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John William Coker III

1937 - 2019

John William Coker III obituary, 1937-2019, Sanger, TX

BORN

1937

DIED

2019

FUNERAL HOME

Coker Funeral Home - Sanger

403 Pecan St.

Sanger, Texas

John Coker Obituary

John William Coker III

John William Coker III, 81, of Sanger, passed away on Friday, June 21, 2019 in Denton surrounded by his family. The son of John William, Jr. and Josephine Jo (Weaver) Coker, he was born on July 10, 1937 in Drumright, Oklahoma.

He attended Odessa High School, Odessa College, and graduated from Gupton-Jones School of Mortuary Science in 1957. On March 2, 1957, he married Winnie Delores Kinkade in Grand Prairie and recently celebrated their 62nd wedding anniversary. They soon moved to Floydada where John worked for Harmon Funeral Home. In 1959, he and Delores moved to Sanger to work for Schmitz, Floyd, Hamlet Funeral Home. They have been members of the First Baptist Church for almost 60 years.

In 1961, John purchased the funeral home and changed the name to Coker Funeral Home. He selflessly served the people of Denton, Cooke, Wise and Jack counties for the next 60 years. The funeral business and serving people were John's true passion and he was instrumental in leading several young men into the funeral profession. John served as a liaison to the Corp of Engineers having to locate and assist with moving the graves in cemeteries that would be covered in water by Lake Ray Roberts. John served as past-president of the North Texas Funeral Directors Association and was a recipient of the North Texas Funeral Director of the Year Award. On the state level, he served on the Board of Directors of Texas Funeral Directors Association and the Texas Funeral Services, Inc.

John loved Sanger and the people who lived here. He always wanted Sanger to prosper and grow. He did not take his civic duties lightly. He served as Past-President of the Sanger Chamber of Commerce, was the past Tail-Twister of the Sanger Lions Club, City of Sanger Councilman, Denton County Justice of the Peace for Precinct 5, Mayor of the City of Sanger, and served 60 years on the Sanger Cemetery Association Board of Trustees. John along with several other men in Sanger worked, formed and coached the first Sanger Little League Program. He served on the Lake Ray Roberts Planning and Zoning and the Red River Valley Commission.

He was a 32nd Degree Mason and member of the Bolivar Masonic Lodge #418, having received his 50-year pin. He served as Past-Patron and was a 50-year pin recipient in the Order of the Eastern Star #1027. He was also a 50-year pin recipient of the Moslah Shrine Temple. He was past-president of the Moslah Car-Vettes, past-president of the Denton County Shriners and a charter member of the Denton Elks Lodge.

As much as John enjoyed all of this, nothing compared to his family. He proudly wore the title of husband and Dad but the title he wore most proudly was "Gran'dad". He was preceded in death by his parents, Mother-in-law, Pauline Kinkade Bell, Father-in-law, Ardie Grey Kinkade and their beloved dog, Harry. Those left to cherish his memory are his wife Delores of Sanger; two sons, John W Coker, IV and wife Loretta of Decatur and Michael Grey Coker of Jacksboro; one daughter DeAnn Coker Burrus and husband Sam of Sanger; Sister-in-law and brother-in-law Shonda and Jim Washer of Sanger; six grandchildren John William Coker, V and wife Megan of Decatur, Ashly L'Rae DoByns and husband Michael of Decatur, Windi Burrus Ward and husband Bo of Argyle, Bradley Grey Coker and wife Jessica of Jacksboro, Katie Michelle Thompson and husband Tyson of Jacksboro, Joshua Thomas Burrus and wife Holly of Purcell, OK; twelve great-grandchildren, Dillon, Chloe, Collin, Georgia, Stone, Brooklyn, Bo Monroe, Grey, Gage, Colbie Ryann, Sammie Jo, and Penn Thomas; and a host of nieces, nephews, and great-nieces and great-nephews.

A visitation for John will be held from 6pm to 8pm on Tuesday, June 25, 2019 at the First Baptist Church in Sanger. Funeral services are on Wednesday, June 26, 2019 at 1:00 pm also at the First Baptist Church. Dr. E. L. McNeal and Pastor Grant Bowles will officiate the services. Serving as pallbearers will be John's grandsons and brother-in-law. Honorary pallbearers will be nephews and great-nephews.

Memorials may be made to Shriners Hospitals for Children, Attn: Office of Development 2900 N. Rocky Point Drive, Tampa, FL 33607 / Texas Scottish Rite Hospital for Children, 2222 Welborn St, Dallas, TX 75219, or the charity of your choice.

Services are under the direction of Coker Funeral Home. Online condolences may be made to www.cokerfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Denton Record-Chronicle from Jun. 24 to Jun. 25, 2019.

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Bill McFarlin

January 12, 2023

When my mom died from a car accident, my father called Mr. Coker and he drove up to Enid, Ok. That very evening to take her back to Sanger. I was only 8yrs old at that time. He made her look as though she was sleeping. I am sad that I am only now knowing of Your great loss. I am Bill McFarlin, son of Keith Lavelle and Mary Elizabeth McFarlin. 1968 was the time

Gerald Dawson

July 23, 2019

So sorry to hear of Mr. Coker's passing my thoughts and prayers are with his family

matt martin

July 10, 2019

I have known John for years, and HE WAS A GREAT MAN!! I am SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, MY LOVE and MY HEART GOES OUT TO --HIS FAMILY!! GOD BLESS YOU ALL Matt

Donald Stepheson

July 2, 2019

Donald Stepheson Denton,Tx.

Don O'CONNOR

July 1, 2019

You will be missed, thank you so much for helping us with Bobbies passing.
From, Don and Lisa O'Connor

June 28, 2019

Our hearts ache for the Coker Family loss. John was a good man of integrity and compassion. Sanger has been blessed to have his love of community and concern for all these years. Its our loss, Heavens gain. There is another sparkling star shining down on our world.

Sincerely,
Skeeter & Ginger ahenry

Lynda Cole

June 26, 2019

John was a Wonderful Man. Deepest Sympathy for the Family.

Troyce Wilson

June 26, 2019

I'm sorry to hear about John's passing. He was a longtime family friend, and was a tremendous help to me when my father passed away. Sanger just won't be the same without him.

MarcaSue DeLacerda

June 26, 2019

Was so sad to learn of John's death. Hope he and Dad are swapping tales in heaven.

Kathy (Golliday) McFarlen

June 26, 2019

Dearest Delores, Johnny, Mike, and DeAnn: Your family has always held a special place in my heart - all the way back to when we were neighbors in my/our childhood! I have many sweet memories of all of you and will always remember Johns smile! The Coker name is iconic in Sanger...Johns passing is such a loss to the community! Please know that I love you and will continue to pray for comfort for you in the days ahead! ♥

Jim Whitsitt

June 26, 2019

Every single minute of any day that I spent with John Coker was a blessing in my life. He was like a father to me after my father's passing almost 20 years ago. He always reminded me to "get a haircut" when I had the time! He was a great man, great father, grandfather and loved his family as any person should.

Dannie W. Lynch

June 26, 2019

Mr.Coker was a true friend. My time that I have known Mr. Coker, (55) years, have been an enjoyment in my life. I will miss him tremendously. I can remember many coffee mornings at the Buckhorn Cafe. Great memories. You will be missed My Friend.
Your friend,
Dannie W. Lynch

Reginald Logan

June 26, 2019

Bro. Coker was a true professional he always served with excellence. As pastor of Galilee he welcomed me and served our congregation with love.

Carol Parsons Schluter

June 25, 2019

John was a pillar in the Sanger Community. His ability to make decisions, decisions I would consider difficult, with strength, wisdom and meekness was admirable. Praying the Lord will give Johns family, friends and loved ones comfort during this time of loss.

David Coffey

June 25, 2019

Our prayers for the Coker family and Sanger

Kristi Hayes Tovar

June 25, 2019

My deepest condolences in your time of loss. May God wrap his loving arms around your family today and in the days ahead.
With sympathy,

Kent Crutsinger

June 25, 2019

Mr. Coker was a great man and I am very thankful our paths crossed. He always made me feel better after speaking with him. Great example of why Sanger is some place special.. Thoughts and prayers go out to entire family during this time.

Danny McDaniel

June 25, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kim Veselka

June 24, 2019

Prayers for your family during this difficult time.

Sharon Woolard

June 24, 2019

Heaven certainly gained another angel. John is such a kind and gentle man always there for you when needed. During my hardest times the Cokers have been there for me. You will be greatly missed my dear friend. Now go rest on that mountain your work is done. Prayers to the family left behind.

Millard & Nancy Smith

June 24, 2019

We are sorry for your loss. John was always very kind to us.

Marsha Grubb

June 24, 2019

The family is in our prayers. We are so sorry as we will miss John immeasurably. He was such a source of comfort to our family in our times of need. I only hope you all can be comforted as well. Heaven gained another angel.

Steve Sebastian

June 24, 2019

Delores, John, Mike, DeAnn and family, I am proud to say that I knew John Coker and what a fine and funny man he was. Angels are rejoicing as another saint is now home. Praying for peace for all of you. Blessings,

Michael Downs

June 24, 2019

Wow! The accolades for John are so numerous, and his tribute as a family man is so inspiring. And he has been kind and compassionate to our family at times of grief many times, just as he has with thousands of others through the decades. We thank you, John

Judy and Rick Austin

June 24, 2019

John is an unforgettable man, gentle and kind with a quick wit. We will cherish the time we had to know him, short as it was, with fond memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with his sweet wife, family and friends.

Roxanna Maddox

June 24, 2019

John was such an honorable man and an individual with such professionalism and integrity. I had a great deal of respect for John and was enamored by the devotion and commitment that he had to the hundreds of families that he served in Wise, Denton, Jack County and beyond.

June 24, 2019

Delores and family, John was a wonderful man and we will all miss him. We shared so many good times over these past years. We had great times traveling with the Car-Vettes. We know he is in heaven smiling down on his family and friends. You are in our prayers. Love you, Carol & Jerry Knott

Kim Bell

June 24, 2019

So sad to hear of John, he was a great friend to my folks and they thought the world of him.

Kay Isbell

June 24, 2019

Great friend of Isbell family, appreciate every did for Isbell. May the family
Know we are deeply sorry for your loss. Kay Isbell and family

Ronnie and Nelda Dollgener

June 24, 2019

To Deloris and all of the Coker family : We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

June 24, 2019

Prayers for your family at this time.
The Bomar Family

Pat Scott

June 24, 2019

RIP John. Remembering all the years we've know and working together for Denton County. Blessings and prayers for your family.

Tracy Thornbrough Noble

June 24, 2019

Such a great and godly man with a legacy of servant-leadership and deep love for family and community. He will be remembered and respected for his generosity, wisdom, humor, and desire to serve others. All my love to his precious family -- I would be right there with you if there were not so many miles between us. You're in my prayers and always in my heart!

Glenn Shaw

June 24, 2019

Sorry for your loss. John was a brother Mason ,fellow Lion, a mentor sometimes and a friend

CAROL TUCKER

June 24, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Clydeine Sebastian

June 23, 2019

So sorry we have to miss the service we are on vacation and cant get back in time but our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Debbie Smith

June 23, 2019

Deloris, you and the family are in our thoughts and prayer. He was a great man, and will be miss by so many people. Love you all.

Linda Hewlett

June 23, 2019

Praying for The Coker family. So hard to put in words what a wonderful man John is. Ive known him and his family for many years. John was always there if you needed him. During our time of grief he was so loving and caring. Heaven gained an angel. John you will be so missed.

Crystal Howard Dillon

June 23, 2019

So sorry for ur loss my thoughts and prayers are with the family he was a great men he help me and my family when we was grieving over our loss and I appreciated it and Deann to he will be truly missed by many RIP Mr.Coker God bless this family

Tommy Lee Jones

June 23, 2019

Coker Famiy, John to me was always a role model during my youth growing up in Sanger.
My deepest sympathies to your family and may God be with yall in the days to come.

Angel Hansard

June 23, 2019

John was a great pillar to his family and his community. Prayers of comfort and peace to his loving wife and family.

Ruby Davis

June 23, 2019

Mr. Coker was always and will be known and loved for his kindness, strength, great compassion and servanthood to others. A great legacy, and well lived life he has left behind as an example for others to follow. May God bless and keep you!

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6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

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708 S 5th St, Sanger, TX 76266

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First Baptist Church

708 S 5th St, Sanger, TX 76266

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