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1985
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2007
Jonathan Markham Obituary
Funeral: 11 a.m. Wednesday, June 6, at Beacon Baptist Church, 4950 Haltom Road, Haltom City. Burial: Dallas-Fort Worth National Cemetery. Visitation: The family will receive friends 6 to 8 p.m. Tuesday, June 5, at Shannon Rufe Snow Funeral Chapel.
Sgt. Jonathan Markham was born in Manitowoc, Wis., on March 2, 1985. Six years ago, at church, he met the love of his life, Stacey and on May 11, 2005, they married. He served with his wife at Beacon Baptist Church. He was loved and respected by everyone that knew him. Shortly afterward he joined the United States Army. His last words to his wife were, "Do not be mad at God, for everything happens for a reason."
Survivors: His loving wife, Stacey; son, Daniel; mother, Dawn Markham; father, Steve Bryan and wife, Kelly; father-in-law and mother-in-law, Alex and Cindy Aguayo; four sisters; five grandparents; one great-grandmother; 11 uncles; six aunts; and numerous cousins.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jonathan Markham
Kathy Dyke
May 30, 2022
Thinking of you as always on this Memorial day.
Jason Lingenfelter
May 28, 2014
Jason Lingenfelter
May 28, 2014
Kathy Dyke
May 24, 2013
Thinking of you, Thank you from the bottom of my heart for giving your all.
Chanel Williams-Pickron
August 30, 2012
Hey Jonathan! I was just thinking of you today. I think of you often and miss the fun times we had in school. Love you J and Ill see you when the Lord calls me home...
May 28, 2012
Thoughts of you today, Kathy Dyke
Valerie Vail
May 28, 2012
Another year, another Memorial Day, another anniversary of your death, & another post in this guest book from me. I will NEVER let your memory go, & I will never let the world forget your selfless sacrifice. I love you & miss you so much, Butthead. <3
Valerie Silva Vail
May 30, 2011
Lighting a candle in your memory on this Memorial Day. Love ya', JAM.
Peggy Childers
May 29, 2011
To the family and friends of Cpl. Jonathan A. Markham:
Please accept my remembrance of Jonathan on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Kathy Dyke
May 28, 2011
Another year, hardly seems possible. Remembering you with pride, and thankful for knowing you. We will always honor you Jonathan.
Amy Ippolito
May 28, 2011
To the family and loved ones of CPL. Jonathan A Markham,
My name is Amy Ippolito and I'm a 41 year old mother of two. This morning my family and I ran in the Cpl Christopher G. Scherer Memorial "I did the Grid" 4 mile run in East Northport, NY. This is an amazing event that really honors the sacrifice that our soldiers have made as his parents have organized this race in memory of their son. I had the honor of wearing Jonathan's name on my race tag across my chest. I ran today's race in honor of his ultimate sacrifice and he was on my mind and in my heart. I just read about him online and what a wonderful man he was. I am so sorry for your loss. I will never forget him and am grateful for this opportunity. God Bless you all.
Sincerely,
Amy Ippolito
Valerie Silva Vail
May 26, 2011
Jonathan,
I had darn near an entire novel written on this page for you, but i hit the word limit before i could say even a tiny bit of what i'd like to say. So now i erased everything i typed, & will just say this.:
It's been almost 4 years to the date since your departure, & i still miss you more than ever. In the back of my mind i still expect to get a call from you one day, & it breaks my heart to know that will never happen. I get immensely sad when i think of your death, & i burst into tears each time i think about how your son will never really know you. But through all the sadness, i still manage to hold onto every memory i have of you, & that makes me happy. Although we did not share religious beliefs, i still feel your spirit around me, & i hope that means we'll 1 day meet again. you did your job selflessly, & you helped change my view on the army & our soldiers, & for that i am grateful. well, i could go on forever, but i won't. I miss you so much JAM (or JAB, as you preferred). <3
Valerie Silva Vail
May 26, 2011
Jonathan,
I had darn near an entire novel written on this page for you, but i hit the word limit before i could say even a tiny bit of what i'd like to say. So now i erased everything i typed, & will just say this.:
It's been almost 4 years to the date since your departure, & i still miss you more than ever. In the back of my mind i still expect to get a call from you one day, & it breaks my heart to know that will never happen. I get immensely sad when i think of your death, & i burst into tears each time i think about how your son will never really know you. But through all the sadness, i still manage to hold onto every memory i have of you, & that makes me happy. Although we did not share religious beliefs, i still feel your spirit around me, & i hope that means we'll 1 day meet again. you did your job selflessly, & you helped change my view on the army & our soldiers, & for that i am grateful. well, i could go on forever, but i won't. I miss you so much JAM (or JAB, as you preferred). <3
HAVOC 1/1
April 16, 2011
Hey hoss! I was thinking of you today, remembering the shot we set up and let you crank off. I remember you laughing after you pulled, and just saying how crazy us EOD guys are.
I remember the words we exchanged about you "covering my six" every time I had to take the lonely walk down range...
Only a real leader has that kind of determination lol. I Miss the talks we had out there about bieng a dad and husband.
The anniversary of that night is coming fast, it does every year...
Jason Moon
July 6, 2010
Markham, I miss you man. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think about you. I hope that you would be proud and happy, I'm trying to live my life as well as I can for you. It was an honor to serve with you. Garry Owen !! Buddy (your boy looks just like you) MOON
He is so happy...
Stacey Markham
June 2, 2010
He looks like you, acts like you, and gives mama a hard time just like you told him to = )
Stacey Markham
June 2, 2010
We live in Korea and he loves being a little world traveler!
Stacey Markham
June 2, 2010
Our son (almost 4yrs old)
Stacey Markham
June 2, 2010
Matt Bradshaw
June 1, 2010
Dear Jonathan,
On this memorial day, I want to thank you for your service. Every week, I get on a plane knowing that I will be back to see my loving wife and kids in a few days. At the same time, I always see a lot of military personnel in the airport, and I never fail to ask myself: Are they saying goodbye to their families for the last time? Many times, a tear runs down my face as I think of Cerrie, William, and Kailey. Every chance I get, I thank them for their courage and sacrifice so that people like me can live a truly blessed life. I hope my children are as brave and honorable as you. Thank you, and may God continue to bless others through you.
Matt Bradshaw and Family
Peggy Childers
May 30, 2010
To the family and friends of Cpl. Jonathan A. Markham:
Remembering Jonathan on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Joan Kohls
May 29, 2010
Dear Jonathan,
On this Memorial Day weekend I want to let you and your family know once again that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless You.
Kathy Dyke
May 28, 2010
Still remembering you and still thanking you for giving your all for all of us.
In-Law
May 28, 2010
Son,
It's been 3 years, but seems like yesterday. I still see you holding your son Daniel at the airport for the last time. I still see you with all your gear as you headed out on your first , then second deployment. Oh, how I remember you griping at me because you didn't want me to take any pictures, and there I was snapping away. Thank God, I will forevever remember the picture I took of you and Stacey holding Daniel in the jeep before you deployed. I remember you telling me not to tell anyone about Jesus because they would shoot me or something. I remember you sitting next to me in Sunday school, and asking Brother Danny if it was a sin to run over a squirrel. I remember how amazing you were when we went to youth rallies, and all the kids just followed after you, until you threw one of them in the trash can. They all looked up to you. I remember the day you left rose petals in the snow, before you proposed to Stacey. I also remember you singing in our church, and what a gift God had given you. I remember the day you fell to your knees and proposed to Stacey and someone in the back yelling, If you don't say yes, I will. I remember you coming home from your first tour in Iraq and kidnapping me to go to lunch with you because you wanted to make sure I wasn't mad at you. I remember sitting across from you and telling you , that all I wanted was for Stacey to be happy. I remember her praying to God , with a list of what she wanted in a husband. I remember the day you came into her life, she came to me and said God had answered all her prayers. You made her happy and I Thank You for that. I still remember so many things. I remember arguing with you over the name you gave your dog. I said, What kind of name is scout. I remember him chewing your boots, and then hiding from you when you came home. I still have your huge dog. He comes to Scout Markham, and oh what a pain in the butt he is. I know your laughing. I remember so many wonderful things about you. I remember you giving me the nickname, In-Law. , instead of outlaw.
I remember most of all, what a loving, kind, sincere, and respectful person you were. You had such respect. I see so many of your qualities in Daniel. I see his determination to continue and try until he does what he sets his mind to. He never gives up. I remember him riding his truck down the driveway with no hands, full speed away. As I saw this little daredevil, I saw you. I remember how you loved speed. How you drove me crazy driving like a maniac when I was a passenger. I remember the "Never Quit" determination you had .
Son, we love and miss you. I Thank God, that he allowed me to know you. Daniel will always know what an amazing person you were. Rest in Peace Son, until we see you again... .
Here's a pic of your son, just like you..
InLaw
Kelly Bryan
May 28, 2010
3 years today and the memories and saddness are just as sharp and fresh. You would be so very proud - Stacey is happy, Daniel is growing like a weed, Alesha has done so much and found someone perfect for her. Your Dad and I finally tied the knot. We knew you were looking down from heaven and with us on our special day. Your Dad has his motorcycle now...and wishes every day he could ride with you. We love and miss you so very much.
Kelly Bryan
May 28, 2010
How I miss you so very very much
Joan K
May 8, 2010
I have never met you Jonathan but I want to thank you again for what you did to keep us safe in our country. I salute you.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
william mitchell
May 6, 2010
As I sit here in my office dumbfounded as how to approach this I have a tear in my eye as I am the recruiter that enlisted this great young man. I remember clear as day meeting him and conducting an interview with him as he wanted to serve his country and take care of his family. As a recruiter you never think how to handle this part of your job and of course it is all a guess until it hits you....Like this moment now. I just now am finding out about this and am really speechless that it is almost 3 yrs to date. I remember every last soldier I have put into the service and truly remember this young man and his wife. All he ever wanted to do was be a good provider for his family. I would like to give my heartfelt condolences and to his entire family and truly wish I did not have to write this message. He was truly a good person...WOWWW I am truly saddened this hurts....As i think of his family please feel free to contact me if you wish.
March 7, 2010
Jonathan,
I miss more more than ever.......
J. Kohls
December 17, 2009
Dear Jonathan,
Thank you again for what you did for our country, now you are safe and warm with God.
You will never be forgotten,
Merry Christmas.
Wesley Gregory
December 16, 2009
Jonathan,
Its been a long time but I just wanted to say thank you. Thank you for watching over me while im over here. I know for sure you are my guardian angel over here! Dont worry this fight is almost completely won! Yours and numerous soldiers have laid there lives down but others soldiers like me have picked your rifles back up and continued the fight and pushed forward. I miss ya Jonathan im sure a lot of people do. Watch over us Jonathan! We love ya!
Gail Dodson
September 2, 2009
To the Markham Family......I live in Cedar Lake,Indiana.....I saw the ribbon
in memory of Jonathan on a truck in our local super market. It made me so sad....I had to search for his legacy page. I am an army mom also....my son did a tour in Afghanistan, and in Iraq......so, we are all extended family. I am so sorry for the loss of your dear soldier.....may God comfort and hold you all. Thank you for raising a hero and sharing him with our country. God bless.
Dawn Markham
June 21, 2009
Happy Fathers Day my Dear Son. God I wish Daniel got to know what a great Father you would of been and you would of been the best you had a great upbringing and a wonderful Father Figure. I miss you more than words can ever say. I promise I will try my best to make sure that Daniel will know what a wonderful Man his Daddy was. I love you Son!
Jason Barton
June 2, 2009
Hey "Marky" - Remember when we were drinking chai at the school in Al-Aamel your first tour with me and we all stuck our pinky fingers out like little old British women? I still have that picture. I'm back over here In Balad Iraq on another tour and wish I had you with me...
Comanche Red 3
Miss you "Marky"...it's been a long time Trooper
June 2, 2009
Peggy Childers
May 29, 2009
To the family of Cpl. Jonathan A. Markham:
Jonathan gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
From the frontlines of the Homefront, we are with you in spirit.
Pat Shoukry
May 24, 2009
Thank you Jonathan for defending my Freedoms. It is because of great American patriots such as you that Americans continue to board airplanes with confidence and the people of this city can live without fear.
You will always be remembered with love and great pride by the grateful nation you served to protect.
Your loved ones remain in my prayers.
Rest in peace.
Pat Shoukry - NYC (6 miles from "Ground Zero")
March 13, 2009
Jonathan, I think of you often. Even though you weren't a direct member of my family, you left a lasting impression on me. Your beautiful wife is the niece of my brother-in-law. I met you before you married Stacy. I went to your wedding. At the time, I thought you were too young to marry, but who I am to question love? Obviously, GOD had plans for you and Stacy by bringing you together and giving you Daniel. I am so glad that you both experienced the joy and love that only marriage and parenthood can bring. Your untimely exit from this world still leaves me in tears - tears from a mother of a military man - tears from a wife - tears for the little boy left behind. Please know that you will never be forgotten, you live on in Daniel and in our hearts. Thank you for your sacrifice for our country. Thank you for touching my life.
Dawn Markham
March 1, 2009
Happy Birthday my little Scooter! I miss you so much it is a pain that is just undescribable. It is so hard living with half a heart but I am doing it. I am becoming everything you wanted me to be son I know you would be so proud of me. Your sister is doing wonderful but misses you as well. I don't see Daniel or Stacey but what I do see he is doing wonderful and he looks just like you. Oh how I wish you were here to give you a big kiss and hug for your 24th Birthday but I know you are in a safe place. Kiss my Mom for me son! I love you so much and I am the luckiest Mother in the world to have had the pleasure to have had such a wonderful son in my life. I love you scooter Happy Birthday!
Kenna larra
January 27, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,300 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
Chanel Williams-Pickrom
Chanel Williams-Pickrom
September 7, 2008
Jonathan,
This is so hard right now because I just recently found out you left us here. Its been over a year since I talked to you last. Man its been just so hard to take in that you are gone. I remember in the 9th grade when I met you. We were at band camp and I was trying to get some water out of the water jug. It fell on you, lol Im sorry but I didnt realize that you were under there. Well that day was a very memorable day for me because that day we became real good friends. I also remember when you used to miss the bus on purpose to walk me home so I wouldn't have to walk alone. I will never forget those days we used to see who could play the highest note on our horns which was funny cause I played the TENOR Sax and you played the Trumpet. You were always such a good friend even when nobody else was and I really appreciated that. I know we lost touch after high school because we went and did our own things but the impact you made on my life will last a lifetime. I miss you Jonathan and I know that you were God's angel sent to earth. He needed you home. Best wishes to your family and God Bless.
Love your friend,
Chanel N. Williams-Pickrom
Wallace
August 11, 2008
John,
It's taken me this long to actually write here. It's been just a little over a year since we all were forced to say goodbye. To this day, I still don't believe in saying goodbye. You were too good of a friend. You taught me more than you can imagine. I was just recently promoted to sergeant, something that I owe much to your leadership. I'll never forget your love and devotion to your soldiers, and more so to your family. I'll never forget the night of memorial day, and you telling me to just "hang on...we'll get through this...and we'll all go home"......it hurts me everytime I think of that, because unfortunatly, it didn't work out that way. You are missed beyond belief. You are still loved more than you can imagine. However, there is still a GREAT part of you that lives on with everyone, and that's the memories that we all have. You would be so happy to know that your son is doing so well...and he is starting to look just like you. Pretty soon he'll even be watching Rangers games. They should be Cubs games, but he's too much like you.
We all miss you brother...don't worry, we'll all meet again someday.
June 28, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Cpl Markham!
In Memory of Jonathan ~ (Debra Estep)
May 29, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Jonathan, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
Visit this link to hear the song.
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
In-Law
May 28, 2008
Hi Son,
It has been a year and our tears still flow. They say it gets easier , but it doesn't. You are greatly missed. You would be so proud of Stacey. She is raising your son to be just like you. ( Except that he likes to read books.)
He is amazing. He looks just like you.
He drives everyone crazy. Stacey has become such a strong person. You would be proud of her. I know she draws her strength from knowing that you are watching out for them. The day she sees you in Heaven may not be so good , though. She has been wanting to find a punching bag. Rest in Peace.
We love you.
Kathy Dyke
May 22, 2008
Dear Jonathan,
On my mundane commute to work today I thought of you...I see the same things everyday on my drive, but on this spring day for some unknown reason I saw the trees filtering the sunlight differently. In that moment I saw you and Christopher playing in the woods behind our quarters in Munich you both were maybe 5 or 6, I can still hear what your laughter sounded like. I know that you are looking down and listening to your own son's laughter enjoying every second of it. I can only know you as an adult from what I read about you, I can tell how deeply you were loved. I will always treasure my memories of knowing you as a small boy laughing in the sun, and honor you proudly for the sacrifice that you and your entire family gave.
Matt Bradshaw
May 19, 2008
Dear Jonathan,
It has been almost a year since you went home to be with the Lord, and we want you to know that you are missed and loved, and that we will never forget you. Your wonderful wife is doing a great job raising your son, and he is going to grow up to be a GREAT man. He has many people in his life who love him dearly, including me and my family, and we promise to make sure that he has everything he needs. We are starting a college fund for him, and he will be able to go to any school he wants. You made the ultimate sacrifice for your wife and son, and we vow to do our best to live up to your example. God bless you Jonathan Markham. War, the tragedy that took your life, would not exist in our world if everyone had your honesty, integrity, selflessness, and faith. You stand out as a beacon of Godliness and hope in a rapidly-darkening world. In prayer today, we ask God for one thing: Give us the strength and character of Jonathan Markham, so that we too may become great husbands and wives, fathers and mothers, and most of all, Christians.
Sincerely,
Matt, Cerrie, Scooter, and "Baby Sister" Bradshaw
Benjamin Nichols
March 21, 2008
SGT Markham, you are misssed by us all. I remember you as a fiery soldier with an attitude to accomplish anything and everything. I knew many soldiers that looked up to you for your motivation and dedication to your family and your soldiers. You truly were and inspiration to all around you and never backed down from anything. I am proud of you and thank you for what you gave for all of our freedom's.
Cerrie Bradshaw
March 2, 2008
Jonathan,
Happy Birthday! I know you are smiling down at your family right now for they are the strongest of strong and they are truely great people! I have always heard that Love can build a bridge and i know there is a bridge from there heart all the way up to Heaven.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Alex Aguayo
March 2, 2008
Jonathan,
I have not been able to write in this album simply because of the pain i feel. I was so proud of you even before you became a soldier! You were the only one that could make Stacey happy, i knew you were soul mates even then. You were so respectful and thoughtful.
When you came into this family i thanked God,you were like my own son and i could not have been prouder. I still consider your greatest acheivement at that time was winning over you mother in law. You were the only one that could tell her things and she would listen and you would be able to get away with it !
Daniel is so much like you, he has your personality and your attitude. You are so proud of him! He is my sidekick now and i make sure to tell him everyday that you love him and i always tell him about the little things you did. I promise he will know what an incredible person you are!
Stacey has become my hero also, you would be so proud of her! Every dicesion she makes she always asks what would Jonathan want me to do? and she follows through. You know the pain she is going through each day, we see it and we know you are giving her strength and wisdom. She is an incredible mommy and daddy! They say that you can move on in this world, i guess we are just having a difficult time of it because we love you so much.
I know you are in a better place there with God and i look forward to the day when i will be there to. My job here is to make sure daniel grows up in your shadow and he turns out to be as incredible as you.
When i last talked to you i told you that i loved you and i want you to know that i meant it! there is something else that i told everyone else but i did not have a chance to tell you. I told everyone that if i had the chance to pick the husband for my daughter that it would have been you! You were always so frugal and i know that you see the way Stacey is the same way! You made her strong and taught her to speak up!
Son i miss you so much and i shed tears for you everyday. I love you!
Dawn Markham
February 29, 2008
Son,
Happy Birthday Jonathan. I so wish that you here so that I could celebrate your Birthday with you but I know that you are in a safe place and I will celebrate you birthday because giving birth to you and your sister was one of the greatest joys in life and weather you are here or not I will always celebrate one of the greatest days of my life. I love you scooter and I will never forget what you have sacrificed for so many Americans I am so proud of you. I love you scooter and I am so thankful that I was lucky enough to have had you in my life for 21 years and that I got to be your Mother. I love you. Happy Birthday scooter.
Love
Mom
Greg Markham
December 22, 2007
Jonathan,
It would be soo nice seeing you this holiday season. I was only able to meet your new family once at the funeral. I'm sure your son will grow to be a wonderful, caring man. Stacey and her family seem very nice.
I can only say that I miss you very much. What you did for this country is outstanding!! I talk about your efforts often.
I Love You Jonathan,
Uncle Greg
Joan Kohls
November 20, 2007
Stacey, Your letter to Jonathon broke my heart, I can't imagine what you and Daniel are going through. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless You
Stacey Markham
November 17, 2007
Jonathan,
Well it is nearly six months since you left this earth, and it has been well over a year since I kissed you goodnight. Your boys are coming home soon babe. You would be so proud of them because they made it through. I still do not understand why God did not allow you to come home to your wife and son, but maybe it is not meant for me to know. Our son is beautiful, and he would have been your little best friend. My heart breaks every night just thinking about what he has left of you...just old photographs, combat gear, and dogtags. The holidays are approaching again and it seems like everyone has moved on. I feel sick to my stomache everday and I know it is because my body knows you should be on your way home. I pray that you will continue to watch over us and that something good will come out of this. I ask that whenever I shed a tear that you would be there next to Jesus to comfort me. I love you babe! You were my one true love, my soulmate, my hero...someone that many wait a lifetime to find. Hugs and kisses from me and Daniel to hold you over until we meet again.
SGT. Dusty Wilmore
November 17, 2007
Markham was one of the best soldiers I have ever met he was a true friend I remember being in knox with him working through our field problems and both of us knowing the other always had each others backs. Even though he was younger then me and not in the military as long as me I still looked up to him. You loved your soldiers and your family you loved your friends and you will always be missed. I still dont beleive that you are not with us anymore I still see your face around me and wish that you would walk through the door at any moment we will all always miss you and we all love you you are a brother for life you and your family will always be in my thoughts and prayers. I miss you brother.
Tiffany Ferguson
November 14, 2007
Johnathan Was a a guy I looked up too.
I love seeing Staceys face evertime someone brought him up.
He was the coolest guy in our youth group!
I cant forget the lesson he taught about letting our light shine for God.
Well he let his light shine for God and his country.
I love Stacey and Daniel.
:]
She is the hardest worker and bravest women i have ever met.
Her son Daniel, i just cant explain!
I love you guys and always am praying for yall!
I know that up in Heaven Johnathan is wanting to be down here with his TRUE friends and family.
He is very muched missed!
There isnt even words to explain.
Thank you for serving our country, but even more thanks for being there!
Ivy Garcia
November 12, 2007
Stacey and baby Daniel,
My deepest sympothies go out to you and Daniel. We grew to love Jonathan after only getting to know him for the couple of days that he was here in El Paso. We were so happy when we found out that Jonathan wanted to put a transfer in for El Paso. Juan and Andy were looking foward to letting him join their little clan. When Aeriel found out she had a cousin that was in the Army, she was in complete Awh! And then when we had to tell her that her cousin passed away, she was so heart broken. Till this day she still asks about him. We all loved him Stacey. We love you!
To the Markham Family,
Stacey's family here in El Paso sends you our deepest sympothies. We ment him only once and came to love him just as we love Stacey and Daniel. Your son was a blessing and the time we all shared with him is charished. Love: Andy, Ivy, Aeriel, Isaiah, and Bubba
Jennifer Flores
November 7, 2007
Jonathan,
Though we actually saw and spoke to each other maybe three times, You made such an impact. YOU ARE FAMILY! You married into our family and we loved you just the same. You gave my cousin a smile and happiness I had never seen in her. For this I thank you. I know that you are in a wonderful place and that you are watching over your wife and son. God had a reason for taking you when he did and I pray that one day we will all understand that reason.
Stacey,
I hope that you will come and visit us. We are your family and will be there for you when you need us. Daniel is very blessed to have a mama like you. You will raise him knowing the Lord and his father. You are wonderful, strong woman, you can and will do more than I ever had wished to do. God Bless you and keep you in his arms at all times. I know everyone tells you this but I am going to say it to, You will be ok.
Love you Always,
Rob
October 29, 2007
Jonathan,
5 months it has been since you were called away from us. I have not, and never will, forget your sacrifice brother. DeDe and I are to be married Saturday, Nov. 10th, but will be standing tall as your name is placed amongst the other heroes on the memorial in Manitowoc, WI the following day. Although I know you would never have asked this of me, I just wouldn't feel right celebrating my "new life" without also honoring you, and the many others, who gave up theirs for me. Thank you again bro.
David simpkins
October 2, 2007
Stacey Markham,
I am just another guy that served in the same area that Jonathan served in. I wish I were the one in his place on that night. Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss you and your son, and family have suffered.
SSG Simpkins
Don Kabetzke
September 15, 2007
Jonathan, you came into my life in 2002 when by God's providence I became your Youth Minister. I had an auto accident and you were there to check on me. Things changed at church and we lost track of each other. Then one day you came on campus at DBU with a beautiful young lady and you introduced her as your bride to be. Your wife told me just this week that you had died in Iraq and that you have a son. Mrs. Markham I meant what I said - My office is always open when you need a break from anything and everything. I will always remember Jonathan and keep you and your son in my prayers. I know you have a great family supporting you but just know you have a friend always. Jonathan Markham, you were a soldier defending our freedom. You went and fought and paid the ultimate sacrifice, your life. Thank you for doing what few care to do. Mrs. Markham, Thank you for sharing your loss with me and thank you for allowing your husband to go and serve, knowing that this could have happened. My prayers are with you always. May God bless you and your son. I salute you Cpl. Jonathan Markham, My friend, my Hero - and forever with the Lord.
2nd Lt. J. Williams Jr
September 7, 2007
SGT Markham your a True Hero to your country. You did what many people wouldn't do and that is give your life for your country. Stacy is doing a great job with Daniel and you'll be proud of him. I'm glad that your one of my US Army brothers. We'll never forget.
August 16, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Cpl Markham and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
August 16, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Karla Kading
July 25, 2007
May you burdens become less with the passing of time. Thank you for your sacrifice for the USA. If you need to talk with some one please contact me. I am home almost everyday. I lost a son a year and a half ago. Karla Kading proud mother of SFC Matthew R Kading 10/25/73-10/31/05
Dawn Markham
July 8, 2007
To my dear son,
What do I say about the true American hero that you are as well as my son. It seems like just yesterday you were born and I was admiring your cute little chubbie cheeks, watching you learn to eat, crawl walk, hearing you for the first time say Mama or I love you. And now even though I know God has an awesome plan for you I now have to admire pictures of you from Iraq, admire the beautiful wooden box that the flag from your funeral is neatly placed in, the medals and awards that were awarded to you for your couragous acts, admire all the wonderful things that people are saying about you, admire all the articles and newspaper articles that are written about this true American Hero. I am a bit selfish in this Jonathan because I don't want to admire these things. I want to be able to admire the wonderful son that you were, the wonderful husband that you were, the wonderful Father that you were, the wonderful brother that you were this my son is what I lived for, to watch you grow into a wonderful Man and now just like that is taken away from me. I am so proud of you my son and I will always remember you but my heart breaks knowing that I will never again here Mom or I love you, or have one of your big bear hugs, or see your big guns in the bathroom miror, or see that famous smile that took so long to get on your face. I am doing everything I can to keep your name alive my son so I don't really have to say goodbye, because I can't I just can't. Now my son I will watch your son grow into a wonderful Man and I will tell him everything about his wonderful Daddy, Even though I cannot be there everyday because of the distance I will make sure that your son knows what a great Daddy he had. Oh Jonathan my little scooter this tribute is for you and for me so that I can now admire all the people that are thankful for you for what you have done for this country and maybe just maybe it will help ease some of this unbearable pain. I love you my son and I will always remember my littlw scooter with the cubby little cheeks.
Love
Mom
In-Law
July 5, 2007
Dear Jonathan,
You came into our lives and have changed them forever. Our hearts are so broken. It has been almost a month now, and you would think the tears are less. They are not, they are just hidden. I have a broken heart like I have never felt before. I have lost both my parents , but they were taken away at an golden age, and away from their pain. Your leaving us has shattered our faith. All the promises God tells us . He was supposed to take care of you. His word told us, that he would take care of those he loves. The peace I used to have is not there anymore. You are the only one who could make my daughter happy. I now look at your sons face every morning and know that someday he will grow up to be just like you. This is the hope we have. You are missed so much. I love you son...
Joy LeClair
July 4, 2007
Jonathan, I didn't know you, but you are the beautiful nephew of my loving sister Teri and your uncle John and cousin Taylor. I've heard only wonderful, sweet memories of your childhood and seen pictures of you in happy times. May you be in a better place. You are truly a hero.
ROBYN GARSIDE
July 4, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Joan Kohls
June 28, 2007
To Jonathan's family, Our deepest sympathy for your loss. God Bless You Jonathan and thank you for serving our country so we can be free and safe. There is a special place in heaven for those who have served our country,
Thank you, Jonathan
Joe Campbell
June 28, 2007
Jonathan Markham we will remember you always. Our Freedom is because of you and the all too many who gave their all for this very day.
We Honor YOU by Serving our Living.
Rest in Peace my Brother.
Joe Campbell
Vietnam Vet 67/68
Del and Net Meyer
June 28, 2007
Continue tender thoughts and prayers for the family of Jonathan. May God's promise of a joyest reunion in heaven comfort your tender hearts.
sincerely,
Del and Net Meyer
(son's 1st tour with 1st Cav/Ft.Hood, Texas and 2nd tour (still) with the National Guards.)
Humbled to be a Wisconsin Patriot Guard Rider.
Bobbie Samme
June 28, 2007
Jonathan is every bit as much a hero as our beloved son, LCpl. Eric A. Palmisano, whom we lost in Iraq on 4.2.06. Eric has a guest book on Legacy.com as well. God Bless them for their sacrifice, and know that they are now in a beautiful home where there is no pain or sorrow or worry. We miss them now, but we will see them again..and oh what a glorious day that will be. God Bless and Keep your entire family wrapped in his loving arms.
Tim Bossert
June 27, 2007
To your entire extended family from ours we would like to send you thoughts of gratitude and happiness to get through the tough times. The ability to laugh is so powerful and the ability to remember such a gift. For all, we will never forget.
Family of SSG Andrew Bossert (3-7-2005)
Judith Singer
June 27, 2007
Joanthan, rest in Peace Hero... We'll be here for your Family.
Greg Brummett
June 27, 2007
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Teri Markham
June 26, 2007
Dear Dawn,Steve,Alesha,Stacey & Daniel, Kelli and Girls.
I was privledged to come into Johnathan's life when he was almost 2 years old, when babysitting him he was the cutest little blonde who was completely all boy! You could alway tell when Johnathan did something, he would suddenly get this fabulous grin on his face afterward. Thank you John athan for giving your cousin and us some great memories to hold onto, Thanks for smashing Taylor's face in a cake (will laugh forever on that one)! Thanks taking the time to visit her at gymnastics and going to her school to have lunch with her. His actions were so thoughtful and respectful. I don't think there are any words to do Johnathan justice, but keep sharing our stories and keeping him with us. Letting Daniel know what a great man his father was. He certainly grew from a cute boy into an incredible man! Our hearts are still heavy, but with evey tear there is a great memory. To our family we love you dearly and our hearts are with you.
Aunt Teri, Uncle John & Cousin Taylor.
Lynn
June 25, 2007
To the Markham family;
This senseless tragedy is so undeserving. The loss of Jonathan is a loss to all of us and affects each of us in a different way; but Jonathan's legacy lives on. May you find peace and happiness as you adapt to your new life from here on in; and reach out to all of us when you are in need of a friend. We're here for you~
Liz Young
June 25, 2007
Dawn & Family,
We are all saddened at the loss of Jonathan, and you all are in our thoughts and prayers!!
We love you
Liz, Ken, Marie & Korey Young
Rapid City, S.D. (Formerly Germany)
Cindy "TexasRedC" Alexander
June 24, 2007
Sgt. Markham,
We control only what is bestowed upon us. As for the Patriot Guard Riders, we show honor to you, your family, and the your service to this country. You will always be remembered. We carry you in our hearts from this day forward. It is an honor to stand for an honorable man such as yourself. Thank you.
Mike R
June 24, 2007
What an incredible hero!
He is truly an American hero and everyone should be as proud of him as they would be of their own child for doing something so incredible. To give his life (and he was prepared to) for a cause that not everyone believes in is very noble!
I hope my son grows up to be as good of a man as Jonathan Markham!
Mike
June 21, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history…they pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Matt Bradshaw
June 21, 2007
Dear Jonathan, Stacey, Daniel, Alex, and Cindy:
A few days ago, my wife gave birth to our first daughter. As I sit here, full of pride and joy, and knowing that I am the most blessed man on earth, one thought still fills my mind: the loss of Jonathan. It is 3:00am, and I just rocked my 4-day-old daughter to sleep. Tears fill my eyes--tears of both happiness and sorrow, for my son and daughter both have a daddy who loves them, and my wife has a husband who will always be by her side. The same cannot be said, however, for little Daniel and his mother. Your story will not, however, end in sorrow, for the foundation that each of you has laid will undoubtedly bring forth Holy fruit. The words of our Lord and Savior say it best: "Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself." Many who call themselves Christians satisfy the first criteria, but in our individualistic world where "me" and "I" are virtually deified, only a handful of people live up to the second commandment. You are the exceptions, and you make me proud to be aChristian. I will never forget you Jonathan, and rest assured that your family is my family, and I will always treat them as my own. I love each of you with all my heart.
Matt Bradshaw
Ronn Massie
June 20, 2007
God bless the family and friends of Jonathan.
You will all be in our prayers.
Thank you Jonathan for being such a brave hero.
(In remembrance of Cpl. Joey Cantrell 4-4-07)
Penny Robertson
June 20, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. I will pray for the family that he leaves behind daily.
Please always remember we are so proud of our soldiers. He is a very brave man.
SFC Darrin Boner
June 19, 2007
I am proud to have served with Markham during OIF II in C Troop 1-7 Cav. As a brand new soldier to our platoon, showing up half way through the tour, he showed so much eagerness and pride. He was a professional and I am proud that he became such a fine NCO. He will be missed but will forever remain my brother in arms and a true Cavalry Leader. Garryowen
Linda luchsinger
June 15, 2007
Dear Stacy and Danielle,
I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Jonathans death while serving in Iraq. words cannot express the grief I felt over the news.
He is a special man. I remember him as a sweet little boy here in Manitowoc.
I wish I could be there to help you through the pain, but we live so far apart. Please know you are in my heart and tears and I will be praying for you during this time of grief over your loss.May you find comfort and healing as you overcome this heartbreak.
Love, Linda Luchsinger
Army Mom SF part of FA-1CD
June 13, 2007
Your dedication and courage to serve this country remind me how important it is to never take our freedom for granted. You are a true Hero. GOD bless your family and thank you for being so brave.
Army Mom SF
June 13, 2007
The courage of our heroes keep our nation free and happy. Thanks for blessing my life with freedom by serving and protecting our country. May GOD bring healing and comfort to your family.
Jerry & Rita Mott
June 12, 2007
To the family of Jonathan Markham, one of America's heroes,
I wish God's comfort and peace for you all in the days ahead. Thank you for your husband's service to our great country. May the sacrifice you share, Jonathan's for his country, and yours for your husband and father of your precious son, NEVER be forgotten. You will be in our prayers.
SSG Jason Barton
June 11, 2007
It was an honor to attend Jonathan's funeral. Please know that Jonathan was a professional Noncommissioned Officer, Leader, and most of all a Hero and no one can ever take that away from you. Your husband has shown me what a man should be personally and professionally and I am honored to have known him and learned from him what it means to be humble. May God bless you, your family, and the United States of America.
Tom Gugliuzza
June 11, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Markham family in the loss of Jonathan. I did not know Jonathan, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Jonathan you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Helen Wallace
June 10, 2007
To the Family of Jonathan Markham~ Please know that our deepest sympathies are extended to your family. Because of the ultimate sacrifice that your loved one made, my three young sons can sleep safely in their beds at night, read their bibles and worship the true Savior Jesus Christ. You and your precious family shall always be in our prayers. May God give you the PEACE that passes all understanding.
Regina Hinojosa
June 10, 2007
I'm really going to miss you Jonathan. You were a big part of my life and you will forever be in my heart. I will never forget the years we spent together during high school. I'm glad we had kept in touch over the years. You were a great man! I will never forget you. I can't wait until the day we may meet again.
David Murray
June 9, 2007
Im really going to miss you man. From basic training, to deploying together in 2004, then this deployment. I guess its true that the good die young, you were an excellent soldier and an even better person. My love and prayers go out to your family.
Roger and Mary Wiegert
June 9, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
anna heppler
June 9, 2007
I wrote this for my husband and would like to share this with you . Please contact me if you would like. Anna
This Old Uniform
BY AEH
Old patches on my arms
Holes that have been mended
This uniform has done what was intended
To keep me warm and to keep me safe
And to show who I fight for when
We go place to place.
This uniform has seen it all , Blood , sweat, tears,
and over the years awards and honors, I pin
on my chest, I know when I put on this uniform I
have to do my best,
And when it is all said and done and you hear the guns and
you see the flag folded,
Know that this old soldier is looking down and is proud
To have worn his uniform,
Know that my soul is looking down and
Still protecting you , with his new uniform,
One with his medal and honor and wings.
I will always love my country and what this uniform stands for
Freedom , Love , Peace,
When I am in my uniform I shall hold my head High,
For I know god has a place in heaven if I shall die, one with
All who I have fought for it is mixed with soldiers
Like me, oh heaven to me is a camouflage green.
God bless our uniforms from day to day,
And each day I wake up and put it on, I just want to say,
Thank you GOD for keeping me alive, to put
On this old uniform and helping me thrive.
God Bless America red, white and blue and
A little camouflage green added in there too .
copywrited 2007 anna heppler
Anna heppler
June 9, 2007
As a human being first and a SSgt.'s wife I would like to thank the family of this young man. I know how hard it is . I have not lost my husband but I have lost so many friends due to war and I live with the fear every day that ,my husband will be next. My husband loves his job and knows the risks he has to take . I try to support him and his love for what he does , but there is still something in side me that wants to shake him and ask him why. I know that your loved one died doing what he loved to do and what he belived in . I am proud to be a military wife and I am proud of what our men and women do everyday for us to be free. I thank you from the bottom of my heart and soul. I know no words can bring your loved one back . But know that he is in heaven with wings and combat boots . God bless you and Keep you . I pray for you and your family.
Thank you Jonathan for making our country that much better.
SSGT.HEPPLER's wife Anna
Nicole Smithers
June 9, 2007
Stacey- My prayers are with you and your son. You are such a strong person and I cannot even begin to imagine the way that you are feeling. Your husband is truly a hero.
Gary Allain
June 9, 2007
Cpl. Jonathan A. Markham
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
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