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Deborah Elizabeth Houchin

1948 - 2005

BORN

1948

DIED

2005

Deborah Houchin Obituary

Deborah Elizabeth Houchin, 56, passed away Friday, July 22, 2005.

Memorial service: 1:30 p.m. Sunday, July 31 at Moore Funeral Home Chapel in Arlington.

Memorials: In lieu of flowers, a memorial scholarship has been established at the University of Texas at Arlington School of Social Work, Box 19129, 211 S. Cooper, Arlington, Texas 76019, attn.: Donna Pope

Deborah Houchin was born Nov. 22, 1948, in Lynwood, Calif. She was a graduate of the University of Texas at Arlington School of Social Work and had been a marriage/family therapist for over 20 years.

Deborah was an American Airlines flight attendant, a member of KIWI Club and a member of Texas Marriage and Family Therapists.

Deborah was preceded in death by her father, Gerald Treff; stepfather, Chuck Swope; brother, Randy Treff; and grandfather, Francis Treff.

Survivors: Mother, Elizabeth Swope; brother, Cary Treff and his wife, Marsha Treff, and their daughter, Lindsey Treff; sister, Marlene Wallem and her husband, Joseph Wallem, and their son, Jered Wallem, and daughter, Jesica Wallem; stepsons, Craig Houchin and wife, Suzanne, and three children, and Blake Houchin and wife, Lisa, and two children; and nephews, Tyson and Travis Treff, sons of Randy Treff.

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Published by Star-Telegram on Jul. 30, 2005.

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Misty Dawn Coker

December 26, 2024

Deborah I want you to know you are always on my mind and in my heart You meant so much to me but I know your my Guardian Angel right by my side MAY YOU DANCE IN THE SKY !

Melissa C

August 23, 2022

Even after all this time I miss you. You were the best therapist I ever could have asked for. I still think about you often and wish you were still around. You were taken from us too soon. RIP sweet Angel

Misty Coker

March 3, 2020

I want everyone to know after 15 yrs of DEBORAH HOUCHINS murder as i started seeing her as a young patient on how much i miss her and want people to know what a huge impact she had on my life, She was such a " MOTHER HEN" to me as i still think about her often and How much i wish she was still here! SHE IS MISSED AND NEVER WILL BE FORGOTTEN HER MEMORY LIVES ON!!! R.I.P MISTY COKER

Teresa Sabalboro

March 6, 2018

I still miss you every time I think of you. No one could ever or will ever replace you. I've found no other therapist like you. I hope you knew you were not only loved by your family but also by your patients. I can't even find words that can describe how devasted I was to hear of your passing and what an emptiness you've left in my heart and life. I know for sure you are now in Heaven where you belong for all the good you did here on earth and for the many lives you saved with your kind and caring personality. You always gave of yourself even when a patient couldn't pay her co-pay like myself. You are terribly missed and still loved...

Teresa Sabalboro

March 6, 2018

Debra was a very sweet and caring therapist. She helped my husand and I thru a tough time. I continued to see her on and off but stayed in touch. The last time I went to see her is when I found out what happened to her and I was devasted. Debra was more than just a therapist. She became a friend. I will never forget her and can't wait to see her again in heaven where I am sure she is. I still miss you Debra.....

Rita Patterson

March 1, 2006

Deborah helped me and my grandsons

through a very difficult time in our lives. We loved her so much and will miss her. May God Bless all of her family which she was so proud of them. Her death is so hard for me to accept.

I love you Deborah

Carol Clinch

August 23, 2005

Though I hadn't seen Deborah in several years, I thought about her often. She helped both my daughter and myself and for that I will be eternally grateful. Rest in Peace and know that you were loved and respected. We will miss you.

love hugs & blessings

Carol & Shirlee

Andrea Rich

August 18, 2005

Deborah had an exceptional gift. She never failed to guide her clients to reach for and attain the magic living within them. She saw me through a crushing time and effortlessly opened doors that lead me to reverse a professional and personal devastation to a resounding triumph, then begin a new career. I told her that together, we had built a person. Typically, she gave me the credit. Our community has lost a treasure and a lovely and loving woman. Peace be with her.

"Dee" Donna Bengtson Ostner

August 17, 2005

Debbie and I flew together for AA in the early 70's and became friends. We always had such fun together. We lost touch shortly after she married Jerry and I moved to Little Rock to marry John. I've often thought of Debbie remembering the fun we had and wondered where her life had taken her. I now know that she was a therpist and touched and helped heal many lives. I was shocked and saddened to receive the notice of her passing. Debbie was a beautiful, fun and full of life girl ... she will be missed by all that knew her.

American Airlines F/A, Class 66-7

Bonnie (Brandt) McCrory

August 11, 2005

I was deeply saddened to hear of the loss of Ms. Houchin. She was my counselor for many years and was so helpful in my recovery My prayers go out to all that have been impacted by this tragedy. She was truly a remarkable person.

K Priddy

August 10, 2005

I felt a great loss with Deborah's passing. She was my counselor since 1997. She seemed much more like a friend then any kind of bunisess relationship. I will miss her dearly. God bless her survivors.

Brad Pike

August 1, 2005

Deborah was my counselor and friend. I will miss her greatly.

Trina Evans

August 1, 2005

I am so saddened to hear of the lost of Deborah. She has been my therapist for 4 months. I lost my mother 2months ago and Deborah has truly been a blessing to me during this time. She always knew what to say to me in my lowest times. Deborah will be truly be missed by me. My prayers are with the entire family. Thank God for having such a wonderful person in our lives.

J Bolt

July 31, 2005

Debora touched many lives including my own. She inspired me to reach for my dreams and goals and to never give up on them. She is a large part of my achieving them today. She has given me a beautiful gift that will keep on giving. Thank you Deborah.

Shirley Shady

July 31, 2005

Dear Family, When my husband died in 1997, Deborah helped me get my life together, for this you can be extremely proud. I was/am so sadden by her tragic death and so sorry that we have lost a very special person, loved one and dear friend. May God bless you, her family and give you peace and comfort. I will miss Deborah very much and I will find comfort in all that she has taught me in knowing that I can survive after the death of my beloved husband. Many blessing to all who loved Deborah.

Stacie York

July 31, 2005

Debbie and I have a business relationship, but business talk was quickly replaced by friendship each time I met with her. She will be missed. Stacie York

Judy Bethune

July 31, 2005

Deborah, What a void there will be without you. I hope you knew how much you were respected and loved.

Blessings to your family and friends whose grief must be overwhelming.

Judy Bethune

Micheal Meriwether

July 30, 2005

I was one of Deborah's patients and she was truly a special person. Your family are in my prayers. I don't know what I am going to do without her. She really made an impact on my life. It was a blessing to have her become part of my life.

Cindy Burleson

July 30, 2005

Dear Cary and Family:

I worked in marketing for the clinic and grew very fond of Deb, she was a wonderful warm person who would do anything to help someone who was in need. I was so deeply saddened by the loss of Deb. I pray for the peace of her family and friends. I know that she is looking down on us and telling us that she is okay. Cary and Marsha I haven't seen you much since leaving my employment with the clinic but I hope that you will have peace in your life. I know this is a very difficult time for you, my prayers are with you. God Bless you and your family.



Love,

Cindy, Taylor, Fred, Bobbie, Lisa Burleson

Harry Kent

July 30, 2005

I am going to miss you, Debbie. You were one on the best Kiwis at our Kiwi parties.

Jock Bethune

July 30, 2005

God bless you, Deborah!

Alice Cash

July 30, 2005

I'm was so sorry to hear about Deborah. She was my counselor years ago in 1987/1988. She was a great person and counselor.

Cathy Lynn Coufal-Alberts

July 30, 2005

Deborah - You will be greatly missed, not just by me but so many other people also. You were the only person who helped me figure out who I was & to not make the same mistakes from my past, in the future. I loved you dearly & I don't know what I will do without you, as you were such a big part of my life & I always knew that you would be there for me. I loved you,

Cathy Lynn Coufal-Alberts

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