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Mom
August 1, 2025
Dearest Luke. Know you are glorious with Jesus...and my earth bound body still misses you. Love you so much
Mom
August 1, 2024
Visitors. I am Luke's mom. If you happen upon this page, please let me know.
[email protected]
Mom
August 1, 2024
It's almost the anniversary of the day of you death. I'm so sorry I wasn't a better mother. You were a precious boy. Know you are with Jesus...and that you now have no pain, instead eternal joy. I miss you
Lou Gold
August 1, 2023
Again ... almost your birthday. Miss you so much
Mom
If you were Luke's friend you can contact me at
[email protected]
Mom
August 1, 2022
Dearest Luke. Today you Grandmother died. So close to the day you went to Jesus. Know you welcomed her to peace and joy.
I miss you every day. And love you every day
Lou Good
August 1, 2021
Over the years I have heard from several of Luke's friends ... and heard wonderful stories that included aspects about Luke that delighted my heart. If you would like to share a bit about Luke, you can reach me at
[email protected]
.Mom
August 1, 2021
Dearest Luke, 16 years have past ... and the hole in my heart has softened with memories of you. Yet pain and emptiness remain. Wish so much you were here I know you are in heaven with Christ and that I will see you soon. Think of you every day
Lou Gold
August 2, 2020
Dearest Luke. How I wish it was August 3, 2005 ... and there was something I could do to hold you in my arms and give you my life. Saw your orange butterfly this morning ...and grateful for your touch. I love you Beautiful Son
Lou Gold
May 24, 2020
You have been gone almost 15 years
...and your birthday is just a few days away. You are so missed...every day.
Will be with you soon
Lou Gold
July 29, 2018
Dearest Luke. Almost 13 years have passed... and you are in my heart every day. Feels like we lost you just a few months ago. I love you, mom
Mom
August 4, 2016
I so miss you, Luke.
August 2, 2015
Dear Visitors, I am Luke's mom. If you would like to contact me - you can reach me at [email protected]. Would be so delighted to hear from you.
August 2, 2015
Dearest Luke - in two days - you will have been gone 10 years. I wish I could go back 10 years .... and been by your side on that day ... and perhaps avoided your death. I miss you so much - every day. I carry you in my heart every moment ... and yet the weight of the emptiness is almost too much to handle. How I wish things were different ... and you were here. I love you, mom
April 6, 2015
Dearest Luke, Yesterday was Easter - and with all the holidays ... there is such a sadness. And soon it will be May ... and your birthday. So wish I could give you my life energy ... and have you on this earth to continue the work you started. Have heard from several people about how much you influenced their lives with your kindness, support and energy. I miss you, Mom
October 21, 2014
Sweet Luke, It's Oct 21, 2014 ... and Halloween is just around the corner. I have the last Halloween card you sent - just a year before you died ... and put it out every season so that I can "see" you ... just a bit. Understand now that the hollowness in my heart will never fill ... and it's a part of you that is within me. For that reason - it will never go away. I know my time is getting shorter on this earth ... and that seeing you again will be more joy than is imaginable. I loved you from the moment I knew you were alive within me ... and love you now as you are within me in so many ways. You are my heart. Mom
May 28, 2014
My Darling Luke, Today is your birthday ... and after all these years ... it still seems like a horrible nightmare. I think of you every day ... and would give anything to have been a better mother. Realize now that work is of little importance ... only our children and extended family have any value. I would give up my life - this moment ... if you could have one joyful day on earth. How you suffered the last years - and none of us knew what to do. You were such a beautiful spirit - and then the demons that haunted you came in and took our precious boy and tormented him. I think of you every day and some days can hardly bear the pain of loosing you. When people ask how many children I have - the response is always the same. Two. One is with God and the other works at Kohl's and has two little children. Don't understand why or how this happened. There is a hole is my heart and spirit that will be filled only when I'm with you again. And when that happens ... I will never leave you. I loved you the moment you were born. It was the most glorious day in my life. And now that day is just a day of deeper sorrow. I miss you,Luke. Mom
Karrie (once Karrie Smith) Christen
July 16, 2013
I only heard of your passing now. I'm so sorry. You are one of those people I knew and even though after hs we lost touch, I always hoped we would run into each other again. I loved growing up with you. You were always so sweet to me when we were little kids. You were my friend when I didn't have many. Starting at polton was hard for and you made it better. Thank you.
August 4, 2012
Dear Visitors, I am Luke's Mom - and would love to hear from you. Please contact me at [email protected].
Mom
August 4, 2012
My Dearest Luke, THe headaches today have been terrible - and then I realized that this is the anniversary of your death and know that my heart is as sorrowful today as it was 7 years ago. There hasn't been a single day since you left - that I haven't thought of you. So wish I could smile oore- but the pain of loosing you is still too strong., Why did you leave? I thought we would be together - forever? I thought you would be the center of my life - forever? Please show me something that lets me know you are with God ... and that you are out of pain. I love you so much
Mom
November 27, 2011
Dear Visitors, I am Luke's Mom - and would love to hear from you. If you'd lke to reach me - please send me a note at lou.gold@goldbridgesassociates.
Mom
July 9, 2010
Dearest Luke, It's always difficult in July - knowing August is coming and the anniversary of your death is here - again. But then, your birthday, Mother's Day, Christmas, Easter ... and often any single day of the week ... brings all the joy of your life to the surface ... and then I cry because I can't hold you. I love you - constantly.
Jeff Winsor
July 7, 2010
Gold Family,
I have been thinking about Luke for years wondering what he was up to. I wouldn't know where to begin to tell you what a wonderful friend he was to me and to express my deepest sympathies for your loss. I enjoyed the time that I spent at your house with you all, and Luke in high school. I used to believe that his last name was gold because that was what his heart was made of! I am so sad, but am also grateful to of been able to spent time with him and your family. Please know he, and you all, are in my thoughts, heart, and prayers.
Mom
February 24, 2008
Dearest Luke,
Things are better - and worse. I've been going to church for the last 5 months - but of course you know that. I am there to thank God that you are no longer suffering and that you are now in a state of joy and peace with God. I long for the day that I too will leave this earth - and see you hand extended as I move towards Christ and our eternal joy. I love you more each day - and miss you more each day.
Mom
January 11, 2008
Precious Luke,
I have visited this page several times over the last year - and decided then that it would be best if I didn't keep writing to you. There has not been a day in the last 2 years and 4 months that I haven't missed you. If I could give you my life this very moment so that would be another opportunity for those who love you - to touch you. I miss you so much - and it doesn't heal. I still sometimes think this is a long nightmare and I'll wake up and you'll be on the phone or I'll be going to the airport to pick you up. Know that you were suffering and believe that you are at with Jesue and at peace - and that is far better for you. But please know - you are always in my heart - and I wish I could stop crying for you. I miss you so much.
Mom
October 5, 2006
Dearest Luke,
It's 14 months - and I'm not crying very day - but several times a week. As you know, when I'm alone in the car ... I feel both your presence - and the emptiness. I keep looking for a sign in the clouds or the butterflies ... and try to deciper messages from you. Believe you may be far beyond touching this world - and in a glorious place with God. I don't want to pull you back from your peace - but know that I would give up the air I breath to touch your face just once. Your memory will never die. I love you so.
Mom
September 14, 2006
My Sweet Son,
It's over a year now ... and so often I can't believe you are not here. I'm stuggling with this horrific loss. You were always a spirit that lived within me. While I didn't appreciate it - you are the great love of my life. I would give up the air I breathe - just to have you with me for a few minutes on this earth ... and then have you take me with you. Don't think I could get up in the morning without the anti-depressants - miss you so much. Please stay close to me - I love you more than anyone in the world. I pray that you are with God - and experiencing job beyond human belief. So wish we could be together.
August 17, 2006
Oh Luke, I miss you so much. I cry and cry ... and nothing will bring you back. Know you have moved beyond all the pain and deamons - and am grateful that you are in a better place. Just wish you weren't so far away. I love you, Mom
Mom
July 31, 2006
Sweetheart,
One year ago today - was the last time I heard your voice. The deamons were tormenting you and the violence and pain spewed from your soul. I had no idea this would be the last time I would hear your voice. So wish I could go back and fly out and hold you and make the pain go away. We are approaching the first anniversay of your death - and now all the grief seems to be flooding my spirit every moment. How I wish you were here. I love you so. Jann at the RMN has set this little spot - so that I can write to you as long as I'm here and you're "there". It's our private place - and I pray there will come a time when I won't cry as I talk with you.
I LOVE YOU, Mom
July 28, 2006
Precious Luke,
We are now approaoching the first anniversary of your death. It seems like it was an "eternity" ago - and also as if it happened lat week. Can't seem to stop grieving - yet I do cry less. I know that your spirit is finally free of the "rented body suit" that caused you so much pain - and I'm so grateful for that. You are such a magnificent being - having you free is truly a comfort. The grief come from not being able to talk to you, touch you ... just have time together. Our last encounters were difficult because of the "demons" ... yet I know that we both always knew that our deep love could not be diminished by the bi-polar. Please continue to stay with me ... I miss you so much.
Mom
July 13, 2006
My Darling Luke,
Have wanted to send you a note on Mother's Day (you always sent such special gifts), your birthday (the most important day in my life) and again on my birthday (seemed so empty ... could not find joy in any type of celelbration - just wanted it to be over). And now, we are approaching the first anniversay of the day you died. Still have tears every day - but only you know that. Struggling to find the energy to keep on living. Working so very hard to accept your death - so I can release you. I know that you have not left us - you are just across the threshold. Also believe that we have a deeper connection now - and that we can be with each other in so many ways - every day. I love you my precious son!
Mom
April 16, 2006
Dearest Luke,
It's Easter - and I so long for resurrection. I miss you more every day ... and can't let you go. I love you with all my spirit - and so long to see you and be with you. If you truly have peace ... I can live with the pain of not seeing you become the man I knew you could be. Why did you have to suffer so very much? Why couldn't I take this from you?
Lou Gold
March 26, 2006
Lucas, It's now seven and a half months and I realize that the pain of loosing you will be with me all the days of my being - along with the joy of your life. THere hasn't been a single day that you haven't been with me ... over and over again. So wish I could be with you. I love you so, Dear Luke!
Mom
January 2, 2006
My Dearest Son,
It's been almost five months ... and I can still hardly face the days. I know that you said you are with me ... and that somehow helps me to get up each morning. I love you so very much ... and can hardly wait to be with you.
Marcela Walker
August 29, 2005
Dear Lou,
I am deeply sadded by your loss. Know that all who love you dearly are here for you in your time of need. My prayers are with you and your family.
Mary Ann Petrakovich
August 22, 2005
Dearest Lou,
My heartfelt deepest sympathies to you and your family on the greatest loss a mother could ever experience. Your precious son Luke is now an angel in heaven to watch over you. May God grant you strength and peace during this sad time.
Sincerely,
Kelly Yiu
August 17, 2005
Lou,
Our hearts go out to you and your family - we are so very sorry for the loss of Luke. All of you will be in our thoughts and prayers. - Kel, Bing & Family (8/15)
Janet Deshotel
August 17, 2005
I am so sorry for your loss...but I will rejoice with you in Luke's victorious entry into the kingdom of God. I never met him...but heard many stories about him from my dearest friend, Lou.
Lou, I will hold you and your family in my prayers...-jd (8/15)
Spodra Eglite
August 17, 2005
Nate and family ~
I was very saddened when I heard that Luke passed away. My thoughts are with you and I am sending you support and strength through this difficult time. (8/15)
Judy Gray
August 17, 2005
Dear David,LOU,Nathan and family. I was greatly saddened to learn of the passing of Luke. He was such a delightful young man. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Judy Gray (8/11)
Anthony S. Montez
August 17, 2005
I am so sorry. (8/10)
Debbie Carter
August 17, 2005
I am sorry to hear about your loss. God is with each and eveyone of you. My prayers are with you and the family. God has his angels arms of comfort around all of you. Love Debbie Carter (8/10)
susan hildebrand
August 17, 2005
Luke touched all of our lives when he had a space at The Collection. We were all amazed at the depths of his knowledge and understanding of art and antiques. We will miss his presence here and he will be in our hearts forever. Susan, Michael and the entire staff of The Collection. (8/10)
Alfonso Maldonado
August 17, 2005
Dear Family of my Friend Luke,
It is impossible to describe the absence Luke has left in all our lives. His deep understanding of our delicate human nature and persistent inspiration will forever remain in my heart. Alfonso (8/10)
Jaimie Abraham & Natalie Pientka
August 17, 2005
Nate, We are very sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Jaimie & Natalie (8/10)
Sarah, Steph, Spo, Deb, Megs, & Jen
August 17, 2005
Nate, On behalf of all the ‘girls’ we would like to send our warmest thoughts and prayers to you. We have nothing but fond memories of you and your family through high school, etc. Please know that we are all here for you and thinking of you during this trying time. Love Always, Sarah, Steph, Spo, Deb, Megs & Jen. (8/10)
Patricia Carter-Harris
August 17, 2005
Lou, I would like to take this time to tell you how sorry I am to hear of you loss. May God keep a watchful eye over you and your family. God Bless you (8/10)
Carolyn & Dave Kimberly
August 17, 2005
Dear Louise, Dave & Mathew, Dave and I just saw the terrible news that you lost your beautiful son. Our son, Steve is about his age, and we cannot even imagine the grief you must feel. You are right. He is with God, and you will see him again. To me, he looks a lot like your brother, Peter John.I’m sure you can see him in Matthew, too. We have missed you at the reunions. It would be wonderful to see you again. Old friedships, like parental love, live forever. Thinking of you with affection, Dave & Carolyn Kimberly (8/10)
David Peterson
August 17, 2005
I’m extending our sympathies to the Gold family on behalf of David, Sherry, Lauren and Ricky Peterson. (8/10)
Don & Virginia Roe
August 17, 2005
May God be with you. Virginia and Don Roe and Claire Fields (8/9)
Rich & Melody Jenny
August 17, 2005
Dear Louise and Family, We were so sorry to read the notice of the loss of your son Luke. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time. We wish you God’s many rainbows!! (Rich worked with Lew Schaub at Empire Magaizine) 8/9
Andrew & Linda Au
August 17, 2005
Dear Dave & Lou,
We were very shocked and saddened to hear of Luke’s passing. Our hearts go out to your family. I have known Luke since he was born. I still remember visiting your home in St Louis, his studying in London, his visits to our home in San Francisco, his adventurous spirit. He is now with God and may he rest in peace. (8/9)
Chuck and Maureen Wennogle
August 17, 2005
David, Louise, Nathan and all the Gold family,
We were so very saddened to hear of Luke’s death. Please know that he will be remembered in our hearts, minds and prayers. We hope that you will all find some comfort during this difficult time as you remember and celebrate his life. May he rest in peace. (8/9)
Love, Chuck and Maureen Wennogle and family
David and Sherry Hitztaler
August 17, 2005
To Louise, David, and Nathan, Our hearts ache for you all with the loss of your talented and unique son and brother. We remember when he was born and the joy that his birth brought. May the peace that is beyond all understanding be yours in this tragic time and may you know that friends from all corners of your lives weep with you. Our prayers are with you. (8/9)
Fondly, Dave and Sherry
Bonnie J. (Burke) Stephenson
August 17, 2005
Dear David, Louise, Sandy, Dale, and Mary,
Read Luke’s obituary today and am deeply saddened for all of you. The only time I met him he was in a stroller and we met up with you— David and Louise at an art show, if I remember correctly. Sending prayers for each of you. From my heart, Bonnie (8/5)
Trisha and Jim Jorgensen
August 17, 2005
Our hearts break for the family of young David...just know that God chooses those who are special. (8/5)
Jennifer Featherstone
August 17, 2005
Lou:
You are in my thoughts and prayers. You have given me such strength over the years, I only hope the strength from my prayers will find their way to you.
Tracey Mahanna
August 15, 2005
Lou,
I was so sadden to hear of your loss while I was on vacation. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
~Tracey
Joe McCullough
August 12, 2005
The Gold Family,
Luke and I went to school in Boulder and countinued our friendship even now. I am sorry for your loss and to not have his smile and laugh around. I am lucky to have spent the time I did with him.
Dan Riley
August 12, 2005
Dear Lou -
I was deeply saddened to hear of the passing of your son. My deepest condolences go out to you and your family. My prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Gail Hood
August 11, 2005
My heart hurts so badly for you and your family. We all love you so very much and want to be there for you during this time of incredible loss. I hope that is what you will let us do.
pat roles
August 11, 2005
To the family of Luke Gold,
I remember Luke from Overland HS. I am deeply saddened by his loss. What a wonderful young man! Please know that you are in my prayers. I know that he is in a far better place and not suffering anymore.
Stacey Newberry
August 10, 2005
Dear Gold Family,
Luke and I went to school together from elementary through high school. I was saddened to learn of Luke's passing, but am also greatful that I had a chance to know him and seeing his picture reminded me of our younger days, and fond memories of Luke. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.
Best wishes,
Stacey (Brown) Newberry
Janie Felix
August 10, 2005
My dear Lou,
I am so incredibly saddened to hear the news of the loss of your son. While I trust and believe that he is indeed, in a better place, the pain is still incredibly real. I pray that your gentle spirit will help heal your breaking heart. Just remember, one moment at at time.
You, Ron, and the rest of your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I am always here for you.
Love,
Janie
Chris Alexander
August 10, 2005
Lou,
Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. May your son rest in peace. God Bless you and your family! Love, Chris
Jonathan Graves
August 10, 2005
I will miss you Luke in the time I knew you it was a pleasure of mine knowing I had the chance to have you in my life. I will miss you. You will always be in my heart. :-)
Jonathan
Brooke Taggart
August 9, 2005
Dearest Aunt Lou, Dr. Gold & Nathan,
My deepest felt sympathies to all during this sad time. My memories of Luke are fond and full of enthusiasm & fun, as we spent most our time toghether as children. I send my love & support and may Luke's light shine upon us all.
Kay and Dennis Kane
August 9, 2005
Dear Lou and Dave and Nathan,
We wish we could transport ourselves to be with you for the funeral service tomorrow night. Luke came into the world with amazing talents and such incredible challenges. We know how hard bipolar is to deal with and can only offer you understanding and deep sympathy.
Looking back through old pictures has brought back wonderful memories of our early years in Denver when we spent so much time together. Remember that wonderful joint birthday party for Kristin and Luke's 1st birthday... and all our joyous Christmas celebrations. We love you all so much. Our thoughts and prayers are with you today, tomorrow, and always. Hope to talk to you soon.
Cynthia Railsback
August 9, 2005
Lou and David,
I am so very sorry about Luke. He was a beautiful spirit and a wonderful young man. His smile, his thoughtfulness, his intelligence and wit will always stand out in my memories of him. He will be deeply missed.
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers,
Cynthia
Sue & Gary Fabschutz
August 9, 2005
Lou,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Gary and I are so very sorry about Luke. He was such a special young man. love, Sue
Jerrod Johnson
August 9, 2005
My heart goes out to Luke’s family. Luke’s unmatched passion and effervescent soul will be deeply missed. He left an indelible impression on those who have been touched him. As many of you know, one of his enduring marks was through the creation of The Positive Futures Fund, a scholarship at the University of Colorado. I thought I would share the info to donate in Luke’s honor and support his dedication to human rights:
Make check payable to: CU Foundation
Write in Memo: Positive Futures Fund
Mail to: CU Foundation c/o Mary McGhee 1305 University Ave. Boulder, CO 80302
Shannon Fortunato
August 9, 2005
Lou,
I am saddened to hear of the loss of your son Luke. You and your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Kim Springer
August 9, 2005
Lou,
Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time of loss.
Stacie Hemann
August 9, 2005
Lou,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult period. Know that Luke is at peace and that he is enjoying a new life free of all pain and sorrow.
Becky Tise
August 8, 2005
Lou, you are so large in my thoughts right now. I know the struggles you have faced, and I hope you can find comfort in the peace that Luke has surely found. The obituary was a wonderful tribute to his life. Sending you love and light. -Becky
Sue Kinack
August 8, 2005
Lou, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Although I didn't personally know Luke, I remember seeing your eyes light up every time you talked about him. Please know that we are all thinking of you and are here for you.
Christine Hazen
August 8, 2005
Lou, I'm praying for you and your family during this difficult time. Take care, Christine
Marilu Gonzalez
August 8, 2005
Lou, my heart goes out to you in this time of pain.
Allen Ellison
August 8, 2005
I knew Luke as a vibrant, dynamic and passionate guy who expressed more and experienced more in his short journey than most do in a lifetime. He will be missed. His pain is gone now, his struggle, finally, at peace.
Devon Dougherty
August 8, 2005
Luke was my best friend and I will miss him every day of my life. He truly was a wonderous and joyful person. I'll always remember his warm smile and kind heart.
Dr. Gold and Lou, please accept my warmest of condolences for your loss. He will be greatly missed by all who were touched by his loving graces.
Paula Strack
August 8, 2005
Lou, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Candace Cornell Kristensson
August 8, 2005
Dr. Gold and Ms, Gold,
I wanted to write at say I am so sorry for your loss and the world's loss at losing someone as driven and passionate as Luke. I am saddened and shocked to hear Luke is gone.
Candace
Barbara Simpson
August 8, 2005
We love you so dearly, and we will all cherish each other more to honor the gift of his life.
brigitte culberson-austin
August 8, 2005
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there.
I do not sleep
I am a thousand winds that swiftly blow.
I am the diamond glint
on newly fallen snow.
I am the sunlight
on ripened grain.
I am the soft and gentle autumn rain
When you wake from sleep in the early morning hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft, starlight at night.
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there.
I do not sleep.
Anonymous (slightly altered)
Journey of Hearts A Healing Place in CyberSpace
Judy Jordan
August 8, 2005
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Beth Cunningham
August 8, 2005
My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family always.
Jerri Knipstein
August 8, 2005
Lou - I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my sincere condolences. Jerri
Belinda Winfield
August 8, 2005
Lou,
Please know my deepest sympathy and heartfelt prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Ronald Williams
August 7, 2005
Luke is in a better place today. He is at peace. Please carry that thought with you.
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