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Paul Reed Obituary
Reed, Paul Eugene 85, beloved son, father, grandfather, teacher, and friend died Monday, December 9, 2019. Preceded in death by his wife, Suzanne Gross Reed; parents, Ralph and Gladys Reed; sister, Elizabeth "Betty" Law; brother, Ronald Reed. Survived by his daughter, Marguerite (Phil Moss) Reed of Wichita; grandchildren, Sophia, Madeline; brother, Robert Reed. Born in Casey, IA in 1934, Paul studied piano, worked the family farm, and played sports. He was drafted into military service towards the end of the Korean War which ended before his deployment overseas. After performing and teaching at Drake University and St. Norbert College, Paul joined the School of Music at Wichita State University in 1966; teaching there until retirement in 2008. Paul also served with the Music Teacher National Association in a variety of administrative roles. He enjoyed college basketball, historical biographies, and making friends. He will be hugely missed. A memorial reception will be held at the Edwin A Ulrich Museum of Art, Wichita, KS, February 1, 1:00pm. Downing & Lahey East Mortuary. Share tributes online at: www.dlwichita.com
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Garrett Ward 91-93
December 23, 2023
As a Percussion Major at WSU- I encountered Dr. Reed as he played on some Percussion Ensemble pieces. I remember his great playing, and smiling face. Garrett Ward
Eric Gross
August 8, 2020
I just learned about Uncle Paul's passing. He was married to my Aunt Suzanne. Her brother, Frank, was my father. Time is passing and so many of many my older relatives are leaving us. After Aunt Suzanne passed away, I would call Uncle Paul to check in on him. I wish I had called more often. My condolences to Marguerite and her family.
RIP, Uncle Paul.
Eric
Paul and Krysti Carlson-Goering in his office at WSU in 2007.
Krysti Carlson-Goering
February 3, 2020
I was so happy to have worked with Paul for so many years at WSU and take piano lessons with him. He will be greatly missed.
February 1, 2020
Krysti Carlson-Goering
January 31, 2020
I will miss Paul greatly!
Martha Shaw
January 29, 2020
I auditioned for Paul Reed in my senior year of HS for a scholarship to WSU, that I received. He was the first person I met in the music department. I never had him as a teacher, but he was a nice man and a great pianist.
January 27, 2020
Harry Simpson
January 26, 2020
Rest Paul, until you hear at dawn,
the low, clear reveille of God.
Thank you for your service to this nation.
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Memorial Gathering
1:00 p.m.
Edwin A Ulrich Museum of Art
Wichita, KS
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Downing & Lahey Mortuaries & Crematory - East Wichita6555 E. Central, Wichita, KS 67206-1924
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