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Bryan Duke Obituary

Duke, Bryan Jefferson
42, of Greenwood Village passed away April 23, 2008. He was beloved by his family and friends. A celebration of his life will be held on Thursday, May 1, 2008 at 11:00 a.m. at Hudson Gardens 6115 South Santa Fe Drive. Donations can be made to The Bryan Duke Memorial Scholarship Fund~ Guaranty Bank and Trust 3301 E. 1st Ave., Denver 80206 c/o Ann Schiermeyer.

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Published by Denver Post on Apr. 29, 2008.

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Grace

April 23, 2025

I´ll never be able to fully describe how much we miss you, Uncle Bug. I think about you every day.

Sophie Mattocks

January 19, 2025

Tonight I spent some time with Mom and Dad looking for a photo of you to display at my wedding next month. As we searched through thousands and thousands of snapshots of our lives we couldn´t help but laugh, smile, and of course cry at these perfectly preserved moments in time. Some days it feels like I haven´t spoken to you in years and others I feel like I could hop on a plane, land in Denver, and pick up where we left off. I may be older, taller, and hopefully wiser but I would give anything to go back to being a little girl just spend one more day with you. It´s been almost 17 years but there are days when the grief hits me like the day I found out you were gone.

I know you are still with me. I see you everyday in the world around me. In your awesome kids, in the red tailed hawks I see daily, in the good music, and in the fun our family has together (more regularly now that they all just live down the street). But that doesn´t stop me from missing you. And it won´t until I get to see you again. I love you Uncle Bug.

Ronan

January 10, 2025

I wanted to share this poem that my dad wrote to me before his death. If this doesn´t show how brilliant this man´s mind was, I don´t what would. Every once in awhile I return to this poem, and I picture myself, side by side with this man, whom I know only from pictures, "twisting open a star, and together learning how it works." I wish I had memories of you, but having these little windows into your mind gives me solace in knowing that my father was not just an exceptional man, but one with a heart so deep and pure- so boldly incongruous to the sickly world that he was born into. You were a special guy and I admire you with all my heart.

Grace

April 24, 2024

Yesterday I sat down and wrote down every happy memory we shared together. Enough to fill a whole page, but I wish we had more so much. Love and miss you always.

April 23, 2024

We miss you today and everyday

April 23, 2024

You´ve been on my mind a lot recently. I miss you and the tremendous joy you brought to the people that surrounded you everyday. The world is not the same without you in it. Miss you so much.

Kim Haffner

April 14, 2024

Bryan, It´s impossible to believe so many years have passed without you. Susan and I talk about you often.

April comes and we can´t help but remember. I was thinking about you recently when Edward Hopper´ Railroad Sunset came to mind. I remember going to the museum with you and Susan and both of us standing in awe of that piece. I think of you when I see Hopper´s art and I think of you every time I hear the Silencers and the Bodeans. It is the little things that trigger the memories....even after all these years.

I still miss you dear brother. We all do.
Love,
Kim Duke-Haffner

Ellen Brouse

May 6, 2023

Hey Bryan.
I recently had a medical emergency and just before I went into surgery, you popped into my head. I told my brother, if I was going into this scary thing with anyone, I wanted a doctor! We shared a laugh..
You continue to be an influence in so many lives.. thanks for being with me.. love, El.

April 8, 2022

your impact upon so many still lives on today. we miss you .

Candice M. Green

March 19, 2022

Dr. Duke was my mom's miracle worker! He operated on my mom's back in 2007 when no one else would and saved her life! Today, she is 91, and she still walks, drives, cooks, bakes, and lives. I think of Dr. Duke often, as does my mom. She cries when she recalls what he did for her! We will forever be grateful for Dr. Duke's gift, his passion, his compassion, his bravery!

Alex Grimm

February 15, 2022

Hello Bryan, my name is Alex. While we never met in person I feel like I already know you. From the time I met your niece Sophie she always talked so wonderful about the way you are. Hearing about your amazing music taste and how it influenced hers. To watching South Park with her as a kid. You are a great guy and I want you to know that you mean the world to her still today. The family that Sophie and I create will always have you a part of it. Till the day we meet.

Sophie M.

September 20, 2021

Thinking about you today Uncle Bug, can't believe it's been so long. In true Brouse woman fashion, I found myself telling stories about you at dinner and ended up crying some happy tears (in public of course). I wish you were here to celebrate life with us and impart some wisdom into this crazy world. I know you are looking down on us all, and I can't thank you enough for the love and time we were able to share, even if I selfishly wish we had had more. -Sass

Grace M.

February 10, 2021

Approaching 12 years without you. Wish you were here to experience this part of all of our lives, I graduated college! I know eduction was important to you, I wish that you could have been at my graduation (If I had one!) Forever thankful for the time we had together, can’t wait to see you again Uncle Bug -Gigi

Allison

July 22, 2020

Uncle Bryan,
I have been thinking a lot about you recently. I hear a ton of stories about you and how big your heart was. I don’t remember too much about you but the things I do remember always manage to fill me with joy. I know that you were a super intelligent man that never failed to impress people. You were my dads best friend, one of my sisters biggest mentors and someone that I look up too greatly. I miss you every day but I know you’re In a better place. I love you so much.

Adrienne

July 16, 2020

Uncle Bryan,
As I get older I get to learn more and more about you. About how you were the bestest friend to my dad. The ying to his yang. His guiding light. About how you always supported my sister when she needed it- even states away. I hear about your brain. Your extensive amount of knowledge. I am told about your empathy and ability to help others just by being around. About how you acted as a voice for the little guys. You were a legend.
I wish I could have known you more, and I miss you- the parts I remember and the parts I have learned about you. Thank you, for Ava and Ro, for supporting my family, for being the incredible man so many people knew you were. Rest easy, love you forever.

Lynne Klaus

July 1, 2020

Dear Bryan,

I think of you all the time. I remember your face, your voice, your stories and most of all just how special you became to me. I wish you had stayed. I've cried so and we all just miss you so much.

Lynne Klaus

Ronan Duke

June 2, 2020

June 1, 2020. Happy birthday dad! Today you turned 55 years old. I hope you got your balloons and letters. We miss you so much. Although I have a hard time remembering all of you and your voice, I have a picture of you and I that I look at every day. It reminds me to love and remember everyone I can. I love you so much.

Bob Dawg

April 23, 2020

Once we were playing pool and I was coming off of three back to back colds in 3 months time. I remember asking why he thought I kept getting sick, and what I should do. To which he replied "wash your hands". Still makes me laugh. Missing my best friend every single day. And each year on this day, I spend extra time relishing the time we had together. Peace Be To All. Bob Dawg

April 23, 2020

It make be 12 years later but you have not been forgotten. Jill Watkins, mom of your patient Melissa Paxton.

K Andresen

June 13, 2019

The Great Man still passes through my mind every so often and then the flood of really old memories follow. We are lucky to have had spent whatever little or large amounts of time with Bryan, that we did. He was a great guy.

Jožka Machová

April 24, 2019

Bryan we want you back. We miss you.
I am trying to heal up, but need help from above.
We pray for you. May the God has the best for you.
Amen.

Grace Mattocks

April 23, 2019

Uncle Bug, today officially marks the day that you have been gone for 11 years. I think about you every day and I am so thankful for the time that we had together. I hope you know how much I love you and hope you are doing well where ever you are. I will never forget the lessons you have taught me, and are still teaching me. I wish I could have you with me now as I grow up, but I know you had your own path to follow. I will always remember watching cartoons with you, and when you drove 2 hours away to get us geodes to crack open. You are and will be forever one of the best people I have ever known. I treasure my memories of you, and I can't want until I can see you again. Love you, always.

Bob Dog

April 23, 2019

He once taught me a better knot with which to tie my hook to my line. But not before he had out-fished me many times. Good fishermen never reveal their secrets. Except to the closest of friends. Makes me smile. Bob

March 16, 2019

Dr. Duke treated several family members. He took on the toughest cases (my mother), when noone else would and gave her the gift of quality of life. He was kind, humourous, caring, compassionate and an amazingly talented surgeon. He shared the excitement of parts of his life with us, which at the time was the impending birth of his son. Always professional, there was something that set him apart from others in his profession. He treated the person, the human being, the life being lived. Even if the situation was dire, he brought hope, optimism, and enjoyment/quality of life to those he treated. He was a remarkable doctor, human being and spirit; that will always be missed.

Toni Lyke

February 28, 2018

Dr. Duke was my surgeon many years ago. I remember him telling me that his wife was pregnant, he was so happy and excited to become a parent! He proudly showed me a picture of his beautiful wife. Dr. Duke inspired me, I was amazed that this brilliant surgeon could also be so very kind! I've come to this page many times. I'm writing this message for you, Ava. I want you to know that your dad spoke about loving you before he ever laid his eyes upon you.

Joy Garriepy

July 17, 2017

I am so saddened to hear of Dr Duke`s passing.. He was my surgeon over 10 years ago. He was kind, caring and compassionate. He was honest and straight forward. I trusted him completely. My heartfelt condolences to his family.

Jacque Bailey

April 27, 2017

Ava, I just read what you posted to your dad. That is so very sweet. My mom died when I was 22 (almost 28 yrs ago) - it's still tough. I'm glad that you have the redtailed hawk to see........... your dad was my Dr. & I thought he was the best neurosurgeon I ever met. I still miss him too. God bless you

Ava Duke

April 12, 2016

Dad, even with the time that has passed i still think about you every day. You are such a huge influence on my day to day life and I love the special moments where I see a retailed hawk. I know many people don't believe in spirit animals but it is something that helps me hold onto the memory of you. The memory is something that helps me get through each day and be the best person that I can be. Recently I have really been missing you. I miss how smart you are, I miss your thick hair, and I miss your unconditional love. Just know that you are greatly missed and even without you here you are still a huge impact on my life.
Love,
Ava (monkey)

September 1, 2015

He bought my home at 2026 Grape Street in Denver in 1999. I remember him as a nice person
Miriam Hard

Cheryl Stokes

April 10, 2014

As a testament to the brilliance of Dr. Duke and his excellence as a surgeon, I just learned of his passing this year although he operated on me over a decade ago. My heartfelt condolences to all of his family, friends and faithful patients. Not only was he kind, compassionate and highly skilled, but he was one of the most honest surgeons that I have ever known. He refused to perform additional surgery on me stating, in essence, that he would not risk paralyzing me for a "quick buck" - he told me, with a broad smile on his face, to "go to someone else, I'm sure they'll take your money!" With much respect and admiration, you are truly missed.

Dan Sommer

March 31, 2014

Dr Duke operated on my neck and back 2x in the early 2000's. He was the most kind and humble doctor I've ever met. His PA was a real hottie too. My wife also liked him, I think a little too much because she said he looked just like George Clooney and managed to hang out a little more whenever he was around :). The world needs more Dr Duke's....I have not found one like him since....and beleive me I've looked and looked for a new spine surgeon.

David Saucedo

September 1, 2013

I remember Dr. Duke as a brilliant and compassionate man. He performed on me a brain cirgury (biopsy) from a brain tumor back in 2005. He was a brilliant man always very helpful and down to earth. I was only 25 yrs when I new him and saved my life. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of his frineds and family. Dr. Duke touched many lives with his compassion and his special skills as a healer. May God continue to Bless You on your new journey Dr. Duke. I will always be thankful to you!! You saved my life.

Jim Norman

April 23, 2013

I think of you every day my friend. Today, on the anniversary of your departure, I celebrate your life. Love and miss you. Bob Dawg

Barbara Schlussler- herrick

April 13, 2013

Dr duke- I was a nurse who worked with you at Denver general in the 1990's- I just heard of your death yesterday-4/12/2013- from a co- worker. I am very saddened by your passing. You were a very caring and compassionate man who made all who worked with you feel a part of a great team in saving lives. I pray the family you have left behind are comforted in knowing how much good you did in your life. God bless you and those you have left behind.- Barbara RN-2 ICU- Denver general hospital

Katherine Korenke

December 12, 2012

Miss you Dr. Duke - Think of you everyday

Tim Cuthriell

April 6, 2012

Dr. Duke operated on my neck 12 years ago for a carreer ending injury I suffered as a Captain with the Denver Police Dept with 33 years of service. Dr. Duke was very compassionate and understanding regarding a serious injury that was going to end the best job I could ever imagine having.
Dr. Dukes surgery was an outstanding success. He eliminated much of my pain and gave me hope for a new beginning. I was calling Dr. Duke to look at my neck due to the return of pain and numbness in my left arm. When I heard of his passing I was shocked and deeply saddened. My thoughts and prayers go out to his wife Julie and his family. Dr. Duke touched many lives with his compassion and his special skills as a healer. May God continue to Bless You on your new journey Dr. Duke.

John Mark

September 9, 2011

I only moved back to Denver last month (August, 2011) after being gone 6 years and just this morning learned of Dr. Duke's passing. He operated on me several years ago and I not only appreciated what he did for me, but was so impressed by him as a person. I am so saddened to learn of this news and can only hope that his family is OK. Thanks for allowing me to expressed my thoughts!

John Mark
303-564-7218
[email protected]

Tommy Hintz

April 23, 2011

Bryan, I am thinking of you this day. It was three years ago but still feels like it was this morning's bad news. I miss you so very much. You still ... are the biggest inspiration to me in my life. You were more than just family to me. I love you.

Kenzie Markey

November 17, 2010

Bry I miss you every day i need you now and i know you are walking with me please show me the way. you were a beautiful person and im sorry i never told you how much i love you but i hope you knew....
I love you and miss you
Kenzie

Marcia Heydt

October 9, 2010

Dr. Duke conducted successful spinal surgery on me, 10 plus years ago. At the time of my operation, Dr. Duke was introduced to my two year old son that was suffering greatly from undiagnosed autism. Dr. Duke, not only helped me through the difficulty of my recovery after my neck surgery, he took the time to help me connect with his wife, Julie, an experienced speech pathologist. Julie in turn helped our family find the correct therapist and professionals to treat and diagnose our son whom today is a 13 year old young man that has come along so very far, due to early intervention, treatment and therapy. God Bless you Dr. Duke and you as well, Julie. Our family is forever grateful for your compassion. My heart is heavy knowing the world suffered the tremendous loss of a talented caring doctor such as, Dr. Bryan Duke. Your family is in my thoughts, Julie and children. Rest In Peace, Dr. Bryan...

Maggie Bolden

January 31, 2010

Dr. Duke performed successful surgery on me almost 10 years ago. Recently I hurt my back and I thought I would go and see him again; needless to say I was absolutely stunned and shocked when I read about his passing. The last time I saw him was when he was walking through Presbyterian/St. Luke's hospital. I stopped him in the hallway and told him what a wonderful surgeon he was. He was a darling man with such kindness and compasion. I am so fortunate to have had him as my surgeon.

Janelle Jander

June 11, 2009

June 11, 2009

I lost touch with Bryan and Julie over the years. It was just last week that I heard about Bryan and spent a sleepless night shocked and deeply saddened by the news. Bryan was that rare combination of brilliant, yet down-to-earth. He had a gift and could have done anything, but he chose to become a neurosurgeon and spend his life saving and improving the lives of others. The amazing thoughts and stories, written by all whose lives Bryan impacted, clearly expresses how much he will be missed by his family, friends, colleagues and patients. Bryan left a legacy for all of us to reflect upon as we take our journey through life. Bryan will live on in our memories and in his beautiful children. My deepest heartfelt sympathy goes out to Julie, their children and the rest of Bryan's family.

~Janelle O. Jander

Craig Fonda

March 31, 2009

Dr Duke was an outstanding person and surgeon. He was someone very special and will be missed by all who he touched. God watch over his family.

Amina Ghafur

March 8, 2009

Three days ago, I met an old friend who spoke of the loss of a great neurosurgeon he had befriended. For reasons I still cannot comprehend, I thought of Bryan. When my old friend confirmed this, I began to cry uncontrollably. Even though I haven't seen or spoken to Bryan in many, many years, I am so saddened by this loss.
I worked with Bryan during his residency at Denver Health. I was struck by his quiet wisdom, pleasing countenance and inner beauty. He was a magnificent surgeon and great friend.
My last words to him were at a Christmas party where he introduced me to his then Fiancé Julie. It brings me comfort to know that he found his "soul mate" and leaves the legacy of 2 beautiful children.
After reading all of the guestbook entries, I am not at all surprised by the enormous impact Bryan has had on so many. It is with regret that I didn't get to know his family. I hope you have found peace....

Doreen Rodaway

February 21, 2009

Oh my God he was Dr. Duke who looked like George Clooney. So handsome, so caring and I was so shocked to hear the news. What a loss of a talented, sweat man.

Doreen

Your Patient Jozka Mach

February 5, 2009

I have learned about You, Dr.Duke, just today, Th.-February 5, 2009, and it was painful news for me like the poke into the heart......

You have seen me last time, Dr.Duke, in October 2007 after I was hit in the car accident. I had asked You in my tears, if You are doing better than me (trying to be kidding) and if You are better after Your several months of sick leave.
You told me kindly and with the kind smile that Yes, that You are doing better. You did not want me to hurt any more than I'd been.
If I would only know, and if I would only know how to help You, I would not delay to save You anytime......

You hadn't suppose to go, You'd been too kind to be taken from here. But God did not need any more Proves from You, He has Giant Rewards for You and everyone who is hurting after You. I am sure Your children will extend You and Your Purpose so much. We have it here so hard without You! Sleep sweetly!

Kristen Lilyquist Gilligan

December 18, 2008

I met Dr. Duke in 2004 and as many have posted on this page....there is not enough wonderful words to describe him. He performed my successful surgery in September of 2004 and I will forever remember him. I live in Colorado and my family is in Minnesota and he made our experience, under the circumstance, amazing! He will forever be remembered by my family and our thoughts & prayers go out to his! With love & memories, Kristen

December 10, 2008

It seems like yesterday when I got the horrible news that Dr. Duke had passed. The month prior I was with my Mother, when she too passed and took her last breath. I still grieve for them both and still struggle to go on without them both. I pray they have found eachother and are together and can help each other in the ways they both helped me. It's hard to wait until it's my time to be with them both, knowing how much security they both offered me. May they rest in peace, and my thoughts go out to his family.

E. Bishop, Arvada, CO

Jonathan Gutierrez

October 1, 2008

i am deeply saddened to hear about Dr Dukes passing. He was a great man, smart and extremely passionate with great desire to help. I had a horrible back injury, he performed surgery witch was a complete success, in my eyes he saved my life. He was a compassionate understanding man who truly touched me. He will always be in my thoughts and prayers. My hart goes out to his family and loved ones.

Anne Marie Hukriede

September 9, 2008

This is much delayed....when the sadness lifts remember that friends are angles who lift us to our feet when our spirits have trouble remembering how to fly (I borrowed this from someone who's words are much more eloquent than mine) - I will always love you Julie, Ava and Ronan and I smile at how hopeful the future will be and how all the good of Bryan will stay in your hearts forever. Love for always - Anne Marie

Mary Dunn

August 26, 2008

There are not words to discribe all the good that Dr. Duke did. He is missed and our hearts go out to his family.

Steve Anderson

August 8, 2008

Certainly, all surgeons understand the vulnerability and helplessness that eventually leads to their patients sitting before them in gowns day after day after day. I have never understood how surgeons balance their humanity with the aura of infallibility that we patients probably ask of them. I have had 10 surgeries; my last was by Dr. Duke three years ago. He answered scores and scores of my questions since I am an analyst by trade – and then he did something amazing, he somehow let me know he understood the vulnerability I was feeling just by talking with me about my love of biking and the dog-eared Foreign Affairs Quarterly I had dragged in with me. It felt very reassuring, kind, and very human.

After the successful surgery that had included some rather anomalous complications, I asked him if he had come across complications like mine often. Dr. Duke was slouched in the chair, legs spread, and eyes bloodshot from morning surgeries, he looked at me for a bit, smiled, and said it was one of the unluckiest things he had ever seen. Then we both laughed.

I just heard of Dr. Duke’s death a few days ago and have found myself crying several times since. I still do. I cannot imagine the pain people close to him are going through. For many of us on this memorial page, we were just his patients. We knew but a tiny slice of his life, but he moved through our lives during very difficult and emotional times with such care, kindness, and humanness, that we never forgot it. We are all so profoundly sad. I hope that the stories on this page give his friends and family perhaps just a moment of peace that so many people felt so lucky to have known him.

Grace Mattocks

July 30, 2008

Uncle Bryan,
I miss you a lot! We named the bird club in memory of you. I love you soooo much!

Anne Higgins

July 28, 2008

I was extremely shocked and saddened to hear of Dr. Duke's death. He was such a great, compassionate man. He was the only doctor that believed me and took me seriously when I told him about my symptoms involving my neck. I feel like he saved my life after my surgery. Dr. Duke was truly an angel. Best Wishes to his family. He will be greatly missed!

Ava Duke

July 19, 2008

I miss you dad. I miss having you throw me up in the air. I miss your kisses and hugs. I found 2 baby hummingbirds. I see redtail hawks everyday. I will love you forever and ever. Ava

Poncietta Chavez

July 17, 2008

I only just learned of Bryan's passing yesterday and it was a great shock. Bryan was my doctor after I had an auto accident. I knew his dad at the time but did not make the connection. He was a special person and from everything I have read, I know that he has touched many lives. I certainly held him in high regards - even though he did not recommend surgery as he said it would not help - I appreciated his honesty and not trying to "make a buck". That speaks volumes of his integrity and work ethics. You will be greatly missed. My condolences to the Duke family, especially Tommy.

Poncie Chavez

Melissa Schoning

July 9, 2008

Dr. Duke- You gave me my life back almost two years ago. You were a wonderful surgeon and so geniune. You made me feel like a special patient and eased my family's minds knowing that I was in good hands. I have highly recommended you to others with back problems and so very sad that we have lost you. My heart and prayers go out to your family and the community. I hope you know what a wonderful blessing you were on this earth.

Starbucks Staff Tamarac #245

July 8, 2008

Bryan was a regular customer at the Starbucks I worked at. He was loved by our entire staff. I can't believe he is gone. He will be missed..

Theodor Wolf

June 22, 2008

I only knew Dr. Duke as a surgeon. He operated on my back. Thru the 4 times I met with him before, during and twice after, he was always a very positive, caring, understanding human being and truely was your friend. I only learned of his leaving a few days ago from a patient of Dr. Shogun and could not believe that such a wonderful person was taken from us at such an early age.
Dr. Duke - you are already missed by many, many people.

Kyrina Brotchie-Nesbitt

June 22, 2008

I will always remember your sincere kindness and the way you looked at my dear friend, Julie with such love. I was a big fan and appreciated your humble nature and sense of humor. My heart aches for Julie, Ava and Ronan who are in my thoughts and prayers daily.

Mary Kay Tomlinson

June 20, 2008

I am so saddened by the loss of Bryan Duke. He saved my life in 2000. What a brilliant light has been extinguished. I send my condolences to his family.

Jennifer Connors

June 20, 2008

I only had the chance to meet Bryan a few times, which is so sad to me, as I liked him very much. He has left behind an amazing legacy--his two beautiful children, Ava and Ronan, and his wife, my beautiful friend Julie, who happens to be the strongest woman I know. I send my love and support to you now and always.

Lori King

June 19, 2008

I was sorry to hear of Dr. Duke's passing. What a huge loss to the medical community, what a denial to so many that could have continued to be benefited by his help. He was such a blessing to my mom and we are so thankful that his urgency for a timely surgery helped her to walk again. Our family could see the sincerity he had towards our mother. He would even come out to the waiting room and wheel her into his office . What a huge loss and how sad we are about his passing. I am grateful that he knew the Lord. We know he was one of God's biggest blessings here on earth. Our heartfelt sympathy to his wife and children. Their pictures adorned his office. What a sweet family.
Lori King for Susan Maes, Dr. Duke patient

Michelle Buxton-Behmer

June 12, 2008

I was a patient of Dr. Duke. I consulted with him several times and was lucky enough to avoid surgery. I am also a nurse. Everyone in the professional community held him in the highest regard. My internal medicine Doc, nurses and physicians who worked with him, all had the utmost respect for his skill as a surgeon - but also the highest praise for his conservative approach toward his patients.

He achieved greatness and gave back to so many! I'm sure that he saved many lives in his lifetime.

I will keep his wife and children in my daily prayers.

Linda McBride

June 10, 2008

Doc Bryan, I was so blessed to have
met you this past year. You helped me so much because we both had
similiar struggles and our passion for
the medical field was incredible, you
as a surgeon and myself in pharmacy.
We both had that sick sense of
humour and could make jokes of just
about anything. Thanks for all the
chats at Starbuck's Tamarac Square
These days since you left us has been very hard, but thru you we find
memories to hang on to and reasons
to go on and accept your loss with
the passing of time. Sorry to all whos
life was touched and changed by this
great man who at times to me seemed larger than life. God's Speed..

Alex Haseltine

June 9, 2008

Cousin Bryan,
Thanks for the talk we had that time, when you told me what it takes to succeed in your studies. I made it. Thanks for turning me on to two of the best books I have ever read. Thanks for giving us two of the most beautiful wee children i have ever known. I sure am sorry you had to go, but don't worry man, your family will not suffer lack of love in your absence.

Andrea Danley Clyne

June 8, 2008

Bryan and I had many classes together at WRHS. I remember him as being incredibly funny and brilliant, a person you always looked forward to seeing because he was also humble and friendly. I offer my heartfelt sympathies to his family and friends for this profound loss. May you all find peace.

Linda Schenkein

June 7, 2008

I just heard today of Dr. Duke's death. He was the most remarkable doctor because of his kindness, human touch and incredible listening skills. He was a skilled surgeon who returned me to the pleasures of walking, gardening and enjoying the outdoors. I will be forever grateful to a very gifted man. I am deeply saddened that he is no longer with us send my heartfelt condolences and sympathy to his family.

Jerry Kazzaz

June 6, 2008

I only recently heard of Dr. Duke's passing. In 2002 he performed back surgery on me and I was in bad shape. His confidence and assurance in my recovery efforts really helped me during a difficult time in my life. You will be missed my friend and yes indeed I am playing piano again and did release 2 CD's since surgery. You will be missed. My heartfelt condolences to your family.

Deb Conley

June 2, 2008

I just heard of the Bryan's death today. I am sadden for his family and friends. He will be greatly missed. He touched the lives of so many. I was taken back and happily surprised to meet Bryan as a doctor (!) when accompanying a friend to see a doctor for a tumor on his spine. Thankfully, my friend's tumor was not cancer. Bryan recognized me and remembered me from school days. We met in junior high. He was so welcoming that day. Truly interested to hear a condensed update since seeing him in HS. He had just gotten married and was expecting their first child. He seemed so happy at that time. I hope he is in peace.

Deb Conley

Kelly, Jason, Grace, and Sophie Mattocks

May 31, 2008

From waterslides in Maui to dogsledding in Breckenridge, our family's best memories have been spent with Bryan, Julie, Ava, and Ronan.... Bryan, you were an amazing brother-in-law, a gentle, loving uncle, and a friend we were proud to have on our side. You will be missed more than you could ever imagine. We love you.

May 29, 2008

“We can't all be heroes, because somebody has to sit on the curb and applaud when they go by.” Mark Twain

I can only imagine how the streets leading through the gates of heaven overflow to welcome Bryan and applaud what he did with his life during his short time on earth.

Rich Favreau

May 28, 2008

I am truly sorry to hear of Dr. Dukes passing. He was a fantastic surgeon and person. He performed a spinal fusion on me a few years ago and was always kind and patient when answering my endless questions. He definitely went above and beyond for me. He will be truly missed. My prayers go out to his family.

Linda Smith

May 27, 2008

I just heard of the passing of Dr. Duke, I called his office to schedule an appointment for our son, who needed back surgery. Dr. Duke was an excellent surgeon and wonderful human being. He did neck surgery on my husband. Such a remarkable human being. He will be greatly missed.

Brenda Pearson

May 22, 2008

With greatest sympathy and heart felt sorrow. I extend my condolences to the Duke family and friends. I had the opportinity and fine privledge of working with Bryan for many years at Rose. He was an extraordinarily gifted surgeon and a good man. He will be missed!

Sincerely,
Brenda L. Pearson

julie stein

May 21, 2008

I will never forget Juanitas, carne asada, shooting pool; you added greatly to my life and will be remembered fondly. i am deeply saddened by the news. much heartfelt sympathy to the family.

jas

David Traylor

May 18, 2008

Bryan,
I just heard last night of your passing. I would like to extend my sincerest condolences to your family. Although it has been many years since our days together in Chemistry at WRHS, I still remember you as a very significant and unique individual. Back then you were brilliantly smart, but not boastful. You were always down to earth, funny and kind.

It’s not surprising to read of all the people you touched in your professional life and the impact you made. You had a gift not many people have – incredible intelligence and the ability to use it in the kindest way. I’m sure your children have all the characteristics that made you what you were and what you became.

I will certainly remember you.

Beth Strong

May 17, 2008

Although Dr. Duke was someone from our past, who performed a perfect surgery for my husband when he was diagnosed with a brain tumour, we were both stunned and deeply grieved to hear of his untimely death. We spent the evening reading all of the entries to this guest book, wiping the tears as we went. Like so many of you, we knew that Dr. Duke saved my husband's life, and he did it so elegantly, so gently, and with so much compassion. Although we've not met his family, we believe his goodness is reflected in each of you, and we trust that his gifts will be reflected in your lives.

As so many have said already, he was a very special man, and we grieve that "the best ones seem to spend the shortest time on earth." Thank you to his family for sharing him with us.

Allen Malask and Beth Strong

John & JoAnn Raney

May 17, 2008

We never had the opportunity to meet Bryan, however our thoughts and prayers are with Julie and the children and the rest of their extended family. God bless you all.. Uncle John Paul and Aunt JoAnn

Randy Spence

May 16, 2008

16 May 2008
I learned of the loss of Dr. Duke two days ago, I and my wife were numb at the news. Dr. Duke had operated on me three times to repair/remove a VP shunt;give me back a normal life;to see my grandchildren. He will be greatly missed by me and my family. Our sympathy to his family

Matthew Josey

May 13, 2008

What an honor it was to work with such a gifted doctor. Bryan you will be no only a loss to the Medical profession but also to humanity. My prayers are with your family in this time of need. God Bless you Bryan, and thanks for the great memories at Rose Medical Center.

Matthew Josey RN BSN CNOR.

Tanna Massar

May 12, 2008

Bryan was truly a gifted and brilliant surgeon. After he operated on my neck, through an old scar from the previous surgery, it was done so beautifully, you couldnt even tell where the new incision was made. I remember he and I laughing as I told him in my post-op appt, that since he did so well with the new scar, he could have maybe done some work in some "other areas"! Bryan was a wonderful and compassionate man and I was terribly saddened by his passing. My thoughts and prayers are with his family, friends, staff and colleagues.

Butch

May 10, 2008

Dukie-
You changed my career, my life. Memories of residency, nights out and family fun will be treasured forever. I remember the night you showed me Julie’s engagement ring (stuffed in your pocket in a Ziploc!)- I did not know then that she would become a forever friend, thank you. Our little boy has lost his godfather and our family has lost an amazing person that we were proud to call our friend. Blessings to Jules, Ava and Ronan. It will never be the same, we love you. Godspeed.
Butch (with a “ba-zillion” kids)

Larry Darnell

May 9, 2008

Dr. Duke was a wonderful man and awesome doctor. I trusted him with my life and he did not fail me. He will be missed very much by not only you his family but all who he touched in his short life.

Rosie Stringfellow

May 9, 2008

I woke one morning and had so much pain in my right arm that I couldn't lift it. I later learned that I had three cervical discs that were ruptured and pressing against my spinal cord. My mother had died while in the hospital being treated for a ruptured lumbar disc, so I was beyond terrified to learn of my condition. Almost no one could have convinced me that I would be ok, but Dr. Duke did. He assured me that he would take care of me and he could heal my pain. He had performed the same surgery on a dear friend on mine who had recovered amazingly well, so I knew I was in good hands.

Two years later, I have my life, my neck, and my arm back. Every time I look at the nearly invisible scar on my neck, I'm so grateful he was my doctor and he took such good care of me. My heart aches for his family and everyone who loved him. He was such a good man, and I will remember him with my deepest gratitude for the rest of my life.

Neal Bobrick

May 9, 2008

I am the father written about in an earlier post and as my daughter said, I owe my life to Dr. Duke. When presented with all of the very scary options for my surgery, Dr. Duke gave me the confidence to not only choose the most risky procedure, but to do it with the knowldege that all would be ok. I can live a normal life today because of the incredible skill of this fine Doctor. Every time I do something I shouldn't be able to do today, I think about and thank Dr. Duke for the opportunity to live! My prayers and thoughts go to his family and friends.

Lauren Bobrick

May 8, 2008

Dr. Duke saved my fathers life. He had a cyst in his brain, and by the time Dr. Duke saw him he was losing his motor functions..he couldn't walk...it was the scariest time in my life When my dad was being rolled away into surgery, I asked Dr. Duke if my dad was going to die. He crouched down, put a hand on my shoulder, and told me he wouldn't let that happen. He was an incredible man and because of him, my father is still with me today. My condolences go out to his family and friends. I am truly sorry for your loss.

Kim Haffner

May 8, 2008

Bryan was my brother and someone I knew I could always trust to be there for me if I needed him - just like he was there for all of his friends, family and patients.

I will never be able to look at the art of Edward Hopper without pausing to remember Bryan and Susan and wonderful times. I'll never look at "Railroad Sunset" quite the same way.

More importantly, when I look back on fond memories of time I spent with Bryan, I know a link remains. . . a bridge from the past to the future and that my brother will live on, in my heart (and the hearts of all of us who loved him)

All my love to Julie, Eva and Ronan

Linda Mooney

May 8, 2008

i put my life in his very capable hands and trusted in him completely, I came through the surgery with flying colors and I thank him for that. Sorry for your loss and the loss to all of his patients.

Lea Carroll

May 7, 2008

Bryan was my uncle. Every time I would see him he would hug me and say he loves me. He was a good dad and uncle I miss him. I love you Ava,Ronan, and Aunt Julie.

Benton Greer

May 7, 2008

After being told by several other physicians that our mother had no hope for reprieve from her fully-incapacitating dimentia, Dr. Duke took the time to listen to us and understand our mom's condition. The result was NPH surgery performed by Dr. Duke that gave her back her life -- her miraculously-restored, fully-functioning life! We live daily with this great and amazing gift that Dr. Duke has given us and not a day passes without recognizing that. He treated us with respect, compassion and honesty. Our thoughts are with his family and friends who have lost such a caring and gifted man. Please know that Dr. Duke's amazing legacy continues on in the lives of those he has touched and that every day we remember him and thank him for this unbelievable gift.

Doris Manning

May 7, 2008

I just learned of Dr. Duke's passing and would like to send my sincere sympathy to his family. He was a very compassionate person and was grateful for his skills during my surgery. He will be missed.

LINDEN BROUSE

May 7, 2008

LIFE HAS A VERY DECEPTIVE WAY OF FLOWING PAST US.ONE DAY IT IS A FLOWER, THE NEXT A FALLING LEAF. ONE DAY IT IS A BABY’S CRY, THE NEXT A WRINKLED FACE. EACH OF US TRAVELS ON A JOURNEY. SOMETIMES THE ROAD IS LONG, SOMETIMES IT IS UNFAIRLY SHORT. FORTUNATELY, NO MATTER HOW LONG OR SHORT, NO MATTER HOW DIFFICULT, ALL ROADS LEAD US HOME. I AM NOT SURE WHAT HOME IS LIKE. WE CAN ONLY IMAGINE THAT IT IS A FAR BETTER PLACE THAN OUR MORTAL MINDS CAN UNDERSTAND. BRYAN MADE IT HOME A LITTLE FASTER THAN WE WOULD HAVE LIKED. BUT NOW, HE WILL NEVER HAVE TO LEAVE HOME AGAIN. I AM VERY PROUD AND HONORED TO SAY THAT BRYAN IS MY SON-IN-LAW AND THROUGH HIS MARRIAGE TO MY DAUGHTER JULIE HAS BLESSED US WITH TWO BEAUTIFUL AND WONDERFUL GRANDCHILDREN, AVA AND RONAN. GOOD-BYE BRYAN. WE ALL LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU, BUT WE WILL SEE YOU AGAIN, SOMEDAY.

Jacqui Vestal

May 7, 2008

You saw me through three surgeries with the utmost care, kindness and compassion. I always felt positive knowing you were taking care of me. You will forever hold a special place in my heart. May God be with you and your family.

Donna Howe

May 7, 2008

The Only one I trusted fully and felt safe in his care. I'm so sorry for your loss. He was truly amazing at being a doctor and a person.
I'm just in shock.

Carla Hartman

May 7, 2008

I just heard an hour ago that my/our doctor is no longer with us. Tears haven't stopped yet. My verbal response: "But I owe him my life, this is so sad!" So sad to not be able to do anything for him.

Strange how a man who I didn't see much of meant so very much to me. How I looked forward to seeing him during each of my annual checkups--and, so I thought, any day now, as I have just reached the five-year mark after he removed my softball-sized meningioma. And, as I am thirteen years older, it seemed comforting that he would be there in the years to come to monitor this remarkably recovered head of mine.

The twinkle in his eye, his beaming brightness, kindness, compassion, concern, gentleness--and his skill--now lost to so many who would have so benefitted from it all.

I am forever grateful to him, and my heart goes out to his family, friends, staff, and patients.

May he rest in peace.

Gina Clement

May 7, 2008

Dr. Duke was my surgeon and performed brain surgery on me almost five years ago. I was so very fortunate to have such a talented surgeon. I am so saddened by this loss. I send heartfelt sympathies from my family to his. May God grant you peace.

Jill Watkins

May 7, 2008

In August 2007 my 20 year old daughter who was also 8 months pregnant with my second grandchild was diagonsed with a brain tumor. We met Dr. Duke at Rose Medical Center and from the very beginning felt as if we were in the hands of a skilled and very compassionate man. My grandson was born a week later and then Dr. Duke performed the surgery a week after the birth. He walked us through every process and possibility and made sure we were comfortable and understood everything before moving forward. We will miss Dr. Duke and pray for his family. Dr. Duke was carried by the Father's hands on this earth to perform the gift he was given and has a special place in Heaven.

michelle parker

May 7, 2008

Dr. Duke was also my surgeon. He perfomed a thire ventricularostomy in 2005.He was a very caring doctor. I was able to go into surgery with no worries. I am still ongoing treatment and was supposer to have another surgery done. My heart goes out to his family.

Suzy Humble

May 6, 2008

Rest now my friend, you are always in my heart.
Love and Light to Bryan's beautiful family.

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