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Charles Caligiuri Obituary

Charles A. Caligiuri

Des Moines - Charles A. (Chuck) Caligiuri, 91, passed from this life on Sunday, December 6, 2020 at Morning Star Assisted Living in West Des Moines, Iowa, where he was under the care of Hospice. Due to the current COVID Pandemic, a private burial will be held at his gravesite. A celebration of his life that reflects the joy and love he brought to everyone he came in contact with will be held at a later time. The celebration will include a mass at St. Anthony's Church where he was a life- long member.

Charles was born in Des Moines, Iowa on April 2, 1929 to Theresa (Murano) Caligiuri and Charles J. Caligiuri. Both of his parents emigrated from Italy in the early 1900s. Charles lived on the south side of Des Moines up until the last two months of his life. He was a very proud south-sider. Charles graduated from Lincoln High School in 1948, where he played football, earning All City Honors and was Treasurer of his senior class. In 1948 Charles began working for Paramount Pictures delivering film to theaters across Iowa. He worked his way up to Branch Manager for Paramount Pictures, a position he held for much of his adult life, retiring in 1986. This career gave him the opportunity to travel all over the country and to meet film stars. Charles had many promotional opportunities which would have required him to move out of Iowa. He turned them down so that he could stay near his family and friends.

Charles married Virginia A. Fazio at St. Anthony's Church on October 16, 1949 and loved her for nearly 70 years until her death on February 3, 2018. Charles and Virginia had three children, Carol Caligiuri (Peter McDermott) of Bedford, New Hampshire; Charles L. Caligiuri of Sacramento, California; and Connie (Russ) Rozinek of Ankeny, Iowa. He had one granddaughter, Myah A. Rozinek, who was the joy of his later life. They shared a love of all sports and a drive to succeed. His influence on her life was a blessing. He lived long enough to know that she was accepted to Grinnell College, where she will start this fall. He was so proud of her hard work and accomplishments.

Charles had five brothers, Jim (Rose) Caligiuri, Bruno (Helen) Caligiuri, Frank (Beatrice) Caligiuri, Dominic (Ilena) Caligiuri and Sam (Betty) Caligiuri, all of whom have preceded him in death. Charles also had one sister, Mary (Mando) Tonini, who he was able to spend his last days nearby at Morning Star.

There was not a more loved uncle than Charles, Uncle Chop. He was fortunate to have the love, companionship and support of so many nieces and nephews throughout his life. He never missed a graduation, wedding, reunion, get together or funeral. These were all chances for him to see his family, which was one of the things he cherished most in life. He was fortunate to have nieces and nephews who always cared and cherished him.

Along with his family, Charles had many friends and neighbors with whom he stayed in contact. He was fortunate to have neighbors looking out for him in his later years. They were always willing to give him a hand when he needed it. During the COVID pandemic, his neighbors were there to check on him and bring him meals, which he greatly appreciated. He often said that he was able to live independently in the house he loved for so many years because of the help and support of his neighbors.

At the end of his life Charles was fortunate to have the help and support of many nurses and care givers. He was very thankful for the help and support he received. He always tried to stay pleasant and positive when most would have behaved differently. He never complained about his situation and when asked replied, "everything is fine".

Charles joined the Army in 1951 and served for six years. He was honorably discharged in 1957. During his life he also owned many movie theaters and drive-ins. His latest theater was the Merle Hay Cinema and a Drive-in Theater near Carroll, Iowa. He owned one of the last drive-ins in the state of Iowa. Charles also owned King Tuts Lounge in Des Moines.

Most importantly, Charles lived by a few simple philosophies: always be positive, always think the best of people, always be there for friends and family when they need you, and never give up. While these philosophies were simple, they led Charles to a very long and loving life. He was the greatest role model anyone could have. He was an inspiration in courage and integrity throughout his life and will continue to be in his death.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Charles' honor to the American Lung Association or St. Anthony's Church.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by the Des Moines Register from Dec. 7 to Dec. 8, 2020.

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Donna Derry

December 27, 2020

Connie I just found out about your Dad's passing. Alan and I are very sorry for your loss. Our deepest condolences.

PAUL CALIGIURI

December 10, 2020

Cousin Chop was always hard working. I knew he used to golf and asked him why he stopped and he said it took too much time. Chop and my dad, Frank Caligiuri, owned King Tut's and I worked for them a couple of years. He was good to work with and for. Because of the two sides of the family I always sort of thought of Chop as similar to an uncle rather than a third cousin because of the age difference and I felt that way about his brothers and sister. He was a really good guy who was jovial and nice. Condolences to his family and best wishes.

PAUL CALIGIURI

December 10, 2020

Cousin Chop was always hard working. I asked him why he stopped playing golf and he said it took up too much time. Chop and my dad Frank Caligiuri, Chop's 2nd cousin I suppose on the other side of the family, owned King Tut's and I worked for them there couple years. He was good to work with and for and pretty fun and easy going but still all business. Of course age-wise he was like an uncle to me like all his brothers even though actually a 3rd cousin. That is the way the families were like. Best wishes to his family. Paul Caligiuri

December 9, 2020

Uncle Chop, you were the best.
I'm so sorry I didn't get to visit you in your final days. May you rest in peace and give uncle Joe and so many others a hug from me. You are so loved.

Angie Allen

Judy Willey

December 8, 2020

I worked for Chuck at Paramount from 1972 until it closed in 1987. I also worked for him at King Tuts when he was short help. I was fortunate to learn in my first real job what a blessing it is to work for someone who respects you, acknowledges your worth, supports you to be successful and always has your back. He was the yardstick I used to measure all subsequent bosses. Rest In Peace, boss. You’ve earned it. My deepest condolences to all his family.
Judy Willey

Tim Reed

December 8, 2020

I met Chuck when I was 18 years old. My father died the following year and Chuck stepped in to help a kid move along. I wish I could hear "Huh, what?" one last time.

Tim Reed

December 8, 2020

i was 18 years old when I met Chuck. My father died the following year and Chuck stepped in to help a kid move along. We had a life long friendship that I cherish to this day.

Would love to hear, "Huh, what?" just one more time.

Tim Reed

John Pascuzzi

December 8, 2020

"Chop", you were my "boss" at Paramount and that job got me thru college. Learned a lot from you, not only about the film business, but also about life. You were the best! RIP my good friend.

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