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Erma Wilske Obituary

Erma Lenora Wilske, 95, peacefully passed away on Friday, November 5, 2010 at Kavanagh House on 56th Street in Des Moines. She was born July 27, 1915, to George and Katy Schultz in Draper, South Dakota, where she attended school. After graduation she worked as a government secretary in Murdo, S.D. and later was transferred to the district office in Rapid City as a payroll clerk and secretary.
On November 23, 1935, she was married to Lauren Ferris in Sioux Falls, S.D. They moved to Custer, S.D. in 1942, where they raised their family and established their family home and business, Pine Lodge. She also worked as a cashier clerk and telephone operator. In 1962, she was appointed Deputy County Treasurer and in 1963, she ran for office and was elected Custer County Treasurer; she kept that position until 1976 when she resigned due to the death of her daughter, Glennys. At that time, she moved to Edmonds, WA, to help care for and raise her three grandchildren, Brynn, Jeff, and Jon Schaub, a promise she made to her daughter before she died.
In 1977 she moved to Omaha, NE, to be near her daughters and their families. While there she worked as a receptionist and secretary for Southside Assembly of God Church. In 1980, she moved to Des Moines, again to be near her family. On April 6, 1985, she married Kurt Wilske. The spent winters in Des Moines and summers in Custer.
She is survived by her three children, Bev Channell of Clive, Alan (Karen) Ferris of Hampton, Linda (Rod) Johnson of Des Moines; stepson, Jerry Wilske of Iowa City and Larry (Sue) Wilske of Flandreau, S.D.; 14 grandchildren; 20 great grandchildren; one great-great grandchild. She was preceded in death by her husbands, daughter Glennys, grandson Matthew, parents, two brothers, and sister.
Funeral services will be 11 a.m., Tuesday, November 9 at First Church of the Open Bible (2200 Beaver Ave., Des Moines). Visitation will be from 5 to 7 p.m. on Monday evening at the church. Memorial contributions may be made to First Church of the Open Bible.

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Published by the Des Moines Register on Nov. 7, 2010.

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Susan and Al Svoboda

November 9, 2010

Erma was my "other mother". She was an angel in my life and taught me so much. I didn't know that 95 years young would not be enough. She was a true Christian and greatest mom and grandma. As you know, we were all blessed to have her in our lives. I'm so thankful for times together this summer in Custer. Her family meant everything to her. May each of you know comfort from above and share your wonderful memories forever. In Jesus, Al and Susan Svoboda (Custer, SD)

Geri Wilson

November 7, 2010

I remember attending a beautiful retreat at the cabins in Custer. We had such a wonderful time! She was such a gracious woman making us all feel right at home. I extend my sympathy and love to all of you in the loss of your Mother and Grandmother. Know that I will keep you all in my prayers as you grieve your loss. Geri Wilson

Suzy Palmer

November 7, 2010

My prayers are with you all. Erma was a family friend to all of us Palmer's. I think of her as more of a Grandma cause that is how she always was. She had the best smile and laugh of anyone I know. I will remember her as that. Please keep her memories close and laugh often when you think of her, as I will. Again, my prayers are with all of you during this hard time. Suzy Palmer, Custer, SD

Jo/Barry Wilson

November 7, 2010

A long and blessed life....she was truly an example of love and sacrifice. We pray you are all wrapped in His arms of love during this difficult time, and that His comfort and peace be with you as you celebrate her life and mourn her passing. Our thoughts and prayers are always with you. BJ and Jo Wilson

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