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David Wayne Whitehead Sr.

1954 - 2004

BORN

1954

DIED

2004

David Whitehead Obituary

David Wayne Whitehead Sr., 50, retired , went home to be with his Lord and Savior, Wednesday, Nov. 10, 2004.

Funeral: 2 p.m. Saturday at Lucas Funeral Home Memorial Chapel. Burial: Isham Cemetery. Visitation: Friday 6 to 8 p.m. Friday at the funeral home.

Survivors: Wife, Patty Whitehead; son, David W. Whitehead Jr.; daughter, Melanie Campbell and husband, Tsgt. Dale E. Campbell II; parents, Doris Whitehead and F.W. Whitehead; brother, Don Whitehead and wife, Kathy; sister, Darla Burns and husband, Mark; and grandchildren, Kyla Campbell, Katelyn Campbell and Colton Campbell.

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Published by Star-Telegram on Nov. 12, 2004.

Memories and Condolences
for David Whitehead

Sponsored by Patty," I'll love you forever.".

51 Entries

Kyla Campbell

July 12, 2010

The other day I was asked if we could go back in time where would you go??? This is how I responded to that heartfelt question.

When my family would go down to Corsicana to visit my Nana and Papaw was the best time in my life. I would be riding in the little train Papaw built or riding in his lap on the lawn mower. I would follow him around while he goes in the shed to build something new and extravagant. I would be sitting on the trampoline with him pushing me up and down. We would be in the pool playing and splashing and having a blast. I would be riding around in his jeep watching the sides of the rode to see if there were any turtles to put in my turtle farm. I would be in the Cingular store working in the back in my own little store that was just for me playing with all the phones. I would be in the Nana's Gift Shop choosing which item I would want and I ALWAYS chose one of the long legged dinosaurs. I would be standing next to his casket just hoping it was a dream. That I would just wake up and he would be right there with me slung over his shoulder, but down in my heart I knew that he was gone with Jesus, watching over me. He would tell me just to stop crying and know that someday I would be with him and we would be praising the lord in Heaven. Even though I know how much he still loves me it is hard for me to grasp that even though we are going to Nana and Papaw's Papaw won’t be there. It's hard for me to grasp that when I see his picture that is all that’s left for me to hold of him. It’s hard for me to handle around Christmas, Thanksgiving and My Birthday that he won’t be there with the rest of the family. But what is easy for me to handle and I love knowing is that he is there watching over me helping me through the struggles of life and waiting for the day that I will be walking through the gates of Heaven and into his arms. I love and miss dearly, my defender, my best friend, my hero, my Papaw.

Kyla Campbell

September 12, 2009

Papaw I have missed you so incredibly much but I know your with Jesus and sometimes I am jealus of you that you get to see Jesus and God but, I know someday are whole family will be together in heaven worshiping Christ. I sleep with Tannny every night. I can't sleep without her. Me, Katelyn, and Colten went to Nana camp this summer. I went to 2 girl scout camp I went to horse camp I kept on thinking this is something Papaw would do. Even though Colten was barely 2 months old when you died we can show hinm a picture of youand he nows right off the bat who it is. I miss you every moment of the day. Ilove you forever and ever.

J S

April 23, 2009

Dear Whitehead family,
I can't say how deeply sad I was to find out about the passing of your father and husband. I was honored and blessed to have met David all those years ago at CAmp. My favorite part of camp was watching all the slideshows that he put together. He saw moments in time and captured them for us so that we never forgot the bond we all formed there. That to me is more special than anyhting I could ever ask for. I remember asking him tons of questions about cameras and all his equipment and he always was patient and answered them all. You all are in my prayers always!

Patty Whitehead

November 11, 2008

David,It has been 4 years and we still miss you sooo much. Kyla and Katelyn spent the night with me on Saturday night,and they talked about how much they miss their Papa.My Heart aches for you still and probably always will,I miss your Bear Hugs. I miss the country just sitting out on the porch on Saturday mornings with you and enjoying the scenery. We loved the country and that was a happy time in our lives. I just wish we could turn back time. I told Kyla and Katelyn on Saturday(they didn't understand why you had to go away) that Jesus had a very special job he needed you to do in Heaven and that you were the only person that could do that job.I just wish you could be here to share their time. Kyla is in Band and playing the French Horn you would be so happy. We would be keeping the roads hot to Wichita Falls to go to her concerts. I figure by now we would have already moved to Wichita Falls. You would be involved in everything they are doing.You would be so proud of your Daughter,Son and Son-in-law they have been my rock. David had lived with me since I got my own place,but just moved out starting his own life and doing a very good job. Melanie is sooo involved with the Kids (just like us) I don't know how she does it,but she pulls it off with such a hit. Dale has moved up in the Airforce and doing great. Just got a promotion and a great Dad. I know your looking down from Heaven with a smile. Your long lectures paid off you've got Great Kids. Love you soooo much! You were my Best Friend and I could'nt have asked for a better husband. You were God's Gift to me. I thank him everyday for giving you to me and for giving me 2 beautiful kids a great son-in-law and 3 of the greatest Grandkids. They all have such a love for our whole Family and such Godly character. You would be amazed,as I am everyday. Thanks for all your love.

Love you forever and ever!!!!
Patty

Patty Whitehead

November 11, 2008

David,It has been 4 years and we still miss you sooo much. Kyla and Katelyn spent the night with me on Saturday night,and they talked about how much they miss their Papa.My Heart aches for you still and probably always will,I miss your Bear Hugs. I miss the country just sitting out on the porch on Saturday mornings with you and enjoying the scenery. We loved the country and that was a happy time in our lives. I just wish we could turn back time. I told Kyla and Katelyn on Saturday(they didn't understand why you had to go away) that Jesus had a very special job he needed you to do in Heaven and that you were the only person that could do that job.I just wish you could be here to share their time. Kyla is in Band and playing the French Horn you would be so happy. We would be keeping the roads hot to Wichita Falls to go to her concerts. I figure by now we would have already moved to wichita Falls. You would be involved in everything they are doing.You would be so proud of your Daughter,Son and Son-in-law they have been my rock. David had lived with me since I got my own place,but just moved out starting his own life and doing a very good job. Melanie is sooo involved with the Kids (just like us) I don't know how she does it,but she pulls it off with such a hit. Dale has moved up in the Airforce and doing great. Just got a promotion and a great Dad. I know your looking down from Heaven with a smile. Your long lectures paid off you've got Great Kids. Love you soooo much! You were my Best Friend and I could'nt have asked for a better husband. You were God's Gift to me. I thank him everyday for giving you to me and for giving me 2 beautiful kids a great son-in-law and 3 of the greatest Grandkids. They all have such a love for our whole Family and such Godly character. You would be amazed,as I am everyday. Thanks for all your love.

Love you forever and ever!!!!
Patty

Kyla Campbell

October 27, 2008

Papaw I miss you all the time and I wish you still were here. Just the other day I looked at the picture of you and me and I started to cry. It has been Iwhile since I have cryed looking at the picture. I miss you so much. Tear Tear.

Kyla Campbell

September 7, 2008

Papaw I miss you so much i wish you were here. I still have the last picture with just you and me in it and I have to take it everywere cause i am afraid I will loose it.

Roger Brown

September 6, 2008

David,
Just wanted to let ya know,Brother ,We still miss you Very much...and think about you often.We still pray for your entire family alot,because that empty feeling never goes away...I Love You all.
I Love Ya Brother,

Kyla Campbell

April 13, 2008

It has been 4 years since you have been gone. You would laugh at me and Katelyn.Tanny and Brownie (teddy bears)Have there own diaper bag,Christmas Dress, PJ'S and many other clothes. I miss you alot.

Patty whitehead

December 27, 2007

MERRY CHRISTMAS, DAVID

We had a good Christmas, Missed you so much. Kyla Katelyn and Colten spent the night as always on Christmas Eve. You've would have been up late putting Colten's workbench together.Mom and Dad bought his first Lincoln Logs and Don and Kathy bought his first Gun (rifle). I know you were smiling from Heaven with Gratitude for them carry on your Tradition. You would be so proud of the Kids (Melanie, Dale and David Jr). They are taking good care of me. Colten is even asking about Papa he's heard so many stories and we talk about you all the time. They are getting so Big and so grownup. I just wish the LORD would have given you more time to enjoy them all. But we are so thankful for the time you were here with us. Mom and Dad have had a hard 2007, hopefully 2008 will be better. Mom had a Pacemaker and defibulator put in, she is recovering well. Dad,Bappaw had a spell after Mom got out of the hospital. Not sure what happened but has had a hard time,he is slowly getting back to normal. He has had a hard 3 years since losing you. I know you want us to continue own and have a good life. It's just sooo hard.No one can feel the void of you. You were the life of the family get togethers, and the center of our lives. Just want you to know how much we LOVE YOU and MISS YOU. Our lives will forever be changed because you are no longer here to travel this journey with us. But you will never be forgotten and will forever live in our hearts. I know one day we will all be together again and what a celebration we will have. Just wanted you to know that we have not forgotten you and you will live forever in our memories.That can't be taken away. You lived a full life and filled everyday of our lives with lots & lots of Sweet Sweet Memories. Thank you for being such a good Husband Dad and Papa. Love you forever. Patty

Becki (Aikins) Wilbert

November 9, 2007

Dear Whiteheads-
I have thought of you often recently and have prayed for you all countless times (and will continue to do so). I know you all miss David so much! We all do ! He is/was a great friend. I have thought about the reunion of the camp that God built and I can't help but think of him fondly. I will always remember you David - thanks for giving so much to all of us that you came in contact with - we are all forever changed ! Miss you and will see you again someday! Love to all !

Sonya Mitchell

November 8, 2007

You and your family are always in my prayers!

Patty Whithead

June 17, 2007

Happy Fathers Day, You were the best dad in the world, and even a better papa.Words cannot explain how much we miss you. The day Melanie was born you were on cloud 9 you and Darla had to go pick out the cutest outfit (blue gingham checked with a bonnet) she was center of attention the day she left the hospital, she had certainly won her Daddys heart and throughout the years she had you wrapped around her finger. Then 5 years and 10 months we added to our family a beautiful son, which carried on his Daddys name. You were so proud, we were skeptical about getting a boy since girls run in the Sneed family, but we had done it. Again you were BEAMING WITH PRIDE you had a son and he would carry on your name. He made you so proud in every way he was the perfect son and idolized his dad.I could not have asked for a better husband and Dad for my children, you were Gods choice for me. The lord had truly blessed me with a loving husband and Dad, you would lay down your life for me and our kids. You were a very protected husband and Dad wanting only the best for your family. Then the day we were blessed with grandbabies we did'nt think it could get any better. You loved being a PAPA. I just wish you could be here to share their stories and see their laughter they miss their Papa so much. They tell me stories all the time about their memories with Papa, and my heart breaks when they want you to be here with us. They send balloons up to heaven with a message to their papa. There is not a day that goes by that my heart does'nt ache for you, and I feel bitter because I need you here and the kids and babies need you too.Maybe someday I will understand why you had to leave this world ahead of your time but in the mean time I wish you a Happy Fathers day from your loving wife and your 2 beautiful kids and 3 of the cutest grandbabies in the world.I love you more than words can say and i wish you were here so I could cuddle with my great big teddy bear, I miss my BEAR HUGS.Love you so much I will meet you at the gates of heaven, where I know you will be waiting for me.Love you forever. Patty

Tiffany Todd-Fitch

November 17, 2006

Melanie asked me to share this here. I wrote this right after she told me he was gone. He will always be missed.

In Memory of a Great Man
David Whitehead
1954-2004

Occasionally a person touches our life, making the world a better place...

Today I have lost one of those people.

Long drives around town, with two young girls, not yet old enough to drive. To the mall, to a friend's house, to the movies, past the homes of boys we loved so we could honk and giggle.

Christmas ornaments lovingly made by his own hands for each child in our elementary school class. They still hang on my tree each year, a way for me to share him and a time that is so precious to me with my own children.

Taco Bell or Taco Bueno every weekend and giggly sleepovers, he never failed in his patience.

A father to me when I did not have one.

A man with the biggest heart in the world....

My dearest friend from childhood lost her father Wednesday night and I lost something as well. I didn't realize how hard it would hit me. I'd forgotten how much he meant to me.

I grew up and away from her, from him. I didn't tell him what a difference he made in my life and I can't stand that.

I hope he knew

how much he meant

and how special he was...

Thank you David and I wish you well on your journey...

--Tiffany Todd-Fitch

Kyla Campbell

November 13, 2006

That Night

That night,I was at Awanas.
Trying to eat, but couldn’t
Someone told it was time to pull my tooth, so I did
It was first tooth that I lost.
I spent the night at a friend’s house.
We played on the computer.
My mom called but I didn’t know it was her.
She had the worse news that I could think of.
She came the next day and told me the news…
My best friend, my hero, my Papa had died.
That Night, That Night, That Night.
I cried that whole ride.
We went to the funeral, I couldn’t take it I had to cry.
That Night.

Poem By Kyla Campbell age 9
I miss you Papa!

Don Whitehead

November 11, 2006

David,
It’s been two years since you left us. It seems like such a short time ago. A lot has changed in those two years. David’s graduated from college, Melanie is doing a great job of raising your grandkids and Patty has remained strong through all of her grief. You would be proud.
Aaron has grown taller than me, Amanda is a junior in college and continues to amaze me. Mom and Dad are doing well and continue to hold the family together with God’s Love.
Seems like everyday I’ll be going through day and suddenly remember something we did together or said to each other. I think that’s Gods way of reminding us how much you loved your family.

Don Whitehead

November 11, 2006

Alice May Baker

November 11, 2005

In spite of all the things we have gone thru this past year..we have never failed to think of and often talk about David Wayne. he was so special to us.We just celebrated our fiftieth anniversay and how he would have loved that !He loved special occasions. What a time we will all have when we gather around the throne of God..The boys can play their horns and The rest of us will chime in with what ever we play and Heaven will set up and take notice. God has brought us all a long way this year,Dear Whiteheads and His grace and comfort will sustain till eternity ends.We love each of you. Patti,Davey and Mel..Please let us know if we can help you in any way.

You will continue to be in our prayers.

Harold & Alice Baker

Don Whitehead

November 10, 2005

David Wayne Whitehead Sr. Age 50, went home to be with his Lord and Savior, Wednesday, Nov. 10, 2004.

Today is the one year anniversary of the passing of David. There hasn’t been a day that’s gone by that I don’t think about him. We had some great times together.

David was not afraid to try anything, often involving me in some of his adventures. Like jumping off the roof of our house onto our trampoline with me on it…the same trampoline that Tim threw up on. Or talking me into lying down at the end of a 2x6 ramp and letting him jump over me on his motorcycle. Those are stories I will always remember. As time goes by I realize more and more how blessed I was to have had David as my brother.

Our parents instilled in us the true meaning of unconditional love. David did the same in his family and he would be proud of them.

Patty, I know David would be proud of you for going through such a tragedy with dignity and grace. You are a strong woman.

Mel, your dad was so proud of you and your family. He was confident that you would raise your kids with the same love and affection that he gave to you.

It is now your job to keep the conversation going at family get-togethers….you’ve been blessed with that gift from him.

David, your toughness and tenacity you got from him have followed you since birth when we came close to losing you. You beat the odds and have grown into be a fine young man. I see him in you.

I love you all and I pray that God continues to bless the family and keeps them safe.

Tim Baker

November 8, 2005

It's almost impossible to believe it has been a year since my brother left this earth. I miss him daily. I know you do too!

tb

Sonya Mitchell

May 13, 2005

Mrs. Whitehead, Melanie, David

I know today is going to be very emotional for all of you. Thats's ok. Celebrate him! It's his birthday!I hear about "Dad" almost everytime Melanie and have a conversation. Melanie is definitely a "daddy's girl". I hope that she enjoys that cake tonight in celebration of you. HAPPY BIRTHDAY Mr. Whitehead. Say hello to my father for me.

Justin Brown

February 28, 2005

I just don't know where to begin, I know this entry is late but then I don't know if I could ever adequately express my feelings. David was one of the greatest men I will ever know, I remember at church camp it was impossible to have a bad day as David would always be doing or saying something kind , or absolutely hilarious or just wrapping you up nearly engulfing you with one of the greatest hugs that I may never find again in this life. I remember spending time with him and davey (sorry bud)at the house in corsicana riding the four wheelers, or shooting the shotguns and rifles at nothing at all (well except for that one bird in the trees way across the creek that davey and I didn't believe he could hit from such a distance, which we later found out was a mockingbird and he definantly got it!) I will always cherish these and many other memories which are far to many to recount here. I guess bottom line all that needs to be said was that David was a great, loving man, who we all saw as a father or brother whether we were actually related or not.... butmost of all a great friend! I guess you all knew that already though. David you will be loved and missed dearly! Thank God for the precious time I was able to spend with you, you shaped my life in so many ways. JR you know how to reach me if you need me buddy, my condolences to the rest of the family as well I love you all so much, thank you for allowing me to be a part of your family!

Audrey Mitchell

January 17, 2005

Dear Patty and family,I guess it's time I try to put into words my feelings for David. I haven't known David since he was born as Alice, Peggy and others have, but I do have cherished memories.

My memories begin about the time you and he were dating. I guess I became better acquainted with you first. When we worked together w/Missionettes.

Then came that first year of youth camp "1986". David came as a worker and a special bond developed. We became like family. For 15 years, sometimes we laughed together, sometimes we cried, and always we prayed together.

That first year we were all taking pictures and I mentioned how neat it would be if we could make slides and show them in our Friday morning assembly. Well, guess what, David made it happen and everyone was so excited to see themselves as they went through the week while listening to "Friends are friends forever." Over the next 15 years that tradition evolved from running into Waco for developing, to developing in dorms, then the computer and then a video.

When I got the news of David's heart condition I thought, "How will I ever do camp without him," but guess what, I didn't have to. When that week in August came he was there as always.

All of you are such a big part of my life. We share so many memories together, there's not enough room here if I were to begin.

Seeing Melanie grow from a beautiful baby, to a toddler, a teen, young lady, beautiful bride, and now wife and mother.

Davey as a baby and everyone at church praying for him as he was rushed to the hospital, later a youngster in my Sunday School class, and now a handsome college man.

You Patty, through your surgery, and our times together preparing for Mother/Daughter banquets, Missionettes activities such as Winter Festival and retreats.

So many memories and I love them all.

I'll never forget.

Betty/Boop Chandler

January 17, 2005

To all the family --I didn't know a lot about David, but what I did know, he always reminded me of a Gentle Giant--I always loved it when he was at Youth camp when I was there, he had such good repore with the kids & I saw the love he had for each of them--I also know that some of the love he shared come from his precious Mom & Dad,they did a wonderful job raising him & it was evident-

therefore he passed that on to his beautiful kids--

Love to all, Betty Chandler--Herndon

Mike Langham

January 17, 2005

Dear Patty & family,

Until just recent times I have not been a frequent face around the old gang, as I used to be as a teen and for a bit later on. I feel as though I have robbed myself of alot of good memories as I remember Tim and Don and I going over to David and Patty's often as a teen soon after they were wed. I have good memories of then. David was always quick to bring a smile, a hug, or a good belly laugh, and I know there is a big hole in everyone's heart because a big presence will be missed. God bless you Patty in your loss, for I cannot imagine how you and the Whiteheads must feel. I know there must be a special place reserved for souls like his

Charlie Mckay

January 8, 2005

I have so many memories of David. One night he scared Don and I while watching Texas Chainsaw massacre at the drive in. He wanted to dive off the second floor balcony into the pool at his batchelor party. He dared us to hit him in the stomach with a metal folding chair at the church kitchen to show how much stronger he was than we were. (and he was strong). Faith and I met he and Patty carrying groceries to his car, just days after open heart surgery. I was one of his first clients when he opened his massage therapy office, and I thought he would break my back, he was so strong. His strength was one of the most outstanding things about him. He and Patty loved my sister Jeannie and her husband Calven. They are now part of a cloud of witnesses, and I look forward to seeing him again.

Lisa Timmerman

January 5, 2005

Oh goodness...he was so wonderful at all he did! He was so creative and Mel and I have the HUGE hairbows, fabric-covered scrapbooks and Homecoming mums and garters to prove it. He was always at everything we did whether it was a band concert or a football game. Mel, he loved you so much. What a great dad he was to you and Davey (I don't care if David gets mad at that or not!!:)and to all of us that were lucky to be "adopted" by him simply by being your close friend. I have always felt like a part of your family and you have always done all the "grown up things" first and been able to help me through each life stage. I am so so very sorry that you had to to this stage first. Love Always, Lisa

John Starnes

December 23, 2004

The night I got the phone call about David it really bothered me, although we knew of his heart problems. Unfortunately that problem runs in our family. David was well known for his hugs, computer and camera knowledge, but he also had a way of telling stories that put you there. I have a couple of stories of David. The first takes place every Sunday at church. I was about 5 or 6 years old and David and Patty were dating. When ever I saw him I had to sit next or actually stand next to him and that meant seperating David and Patty but he or Patty never complained. He was always a special cousin of mine. So when I got married there was no question I wanted David to be a part of my wedding. That day as the photographer was taking pictures he needed some help so we pointed at David and with no questions asked and no explantions needed he jumped in to help take pictures. That was my cousin David. He was like Homer Hurst. If you ever met you never forgot him.

Marty McFarland

December 20, 2004

Patty, Melanie and David Jr.,

Words cannot express how much David was loved by so many people. He was a good friend for any one to have, because he was such a giver. He was someone who truly knew how to love. He was so proud of his family and as you can tell by the stories that have have been posted, anyone that didn't know him could tell how good of a man he was.

My memories of good times with David were times that we spent running the river and camping out. The times spent talking around camp are precious to me. The funniest time was the time we got kicked out of a State Park for doing nothing wrong. David would stand up for his side of a disagreement even if it meant that everyone that was with him had to find another place to sleep for the night. David and that Game Warden's attitude didn't go too good together. We spent that night and the next day talking and laughing about it. We loved it!

David was a man of integrity and he was true to everyone he considered his friend. He was loved by many, and will be missed by all who knew him. I feel like I am a better person because I knew David.

BJ Burns

December 20, 2004

Dear Patty, Melanie, Dale, David, Jr. and family,

I cannot find the words to express what is in my heart concerning David Wayne Whitehead, Sr. He was truly a GIANT among men. There was nothing that he couldn't or wouldn't do. He squeezed every ounce out of life and left the rest of us wondering how he could do it all. Thank you so much, Patty, for lending him to us every year for 15 years of youth camp. And not just for the week, but all the before and after preparation that goes into something of that magnitude. His photography and videography has helped preserve precious memories for lots of people. But he was not just our photographer. He was a counselor, sound man, Nurse, and whatever was needed at the time. David was our BACKBONE. The male role model that was needed at camp. The strong stick to keep everyone in line and the strong arms to comfort us when things weren't going exactly right. David is truly someone that I would like to pattern my life after in the way that he never backed down to a challenge or a problem, but faced it head on with creative problem solving. I LOVE YOUR FAMILY LIKE MY OWN!!!

Donna McFarland

December 16, 2004

Love, Love, Love!

That's what David was about. What an extraordinary man!

David always made me feel like family and I know he made my boys feel just like they were his own. I've seen David 'take charge', and then I've seen him just stand back and watch, with a big smile on his face. You could tell he was having a good time just watching others have a good time. But, that's how David was....always thinking about others.

I've spent a lot of time with your family and many years of youth camp with David. I have many wonderful memories of those years, and David is a big part of that. I feel very blessed to have been a part of David's BIG family!

By the entries, you can tell David has impacted many lives. I know he will NEVER be forgotten. And when people think of him, they will smile, because he has touched their heart forever, as he has touched mine.

Alexis Geisel

December 13, 2004

Dear Whitehead Family,

I was stunned when my mom, Dinah, told me that David had passed away. I was shocked to hear the news,yet I pray daily that God and His Love are helping you through this. I remember many years at camp, seeing David with his camera, taking pictures and getting into all of the action. I know all of us camp kids looked forward to when the slide show was finished and we got to see the final product of all of his hard work through out the week. We were amazed at his abilty to catch the true spirit of us at our most vulnerable moments, playing watervolleyball, praising God, and growing up. I hope all is well, and that you do know how much he was a part of everyone's life who attended camp, we will always remember him when we open up our camp memory books and see all of those pictures, that he took, that will always be a part of our life.

Charity Sacy

December 13, 2004

Dear Whitehead Family~

David was always one of my favorite people. He knew so much about everything that it seemed I never left his presence without learning something new. I always felt welcome around him, like everyone belonged. I used to love to go out to the house to spend the night because there was always something to do that I normally wasn't able to do at my house. :) One of my most favorite memories was out in Corsicana on the 4th of July. I had such a wonderful time that day, and to top it off we went to the lake to watch the fireworks display. I will never forget how beautiful that was, and what a wonderful time I had with your family. David was also a big inspiration for me to get involved in photography. I admired all the pictures he used to take, and hope that someday I could be as great a photographer as he was. Thank you so much for always allowing me to feel like a special part of your family!

Kathy Whitehead

December 11, 2004

Dear Patty, Melanie & David, Jr ~

Time passes us by so fast and sometimes in our busy schedules we don’t stop to appreciate the blessings that God has bestowed upon us. Patty, you and I have spoken about how fortunate we are to have married into the “Whitehead Family”. This is a family unlike any other family that I have ever met. Unconditional love for family and friends. Unwavering faith and belief in the Lord. These family characteristics were taught to David Sr., Don and Darla and remain core values lived daily by F.W. & Doris (also known as Mom & Dad). That is how David Sr. lived his life.

Shortly after David Sr. passed away, I share with you a revelation that had just occurred to me: David Sr. didn’t really have any “Friends”….in fact, that was because everyone he met became part of his family and he treated them as such. Over the last 21 years, our family has been so fortunate to have created and be able to reflect on some very special times. I still remember the gleam in David Sr.’s eye the day Melanie and Dale were married. I can remember David Sr. talking so proudly about going to David Jr.’s baseball and football games…at times recreating the plays and the excitement for all of us who were huddled around him. Mel and David Jr., your daddy loved you so much and was extremely proud of you both. Of course, I can’t forget the grandkids…Kyla, Katelyn and Colton. Each one of them, honored and adored by their Pawpaw. Today, I began to reflect on our family and the year of 2004. We were together in twice April for Easter and to help move you all into the new house, twice in May for Amanda’s High School graduation party and for Melanie’s baby shower, in July for our annual 4th of July Family and Friends weekend and in September for a Labor Day weekend cookout and our first chance to see baby Colton.

My most cherished memories actually involve the whole family. For the past 9 or so years on July 4th weekend, you and David Sr. opened your house to the whole family. Each year was an unforgettable weekend in Corsicana at Uncle David’s and Aunt Patty’s house. We all looked forward to that holiday to relax with family, catch up on each other’s lives and just “hang out” together. We enjoyed fishing (and cleaning them too), cookouts, homemade banana / pineapple ice cream, fresh summer peaches, games, swimming, riding the four wheelers, boating….and so much more. Then on the night of July 4th, the awesome firework show. It seemed like the fireworks just went on for hours.

David Sr. wore a HUGE smile all weekend long….he truly loved having the family, extended family and friends gather at your house for the weekend. David Sr. embraced the philosophy “The more, the merrier”.

From my family to yours, thank you for the heartfelt memories……I will cherish them forever.

Tim Baker

December 10, 2004

As a footnote to my previous entry I'd like to add something that's on the the cover page of one of my websites. I found it by accident and saved it almost instantly to use for the family website. Anyway here it is:

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But ... only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind, but friendship is clairvoyant.

But David knew this already!

Tim Baker

December 10, 2004

In sharing our memories with each other we also preserve them. My grandfather was very precious to me and the memories he shared with me are treasured. The making of memories is equally important. David Wayne was the king of making memories. The love of photography we shared was only one example. In his belongings are so many memories preserved. I want to share a memory not recorded on film or tape, but only in my heart and mind. Many years ago several of “The Boys” took to fishing on the Brazos River around Weatherford. There were many trips with many different participants. David and I once took a trip, just the two of us. We only planned to stay the day so we only took a loaf of bread and some good old Oscar Mayer’s. Most of the day was spent working on the boat motor and struggling through ankle deep waters and I really don’t remember catching any fish. These trips were not so much about catching fish as they were making memories anyway. We stopped around mid-day and built a small fire. We cut willow branches and roasted those wieners and wrapped them in a dry piece of bread. David said that day that those were the best hot dogs he ever ate. I thought so too. We relived that day many times in conversations over the past 20 years and tonight, I’d love nothing better than to build a little fire and make some old dry hot dogs and remember my friend and brother.

Carrie Brewster

December 10, 2004

Mrs. Whitehead, Melanie, and David Jr.~

Just recently my sister and I were looking through old camp slides and watching old camp videos. You never saw David, but you knew he was there. He was behind the camera taking all of our camp memories. Even though I have not seen or talked to your family since the last camp year, I would like to tell you that you all are as close to me as family. You are all one of a kind and dear people that I will never forget. I will miss Big David and the way that he treated you as if you were his own. Before I end this I have a story. We all came out to Corsicana for David Jr.'s birthday and we went on a hay ride through a grave yard (at night). I was very nervous, but before I could even speak someone came and took me off of the trailer and ran with me into the trees. After it was all over I found out it was Big David and Tim who put that together. Charity and I laugh about that to this day. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Elaina Burns

December 10, 2004

Aunt Patty and all my family,

Its been hard to find the words to say, simply because the shock hasn't wore off for any of us yet. It seems like Uncle David is off doing something or taking a nap, and he'll be back to join us at anytime. The reality is slowly setting in, especially since the holidays are here and he isn’t around sharing the latest computer or graphics info with me, or talking arts and crafts with me. I will always remember our MANY family get-togethers! We always have such a good time enjoying each other’s company and catching up on the latest happenings in our lives. I’m saddened that after over two years my “better half” never had a chance to meet him, and truly get the full grasp of our family togetherness... also, that my soon-to-be-born daughter will never meet one of my relatives whom I shared SO many creative talents with! Although we were different in many ways, I will always remember our creative likenesses... our musical talents, our artistic and crafty side, and our interests with graphic art and computers... Not only will I remember these likenesses that we shared, but more importantly, I will cherish our numerous conversations and ideas that we shared.

Uncle David will truly be missed, however I'm so happy I was able to be there to take care of Pattyrak's so you could leave early for your visit to see Mel & Dale and the kids... I know how important the kids were to Uncle David, and I'm SO glad he was able to spend a few more days with them, just days before his passing. I'm sure if someone had ever asked him how he wanted to spend his last days, it would have been exactly what he did... spending time with those grand-babies! I will always feel extremely grateful and thankful that I was able to help out... words just can’t describe how happy I am that he was able to spend that time with the family!

As sad as the holidays could potentially be this year, I think we all need to remember that Uncle David would not want us to be sad. He would want us to enjoy each other as always, and remember all of the happy times we’ve shared in the past with him! We are so fortunate to have a family with such a strong bond... so I know we will get through this together!

Dinah Geisel

December 9, 2004

Patty & family I understand your pain due to your loss but also your joy as you look to being with David again some day. Early in October I was looking through pictures I took at Bible Way and there your family was. It brought a joy to my heart looking at my friends again after all these years. Our family has such wonderful memories of David and his unselfish giving of his time and energy. I have enjoyed meeting on line with him and miss him each time I send out a message. You are in our prayers and thoughts. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. We love you all and we loved David. May God send His angels to wrap their arms around you all and give you peace.

Alice Baker

December 9, 2004

Dearest Patti,Mel and Davey:(he gave me special permission to call him Davey)

I was there when he came into this world...and I was there when they laid him to rest ! There is not room enough in this guest book to write all the in between.I had the privilege of watching David and Patti both grow up in the church and fall in love and marry and give us two special kids.For the most part , the Whitehead family is very quiet. David's Mom and siblings are all quiet. David was never QUIET ! I told everyone that he took that from my side of the family as I am a big talker and boy did we love talking together.As so many precious memories race though my thoughts,I remember one vacation our families shared in the Great Smokey Mountains. David informed me,not asking my permission but telling me that he,Don and Tim were going on an overnight hike from our campsight and spend the night and hike back the next day.He was about 12 or 13 years old and the oldest of the three. Needless to say with bear everywhere in that wooded area,I told him my son was not going anywhere without a grown up. He was so upset with me that I did not think with all his boy scout training that he could not take care of Don and Tim ! That was David,He never thought there was anything he could not do.I will forever cherish the life of David Wayne Whitehead...my oldest son.

Patti , you know how special you all are to me and I am here for you if you ever need me.

Alice (Mamaw)

Harold Baker

December 9, 2004

Dearest Family:

Because I was not able to be with you during the time everyone was viewing him for the last time, I cannot grasp that he is really gone ! I loved him as if he were my own. Before we had children of our own,he spent many hours with us and has been a part of our family all these many years.The one precious thing that I remember about David growing up was when we lived down the street from the Whiteheads and his Dad was building a room out of their garage. While he was at work,David took his little hatchet into the garage and proceded to hack at the floor joice his Dad put in the night before.F.W. came home to small cuts all up and down on his new boards and in a way that only he could,David put his little hands up and said BUT DADDY I AM JUST A LITTLE BOY ! There will never be another David Wayne. I love you all and you are in my prayers.

Harold(Pappy)

David's little brother... Don

December 6, 2004

Now that I’ve had time to get over some of the great sadness of our lose of David, I think back to when we were growing up and all the good times we had together. For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Don…David’s little brother. He called me that every time I would see him because I was younger. Even though I grew up to be bigger than him he will always be my big brother.

From an early age I didn’t talk much because he would talk for me. I’m sure you can imagine that knowing him. He was the type of guy that if you asked him what time it was, he would tell you how the clock worked. But he knew when to stop talking when you needed someone to listen. At family gatherings he was constantly talking to someone about something…a quality of which I wish I had more of. Now at those family gatherings there will be a sad quietness around the house.

I will miss the loving hugs I would get every time I saw him, that was actually more like an upper body wrestling hold that you weren’t going to get out of until he was done.

But most of all I think I’ll miss the way David always made me feel special when I was around him.

Thank you Lord for those memories that will not go away.

To Patty, Mel, David Jr, and the kids, I could never fill the void in your lives due to your lose, but please know that I will always be there to talk and listen and hug extra hard if you need it.

God Bless You.

Papaw and Kyla

Kyla Campbell

November 27, 2004

My Papaw was one of my bestest friends.Also me and him did everything together except play tag.We were like a team.
I will never forget when I lost my first tooth.The night that I lost my first tooth was the night that my Papaw died.I loved my Papaw very much.He was the best Papaw ever.I miss my Papaw very much.Love Kyla

Chris and Kristy Lesiuk

November 27, 2004

Patty and family,

I am sorry to hear of the passing of David or as my family knows him PA Pa. We only got to see him when he would come up to Colorado for a visit but whenever we were around him he was always smiling and happy. He loved his grandkids more than anything. Patty we pray that you will find comfort in knowing that he is in the loving arms of our Lord. We will continue to pray for you and the kids to get through this difficult time.

God Bless

Chris and Kristy Lesiuk

Judy/Robert Watkins

November 20, 2004

Patti,Melanie and David,

I only found out today about Dave and it is unreal to me that someone so sweet is gone.Patti,you and Dave were the best neighbors we ever had.We enjoyed the years we spent living next door to you.Dave was one of the most caring,generous persons I have ever met.He always spoke highly of you,David,Melanie and the grandbabies.I have no doubt that he was a very happy man.I'm sure he will be missed by everyone who knew him.I'm just sorry we never made it out for some of his great grilled catfish.Know that Robert and I are thinking of you.

Lindy Brown

November 17, 2004

Dear Patti, Melanie and David Jr.,

I still cannot believe that David is gone. I was so shocked when I found out he had passed away. It makes me think about all the times we said we had to get together sometime, but in our busy lives, we never got a chance to. I see that Roger wrote about our chance encounter at El Chico's this past summer. Patti, I was so pleasantly surprised to see both of you. I'm forever grateful that we got to see each other that day, visit and catch up with each other's lives and what was going on. Our friends mean so much to us, but we don't always say so, or show it. I'd like to take this moment to tell you how much your whole family has meant to us and how much we love you all. You all are forever in our hearts. David was such a loving, giving person. I hope we all can strive to be more like him. He will be missed so much by all of his friends and family. Goodbye for now David. We love you and miss you, but we'll see you some day. What a great reunion that will be. Patti, take care. Let us know if there's anything we can help with. Love you all.

Roger Brown

November 16, 2004

Dear Patty,Melanie,David Jr.,Family & Friends...

I was truly shocked and, saddened by the news of David's passing this last week.

I fondly remember some of my first encounters with David at Bible Way...him down at the altar praying me through and, that one of a kind... "David Whitehead- Hug", when we were finished praying.

My son,Justin,summed up those hugs of David's as "One size fits all." and, this was so true!

I beleive God tremendously blessed me with my last encounter with David,as He and Patty,Lindy,and myself sat and had one joyous last visit with David as we had lunch with them.(which I might add started and ended with one of those "David Whitehead Hug's.")

I THANK GOD for the many year's my 3 kid's were blessed to be in camp with David as one of the greatest role model's they could ever have!

I could go on for ever...but, everyone has their own "GREAT MEMORIES,OF THE GREAT MAN...DAVID WAYNE WHITEHEAD SR."

I will continue to hold this family up before God in prayer and, if you need anything don't hesitate to call or come by.

I Love you all,and pray "GOD BE WITH YOU THROUGH THIS TIME IN YOUR LIFE."

Roger Brown.

Misty Hilts

November 15, 2004

Dear Patty, David, Melanie, and rest of family,

I am so saddened to hear the news of David's passing. I know he is in a wonderful place that we all long to be, but my heart is heavy for you all. I will always remember David with a smile on his face. Since I was a little girl I knew him as the “Camera Man” from camp. I always thought it was funny how he would cover the red light on his video camera so that no one knew if they were being taped or not!!! That caused many girls from camp a LOT of stress because we didn’t know until the last day of camp if we had actually been caught!!! We realized that as far as looks go, the camera truly never lies!!! He never failed to make us laugh either!!! He has captured the lives and happiness of so many people with his camera, and I just hope he knows how much happiness he brought to our lives. Of course I came to know him as more than just the camera man. Outside of camp he was the same fun spirited guy that everyone enjoyed being around. Knowing David was truly a blessing from God, and everyone who crossed his path recognized what an amazing man they had encountered. Thank you David for all the wonderful memories you left behind, and thank you Whitehead family for sharing him with all of us. I know that he will be watching you from Heaven.

Love always,

Misty Dawn Hilts

Tonya Smith

November 15, 2004

Patty & Family

I wanted to Thank You for allowing me to be apart of your family.

Thank You David Jr. & Melanie for sharing your father with me and allowing me to experience what a father should be. David taught me and showed me many things, but the most important was the Lord,family and love. I am so honored to be a part of this family & friends. I love you all deeply.

Jamey & Tonya Smith

Tiffany Todd-Fitch

November 12, 2004

I am so very sorry to hear about David. He was for so many years like a father to me. I will remember all that he did for us while we were in band at Central, all the nights that he drove Melanie and I around all over town. He meant so much to me as does your entire family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Love

Tiffany Todd-Fitch

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