit: the big trucks, 4 wheelers, snowmobiles and.... beagles! The week at the cabin for the opening of gun season was anticipated every year... not only to hunt but to feast on huge steaks, plenty of snacks and Enzo's specialties... not to mention the many laughs. Good times were shared by all.
Paul will always live on in our hearts- his spirit is alive in all of us. We love you all and are here for you- please remember that.
Love,
Linda and Phil
P.S. Paul, thanks for introducing me to K-Love radio station. I always knew you had an open heart. Rest in His peace.
Linda
Phil Sidore
November 11, 2007
Paul,
I feel like a fish out of water... missing my good buddy. I hope heaven is filled with huge 14 point bucks! Leave some for me!
Miss you buddy.
Love,
Phil (Meathead, Bonehead, and other names you called me!!)
P.S. My best name for you was "Uncle Tanoose" when we would talk to each other on our walkie talkies from our tree stands.
mike mcleod
November 10, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Paul for many years. He was a good man and co-worker. He will be missed.
richard dentino
November 8, 2007
Dear family of Paul Sagrafena: please know that I will always remember your loved one for his great sense of humor and the way he would needle me with a friendly smile; I never saw him in a bad mood actually. The respect he showed my family and to me was always appreciated. Need a favor and he was there to help. Simply put, a very good man who will always be missed by his loving family and the countless friends who loved and admired him. Peace Paul
Gina Jewell
November 7, 2007
Paulie and Family-We are sorry for your loss.
Gina & TJ Jewell(Florida)
Craig McDonough
November 6, 2007
I am so sorry for the loss of our big bear. I have many wonderful memories to cherish with you through the years we spent together around the ice rink and around home. You were such an inspiration to us all and will be dearly missed by everyone who knew you. God bless you and the whole family till we meet again.
Love,
Craig
Jeffrey Mastrodonato
November 6, 2007
To the Sagrafena Family,
My deepest sympathy goes out to you in Paul's passing.You are in my thoughts and prayers.He was truly a great man.
Jeff Mastrodonato
Benito Pallotta
November 6, 2007
Diane, Paulie, Alana, Missy; Elide, Enzo e famiglia e tutti coloro che hanno avuta la fortuna di conoscere ed amare Paul,
Tutti noi abbiamo perso una delle migliori persone conosciute nella nostra vita. Paul e' stato un marito modello, un padre pieno di affetto e attenzioni per i propri figli e nipoti. Non dimenticheremo mai il suo semplice ma affettuoso saluto "zio, come stai, che fai?", sempre detto con affetto ed un sorriso. La morte ci puo' portare via persone amate, ma non dobbiamo dimenticare che niente e nessuno puo' fermare il nostro amore per Paul. Con la nostra mente e il nostro cuore noi possiamo sempre stare con lui. Paul ti ricorderemo sempre con tanto affetto e ammirazione.
Zii Benito e Clara
Chris and Bill Kastner
November 6, 2007
Dear Diane and family
We were very sorry to hear about Paul's passing.Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Tanya Pallotta
November 6, 2007
Cousin Paul, I will really miss you and think of you often.
Cousins Diane, Alana, Paulie, Missy and families, know that I love you guys and you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Anthony Dionisio
November 5, 2007
To the Sagrafena Family, May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived. I know I will always remember the great times we had hunting! Paul, enjoy your new "Hunting Grounds" may we hunt together again.
Philip Sidore
November 5, 2007
Uncle Paul (meathead):
You're a 2nd Father to me! You were always there for me as you were for all of your family or friends. A great husband, father, and person! You never had to guess what Uncle Paul was thinking... boy did you make us laugh!!! Words cant explain how much you will be missed, but until we meet again, Rest in Peace Uncle Paul, WE LOVE YOU!
Aunt Diane, Paulie, Alana, & Missy:
I love you all, if you need anything, you know how to reach me!
Philip Sidore
Mary Jo Zavaglia
November 4, 2007
Diane and family,You were blessed with a wonderful husband and father.Paul was like a second Dad for all of the boys.
My prayers are with all of you. May God bring peace to your hearts. Please know we love you and are here for you.
MICHAEL ZAVAGLIA
November 4, 2007
MY DEEPEST SYMPANTHY TO PAULS FAMILY , PAUL WAS A GREAT MAN AND WAS A BIG PART OF MY LIFE GROWING UP WITH PAULIE , HE ALWAYS SAID YOU GUYS BETTER NOT BE GETTING INTO TROUBLE . I WILL MISS HIM VERY MUCH...REST IN PEACE BIG BEAR WE LOVE YOU.
Lisa Albee
November 4, 2007
To The Sagrafena Family,
My deepest sympathy on the loss of Paul. Many the many family memories created with him always be with you and help you through this tough time.
Although Paul is not with us on this earth, it is good to know that he is looking over everyone in spirit.
marilyn raymond
November 4, 2007
DEAREST Diane & family, JESUS IS THE WAY,THE TRUTH AND THE LIGHT. PAUL IS NOW ENJOYING PEACE AND JOY
WITH HIM. MAY HE GRANT YOU THE COMFORT OF THE HOLY SPIRIT AND HIS PEACE.(PSALM 91)with much love.
Michelle and Kathy
November 4, 2007
Aunt Diane, Alana, Pauly, and Missy,
Please know how sorry I am for your loss. I will never forget you, Uncle Paul and all of the laughs we had. You will be dearly missed by so many people. Please know I am thinking about all of you at this time.
Sending you so much love,
Kathy & Jack Pompoco
November 4, 2007
To Our Dear Friend Diane,
From the first encounter at the Poconos, 34 year ago, we have been so lucky to have this friendship.
You are like family to us. Our sorrow is so grave for the loss of such a wonderful caring person.
Our thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Anthony V. Dentino
November 4, 2007
Uncle Paul "the big brashol",
I love you like you were my own father. Nobody had more fun than we did during the baseball and hockey years, and everything in between. I'll always remember your sense of humor, smile, and personality. You'll always be a legend, and always be sorely missed. We'll break stones again someday.
Love,
Ant
Michella Dentino
November 4, 2007
Alana and Family,
I am so very sorry for the loss of Paul.. He was such an amazing man who will be missed very much!! I know I am going to miss him.. He was so much fun to be around.. I love you all very much, and if there is anything I can do please let me know!!! Paul is watching over us now!!! May you Rest in peace Paul!!!
Love always,
Michella
Mary Ellen Donovan
November 3, 2007
Diane,
Please know that my prayers are with you and your family. I will not be able to attend calling hours at DiPonzio's so soon after Danny was laid out there, but I will be with you in thought and prayers. I'm here if you need me.
Love,
Mary Ellen
Bob Corlett
November 3, 2007
Diane & Family.
I am so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. He was an incredible neighbor and friend to all of us and especially to my mother Betty and step father Don Valerio. Although I am far away my thoughts are with you and my fond memories of Paul are forever in my heart.
Bryanna Dentino
November 3, 2007
Dear Papa,
We had some great times and some bad times but no one can take the great times away from us. I love you so much.
Love your grandaughter
Bryanna.
Alana Dentino
November 3, 2007
Daddy, I will always miss you. thank you for all that you have done for me and for being such a great father. You will be with us always and greatly missed by your family and friends. When Domenico goes on that hockey rink he will always bring a part of you with him. To all his friends please don't ever forget what a good guy he was, always keep him in you hearts and mind. Thank you to you all who can keep his memory alive.
I love you Daddy, Alana
michael borrino
November 3, 2007
Diane,
Words are difficult at a time like this. Please know that I am thinking of you and your family. Please accept my deepest condolences.
Jamie Chivaro
November 3, 2007
Dear Alana,
There are no words that I can say to u other than,you now have a "special angle" who will always be around u to keep u safe and look after u ! Your dad was a great man to all of us kids growing up, teaching u to drive with me in the back seat on the way to soccer!!! He was the best soccer dad ever! Always yelling at us to stop being lazy and to just do something,but lay around !! Memories will be cherished ! May God be with u and your family and knowing ur dad is in peace, no more suffering. Love you always Jabeep
Jamie Chivaro
November 3, 2007
Dear Diane and family,
May God be with all of you in this hard time. Paul was are "big bear"!!!!!!!! May all the memories be cherished forever!!!love to all!The Trieste family
Tony Dentino
November 3, 2007
God Bless you Paul- Dindo
paul and carmen/calabrias rest. dalba/fusco
November 3, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Stefania & Benito Fusco
November 3, 2007
We lost a great friend and will miss him dearly. We will cherish every moment and memory that we spent together. God Bless you..Ciao Compari
Love Always Stefania & Benito
Steve Nichols
November 3, 2007
Diane & Family - My deepest regrets and sympathies go to you and your family. Sags is now at peace!! I remember all the fun times at Tut's. Please remember all the good times. Best always
Dino L'Abbate
November 3, 2007
Our prayers are with you,we are so sorry for your loss.
Stephen Satter
November 3, 2007
From all of us at Kodak, Our thoughts and prayers go out to your whole family during this difficult time. Paul was a great friend and an entertaining co-worker. He'll be missed. May the peace of the Lord be upon Paul and your whole family.
Jo-Al Lettau
November 2, 2007
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
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