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for Aaron Harkness
December 27, 2007
Dear Harkness Family, Leslie and Little Aaron,
I know of your great loss, and the pain that you are going through, for I also have lost a son. I know that nothing I can say will bring Aaron back. I just want you to know that I will miss Aaron's mischievous smile, his willingness to help everyone. I know of Aaron's tender heart, for he has touched my life and many others. I know of Aaron's knowledge of forgiveness, for it has strengthened mine. I know of his love for his Father in Heaven. I know of his unconditional love for his Mother, his Father, his Brother, his Sisters, his Wife and his Son. I know that he loves each and everyone with all his heart. No one can fill the enormous void that has been left with the passing of this "great man". The only way to try to fill his void is to love one another, give compassion to others, give of yourself like Aaron did. This is the only way to fill this enormous void. I know that the Lord greeted Aaron with open arms, for he knows of Aaron's Heart.
Love....
Erin Gregerson
December 19, 2007
Leslie, Aaron Jr and the rest of the Harkness family,
Words cannot express my sorrow and sympathy for you at the loss of Aaron. I worked as the hairdresser at Discovery Ranch for a year and a half and Aaron was my absolute favorite person there. He was always so kind and helpful and really seemed to truly care about the boys. I loved being able to get to know him and cut his hair for him a few times. He was such an amazing person and he will be truly missed. Again, I am so sorry for your loss and truly thankful that I was able to know this wonderful man. You will be in our prayers.
Jenny Casstevens
December 13, 2007
To Aaron's family, I am deeply sorry for your loss. My name is Jenny, and I was a student at Discovery Ranch, and Hark was one of the staff that I can honestly say made a deep lasting impact on my life. When I was having a rough time, he would listen, not just scold as many other staff would, but actually listen. He was the type of man who simply cared for others, regardless of circumstance, and I will always remember him for that. I believe he helped to change my life and make me a better person, and I know he has done so for many others. I hope that by holding on to all of the good memories and remembering his countless virtues will help his family get through this extremely difficult time. My deepest sympathy, Jenny Casstevens.
Patty (Ahleen) Thomas & Family
December 13, 2007
Leslie, Sue and Harkness Family,
To loose a loved one is the hardest thing in life. Your son was a great man and he will continue to touch many lives. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your families.
Leslie, be happy in the many memories you made together. Aaron will always be with you in your cute son. I pray the Lord will comfort you in your time of need.
Tricia Rees
December 10, 2007
Leslie,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My deepese sympathy is with you and your family My prayers are with you and Aaron .
Karin Brekne Kvilhaug
December 10, 2007
Dear Susen and Steve.
We are so sorry to hear about Aron,we are thinking about you.
Love Karin & Fam.
Donna Burrows
December 9, 2007
Dear Leslie, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I will be thinking of you. And if we can be of help in some way, please let us know. In deepest sympathy. Karl & Donna Burrows
paul klingenberg
December 9, 2007
dear susan
you have my deepest condolences on your loss of arron.he visited us a few years ago and it was a privilage to have known him.my prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family.
Suzanne Higginson
December 6, 2007
Oh how our hearts ache at this loss. How grateful we are to have known Aaron and to have him as a brother. We will never forget his unconditional love and we pray the Lord may strengthen us, especially Leslie, at this time. With love, Mark and Suzy Higginson
Anne Elin Brekne
December 6, 2007
Dear Leslie, Susen and Steve.
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Your cusins in Norway Anne Elin, Odd Helge and boys.
Anne Elin Brekne
December 6, 2007
Dear Leslie, Susen and Steve.
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Your cusins i Norway Anne Elin, Odd Helge and fam.
June Brekne
December 6, 2007
Dear Susen and family.
We are so sorry to hear about Aaron.Our deepest sympathy.
With love from, uncle Oddvar, aunt Helga, Erna and June (Norge)
Kathy Harris
December 5, 2007
Dear Steve and family,
I was so sorry to read about the death of your son. Steve, he had a lot of the same qualities I remember you having when we were growing up. I also have a son that age who has a huge heart and is compassinate with people. My heart would break if he was called back to our Heavenly Father's presence before me. I can't even imagine the kind of pain and sorrow you are going through at this time but because of our faith we have the knowledge and are comforted that we will be with our familys again. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Warmly,
Kathy Chipman Harris (Sandy, UT)
JOY M
December 5, 2007
AARON
I MISS YOU I WISH I COULD HAVE FIVE MINUTES I WOULD TELL YOU HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU. I HOPE YOU GET TO WEAR COWBOY BOOTS IN HEAVEN. I WISH YOU EVERLASTING PEACE.
Dianne & Robbin Workman
December 5, 2007
Dear Leslie,
We are saddened to hear about your loss. Aaron was a wonderful man and a great neighbor. Our thoughts are with you and your family. If there's anything we can do, PLEASE let us know.
May you feel the arms of our Heavenly Father and our Savior around you now and in the future.
Else Schibsted Jacobsen
December 5, 2007
Dear Susen and family
We are so sorry to hear of Aarons passing.
We give ouer deepest condolences.
From aunt Esther and Else with family.
Emily Jex Boyle
December 4, 2007
Dear Leslie and family,
Our hearts ache for you, you are in our prayers.
Our youngest daughter passed away this summer. We are thankful for the prayers of others that continue to give us the strength to get up every day, we send them now for you.
He is not far.
Em and Rob Boyle
Adam Lindsay
December 4, 2007
Leslie,
What a strange event. Chuck wrote me and told me what happened. While trying to think of something to say that would possibly comfort you, I recognize the weakness and hollow nature of language and realize that all I can do is offer my prayers and thoughts on your behalf,
Adam
Jack and Becky Gilmore
December 4, 2007
Dear Steve, Sue, and Family,
The moment we heard about the loss of your sweet Aaron, we were in disbelief, shocked, and overwhelmed with deep sadness for you and your wonderful family. Steve and Sue, you have done a wonderful job in raising great children, and it is reflected in such a great son as Aaron. In the Book of Mormon there is a wonderful story about the Stripling Warriors and how they were taught to walk by faith and righteousness by their mothers. Sue, Aaron is an example of how you taught your children those eternal teaching, and even though the story does not go into detail about their fathers or daughters, We feel that those young Warriors had great examples from their fathers sisters on how to be real men. Steve, you are a true example of a great and righteous father. You both set the example of an eternal family and that your family will always be eternal blessed as you both continue with your journey into the next life. What a blessing and love you will always have from Aaron's personality and that he has left on this Earth through his sweet son, Aaron Jr. Our hearts go out to Leslie and to little Aaron Jr.and know that they too are such special people.
We know that Our father in heaven and Jesus Christ are with you and your family,and they feel your pain, but they will never leave you alone and will embrace you with their unconditional love and peace.
We love you all and will continue to pray for you and your family.
All our love to you and your family,
Jack and Becky Gilmore
Dianne Gemmill
December 4, 2007
Dear Sue,
There must be no greater sorrow than the death of a child. My heart aches for you.
Owen Mayberry
December 4, 2007
Leslie,
My dear friend, I am saddened by your loss and I pray that you are being comforted by our loving Heavenly Father. Know that you are in our prayers, that we care about you and hope you find comfort in the arms of your family members and the memories of your beloved husband. We offer our most sincere condolences during this difficult time. With love, Owen and Lacy Mayberry
Ginger Everett
December 4, 2007
Leslie,
I am so sad to learn of Aaron's passing. I am thinking of you and praying for you. I am grateful that you have such a wonderful, warm, supportive family and know that they will be a great comfort to you right now. Wish I could be there to give you a hug.
Love,
Ginger
Patrick Madden
December 4, 2007
Dear Leslie and Harkness Family,
We knew Aaron for a relatively brief time, but even so we weep with you for your loss. We truly recognized his greatness, and it was beautiful to hear so many stories about him at the funeral today. Our daughter Adi, who was in Aaron and Leslie's primary class, misses him and feels very sad for all of you.
Tori VanWagoner
December 4, 2007
Steve,
Sorry to hear about your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Tori VanWagoner, Cecilia Elwood
and Cindy Lund
Andy McAdams
December 4, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of Aaron's passing. He is a good man. I give my condolences and best wishes at this time and in the difficult time to follow.
Julie & Dave Anderson
December 4, 2007
Steve & Sue: Our prayers our with you at this time. We know you have a beautiful eternal family and love and appreciate your friendship. Love Dave & Julie Anderson
Kjell Tore Brekne
December 4, 2007
Leslie,
Susen & Steve
Iàm so sorry for your loss of Aaron. I know how much you all loved him.
I wish to express our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts are with you.
Justus Gilmore
December 4, 2007
To Leslie and the Harkness Family,
I only knew Aaron when he was a small child, probably the same age as his son, and in reading the obituary and all of the wonderful remarks about him, it is clear that the small child I knew truly grew up to be a great man. He will be missed. My prayers and thoughts go out to Leslie, Aaron, Steve, Sue and the rest of the Harkness Family. Stay faithful, stay strong.
My Sincere Condolences,
-Justus Gilmore
Lisa Richardson
December 4, 2007
Our hearts truly ache for you, Leslie & AJ,as well as the Harkness family. We are praying for you,may you feel strength from that. As a family, we mourn the passing of Aaron.Oh how we love him. We have been talking about all of the memories with "Uncle Aaron". Grateful that we have them. He had such a big heart.Literally dropping everything when someone needed his help or expertise, and all the while making you feel like you were doing HIM a favor for letting him help. I believe his greatest joy came as he served others...his true purpose in this life.Aaron, we miss you. And how John's heart aches that some of your planned adventures will be left undone.We are grateful that you are free from the pain & cares of this world. We love you...
Gail Harkness
December 4, 2007
To a strong and loving family,
I've struggled with my thoughts since Thursday wondering why this had to happened. Someone once told me "It's not ours to wonder why". I'm truely sorry for your loss and can't possibly know how you are feeling. I pray that you may be comforted at this time and know that Heavenly Father loves you. I can hear Nana welcome Aaron with the phrase "Come here darling and give me a hug". Aaron will truely be missed by all who has come in contact with him but be rest assured we will all see him again. "Well done thou good and faithful servant".
Colleen Jamison
December 4, 2007
Dear Leslie and family,
I am so sorry about the loss of your husband, son, brother, friend. I cannot imagine how hard this must be. Aaron was a fantastic carpenter and I am sure a wonderful man. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Colleen (Tawnie's mom)
jason peterson
December 4, 2007
dear harkness family i am sorry to see your loss hold to the rod you will be in are prayers....
Nick & Sadie Muhlestein
December 3, 2007
Aaron we love and thank you for your time with us. It was beautiful. This quote made us think of you - love always and forever. Nick and Sadie
"We must live, we must love, and we must believe that we live not only today on this scrap of earth, but have lived and shall live forever. I feel that I cannot vanish, since nothing vanishes in this world, but that I shall always exist and always have existed. I feel that beyond me and above me there are spirits, and that in this world there is truth."
-Leo Tolstoy from War and Peace
Joy and Dan Chambers
December 3, 2007
We went to High School with Aaron. We are so sorry to hear of your great loss. May you be given comfort when you need it, strength to face this altered life, and clarity to recognize your ministering angel and the ways he now will communicate with you.
Davina Brand
December 3, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Tyler Haberle
December 3, 2007
Leslie, Aaron Jr., and the Harkness Family,
Aaron is one of the best people I have ever met. My heart aches today on hearing the news of his passing. There aren't words to describe the compassion and concern Aaron had for everyone he met.
I am terribly sorry for your loss. He will truly be missed.
Tyler Haberle
Jackie Smith
December 3, 2007
I am so sorry for your lose. I didn't know Aaron very well but knew him well enough to know that when you met him how much of an impact he could leave. He certainly did to me. A face that will never be forgotten.
My thoughts go out to you and your family and will be thinking of you all during this time.
John Higginson
December 3, 2007
We love you Leslie and Aaron Jr. Our thoughts are with you and all the Harkness family.
Sincerely,
John Higginson and family
Chris & Heather Abley
December 3, 2007
Dear Leslie
It is hard for us to believe Aaron has gone, we can only imagine how you are all feeling at this time. We love you guys and are so grateful for the wonderful memories we have.
Our thoughts, prayers and love are with you all during this very sad time, may Father encircle you about with the arms of His love and send His Spirit to comfort you.
Thank you for your faith and example.
Forever
Chris, Hev, Brady, Justin, Jade, Dane, Maisie, Thea, Leilani, Morgan, Elias, Tai, Celestyn & Mia
x x x x x x x x x x x x x x
cannon young
December 3, 2007
Harkness family. My thoughts and mourning heart go out to you for your loss. I know that Aaron was a such a great presence on this earth and every thing he touched or encountered was brightened with his light. God bless you in these times of saddness.
Jennie Richards
December 3, 2007
A memory of Aaron I have is from when he was on his mission. I had not seen or spoken to him for some time and one day near my birthday I recieved a letter from Aaron wishing me a Happy Birthday and wishing things were well with me. How Aaron got my address or knew it was my birthday or even why he decided to send me that letter out of the blue- to this day I still do not know. That was just the kind of person Aaron was, always doing things that might of not seemed to mean that much yet made the world of difference to someone else and I will never forget what a kind thing that was. What a great person Aaron is.
Linda Ohlson
December 3, 2007
Steve & Sue, Consider this a hug filled with love and peace for you at this time. You are a great family, and Aaron a reflection of the big "Harkness heart."
Leslie: My love and prayers go out to you. You have always been a bright light, and you and Aaron together have a brilliant (and eternal)countenance!
Amberly & Jesse Schiffman
December 3, 2007
Harness Family-
We are so deeply sorry for the loss of Aaron. The first thing that comes to my mind when I think of Aaron is his big smile, I remember all the camping outings we used to go on together and how much fun we used to have. Our prayers are with you and all your loved ones at this time, and always.
Laura Lewis
December 3, 2007
Words certainly can't express how sorry I am for your loss...
I have many memories of Aaron, his big truck and his warm smile and wave from across the street.
His caring heart has touched many lives, including our family.
I ache for each of you-you've been in my constant thoughts and prayers. I hope you find comfort in knowing that his short time here was beneficial to all who knew him.
Much Love, Laura and family
Loggins Merrill
December 3, 2007
To the Harkness family,
I am still in shock over this sudden tragedy. I grew up with Steve and Aaron being like brothers. All my memories of my childhood are from growing up with the Harkness family from TP'ing the neighbor's homes to sleepovers in the field and watching those flames from the burning stacks in N. Salt Lake to getting caught placing pennies on the rail road track. There are so many memories I have of Aaron. The most recent and strongest though was at his mission home coming. I just kept thinking to myself...when did he grow up so much? I was so impressed with his strength of spirit that seemed to even surpass his physical strength (and he was a bull of a man). Aaron, you are missed. We love you and your family. Thanks for all the great memories...
Kathy Rothman
December 3, 2007
Dear Susen,
I remember the first time I met Aaron...at "Dearly Impressive" when
it was just south of Cottonwood Mall. He was joyously bouncing around helping customers. Now he is joyously greeting all his loved ones that have passed on. What a happy thought.
Love, Kathy Rothman
Michael Wilde
December 3, 2007
Sue,
I am Pat Purdy's brother and I am so sad to hear of your loss. To loose a loved one is the hardest thing in life. Your son is a great man and he will continue to touch many many lives. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and all the family. The journey we travel here on earth is sometimes harder than we think we can bare, but there are so many people that can help along the way. I pray the Lord will comfort you in your time of need.
Doug Wesemann
December 3, 2007
Harkness Family:
I am so very sorry. Aaron is one of the very best people I will ever know. His characteristics are contagious and I hope to be as good a man. I offer my most sincere condolences. Susie, Steve, Steve, Sadie, April, and especially Leslie and Aaron Jr. please let me know if there is anything I can do.
arden hofheins
December 3, 2007
Dear Sue and Steve,
There is nothing Carolee and I, Arden can say but we are so sorry. You were a part of our lives for a long time and it was all good. We wish you comfort but know it takes time. love, Arden and Carolee
Kristy Patterson Sandum
December 3, 2007
Leslie and Family,
My prayers and thoughts are with you. Higgy, you are an amazing woman who has taught me a lot. I pray for there to be peace in your life at this most difficult time. I love you.
Laura-Lee Leslie
December 3, 2007
Leslie, you are in my thoughts and my prayers. All my love, Laura-Lee.
Colette Mortenson
December 2, 2007
Leslie:
I'm so sorry for your loss of Aaron. I know how much you loved him. You are a strong woman and you will survive.
Clinton Dorny
December 2, 2007
Family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Aaron was a great friend and loved working with the youth at Discovery Ranch. He will be greatly missed. You are in my prayers...may God bless you in this time of need.
Jennie Fugate
December 2, 2007
Just the other day as I walked into my home I looked at the red, little bench that greeted me. I thought of Aaron and the magnificent, amazing talents he had with woodworking. Many talents he did share with all that knew him. He had a kind heart and a love for his family. What more would you want in a son? Steve and Sue you can hold your head up high to know you raised a beautiful person. My heart is saddened that he left all too soon. Your family is in my prayers.
Warmly,
Jennie Fugate
Craig and Brandi Rees
December 2, 2007
Aaron was such a great person and full of kindness. We have some great memories of Aaron. We are very grateful we saw him a few weeks ago at his brother Steve's house.
Our prayers go out to his wife and family
David & Paula Muhlestein
December 2, 2007
Dear Steve and Sue,
We are all grieving with you. Aaron was such a wonderful young man. We love you and all of your family. Love, Dave and Paula Muhlestein
Ed and Sharon Fila
December 2, 2007
Dear Harkness and Higginson Family,
We are shocked and greatly saddened to hear about Aaron. I wish we could come visit you personally and hug you all, but both Ed and I are helping Jeanette in Sedona this week. Please know that we grieve with you and that you are in our prayers--especially you, Leslie.
Scott & Sherry Peterson
December 2, 2007
Stephen and Susan
So sorry to hear of the loss in your family. We wish to express our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts are with you.
Chandra Hitz
December 2, 2007
My dear Leslie,
We are indeed saddened by this news. However, I know that you will remain strong and faithful. You are the one who taught me that ALL things are in the Lord's hands. My love is with you and Aaron Jr. as are my prayers. I love you Ell!
Dax Westlund
December 2, 2007
I could write a novel with all the great memories I have of Aaron. He was a great example and influence in my life and he will never be forgotten. Words can’t express how I feel. The world lost a great man that will be sorely missed.
My thoughts and prayers are with his family. If you need anything please let me know.
Breck Gilmore
December 2, 2007
Leslie, Aaron Jr., &Family, I just want you all to know how sorry I am for you and everyone of us, for the loss of Aaron, He spent lots of time with my family from grade school-High school and he seemed like another brother to me. Aaron always seemed to know just the right thing to say to lift the mood in any setting (his sense of humor was priceless and one of a kind) He really was the kind of person everyone wanted to be around. We love and will miss him so much. Remember only the good die young! Love, Breck Gilmore (Westlund)
Emily Wilkey Otteson
December 2, 2007
Leslie,
I was saddened to hear of your loss. I don't know what I'd do in your situation. Be strong through this trial. You are such a wonderful person. I hope you will be comforted knowing that you're married for eternity. You will be in my prayers.
Dean & Celia Jolley
December 2, 2007
Our deepest sympathy to the Harkness family on the loss of your dear son, brother, and husband.
Dawn Butler
December 2, 2007
Dearest Family,
We send you our love at this difficult time. We, maybe more than some, share in your grief and sadness. Our hearts ache for you and yet rejoice in the knowledge of where he is and who he is with. While we were struggling with the "whys", I personally found comfort in D.&C. 42:48, where it says that some are appointed unto death, and no amount of faith will keep them here on earth. Remember also that only the good die young. I loved knowing that our loved ones remain here on earth until they know their final resting place. It made me feel that she was not completely gone.....yet. Silly maybe, but a comfort non the less.
Our prayers are with you and I wish I could be in Utah with you now.
Lisa Derfler
December 2, 2007
Leslie,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and all of your loved ones are in my prayers.
Lisa Derfler
Sarah Langton
December 2, 2007
Leslie-
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Brandon Olsen
December 2, 2007
Dear Harkness family,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I have many impressing memories of Aaron that will never be forgotten. May your memories bring you comfort. Aaron is truely a great man.
Sincerely,
Brandon
Kris Ah Quin
December 2, 2007
Leslie,
I am so sorry about Aaron!!!! My heart just breaks for you. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and I am thinking of you every moment!
We love you,
Kris Ah Quin
Shauna Leavitt
December 2, 2007
Dear Leslie,
I want you to know that I am thinking and praying for you and your family at this time. I love you.
Your friend, Shauna
Candy and Dave Hunter
December 2, 2007
Aaron is who he is because of the great love of his mother...We are so sorry that Aaron had to leave you early, but what great rejoicing there is in Heaven between the Grandfather and his grandson.
We love you Susen and Steve
Karrin Cox
December 1, 2007
Leslie,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Aaron Jr. Love you, Les.
Love, Karrin
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