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Ruth Lightner Obituary
Des Moines
Ruth V. Lightner passed away peacefully on January 7, 2016. She was 96 years old. She was loved by many people, family and friends.
Ruth was born on June 17, 1919 to Walter and Bessie Pickett in Des Moines, one of nine children. She attended East High School and Drake University.
In 1940, she married James L. Lightner, and their marriage lasted until his death in 2001. They had two children: a daughter, Karol D. Lightner, and son James R. Lightner.
She excelled in all her hobbies: dancing, knitting, ceramics, art and volunteering. The loves of her life were her family and many friends at the Pioneer Senior Center.
Ruth is survived by her two children; three grand-daughters, Michele Tingle, Kristie Cunningham (Leroy) and Jennifer Chiodo (Jeff); five great-grandchildren, Gianni and Cici Chiodo, Darek Tingle, and Cody and Cael Cunningham; also her daughter-in-law, Kim Lightner, and best friend Beverly Lightner.
Ruth was preceded in death by her husband, James, her parents, and all her siblings.
Visitation will be at Hamilton's Funeral Home, 605 Lyon Street, 5-to-8 p.m. Monday, January 11. There will be a private family burial at Laurel Hill Cemetery on Tuesday, January 12.
Contributions can be made in her name to the Pioneer Senior Center and condolences may be expressed at www.HamiltonsFuneralHome.com
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Bobby Brown
January 12, 2016
We wanted you to know that we have fond memories of our neighbors. May she rest in peace. Bob, Mary Ann, Jo Ellen and Kathy Brown
January 11, 2016
Karol, Jim and family. I am in Mexico for the winter so can't give my condolences in person, but my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. You had her for a long time. Gina Robinson Lange.
Christine Morrison
January 10, 2016
I will miss you Ruthie. Hold a place next to you in heaven for me...I want to hold your hand.
Jeri Hodson
January 10, 2016
Sending thoughts and Prayers to the family. Dave and Jeri Hodsonj Weslaco , Texas
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January 10, 2016
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