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Clay Edward Ellis

1953 - 2010

Clay Ellis Obituary

Clay Ellis, 56, completed his earthly mission Monday, April 12, 2010, and returned to his heavenly Father.
Funeral: 1 p.m. Saturday at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 3809 Curt Drive, Arlington, with Bishop Cris Baird and President Ken Wallace officiating. Interment: Parkdale Cemetery, Arlington. Visitation: The family will receive friends 4 to 7 p.m. Friday at the family residence, 1 Homeplace Court, Dalworthington Gardens.
Memorials: In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Dr. Clay Ellis Pre-Dental Scholarship Fund, the University of Texas at Arlington, Box 19047, Arlington, Texas 76019.
Clay grew up in Fort Worth and attended Paschal High School, where he met his future wife. During his years at Texas Christian University, he married Dell and they recently celebrated their 36th anniversary. He also attended Baylor College of Dentistry and St. Louis University School of Orthodontics. Throughout his academic career, Clay received numerous awards and accolades for his scholastic achievements. In 1979, Clay moved to Arlington to be close to his brother, Dr. Carl D. Ellis, who practiced dentistry here at that time. For 30 years, Clay enjoyed every moment of his work. Clay loved each of his patients as individuals and knew of their individual needs and wants. He felt confident that he could treat their orthodontic needs, but many nights he prayed for the Lord to be the healer of their other concerns. Over the course of his career, Clay belonged to community and professional organizations too numerous to mention. Many of you knew him from your associations through these civic opportunities. Most recently, he enjoyed the time he spent as a volunteer coach for the Optimists Football Club and as a city councilman for Dalworthington Gardens.
Clay's greatest role in this life was a father and husband. Words are both inadequate and too intimate to describe the love this man gave to his family. His children and grandchildren will stand as his legacy for "He taught them correct principles. Now they can govern themselves." We are grateful to be a family and to have the knowledge that through Christ all things are possible.
Survivors: Wife, Dell Holman Ellis; daughter, husband, grandchildren, Jennifer and Eric Ericson and Warren, Peyton and Avery; daughter, Courtney Ellis-Spitzer and grandson, Trey Ellis-Spitzer; son and wife, Jon and Holly Ellis; son and wife, Charles and Diana Ellis; and the baby of the family, son, Carter Franklyn Ellis; numerous other family members; and close friends.

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Published by Star-Telegram from Apr. 15 to Apr. 16, 2010.

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Diane Wright

April 24, 2025

Has it really been 25 years since sweet Clay moved to Heaven? I saw a FB post today wishing your youngest, Carter, a Happy Birthday. WOW....it triggered so many precious memories of the season of life our families shared! What a precious time in our lives! Both of my children looked up to Clay as a role model.....I´m so thankful for that! Who wouldn´t want to immulate his character.....so very kind and a gentle giant! We were on his wall of fame at one point, when Wayne, myself, Josh, and Lindsay were all in braces at once! lol!
And football....what fun memories of our children with John playing football and Lindsay cheerleading for the team!
Football was Clay´s jam and oh how he loved coaching it!
I treasure the friendship we shared with your family and thankful for that season and blessing! I hope all of you are doing well! Much love and hugs!
Diane Wright

Itzel Luna

January 15, 2025

I had barely turned 11 years old on March 8, 2010 when I got my braces by Dr. Ellis. A month later, my mother received the letter in the mail that my orthodontist, Dr. Ellis, had passed. We were devastated by the news as I specifically remember how many orthodontist consultations my mom drove us to before finally meeting Dr. Ellis and choosing him as my orthodontist. I was so excited for my new, colorful braces! Something I´ll never forget is how he made my mother feel during that consultation. He was so comforting, reassuring, and his kindness was truly heartwarming. It was so natural and sweet. The way he displayed empathy in that first visit was the deciding factor that made my mom choose him for my orthodontic treatment. I specifically remember on the ride back home from our visit, my mom kept reiterating how comfortable he made her feel and how kind he was. Unfortunately, I did not get the honor to continue knowing him after the first month of getting my braces, but he has forever made an impact in my life. 15 years later, I still remember him. I am now 26 and I am pursuing dental school, and I can only hope to provide my future patients with the same warmth and care that Dr. Ellis once provided us. May he rest in peace and I know he is forever remembered by many.

Dustin

December 31, 2016

My mother used to work for Dr. Ellis. She was a single mother that was raising two young boys alone. My mom struggled hard raising us alone, but i remember Dr. Ellis paying for me to be able to play football in the optimist league. He would get my mom groceries, and would give her a nice bonus during the christmas season so me and my baby brother could have a christmas. I just remember him as a good man and i have respect for people that help the unfortunates. 20 years later and now im in orthodontics and oral surgery tech. The man made an impression in my life and i appreciate his kindness to my family. God bless your soul and family.

Samantha Leach

October 20, 2014

It seems so recent but yet so long ago when Dr. Clay Ellis placed braces upon my teeth - I was 8 years old. At age twelve, I knew what I wanted to do in life - be just like Dr. Clay Ellis.
When I shared this with him, he asked why? I said because you make people smile! I thought he was going to cry. I am now 17 years of age and have not wavered in my goal. I have applied to a university as a pre-dental student and I shall be moving forward with Dr. Ellis beside me as my inspiration. Go Paschal Panthers! Go TCU Horn Frogs! Go Baylor Bears! Here we come!! I miss you and love you Dr. Clay!!

Diane Foster

October 30, 2013

I am shocked. It is hard to believe Dr. Ellis is not around any more. We were the first family I'm aware of where all of us had brace work done. All four of us!! He seemed so delighted to be the doctor we chose. We had such faith in him. He lifted our spirits every time we went to see him. He was a jewel and he will be missed greatly. God Bless.

Blake Williamson

August 2, 2012

Dell, I have struggled for 2 years how to reach out to you and express my deepest sympathies and sadness over the passing of Clay. He was my finest friend from dental school and one of the best gentlemen I have ever known. If I can ever assist you in any way, please let me know.

Genifer (Ring) Michel

June 4, 2012

I just googled Dr. Ellis to talk about orthodontics for my kids- we don't live close but, I wanted to have someone just like him for my children. I can't say enough about his great spirit. He took care of my teeth from 16 years old, through my wedding and second set of braces while pregnant with my second of 3 children at 38 years old! --And and he made my husband's teeth as beautiful as mine! My heart is broken for his family. I know he was and is sooo loved! What a wonderful man with a loving kind heart. He touched everyone that he met. He was a good man!

Natalie (McElhanon) Mosrie

February 11, 2011

I just heard about Dr. Ellis' passing today when I received this link from my brother. Two of my brothers and I were patients. He was such a nice man. I know he will be missed by many. Growing up everyone I knew that had braces got them from Dr. Ellis. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.

Karen Chandler Atkins

October 12, 2010

Dell,
My condolences to you and your family.
I just found out at Dr. Baker's today.
I knew you from The Toy Tree days(great memories).

Pamela Phillips-Faletti

August 24, 2010

I just heard about Dr. Ellis's death a few days ago, and I am so sorry. I was one of Dr. Ellis' first patients. He only had two patient chairs when I started with him. He was my orthodonist 29 years ago. When I started going to him, he was so young. Even back then he was amazing. He was so sweet and kind, and even though he was only 28 years old, he was already a great orthodonist. He guided me through braces and jaw surgery, all the way to a beautiful smile. Rest In Peace, Dr. Ellis.

Tina & Jillian Banks

August 23, 2010

My daughter and I just found out about Dr. Ellis passing away last April. He was my daughter's Orthodontist, but became an important part of her young life. He always had a kind word and never, ever scolded her when she didnt always do as he suggested. And today when I told her about Dr. Ellis passing, she actually cried. Not a response that you would expect for a Patient/Orthodontist relationship. That tells you a little of how special he was. We will never forget him and his warm, welcoming smile. For he truely made a difference in my daughters life simply with his kindness.And we give our belated condolences to his family. We want you to know that he will never be forgotten .
Sincerely,
Tina & Jillian Banks

Lynda Lotman

June 1, 2010

My condolences to his family, friends, and staff. He had just a gentle, calming spirit. I will miss him. Lynda Lotman

Laurie Randle-Krupala

May 28, 2010

I worked with Dr.Ellis in the early 1980's and I remember his huge hands that could do the smallest procedures. Him looking over his glasses at me with those puppy dog eyes. Making Cindy go to get him A big block of cheese to go with his wine at the end of the day and not to forget the Cappuccino pie! One for us and One whole pie for him. His humor was the best. When I got pregnant he told me that the pain was all in my head. He taught me how to redirect the pain. That is when he and Dell was starting their family and he was very involved with her being pregnant. He will be missed but God has a wonderful man with him.

JoAnn Freeman

May 18, 2010

I just found out about Dr. Ellis' passing and I was in complete shock. Dr. Ellis was our family ortho when we lived in Texas and I would have willingly flew my other 2 young kids back every month just so he could do their braces.
Dr. Ellis was one of the most compassionate men I have ever met. He truly cared for me and my family. I remember speaking to him about several situations as a professional and asked how he would handle those situation and his answers were spot on with what Jesus would do.
His family should feel very proud of his good deeds~
He is in heaven now!!
My heart goes out to is family because I know it is not easy to loose a loved one.
JoAnn Freeman

Whitney

May 10, 2010

May God bless the Ellis family and his practice. He will be missed.

Tammie Morrow

May 10, 2010

The world is a better place because of Dr. Ellis. He will truly be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and staff. May your fondest memories comfort you in your time of need.

Hal Solomon

May 6, 2010

Dear Dell and the rest of Clay’s family, I am stunned and saddened to hear that Clay has passed away. I am so sorry for your loss. I remember spending the night at each others houses growing up and playing sports all through school together. My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you.

cindy Dillaman

May 5, 2010

i was so sorry to hear about dr. ellis. he was my children's orthodontist for many years. they are both grown now and they have beautiful teeth. what i remember about dr. ellis was his kindness most of all. but i was always impressed with what a perfectionist he was. God bless you all and may He give you the comfort you need.

Richard Stocker

May 5, 2010

Dell and Family
I was sorry to recently hear of Clay's passing. He was a great friend back at PHS where we played baseball together. He was always positive. Please except my belated condolences.

Denise Ziegler

May 3, 2010

Although I am a newer patient of Dr. Ellis I am able to say that his presence enriched my life. He will definitely be missed by many. My condolences go out to the family and his staff. He is truly in God's hands now and that is evident by the steps he took on this side of heaven.

Lisa Littlejohn

April 28, 2010

I feel privileged to have met such a great man. Dr Ellis was my 13yr old daughter’s orthodontist. We loved him so much that we sent all her friends in need of braces to him. My family is deeply saddened by your loss and we will continue to pray for the Ellis family, coworkers and friends of the family. In his Grace, Tim, Lisa and Macy Littlejohn

Cristina Fabbri

April 24, 2010

I took my husband and youngest son to my last appointment to introduce them to Dr. Ellis when I heard that he had passed away. Dr. Ellis was a kind, friendly, professional, and decent human being. Anyone could see what a wonderful and capable person he was by watching his great staff.
Dr. Ellis, even though we will miss you terribly, we will always think of you with gratitude whenever we smile. I am thankful I had the honor of knowing Dr. Ellis, and my heartfelt sympathy and prayers go to his family and staff.

Susan Chandler

April 23, 2010

My daughter is down to her last two appointments and Dr. Ellis has been and outstanding doctor. I am so thankful she was able to be treated by him. On the first visit I saw that he "got" certain things without having to tell him and that he was a truly good and moral man. I think he had an understanding about basic human nature. We'll be praying for his family and staff, who knew him best and will miss him most.

April 23, 2010

I am so sorry to hear the loss of an awesome man. He was one of a kind , he enjoyed all his patients. I myself was a patient and did a terrific job. My thoughts and prayers go to his wife and family and his staff. ...Mary Gonzalez

Mike Fitzpatrick

April 23, 2010

We've search our hearts and souls for the right words to describe the love this man gave to his community, his staff, his patients and finally his family. There is nothing Clay didn't know about Orthodontics. As with most families I'm sure, Clay treated Debbie, Kaley, Colton and I. What other Orthodontist could you have where you looked forward to your appointments? I'm glad Debbie and I were able to present a Texas flag to Clay from the Governor in recognition for his exceptional work on Colton, as well as all of his patients. I know everyone who ever met Clay will miss his contributions and love for his patients and staff. Our hearts go out to his staff and family in their time of sorrow and if the Fitzpatrick’s can help please don't hesitate.

Angel Pica

April 22, 2010

Dr. Ellis was the kind of person that made you feel very important when you came into is office. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of such a great doctor, husband, father and friend. My thoughts and prayers go out to his entire family and friends.

Sharon Steinecke

April 22, 2010

Oh dear its so hard to see thru the tears. Dr. Ellis was so kind. His staff like family.
One of my best and favorite memories is coming in for an appt. after lunch. He and his staff would do lunch together and then do a circle for a quick prayer before returning to work. But I nevr felt they thought of us paitents as work. More like friends and extended family. How can you not admire and respect a man who inspires that kind of atmosphere in his work place.
I know this is a sad time for family and friends. But I also know by his example how he believed in the Lord and so I say "God bless Clay Ellis".

Bridget Jones

April 22, 2010

A real testament of the authencity and greatness of a man is exemplified by the quality of the attachments of those who surround him. Dr. Ellis' staff, and seemingly his patients, adored him. Throughout the time I've spent as one of his patients, I've never heard a disparaging word about him. He had to be one of the kindest human beings I've ever known. I always thought of him as a "gentle giant." My heart and prayers go out to both his families--those by marriage and birth, and his staff. He will be truly missed. May God keep you all.

Cindy Isham Hyde

April 22, 2010

I had the privilege of working for Dr. Ellis in the early eighties when he was a new orthodontist. I was a young high school student who was lucky enough to have Dr. Ellis as a mentor. I learned so much from him and Dell. I now own several businesses of my own and often tell people what an impact Dr. Ellis and Dell made on my life. He was a funny, delightful man to have known. My thoughts and prayers are with Dell and the children.

Brigette Villarreal-Flores

April 22, 2010

Dr. Ellis was such a great man! Very giving and always willing to help anyone with anything!!! He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends!

Suzanne McCabe

April 22, 2010

What a great man who will be missed by many! Erin, Allison & I wish all the family comfort in knowing how many lives he touched in important ways. We are all better people for having known him.

Jayne Ragon

April 21, 2010

It's been several years ago that both my children were being fitted for their braces. Dr. Ellis had something special about interacting with children. He truly cared about his patients. He was one of Gods special angels. At this difficult time my family and I send our deepest sympathy.

Mary Ann Erwin

April 21, 2010

Thank you DR. Ellis for providing great care and results for all five of my children. He made my son Brent's dream come true when he not only gave him his great Ranger baseball seats,but also arranged for him to meet Ricky Henderson!

DeeAnne Row

April 21, 2010

My daughter Chelsea has been a patient of Dr. Ellis for years and is now 20. We were so saddened to hear of his death. Our hearts go out to the entire Ellis family and office staff. Dr. Ellis was a very kind and loving man that set both his patients and the parents of the patients at ease in his presence.

Rosemarie LaVilla

April 21, 2010

My heart is broken at the loss of this "gentle giant." Gentle in his ways, and Giant in his outpouring heart that seemed limitless...May God draw us all closer to Him, through this time...

Katie Culpepper

April 21, 2010

Dr. Ellis was a great man. I was his first 7 year old patient and he took to me like his own child. I can not even begin to put into words the respect and appreciation I have for him. He made feel so important and taught me the importance of my smile. He will be missed.

Jan Posey

April 21, 2010

I am one of Dr. Ellis' more mature patients. I am so thankful that on February 22 I got to tell him how happy I am with his beautiful work and I received a big, warm hug.

April 20, 2010

We are so very sad to hear of Dr. Ellis. Both my kids, Matt & Meredith were patients and I have great "take the braces off today" photos of them with Dr. Ellis. They loved him and his staff. He set the tone and everyone in that office was so sweet with the kids. He will be missed, dont know how he could ever be replaced.
Patty Lux

Christine Chapman

April 20, 2010

I did not know Dr. Ellis long, but every time I walked into his office he always called me by name and asked how I was doing. I always thought it was amazing how he was able to remember all of his patients by name. He will be missed, and it will not be the same walking into his office. My prayers are with you all!

G. Evanello

April 20, 2010

To great practioner and a kind soul, you will be very much missed. God bless.

Gina Escobar

April 20, 2010

Dr. Ellis was a very patient and kind man. He Always had something pleasant to say. I am so saddened to hear of his passing as I just returned from a trip. It will not be the same going to his office. I have him to thank for my beautiful smile. Gina Escobar

Gary Abel

April 20, 2010

First met Dr Ellis in 1985 or 1986 as my orthodontist, never dreamed he would be doing my daughters later in life. What a business man and what a good man. Rest in peace Brother.

Matt Roberts

April 20, 2010

I was extremely saddened to learn of Dr. Ellis' death. I was a patient of his for over six years in the 90's along with many of my peers. Dr. Ellis made you feel like you were his only patient - he knew everything about you and he was always one of those people I could count on and could talk to about anything. To the Ellis family and the staff - you all are in my thoughts and prayers.

stephanie patton

April 20, 2010

Dr. Ellis will truly be missed. Such a caring and warm spirit, giving in everyway. Thank you, I will always remember you when i look in the mirror everyday!

Stephanie Patton (Arlington, TX)

Cynthia Hubbard

April 20, 2010

I remember Dr. Ellis as a kind, generous and hospitiable man. I worked for a referring dentist to his practice. Every Christmas, I remember he would open his house to us and invite his extended dental family over at the holidays. Thoughts and prayers with his family.

Phil Pan

April 20, 2010

I am deeply saddened by the loss of Dr. Ellis. It was a shock to hear the news.

Words are hard to find for someone who was so giving in so many areas. His dedication to all aspects of his life and encouragement/inspiration to others will be greatly missed. He was such a wonderful person.

My heart goes out to the Ellis family and staff.

Amanda Boggus

April 20, 2010

This news really astounds my family and I. Dr. Ellis was my orthodontist for about 9 years. He's always been just the sweetest man. So caring, gentle, sweet, and very quiet from all of my experiences with him. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends, especially all the caring people who worked with him.
-The Boggus Family

John Skeels

April 20, 2010

I am deeply saddened by the loss of Dr. Ellis. While the time I have known him was short and only on a Dr./Patient basis, I developed a great respect for him. His work and dedication to me as a patient changed my life. For that I will forever be grateful. I want to express my heartfelt condolences to his family, friends and wonderful staff.

Bobbie Lambert

April 20, 2010

To the Ellis family and staff, My heart goes out to you all. I was deeply saddened at the news of his passing. Dr Ellis was fantastic orthidontist. As his patient, he always made me feel at home when I came in for my appointments. I am grateful to have had the opportunity to know him. He will be missed by so many. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God give you Peace and Comfort.

Michele Church

April 20, 2010

My family's love and prayers go out to Dr. Ellis' family & staff. My daughter and 2 nieces were patients of Dr. Ellis and we all loved him. He was a genuinely kind and caring man who we always looked forward to seeing. We trusted hiim completely with all our orthodontic work. I am so saddened that he is gone. He will be so very missed by so many people.

The Jan and Steve Klein family

April 20, 2010

To Dr. Ellis' staff, his family, all of his friends, colleagues, and the group I belong to: his patients....

I have had an incredible week of helping welcome our third grandchild to the world and returned last night from more "grandma duties" when I received the kind notice from the staff that Dr. Ellis had passed on. I am profoundly saddened at the loss of this soft-spoken man who had found his vocation in life; who put so much effort in making others feel comfortable. There are so many of us who were touched by the kindnesses shown to us under Dr. Ellis care and it also filtered down through his staff to us.

I had met Dr. Ellis when he was doing community work at Moore Elementary when my son was about 8 (about 1988). He so impressed me that I made a note of this kind man for the future - when I hoped after raising the children and I was brave enough to endure the pain, and we had a little more income, I could get my teeth worked on and save my smile! The timing was before our daughter's wedding in 2003: I came to Dr. E and he seemed to know what I was going to ask before I asked it ! He worked around the wedding so no appliance showed in the photos and scheduled the most painful adjustments after the wedding. When I had a bad experience with the dentist I was seeing, he stayed after hours and helped me through the pain and discussed what our next steps should be. We worked around my uneven schedule of out-of-town trips to help my extended family for long periods of time. Through Dr. Ellis' work he did not just offer a "service" - he cared about the individual and how to accomplish the goal of a better smile by this commitment of individualized care for each person. No "herd" mentality though his office was always full. He remained upbeat and a "cheerleader" for us all. When you occasionally met some of your friends and neighbors in his waiting room, it was always the same: Dr. E (and staff!) were the best. I have so many memories over the seven years I have been under his professional care, he was truly what human beings should aspire to be in their professional careers as in their personal lives - giving so much to others and the world. I do believe that an individual that has so much heart has to be centered in a firm base of faith.

Please accept our sincere condolences on the loss of this wonderful man who touched the lives of so many in his everyday work life in such a positive way. The Arlington community will very much miss this hardworking professional, husband, father, and grandfather.

Memories in the office include -
....before the appointment and the many choices of magazines (or video games !)
.....sitting in his office with daylight streaming in, under the exam lights, and laughing at the new poster-of-the-season on the ceiling...
....the open-air feeling in the office and the staff in their matching scrubs...
....the sports jerseys and dolls in their own, special places on the wall...
....listening to such a blend of musical selections to help relax before each exam....
....photos sent in of the results of Dr. Ellis' work - people of all ages with pretty smiles !
...all those toothbrushes, little tubes of toothpaste, and appliance holders!...
...bubblegum flavored molds/casts made of our mouths!....
...having to move an appointment - again....
...watching the little notes being written in our records for each visit...
...a little motrin before the visit went a long way to help!....
...chatting with staff on various topics - just life and the fun occurrences....
...x-rays, x-rays, x-rays....
...Dr. Ellis whizzing over to your chair on this stool with wheels...
...happy smiles on leaving and the cute little contests run from time to time at the check out/appointment desk.....

-j

Dana Dates and Andre' Daniels

April 20, 2010

God Bless The Family of Dr. Ellis. Dr. Ellis was a blessing to my son, he took Andre' under his wing at the age of 8 until his current age of 19. He was always so helpful and supportive of not only his orthodontic needs but his school and college support. He always made him feel comfortable, just a month ago he had a small problem with his teeth and Dr. Ellis corrected the issue no questions asked. He was a blessing and we will be forever grateful. We will cherish our memories of him and continue to pray for the family during this difficult time.

Melissa, Mike, & Terry Day

April 20, 2010

We were shocked and saddened to learn about the passing of Dr. Ellis. He was a wonderful orthodontist whose caring and compassion were evident to his patients and their families. Peace to you, his family and staff. We were blessed to know him. Melissa, Mike, & Terry Day - Arlington, TX

Jennifer Niemiec Mock

April 19, 2010

My heart goes out to all who knew and loved Dr. Ellis. He will me missed so very much. Rest in peace Dr. Ellis.

April 19, 2010

To the Ellis family you are in our prayers. My son was a patient of Dr. Ellis we where very sad to hear of his passing. May God be with you.

The Hunt family

April 19, 2010

All our prayers and thoughts go out to the Ellis family. Our daughter is a patient of Dr. Ellis. She is very sad at the news of his passing. She has only 2 visits left. Again all our prayers and thoughts go out to you.

James Clark and Family

April 19, 2010

My sympathy and prayers go to the entire Dr. Ellis's family. He was a kind man always showing his concern and interest for people. I will miss seeing him. Barbara K. Bellocchio

Garrett Montgomery

April 19, 2010

I'm so sorry for your loss, I didn't here of Clay's death until Sunday. I wish I could have attended the funeral, my thoughts are with you.

April 19, 2010

We offer condolences to the family and staff. Dr.Ellis was a great doctor and will be deeply missed. Many blessings to the family, and may God bless all who were touched by him. Bryant Family!

Kay Seward

April 19, 2010

I felt very comfortable having Dr. Ellis take care of my daughters orthodontic needs, he cared and she never complained. I always knew she was getting the best care. Dr. Ellis was a wonderful caring man and will be greatly missed.

Pamela Scanlan

April 19, 2010

I was shocked to receive a letter today of Dr. Clay Ellis's passing from his office. I am stunned to say the least. He was such a kind and caring man. I am saddened to learn this tragic news.
Dr. Ellis should also be remembered as a very generous man.

April 19, 2010

Dr. Ellis was such a kind and thoughtful man and a wonderful orthodontist. He will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family. The Lockards

April 19, 2010

Dr Ellis was a very caring person through his dental practice. I have just been a patient for 1 year but I felt very comfortable at his office....He will be greatly missed.
Stephanie Zschirnt Middleton

Kerry McDonald

April 19, 2010

Dr. Ellis was such a wonderful person , My daughter went thru her first fase and was getting ready for her second in October. She absolutley loved him my daughters smile sparkles because of him and we will always remember and be gratefull. Our prayers go out to his family.

Amy Clelland

April 19, 2010

Dr. Ellis was my son's Orthodontist and such a special man. He touched the life of my son as well the lives of many other patients. He truly cared about each one of them and was a true gift from God. My heart is broken for the loss of such a great man. He will be missed in so many ways. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family and close friends and you are in my prayers.

The Farleys

April 19, 2010

Dr. Ellis could make people smile inside and out. His compassion and geniune interest made all his patients feel that they were the most important one. Dr. Ellis was very special to all the Farley girls and he will be dearly missed.

Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Marion Vincent

April 19, 2010

Dr Ellis cared for both of my kids giving them a beautiful smile and confidence.
This is your legacy, you will be remembered.

Josh Wright

April 19, 2010

Dr. Ellis was such a huge part of my life. I have been going to him since I was a little kid. I had the pleasure of phase 1 & 2 of braces with him and a short stint of some final corrections while in college. He was an absolute perfectionist at everything that he did. He was also a great person and truly lived to serve others, he would truly put other peoples needs ahead of his regardless of the situation. I will truly miss him, but cherish all of the memories that I have of this great man. I am very thankful to have had him in my life, for in my line of work your smile is the first thing that people notice about you and he certainly gave me a perfect one. While he did miraculous work on earth both in his office and by touching peoples lives, I find joy knowing he is doing even greater work in heaven at the side of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior. In mourning and loving memory.

Paul and Elvon Jacobs

April 19, 2010

Dell and Family
You are in our thoughts and prayers. What an honor to be associated with Clay and your family while living in Arlington. Paul especially enjoyed working with Clay in the Bishopric. You are a special family, may you be comforted and blessed.

LaTasha Carter

April 19, 2010

Each time I see myself smile, I think of Dr. Ellis. The wonderful, God fearing, Christian man that transformed my smile. Upon walking into the office, I felt more than welcomed by his staff, a true representation of himself. He took the time to talk with each individual patient of his and got to know me and others on a personal level.
When I heard of his demise, I was deeply saddened. I was in shock. My heart goes out to the entire family, the staff and others who have been embraced by Dr. E. He is a great man, and will truly be missed. We will all cherish the great memories forever.

Angelie Zamora

April 18, 2010

Dear Dell and Family,
13 years ago I started working in Arlington as a Dentist. I didn't know anyone. I was a single Mom with a 5 year old child. Dr. Ellis was the only one who welcomed me and took a genuine interest in me, not only as another dentist, but as a friend. Over the years, we have kept interest in what we do and our family lives. He always had encouraging words for me, both professionally and personally. He always insisted that I call him Clay bec for 13 years, I couldn't stop calling him Dr. Ellis. I just have so high regard and respect for him. He had encouraged my son Patick to be the best he can be, in the football field, in class, as a person. My staff and patients loved him. We all loved him! He is a genuine friend and I will truly miss him.

April 18, 2010

What a legacy to leave the world: a million beautiful smiles, and countless more happy memories. Dr. Ellis cared deeply about his patients' lives, and celebrated milestones with them. We admired him, enjoyed him, and will deeply miss him.
Sam and Susan Karnes, Bryant and Andrew

Barry DeWalt

April 18, 2010

Dr. Ellis was a great dentist and an even better person . I am so sad and Arlington will miss him greatly .

Candace Washington

April 17, 2010

Words will never fully express the joyful experience that i've had since i have worked for a man who never let me call him "the boss" but instead, " friend". At first i didnt understand it, but over the past 6 1\2 years i have worked for him, it became apparent to me he wasnt just the boss and he was in fact my FRIEND. If you were ever graced to be in his presence you know exactly what i mean and where i am coming from :-).
What an exemplary man he was and still is to me. There will only be one DrE. i thank God for all the memories that i will forever hold in my heart. Dell, Jennifer, Courtney, Jon, Chase, Carter and the rest of the family, my heart, thoughts and prayers are extended to you in this difficult time.....
Wow, i could go on and on but mostly Dr E, i love you and thank you for always being you and teaching me to stand for excellence or nothing at all!!!!!!!!!!

April 17, 2010

Dr. Ellis is remembered fondly by my family, which may seem odd for having been the one who made the children's teeth hurt over and over, LOL. He was kind, generous, and always made it as pleasant of an experience as possible. His office was a happy place. Travis and Elizabeth owe the beauty of their smiles to him. His family and friends are in our thoughts and prayers.

Diane Stamper

Kimberly Richardson

April 17, 2010

Very saddened to learn of Dr. Ellis' death. I can remember 25 years ago when I had to start wearing braces and going to him. I was not always the most cooperative about doing what I should while wearing braces and thereafter when I got my retainers. But he was always so patient with me. I can remember how nice he was and seemed to always be whistling a tune. I was also one of those little girls who just had to have braces put on my Cabbage Patch dolls. I think somewhere all those dolls still have braces. Dr. Ellis you will be dearly missed.

Tamara McNiel

April 17, 2010

Court,
I dont think that any man could live up to what your father was- kind, generous, tender-hearted and incredibly loving. He was always so nice to me, almost treating me like a daughter and I will never forget that. I wish I could have thanked him for his kindness that he showed me. I am so saddened by his death and by the grief that you and your family now share. If ever you need a friend, I am always here for you. All my love.

Era White

April 17, 2010

Dr. Ellis was an exemplary person. He was my daugheter's orthodontist for the past 8 years. He made her smile with confidence for the first time in her life. We are very saddened and will miss him very much. Our sincere condolences to his family, staff and friends. Era, Alyson White and family

Carol Burns

April 17, 2010

Three of our family members have lovely smiles because of dear Dr. Ellis's care in the early 90s. He made our times in his office delightful. His cheerful, warm and caring personality made us comfortable immediately. We actually looked forward to our visits with him no matter what the orthodontia work was going to be. He touched so many lives in such a wonderful way over the years; what a glorious gift to so many. I know you will miss him the rest of the time you spend on earth, but, oh, the magnificent reunion that is ahead for all of you. Just think how many angels will now be wearing braces! I pray you will take heart in the days ahead whenever you look at each other -his and your beloved family members. How God shone on your family because of Clay's love. Sincere wishes for peaceful days to come - Carol, Ryan, and Colin Burns

Janet Lindell

April 17, 2010

We know Dr. Ellis through our sons who went to school with a couple of his children. We also remember him from the football booster club at Martin and from his visits to Ditto Elementary. My youngest son was telling me yesterday how he remembers Dr. Ellis coming up to Ditto to talk about dental health, pass out toothbrushes....and smiles.

We are deeply saddened by his passing and we are keeping the Ellis family in our thoughts and prayers.

The Lindell Family

Kim Merryfield

April 17, 2010

Dear Ellis Family,

It is with a heavy heart that I write this condolence message. As a teacher at the Oakridge School, I had the pleasure of teaching Courtney and through her met other members of the Ellis family--Dell, Jennifer, Jon, Chase, and Carter. Dr. Ellis has an amazing family. His children are a true testament to the kind and loving manner in which he and Dell raised them and taught them to honor and respect others.

I was honored to be a guest in the Ellis home on several occasions and the love that exists within the Ellis family was always extended to their guests.

I pray that God will ease your pain and you will find comfort in His wisdom.

My prayers are with you,
Kim Merryfield

David Nelson

April 17, 2010

Though I did not know Clay all that well, he was always very kind and always made an effort to say hello to me. Whether it was at study club or when our staffs would run into each other at Estellas.

My heart aches for your family and you are all in my thoughts and prayers. He made a lot of beautiful smiles in Arlington over the years, including several of my family members. A heart felt thank you Clay for being a great orthodontist and an even better man.

May the Lord bless you and keep you,

David M. Nelson, D.D.S.

Joan, Jon, Adam and Ellie Lord

April 17, 2010

Our family was so stunned and saddened to hear about Dr. Ellis's death. He was the ortho for all four of us in our family, so we have known him for many years. He was one of the warmest, kindest people I have ever known. He cared so much for all of his patients and made everyone feel so special and important. Dr. Ellis was such a shining light in our community. He will be missed so much.

Stacy Rosebrook

April 17, 2010

We had only just met Dr. Ellis as my daughter's orthodontist two months ago and are saddened that we will not get to know him better. Our sincere condolences go to his family and friends.

Shawnda Hermann

April 17, 2010

Our deepest sympathy goes out to the Ellis family and his office staff. I have know Dr. Ellis since I was 12, when he first put braces on me and there was no question who I would take my daughter to 22 years later when she needed braces. Dr. Ellis was the best at what he did.

He had a way of making you feel special. He would always make a comment on how beautiful your smile was looking, but would always say that you were beautiful already. He was always so positive and always in a good mood. He had a very special way of making his patience feel at ease. Especially if they were nervous about getting braces. I remember when he put braces on his daughter Cabbage Patch doll to help her get over her anxiety about getting braces. It was such a hit, that he started doing it for all his patients free of charge. He was truely a great person.

Dr. Ellis was not only a great orthodontist, but a great person. He touched the lives of many thru his community involvement. He was a true giver.

We feel blessed to have known Dr. Ellis for his short time here on Earth, but will miss him dearly. In the words of my youngest daughter , who was about to see Dr. Ellis for braces, " Who will make my smile pretty now?"

Our deepest sympathy,
The Hermann Family
Lonnie, Shawnda, Kaitlyn & Megan

Sid Evans

April 17, 2010

My heart goes out to this wonderful family at this time. what a wonderful family this man created and know that you will be together again. God bless you all.

Janne Gee

April 17, 2010

I Only met Dr. Ellis a few short times professionaly but was able to see him at church on numerous occasions. What a wonderful man. The world will be a much sadder place without him in it.

Lauren

April 17, 2010

I am so blessed to have had Dr.Ellis as my orthodontist for the past 6 years. He was the nicest man and always so kind to everybody I always looked forward to going to my appts. because he wasnt just like any orthodontist he was very caring towards his patients. He would do anything to make sure you were happy. I thank god I got the chance to know such a wonderful person. He will always be remembered..my prayers go out to the Ellis family.

April 17, 2010

I am deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Dr. Ellis. He was my orthodontist when I was 15 years old, ..that was 18 years ago. He was always so welcoming, and truly cared about his patients. I will never forget all the Scholastic posters he had posted on the ceiling for us kiddoes to look at, as we were being seen. I had the honor of seeing him last year to glue my retainer back on that he gave me 18 years ago. He was such a nice man, and will be missed. My condolences go out to his family. God bless.

Lainie, Robert, Jeff, and Sarah Byrnes

April 16, 2010

Dear Ellis Family,
We were stunned and saddened to hear of Dr. Ellis' death. He was Jeff's orthodontist and was always cheerful and kind. One page of Jeff's senior scrapbook was dedicated to the day that Dr. Ellis took his braces off. Dr. Ellis patiently posed with his arm around Jeff for me to take pictures which are included on the page along with Jeff's entry about the big event. Jeff wrote that for the hour or so that it took to remove brackets and sand glue off, he and Dr. Ellis "talked about football and how senior year is going". Dr. Ellis took time to find out what was going on in his patients' lives and expressed interest. We appreciated him and feel blessed to have had him as part of our lives for the two years that he treated Jeff. May God bless you and comfort you!

Angie Smith Payne

April 16, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of the news. Dr. Ellis was my orthodontist about 25 years ago, and I still have my cabbage patch doll with braces. My parents didn't have alot of money then, and I remember during my consultation, my mom was very concerned with paying for them. Dr. Ellis told her not to worry and to pay when she could and that he wasn't worried about it.
So thank you Dr. Ellis for my beautiful smile and for being such a caring individual!
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family, friends and staff and all the lives that he touched through out the years.

Lance and Peggy Whetten

April 16, 2010

Dell,
Peggy and I were so troubled and sad to hear about Clay. Over the years as I have related to my kids the crazy characters I encountered during my education Clay was always on the list. What a great friend he was during those years. In addition I remember him asking me questions about the Church on more than one occasion. Turns out he wasn't just making fun of us. Its too bad we didn't stay closer after our years at St. Louis U since we had both Orthodontics and the Gospel in common. Please know that you and your family in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.

Alex Serrano

April 16, 2010

I sat in Dr. Ellis's chair for 7 years...as many kids would hate going to the dentist, I was always pretty excited. He always made me smile and he always smelt great! That is important when you are breathing through your nose while he's doing his job : ) I am one of the four kids in my family to have blessed with Dr. Ellis's talents. We loved him so much and are completely saddened by the loss of such a wonderful man. Our prayers go out to the Ellis Family and Staff. We are very sorry for your loss.

Gary Wallace

April 16, 2010

Clay was a fun and happy person to be around. We enjoyed spending time with your family on several occasions and were impressed by Clay's open friendliness and unpretentious nature. You are all wonderful people. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family, Dell.

April 16, 2010

Rob, Patti, Katy & Becky Franz

April 16, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family and office staff as we join you in mourning the loss of Dr. Ellis. Both of our daughters have beautiful smiles thanks to him and his patient, caring demeanor and outstanding skills. He was never too busy to answer another question, to listen to the latest events in their lives and to make each girl feel special. His passing leaves an empty spot in so many lives.

Ashley Bruce

April 16, 2010

I am so blessed to have known Dr.E. He has taught me everything I know about creating a beautiful smile. He always did so very much for me and my family. He always went that extra mile for all of us at the office and for every person that ever walked into his life. I will miss him so very much! May God comfort his family and friends during this trying time.

Lindsay Wright

April 16, 2010

To know Dr. Ellis is to be blessed. He was truly an extraordinary man in every sense of the word! He was a kind and caring man and his family was everything to him. If everyone were to emulate him, then the world would truly be a better place. He was a wonderful orthodontist and I feel blessed to have had him in my life. I am going to miss his warm smile and his bear hugs!

Nina Louden

April 16, 2010

I was very honored to have know Dr. Ellis. He treated me for braces when I was 22. He made me feel like it was no problem to be an adult and get braces! I will never forget his kindness and always positive attitude! I was pregnant when I had my braces removed and he wanted to make sure that I brought my baby in for the entire staff to see! He will be so missed ! ~ Nina Louden - Arlington,Tx

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