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Jane Sheffield Obituary

Jane Nebeker Sheffield
1936-2020
Salt Lake City, Utah-The family of our beloved wife and mom, Jane Nebeker Sheffield, announces with love and sorrow, her passing on July 2, 2020 in SLC, Utah. Born February 17, 1936 to Walter Dilworth Nebeker Jr. and Virginia Kingsbury Nebeker (who died 6 months after Jane was born). Jane idolized her daddy and mother, Helen Alston Nebeker, adored and teased her brothers Dilworth Altson Nebeker (Danny) and Gordon Alston Nebeker (Gordy) and had everlasting fond memories of her grandmothers, aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Jane graduated from East High School, then enrolled at University of Utah. While at the U she studied Mathematics and Interior Design and was active in the Delta Gamma sorority. Jane married Gary Noble Sheffield in the Salt Lake Temple in 1958. She had an amazing attention to detail. Her mathematical and creative abilities contributed to the Craftsman Cabinets Sheffield family kitchen business.
Jane was creatively talented, she could decorate and throw a party with her special touch. She designed window displays for ZCMI and created floral arrangements for the Rose Shop. Mom loved Holidays (everyone anticipated the beautiful decorations, a tradition mom and dad took weeks putting up together), shopping (always dressed to the nines), and flowers. Shopping trips with her were full day events. Mom always found the perfect gift for everyone. Her beautifully wrapped presents were another trademark of her creative talent and caring.
Mom's charismatic and infectious personality was teasing, playful, and filled with laughter. She loved movies, musicals and couldn't help but clap along to a classic show tune. Most of all mom was the ultimate friend, genuinely kind, always positive, complementary and grateful. She was unassuming, accepting and inclusive of everyone. Literally everybody loved her because she loved them and lived fully. Her nature of caring and kindness touched everyone. As a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints she extended her kindness and talents in many callings, often serving quietly behind the scenes. She exemplified our Savior in reaching out to everyone with love and humor. She didn't miss a beat on a cute comeback with her trademark innuendos which came to be lovingly known as "Nana-isms". She had a special inside joke/song for each grandchild and loved each of her children and grandchildren uniquely. Mom truly made everyone feel like they were the most important person in her life. Her love for family was always present, sharing stories of people she loved and her pioneer ancestry. She rarely missed a luncheon of the Granddaughters of Brigham Young. It is so comforting to us now imagining her with them.
Jane is the true matriarch of our family. She learned from life's lessons and grew to be a loving example "determined to fight the battle of life". An example of enduring well and staying fiercely loyal to her faith and family. The love and generosity for her husband, children, grandchildren, family and friends knew no bounds. A beautiful lady inside and out! Mom, we will remember, always, your strength, courage, wit, and loving guidance with endless cherished memories. It is hard to imagine any celebrations without you, we love you.
Jane leaves behind her eternal companion of 62 years, Gary, and children: Scott Nebeker (Viki) Steven Kingsbury, Suzy Jane Tidwell (Brant), Stanford Detton (Leslee). 10 grandchildren and 1 great grandson.
Heartfelt thanks to the many caregivers at the Legacy Village of Sugarhouse and Bristol Hospice Services who gave such tender loving care. A special thanks to Michael, a true angel to mom and lifeline for our family.
Due to prevailing circumstances, a private family graveside service will be held July 14th. To view the service, a link for Zoom will be located at www.serenityfhs.com Search for Jane under Tributes, then click on the Obituary and Service tab to find the link posted at 11:00 am the morning of the service. In lieu of flowers donations can be made in her name to www.utahfoodbank.org

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Published by Deseret News from Jul. 9 to Jul. 12, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for Jane Sheffield

17 Entries

Gail Pettegrew Newman

July 4, 2024

Hi children of the beautiful Jane Sheffield:)
I´d love to see or talk with you! Gail Pettegrew Newman
801-540-9641

Marsha Keller

November 1, 2021

Ahhh, we heard about dad (Cornell Grover)`s favorite cousin all through our lives. We loved Hane at Aunt Helen´s perfect parties. Mom also passed a few months before Jane. She is held in fond memory.

Gail Pettegrew Newman

October 31, 2021

I loved your mom also, she was always kind & patient. I am grateful to your parents for letting me be a part of your family, through caring for their Children. I some fun memories of Scott, Steven, Stan & Suzy. I loved your green & white kitchen, & raking the carpet. I remember Scott getting so mad because I wouldn´t iron his jeans I remember your cats, Bonnie & Bitsy & their baby kitties:) it was a great experience. Your mom was a sweetheart I would love to see you all again

Sherman and Karma RAe Sheffield

July 19, 2020

Dear Gary and family,
How we loved Jane. She was so much fun to be around, always so cheerful and loving. It was always nice to see some of your family.
Somehow we have lost touch in more recent years. We have many fond memories of you in earlier days.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.
With much love,
Sherman and Karma Rae Sheffield
(Gary, if you see this we would love to get an address or phone number for you)

Mary Stoker Christensen

July 19, 2020

Jane was a delightful high school friend, always smiling, a twinkle in her eye. These attributes stayed with her through the years shining as ever. I am so glad I was included in her circle of loving girl friends.

Marsha Grover Keller

July 16, 2020

Ah, my dad loved Jane, his 'kissin' cousin' so much. We would hear stories about her all my life. That is one of the loveliest life sketches I've read. I always remember what a sweet and beautiful person she was. Thank you for sharing a bit of this beautiful cousin of ours.

Connie Cloward

July 13, 2020

I grew up with Jane as my cousin. I'm sad to see her leave the world, but we have to let go some time. So many shared memories of family gatherings and family parties, especially Christmases - unforgettable. Jane was like a light in every room, such a beautiful, classy, capable, loving, and spiritual person. You couldn't help cherish her when you knew her. Condolences to Gary and the family.

Barbara Miller

July 10, 2020

I did not know her, but you can see all of the qualities attributed to her in her beautiful face and perky smile.

DIANA JOHNSTON

July 9, 2020

Jane, the Fielden's love you dearly. I know my mom is devastated to loose her best friend. Much love to your family and all the kids!

Love - Don & Glennae Fielden, Diana, Kathy, Randy and Vicky

Tom Wahlen

July 9, 2020

Our sincere condolences to the Sheffield family. I remember growing up together and recall what a sweet, kind person Jane is. She always made us feel loved and so welcome. Youre a wonderful family, please know our thoughts and hearts are with you.

Brad Hunsaker.

July 9, 2020

I was so sorry to hear of Janes passing. She was always a dear friend to our family and she was just the classiest lady in the neighborhood. Her smile and energy would light up any room and the decor in heaven just went up a notch. My love and heartfelt condolences to her wonderful family.

P. Carson

July 9, 2020

Our condolences to Jane's family and friends. She was proud of her pioneer ancestors. She was a member of the Daughters of Utah Pioneers, joining in 2015.

Anna Durfee

July 9, 2020

l always loved Janes humor and smile. Shes such a sweet lady and I will miss her! My condolences to Gary and the rest of the family.

Carol Ann Allred

July 8, 2020

Such a faithful, gracious, kind, beautiful, and classy woman! We are so grateful for all the ways she served the members of our ward, and for her example of how a true disciple of Christ lives her life. Love you so much, Jane and Gary..

Jeri Hunsaker Allbee

July 8, 2020

Jane was truly an angel. She helped with my mom after my dad passed away. I have many memories of my sweet Janie. Serving with her in Primary was a joy. A very classy woman that touched the lives of many.

Roberta Brainih

July 8, 2020

Jane was one of six of us who were friends in high school and Bonneville Ward. Many Sunday afternoons were spent driving around the Yale Avenue area and the University area, looking for boys I think. Jane, Jeanne Johnson Greenhalgh and I spent our Freshman year at BYU in the dorm. We took turns making dinner for our roommates, and the rest of us made very modest meals. Jane, however, would cook delicacies like Shrimp Scampi, putting all to shame!

I was lucky to be one of her bridesmaids wearing our pink "balloon bottom" dresses!

Shortly after our 50 year high school reunion, our "group" spent several days in Oceanside, California for a get-together.

I saw her last in 2016 when she came to my 80th birthday party.....looking gorgeous of course. Jane was a good friend and a wonderful part of my lifetime memories.

Roberta Owen Brainich

July 8, 2020

Jane was one of six of us who were friends in high school as well as Bonneville Ward. Jane, Jeanne Johnson Greenhalgh and I spent our Freshman college year at BYU living in the dorm together. We took turns cooking dinner for the 6 in the unit, and while most of us settled for peanut butter sandwiches or something similar, Jane cooked delicacies like Shrimp Scampi.! I was lucky enough to be one of her bridesmaids, wearing our pink "balloon bottom" dresses. Shortly after our high school reunion in 2004, five of us went on a "retreat" to Oceanside, California where we spent three of four days reminiscing. I saw Jane last in 2016 for my 80th birthday. Our "group" has wonderful memories of Jane and our relationships with her.

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