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Janine Mickelson
August 22, 2009
Dear Gretta and family,
We were so saddened to learn of Wayne's passing and remember him with great warmth and affection from our years in the Des Moines stake. I recall the numerous temple trips to Chicago; Wayne's stories and singing made that long bus ride delightful! He was always so warm and kind to everyone. We pray your heart will feel peaceful and comforted as you draw strength from your loved ones and the tender care of our Heavenly Father.
Van and Patty Jolley
August 19, 2009
Our years in the Des Moines Iowa Stake were times of profound personal growth as young parents trying to juggle the demands and blessings of family, Church and graduate school. We will forever appreciate the beautiful examples of Wayne and Gretta Merkley! Somehow we missed notification of Brother Merkley's passing until today or we would have personally expressed our love and admiration. My Heavenly Father always bless you with sweet remembrances.
Susan & Arne Hallam
August 17, 2009
Gretta and family: We are grieving with you. We feel honored to have been associated with you in the DM Iowa Stake. Pres. Merkley's jolly nature and love of life was contagious. We are good friends with the young man who took his place at Drake. (this is a very hard task as, Wayne is a legend there)
Come HOME anytime.
Carl Moss
August 14, 2009
Dear Sister Merkley,
Carol and I are deeply saddened to learn of Wayne's untimely passing. We felt a special kinship with him from the time we arrived in the Des Moines Ward. We felt doubly blessed to have him as our stake president at the time we departed Des Moines. He laughed and teased me over our new location in Cedar City's Fiddlers Canyon. He recalled past history of severe flooding.
I deemed it an honor to serve with him. I will always remember Wayne as one of my very favorite friends, whom I admired greatley!
We regret not being able to attend his funeral service. Please accept our sincere condolences at this time.
With love and kindest regards to you and your family.
Carol & Carl Moss
R. Brent Cartwright
August 14, 2009
To the family of Wayne, I was very sorry to hear of the passing of my good friend, Wayne. I grew up in Beaver, one block from Wayne ib the old Beaver Second Ward. He became one of my dearest friends, meeting on nights with the other neighborhood kids to play kick the can and other excitment that would happen. I will always remember going down to his fathers print shop, and seing Wayne helping out, and having the printing business explained. It was a priveledge to have ben in the same classes and to have graduated with such a great person. We have not been in contact over the past years and was sorry to not sen him at our recent class reunion, but know he was where he should have been. God bless and comfort you. R. Brent and Geri Cartwright
Shannon Allwood
August 14, 2009
Thank you Thank you, for all you did for us. Your love, kindness, and wonderful Bass voice will never be forgotten.
Dwayne and Barbara Buxton
August 13, 2009
Gretta and family
We count President Merkley among the greatest men we have known. He touched our lives in so many ways while we were members of the Des Moines Stake and we have thought of him often. He lived as an example for many of us and was always an inspiration. May you take comfort in the good that he did here on this earth. We will miss him greatly
Jay Housley
August 13, 2009
Fun guy and great neigbor.....We'll miss you Wayne. Jay & Lana
Ralph & Georgina Redford
August 13, 2009
Gretta (Clark, Elain, Brian and Jean)
40 years have come and gone since our first encounter in Des Moines. As we travelled across the Mid-West and NE United States, and Texas, Wayne and Gretta were always one of the first to contact and bring up to date. Wayne was always and kind and caring friend (IN and Out of the church). Thank you for always being our friend
Rebecca (Christiansen) Wax
August 13, 2009
May you be comforted in this time of sorrow.
Vanda Oldroyd
August 13, 2009
Gretta & Family: I'm so sorry of your loss of Wayne. I hope you'll be able to somewhat recover & always know you have friends around to rely on if you ever need them. My deepest sympathies.
Greg and Linda Harvey and family
August 13, 2009
We were saddened to hear of President Merkley's passing. We have missed his presence in Des Moines. Our thoughts are with your family.
Donnette Perkins
August 13, 2009
Wayne's influence on our family has been powerful and cherished. We have loved Wayne and Gretta for many years and tried to emulate their examples of charity and service, though our efforts seem small in comparison to the great good they have done. We will miss Wayne's big laugh, mischievous sparkle and thoughtful response. Wayne was a great friend, mentor and colleague to my husband, Mike. I imagine they will have a lot to discuss. We pray that Gretta, her family and all of us who love them and Wayne will be comforted as we say goodbye to a great, great man, until we meet again.
Steve Black
August 13, 2009
My wife Debbie and I knew Wayne and Gretta for many years in Des Moines (DSM is one of the best kept secrets in the United States). We sincerely regret his passing. Wayne was both guileless and bigger than life. He was genuine. I loved his sense of humor. I thoroughly enjoyed his intelligence. I will miss him.
Jeff Compton
August 13, 2009
My sincere condolences to you for the loss of your husband, father, & grandfather. My wife, Anita (Van Ginkel) Compton has told me so many time through our years of marriage about the wonderful Bishop and Young Women's leader she had in Bro. & Sis. Merkley that I feel I know you both well. Thank you for your love and caring of my in-laws and wife over the years. I know it made a difference in their lives.
Anita Van Ginkel-Compton
August 13, 2009
August 13, 2009
I was deeply saddend to hear of Pres. Merkley's passing. He had a profound impact on all of our family and was considered as close as family. What a truly remarkable legacy he leaves for us all to pattern our lives after.
Clark Merkley
August 12, 2009
My Dad was a great man, a caring and tender husband, a wonderful father and a model grandpa. We are only yet discovering the many things he did for others and may never really know or understand all he did to love and support Mom. Thanks for all of your kind wishes. We will miss him, but we know we will be with him again.
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