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Graham North Self

1963 - 2013

Graham North Self obituary, 1963-2013, Fort Worth, TX

BORN

1963

DIED

2013

Graham Self Obituary

Graham North Self, 50, "the best Daddy ever" to three beautiful children, fell asleep in the arms of the Lord on Tuesday, July 9, 2013, at home. Celebration of life: 4 p.m. Sunday at 6457 Hilldale Road, Fort Worth 76116. Casual attire appropriate. Interment: Private. Memorials: In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you consider making a donation in Graham's memory to The Warm Place, 809 Lipscomb St., Fort Worth, Texas 76104-3121. Graham was born in Fort Worth on May 8, 1963, where he spent the first 28 years of his life. He moved to the Grapevine/Colleyville area to start his family and was very active in the kids' schools and local events. He moved back to Fort Worth in January of this year. Graham's children were his passion and he lived every moment for them. They all loved music so he created a "Name that tune and who is the singer/songwriter" game they played almost everyday. He considered his position as Chief Whirling Thunder in the Indian Princess organization to be one of his highest accomplishments. He always had a smile for everyone, a song in his heart and a can of Copenhagen in his pocket. Survivors: "Daddio" will be missed by his daughters, Sierra and Hunter; son, Graham II; mom, Susan McDonald; Aunt Patty, Aunt Sally and Uncle Chip and their families; a host of close friends; and everyone who came in contact with him during his all too brief stay on this earth.

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Published by Star-Telegram from Jul. 12 to Jul. 14, 2013.

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David Mosby

July 26, 2022

My heart goes out to Graham's mom and his kids. It was an honor to be Graham's friend for the second half of his life. I was so fortunate to be his best friend. We went through thick and thin together. Great days of skiing from morning til sundown. He loved his family so much. I will always miss my friend.

Julie & David Rockaway

August 16, 2013

I am just now hearing this news and am so saddened. We loved being neighbors with Graham and Laura as they started their family, and continued that friendship after they moved. Always happy to take care of our dog, always happy to hear about our family.

Sending our thoughts to the kids, we have watched Hunter and Graham grow up into such lovely people and am just heartbroken for them all!

Sending you our thoughts and prayers and Graham will be missed!!!

Elizabeth Tunnell

July 25, 2013

So sorry to get this news! I worked with Graham at Systemware. He was always a pleasure to be around... always cheerful and fun! He will be missed by everyone he came in contact with!

July 24, 2013

My family and I are so blessed to have known you these last 7 years. I will miss you my friend so very much! Our thoughts and prayers to Your mom, Laura, and the kids!

July 18, 2013

Laura I just found out this happened. I wanted you to know that you and your kids are in my thoughts. Stay strong together... I know your hearts are breaking.... Sharon Mullen

Kay W. Davis

July 17, 2013

Oh my, I just added Graham as a friend on FB about 2-3 months ago. I was his school counselor at Stripling and had several one-on-ones with him. I really enjoyed knowing him as a teen, and was looking forward to re-meeting him as an adult! I don't know if he was ill, but I am so sorry that I won't get the chance to know him again. I never knew we had an "Aledo" connection until I saw him posting on this site! I always thought of him as west FW! Blessings to the family!

Laurie Jones

July 16, 2013

Although I never knew Graham personally, his family is a wonderful testament to this man. He has much to be proud of !!! Laurie Jones

Drew & JB O'Pry

July 16, 2013

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in our thoughts and our prayers.

July 14, 2013

We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad Hunter. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Tom, Jennifer and Zach Kern

Eileen and Parker Knight and Richard Gossman

July 14, 2013

Graham was a warm and gracious neighbor who was always there to cheerfully lend a helping hand. It didn't matter if it was helping to install car stereo speakers or cutting down a tree, Graham was there to help. His bright smile and friendly wave will be missed. May the family find peace during this difficult time and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

FAYE HALL

July 14, 2013

I am glad to have celebrated your 50th birthday with you I am sad that you are gone but I do know this that you pain is gone and you are in heaven with the best of the best so rest now and I will see you when I get there and to your family I am so sorry for your loss but time does heal all things with the grace of GOD

Pam Summers

July 14, 2013

We send our deepest heart felt sympathy to all Graham's family and friends. He had a smile on his face when I first met his as a child and the last time I saw him only a few weeks ago.
He was so very proud of his children. We are so sorry for your loss.
Pam Summers, Raymond Rains

Melanie Tanner

July 12, 2013

Sierra,
We wish you peace and wonderful memories of your dad. He will always be with you. Peace, Melanie and Tommy Tanner

Kimberly Stickles

July 12, 2013

I know from my close relationship with Sierra that Graham was an amazing father to his children, and a wonderful addition to this world. I take comfort in knowing all the great memories that are left behind. Heaven has another angel looking down on us. Only the good die young!

July 12, 2013

Mr. Graham, that's what we've called him since the day we became neighbors, was a great neighbor and friend. Graham was always willing to lend a helping hand (or tool) and loved chatting with the neighbors while watching the kids play outside. Who else but Graham puts a gigantic 1 story water slide in the front yard for all the kids to enjoy. So many great memories Graham helped to create with all our kids.
Our love and prayers go out to Hunter, Graham-e, Ms. Laura and his family.
Megan and Jake Dowling and Tom Starr

Tammi Leggett

July 12, 2013

I know that the "whit-cab" will NEVER BE THE SAME without my friend, Graham!! I will miss you so much!!! I love you , Graham!!!
To Susan, Grammy, Hunter, and Sierra... I loved Graham very much! He was a wonderful friend, Dad and Son!!! He was so very proud of his kids!! Y'all were everything to him. He was a very good man. I was proud to call him my friend!!! Fly high friend!!

Jeff and Shelly West

July 12, 2013

Always had a smile and we had many, many conversations while walking the dog, doing yard work. He was a great neighbor who will be missed. You will be in our prayers

July 12, 2013

Hard to grasp that a man so full of life is gone. He loved his kids and was very proud of them.

Laynie Dickey

July 12, 2013

Your infectious smile and gregarious personality will be missed my friend. You, your family and friends are in my prayers.

Megan Dowling

July 12, 2013

Mr. Graham, as we've always called him, was a great neighbor and friend. He was always willing to lend a helping hand (or tool) and loved to chat with his neighbors. He will be missed by his Timber Hill neighborhood friends. Our love and prayers go out to Ms. Laura, Hunter, Graham-e and his family.

July 12, 2013

We are deeply saddened to learn of Graham's passing. He was a good high school friend of our son, and we were very fond of him. God Bless, Buck & Judy Isham

Jeff and Shelly West

July 12, 2013

Prayers for the family. we had the privilege of being his neighbor. He did always have a smile for you and I will remember the many conversations we shared. God's Speed Graham.

Carol Van Buren

July 12, 2013

Hunter, Graham and Sierra--I'm so sorry about your loss. I remember the wonderful shrimp boils your father organized whenever we came to Texas. And, all the fun in the pool, and a time or two when he rocked the bouncehouse. He was always laughing. He loved you guys so much. He was always talking about you. I am so sorry that I will miss his funeral on Sunday. Russ, JP and Anna will be down to give you all a hug. Katie and I will come in a month or so to give you another one.

Carol Jones Van Buren

Randy Jones

July 12, 2013

Prayers for your family. I remember what a GREAT person that Graham was in school. He never had a cross word for any one. I wish I had stayed in closer contact with him after school. I guess we think that every one will be here forever. Graham is where he has always deserved to be now. In Heaven with the most loving God. I still pray for peace for his family.

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