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Steven Lollman Obituary
Steven was born in Des Moines on December 2, 1992 to David and Denise (Cox) Lollman. He was a senior at Urbandale High School and a host for Applebees Restaurant. He played baseball for the South Des Moines and Urbandale Little Leagues and played baseball and football for Urbandale High School.
Steven's life was centered on his girlfriend, Jessica, baseball and his Honda Del Sol. He was always quick with a smile and wanted people to laugh and embrace life.
Those left to cherish Steven's memory include his parents, Dave and Denise Lollman of Urbandale; sister, Kristina Lollman of Urbandale; grandparents, Jerry and Judy Lollman of Urbandale and Joe and Shirley Cox of Missouri Valley; great grandmother, Doris May of Lincoln, NE; girlfriend, Jessica Bagley of Urbandale; and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins.
Visitation will be from 4 to 8 p.m. Friday, November 26 at New Hope Assembly of God Church. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be directed to the Steven M. Lollman memorial in care of US Bank 3501 NW 86th St. Urbandale, IA 50322.
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Memories and Condolences
for Steven Lollman
lollman family
alexandra&marcene cox&miller
December 20, 2010
steven grandma and i will miss you dearly.Even though we didnt see you very much.We love you and your in our prayers, stay strong lollaman family.xoxo
lollman family
alexandra cox
December 20, 2010
Mirela Zuna
December 8, 2010
Steven Lollman, i didn't know yuh all that well . Yuh were in my 5th period gym class as well yur love Jessica (: Yuh were reall funny & i was scared yuh were gonna deck me in the face with that volleyball lol . Yuh were a strong & loving person & no one will ever forget that ! I send prayers too yuh & your family (: Rest in peace & in paradise as well .
Cory Moore #12
December 2, 2010
Steven you were a great friend. Dave thank you for blessing me by bringing him into this world. I'm going to play my heart out next season because I know Steve would have done that. He's in a better place now. I remember you told me to keep that in mind and not to worry. I send my prayers out to your whole family and thank you again.
Jenise Collier
December 2, 2010
steven your one of the funniest people that i will ever meet. Goodtime in connection and gym class. You always talked about cars and how to stay fly lol. Im going miss you and my prayers go to your family.
Amber Wahlert
December 1, 2010
Although I feel very unfortunate that I didn't get to get to know Steven as well as others, just hearing all of the awesome stories and being able to see his character in school shows how great of a person he is. The little time I got to spend with his friends and family at the hospital made me realize not only his, but everybody's strength, love, and support for each other. Steven will be missed always, but will be seen again someday. I am praying for you all
Kinsey Lowe
December 1, 2010
I was unfortunately unable to attend the funeral due to being out of state. I really wish i could have been there. Thoughts and prayers go out to the Lollman family and Jess. This is a time where we all just need to stay close and united. Steven we love you so much and we will miss you so dearly. You are the most well-liked and respected guy I know. You will be treasured in our hearts for the rest of our lives and you will never be forgotten bud. We love you.
November 30, 2010
we will all miss you!!
November 30, 2010
To the Lollman Family,
Our deepest heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family. Steven was quite a baseball player with a contagious smile. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kristy, Chris & Taylor Cain
LESLEY CRAIG
November 30, 2010
DAVE AND KRISTINA SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT STEVEN MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU
Uncle Dan
November 28, 2010
Steven, I love you and miss you so much. You were a great kid.
Steven at Homecoming 08
November 28, 2010
Steven at Homecoming 08
November 28, 2010
Steven at Homecoming 08
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Steven at Homecoming 08
November 28, 2010
Kristin Young Janisch
November 27, 2010
Dave, Denise, Kristina and family: You have my deepest sympathy on the loss of your dear child. I pray that you find some strength, some comfort in the love of your friends, your family and your faith as God cradles Steven in his arms and takes him home. May God's peace surround you all.
Delila Panjeta
November 27, 2010
Love yu Steven i will never forget yu and yer big smilee yu always had on yer face! and every time i see a car magazine i know i will think of yu! MISS YU <3
LaNae Hardy
November 27, 2010
To the Lollman family:
Our hearts are with you in this very difficult time. We are praying for all of you and hope that you can take some comfort in knowing that he is with God. While his time on earth was short, from reading comments in this guest book, he made quite a wonderful impact on everyone who knew him well. We will hold you all in our hearts and prayers.
The Darveau family - Hugh, Eleanore, LaNae, Vickie and Jeff
Ron Moss
November 26, 2010
Dave,Denise,Kristina and all the Lollman family, our hearts are heavy, and we mourn for your family during this incredibly difficult time. Our son Eric is in Steven's class and has many fond memories of him as always being such a "great guy". He will be missed so much by so many. May God's peace be with you all. Words aren't enough, but please know that we care.
November 26, 2010
To the Lollman Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you.
The Waldorf Family - Randy, Annette, John, and Brad
William Cox
November 26, 2010
Best wishes to you guys....really miss Steven a lot. God bless him, he's in a better place.
November 26, 2010
Sorry I can't be at the funeral, love you guys, my thoughts and prayers. I will call as soon as I am able to do so. -William Cox
Chaplain Julie
November 25, 2010
Dave, Denise, Kristina and Jessica and all of Steven's extended family and friends that he considered family, May God be all around you and within you as you go through this very trying time. I cannot truly know how deeply this loss is affecting you, but I do know that you are not alone. Your friends, your family, all of you will see each other through this together. It is in each other that we have the opportunity to see God at work and to make God real for others. My prayer is that you see God in abundance through this time. Peace and grace to you all!
Faith Johnson and Laura Van Horn
November 25, 2010
Dave,Denise and Kristina-
Telling the three of you that we are so sorry for your loss just doesn't quite express the pain we feel for all three of you. Steven was an awesome person and we both know from experience that when you lose a loved one you feel that a big hole has been ripped in your heart.
He will always be with you--- ALWAYS!
May the Lord comfort you and give you strength.
Amanda Aldrich
November 25, 2010
To the Lollman family, my heart and prayers go out to you all! Steven was a great kid. Keep your heads hi and your emotions wide, we all know he is in a place without suffering.
<3
Linda Dierks
November 25, 2010
My heart goes out to all of you! I worked with Dave with Steven was born and I never saw a prouder Dad! We even used to call him Daddy cause all he ever talked about was his son. Keep your memories close to your heart and mind, they will help you in the coming months!
November 25, 2010
"I'll lend you for a little while
A child of mine" God said -
For you to love the while he lives
and mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years
or forty two or three
but will you, till I call him back,
take care of him for me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you
and, should his stay be brief,
you'll have his nicest memories
as solace for his grief.
I cannot promise he will stay,
since all from earth return
but, there are lessons taught below,
I want this child to learn.
I've looked the whole world over,
in my search for teachers true,
and from the things that crowd life's lane
I have chosen you.
Now will you give him all your love,
nor think the labour vain,
nor hate me when I come to take
this lent child back again?
I fancied that I heard them say,
"Dear Lord Thy Will Be Done"
for all the joys thy child will bring
the risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness,
we'll love him while we may,
and for the happiness we've known
forever grateful stay.
But, should thy Angels call for him
much sooner than we planned,
we'll brave the grief that comes
and try to understand.
Greg Betts
November 24, 2010
God Bless Steven, Dave, Denise and the entire Lollman family. Although I only knew Steven for 24 hours, I feel as though I have know him for years. The stories the family told were heart warming and endearing. Love Steven and cherish him forever.
November 24, 2010
To the Lollman family, Steven was a classmate and a friend of mine. He was a great person and only tried to make people happy. you know that whenever someone is smiling, hes watching down over them. he was a loving and caring person and will be missed by all who knew him. greatest regards,
-Brittany Francis
Cousin Mike Hill
November 24, 2010
Dear Denise, Dave, Kristina and family,
We were so sorry to receive your moms sad call of your loss of Steven. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
God bless,
Rachel Oyibo
November 24, 2010
Steven was one of the nicest sweetest guys I have ever met. Always had a smile on his face when I saw him at school. He was a peacemaker, and my first ever date to a dance. Such a gentleman. Thanks Steven for everything...thanks for making my junior year homecoming one of the best ever, thanks for your friendship, thanks for being you. I miss you a lot
Mary Sinclair
November 24, 2010
Dave,
I was so sad when I heard of your loss, my prayers are with you during this tough time in your life. I pray that the peace of God comfort your heart.
Dylan Valdez
November 24, 2010
I never knew Steven personally, but every time I saw him he was always smiling. He was a great person. I'm sorry he had to go. He will never be forgotten.
Karrie DeJong
November 24, 2010
My prayers are with you Denise....many years since we have seen one another, I still hold sorrow for your loss. Wish I would have known Steven. God Bless you and your family....Your cousin Karrie
cindy simms
November 24, 2010
Im glad i got the chance to meet you i really seen how special you were to my niece jessica and family you will truely be missed. cindy simms
jessica"s aunt
Jim Richardson
November 24, 2010
To the Lollman Family,
I coached Steven with the South Des Moines Extreme. Great memories I will cherish forever! One of the best was camping in Fort Dodge during one of our first tournaments there,,, it rained the entire night but Steven kept everyones spirits high! My thoughts and prayers go out to you in this trying time!
DeAndre' Moore
November 24, 2010
my brother my friend my backup. I will never forget all the time we battle for that starting stop doing football. All the defensive back film when you would bark like a dog to make me laugh. We will soon met again. R.I.P Steven Lollman we love you man
Zachary Richardson
November 24, 2010
Playing AAU with Steven I remember when we were playing at Johnson and I was at bat with tighted score and two outs the game was on me. i struck out and came to the doug out getting yelled at by the hole team Steven gets up tells them everybody has a bad day.
Thats one memory of him. He was always a leader and stood up for everyone that was on his team. Steven brought us close with his humor and his fun practice side. I was glad I had a chance to play with him. Thanks for the fun times and making Extreme a team of brothers more then a team
November 24, 2010
Dave,
I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts during this very difficult time. I'm saddened to hear of your loss.
Mindy Laws (Anfinson)
November 24, 2010
Dear lollman family, I'm very sorry for your lose I knew Steven he was my brother Derek kapps best friend we all miss him very much I know you all are hurting right now I'm just grateful my brother got to be with him in his last moments and I know he's in heaven smiling down at all of us. With all my love Alexis Kapp
Shannon Parrish
November 24, 2010
Dave, Denise and Kristina,
Jim, Rhiannon and I are so sorry to hear about Steven. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Steven will be greatly missed.
Audra Nelson
November 24, 2010
Dear Lollman family, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. My daughter, Kaitlyn Nelson is a 2011 classmate of Steven's. It is tragic that his life was cut short, he will be missed.
Madison Aldrich
November 24, 2010
I rememeber the first time I ever met Steven was at his Mom's candle party. He was planning his schedule for school. After he was done, he invited me to play Guitar Hero with him! He was so good at that game. But he was the nicest person ever, he'd never done anything to hurt anyone. He was always helpful. And I went to school with him. I always saw him around school and he always had a smile on his face. I'm going to miss seeing that. I'm going to miss seeing him. My mom and I are very sorry for Steven's family in their time of grief.
Pam Mulder Reynolds
November 24, 2010
To the Lollman family, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Kathy Polson-Flattery
November 24, 2010
Dave and Denise,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are so sorry for your loss and Steven will be greatly missed.
Jaci
November 24, 2010
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I was at the hospital on Saturday to visit my father-in-law in the neuro ICU and saw you in the waiting area. Your family was surrounded with love and support from many family & friends. I thought of you all day and prayed that you may find peace in all this. You are still in my thoughts & prayers and again I'm so sorry for your loss. God bless you all.
Steven at Bat
Jill Kelley
November 24, 2010
Dave and Family, I am truly sorry for your loss. I cannot even imagine what you are going through. Scott really enjoyed hanging out with Steven last summer during baseball season. Scott said Steven kept him very entertained in the dugout! He was a great kid and I am truly sorry his life was cut so short. Take care of yourself and we will keep you in our prayers. - The Kelley's -Jill, Scott and Renee
November 24, 2010
Dear Lollman Family,
Our hearts deeply hurt for you and your family over the tragic loss of your beautiful son, Steven. My daughter, Kinsey Lowe, was a 2011 classmate of his. We are praying for you during this most difficult time.
Mrs. Juli Lowe Johnson (Urbandale, IA)
Dan Rund
November 24, 2010
Erica and I are both saddened by your loss, but have the splendid memories of more happier times spent with Kristina and Steven during our children's youth... our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Tana Weber
November 24, 2010
Steven, you may be gone but never forgotten! We will miss you.
- Tana
"You are my buddy, I will miss you and miss playing xbox with you"
- Isaiah
JoLynne Farren
November 24, 2010
Dave, Denise and Kristina, I just want to let you know how very sorry I am for the loss of Steven. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Doug kueck
November 24, 2010
Enjoyed joking with steven when i was umpiring baseball. Great young man. I am very sorry for your loss. All of you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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