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Cindy Dyas Obituary

DYAS Cindy Rarey Dyas, age 50, of Upper Arlington, passed away on Friday, December 16, 2005 to be with her Lord after a 15 year courageous battle with breast cancer. She has left a multitude of caring and committed family members and friends. Cindy is survived by her loving and devoted husband of 26 years, Mike; and daughters, Gretchen (Kevin) Chan, Kelly and Alyssa. She is also survived by her dedicated parents, John and Ann Rarey; and sister, Barbara (Charles) Lott; and niece, Ryan; her in-laws, Jack and Ann Dyas; brothers-in-law, John, Carl (Marcia), Steve (Lisa), Bob (Susan), Richard (Olga); and sisters-in-law, Peggy Dyas and Annie (Yury) Verbitsky; as well as many nieces and nephews. Her myriad of friends include all who met her in her journey of life from childhood through her last few days. Cindy's passion and love of life embraced all who were blessed to call her a friend, a loved one, a family member. Cindy was a lifelong resident of Upper Arlington and a 1973 graduate of Upper Arlington High School. She was a 1977 graduate of The Ohio State University, where she was an active member of Pi Beta Phi Sorority. Cindy was a longtime employee with Highlights for Children. In 1994 she received the Upper Arlington Rotary Northwest Woman of the Year Award for her many community volunteer activities which included Pleasure Guild of Children's Hospital, the Buckeye Ranch Sustaining Board VIII and school volunteer work. Cindy was also a dedicated and enthusiastic volunteer who was involved from the inception in bringing The Race for the Cure to Columbus in 1993. She then served on the Board of the Race Committee and has walked in all but one race. She has devoted her time generously to helping others battle cancer through the American Cancer Society, the Arthur James Cancer Hospital and Research Institute, and Can Sur Mount. In 2004, Cindy received the Komen Cameo Award from the Susan G. Komen Cancer Foundation in recognition of her exceptional volunteer contributions. She also received the Kellogg's Keep the Promise Award for recognition of her many contributions in helping to eradicate breast cancer. This past October Cindy was the first recipient of The Cindy Dyas Award of Heroism which will be awarded annually by the Race for the Cure to a long-term breast cancer survivor whose courage, determination and steadfastness in the fight against breast cancer has advanced the search for a cure and given strength to others. This award magnifies the life that Cindy lived while battling cancer. Many, many lives were graced by her desire to live and to fight this disease. Cindy was an active member of Upper Arlington Lutheran Church and participated in several Bible studies and prayer groups. Her realization of God's mercy and grace was lived out in her care for others. Cindy was an inspiration as a wife, mother, survivor and friend. We will all miss her beautiful smile, her zest for life and the joy she brought others. Cindy is a gift to all who knew her. She taught us how to live life and taught us the meaning of love, grace and friendship. Her family would like to thank everyone who has offered their love and support over the years. A Celebration of Cindy's life will be held 7 p.m. Tuesday, December 20, 2005 at Upper Arlington Lutheran Church at Mill Run, 3500 Mill Run Drive, where family will receive friends immediately following the service. Cindy requests that everyone wear bright colors in honor of her life. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Cindy Rarey Dyas Fund for Research at the James Cancer Development Office, 300 West 10th Ave. Columbus, OH 43210 or Komen Columbus, P.O. Box 16842, Columbus, OH 43216, in her memory. Arrangements by SCHOEDINGER NORTHWEST CHAPEL, 1740 Zollinger Road.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Dec. 18 to Dec. 20, 2005.

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Loretta Powell

December 21, 2005

My deepest sympathy goes out to the family and all who knew Cindy. You are in my thoughts and prayers

Karie Starr

December 20, 2005

You all are in my prayers. Cindy was a great person and mother.

Pam Burton

December 20, 2005

What a strength! What a spirit! Cindy lives on in the hearts of so many. I am honored to have shared part of her life, and thankful for her time on earth and for what she gave us all.

Terry & Dave Hart

December 20, 2005

Gretchen & Kevin, We never were privileged to meet your mother, but have heard many wonderful stories about your family thru Kristen. We send our deepest sympathy to your entire family.

Craig Pataky

December 20, 2005

My deepest sympathy. I have fond memories of the "Celebration of Life" evening held at the Bogey Inn 9/29/01. The unique handmade plate that Mike & Cindy presented me with for playing in Reunion Band has a special place on the bookshelf in my office.

EDI Support Unit, State of Ohio

December 20, 2005

Mike and family,

We are very sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. With deepest sympathy,

Nancy, Valerie, Debra, Jo, Sean, and David

Karen and Tom Clark

December 20, 2005

Please know that you all are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. Please accept our deepest sympathy. With our love and concern, Karen and Tom Clark

Nancy Minton

December 20, 2005

To Cindy's family, I knew Cindy in a special way. I am the coordinator of One to One for the American Cancer Society. Cindy was the first person I called when I had a referral for someone who was just diagnosed. Her inspiration and positive attitude throughout her battle was so beautiful. She will be truly missed.We have a new angel now. God bless you all, Nancy

Dick & Peg Greathouse

December 19, 2005

Mike, Gretchen, Kelly,Alyssa, John and Ann



Cindy was a beautiful person inside and out. Our hearts go out to all of you. She will always be remembered for her beautiful smile and positive attitude. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.



Dick & Peg Greathouse

Gail Cowser

December 19, 2005

Dear Ann and John



Ann, I was so sorry to hear about your dear Cindy. I never met her but felt I knew her a little thru you. She fought a courageous battle, as did you all. God bless all of your family and keep you strong.



Sincerely,

Gail Cowser

Kathy Bower

December 19, 2005

There is little I can add to what has already been said about Cindy. As an employee, I called her the pit bull, because when she got a hold on something, she didn't let go until it was accomplished. I learned so much from her, her questioning of "why not?", her tenacity, and her bright spirit. No one I've ever known has gone through so much with such graciousness and optimism. She made me learn to truly appreciate what I have every day. I will always think of her and miss her.

Mike & Reshama McGovern

December 19, 2005

Cindy was one of those rare people that was beautiful on the outside, but so truly beautiful in her heart and personality as well. As you read all of the touching notes, everyone comments about her smiling personality, and her being a truly special person. Even though we don't get back to Ohio often, I am always interested to hear how Mike and Cindy are doing, and just amazed how they both seemed to handle the battle with cancer. Our thoughts our with Mike and the family, and will remember Cindy as an inspiration to us all.

Kevin Sullivan

December 19, 2005

What a treat to know Cindy and her beautiful family. Cindy and I were close friends when she fell head over heals in love with Mike Dyas, one of my best friends at the time. The two of them are the nicest people you could ever meet. My heart goes out to entire Dyas and Rarey families and all the friends. I will be wearing my brightest colors on Tuesday for wonderful Cindy who was a bright star in our lives.

Brian Trotier

December 19, 2005

Cindy was the most unique and special person I've ever known.

Nancy Richardson

December 19, 2005

John,Ann,Barbie,Mike and girls,

We also will be wearing bright colors in Michigan to celebrate Cindy's life. Although it's been years since we've seen Cindy, her smile is forever in our memories. Lee & Len will be here soon and on Tuesday,(in our bright colors) we will together toast to our niece and cousin. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Love,

Bob & Barb Rarey

Dennis & Nancy Richardson

Lee& Len Carleton

Kim Hocker

December 19, 2005

Dearest Gretchen, Mike and family,



Although I never met your amazing mother and wife, I always felt as though I knew her through all the lovely and wonderful things you told about her and the love you showered on her. Her amazing strength, loving family and love of life are what gave her the will to fight and to help so many others.



Know our thoughts and prayers are with you and we are always here for you.



Kim Hocker and family...Molly's Mom

Tim Noonan

December 18, 2005

Bright colors! So Cindy. God love her. Though I can't be in Columbus on Tuesday I will be wearing the brightest colors I have for one of the brightest souls I ever had the pleasure to know.

My love and deep conodolences to each and every one of the Rareys. Cindy would not want us to be sad but to smile at her spirit and so support her in all that she accomplished...

Tim Noonan

Carolyn Davies-Hagans

December 18, 2005

So sorry to hear about Cindy,we send our love and our prayers to you and your family.



Love from the Hagans Family

Suzie Matthews

December 18, 2005

My deepest sympathies on the loss of this precious breast cancer warrior. Cindy was the first to reach out to me when I was diagnosed with Inflammatory Breast Cancer in July, 2000. Cindy was an inspiration to me always. May the Angels come to welcome you and may God hold you in the palm of His hand.

Suzie Matthews

Peggy and Dennis Keener

December 18, 2005

We knew and loved Cindy in high school. She was always smiling, laughing, and enjoying life...it was contagious! Cindy was a joy to know. We hold fond memories of her. Our thoughts and prayers are with Cindy's family.

Peggy and Dennis Keener

Beth Wroe Womack

December 18, 2005

To the Rarey and Dyas Families,

I grew up with Cindy went through Brownies, Girl Scouts all that fun stuff. She and I even worked together at Highlights. This was when she first discovered her cancer. She was such a trooper through this whole thing. I know that my life is better for having know her. Both your families are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless

John Bender

December 18, 2005

Hello to the Dyas family! I will be wearing bright colors to honor Cindy. Cindy was so positive.Cindy's upbeat manner will endure with her many friends forever!

John Bender UAHS class of 73

Cheryl and Skip Barker

December 18, 2005

Ann, John, Mike, and Girls...



Skip and I send our thoughts and prayers to you. I will always remember Cindy as a happy young girl in my fourth grade class at Barrington, especially when with her best friend Elizabeth! Cindy grew to be a lovely young woman, married Mike who cared for her so deeply, and together had three beautiful daughters. When presented with a serious health challenge, Cindy fought hard to help herself as well as thousands of others facing similar difficulties. We will miss her smiling face but know she is now at peace.

Fuzzy and Jerry Rogovin

December 18, 2005

Dear Ann and John,

We never thought it would get Cindy...she was such a fighter..We are thinking of you all, and send love.

Fuzzy and Jerry

Darcy Merrell

December 18, 2005

Cindy was like a second mother to me and many of our friends. Although she has passed, she still holds a special place in my heart.

Dick Broughton

December 18, 2005

To the Rarey's,

I so well remember Cindy as the smiling and happy kid next door on Berkshire Rd. I know she must have been a trooper you were proud of and dearly loved these last fifteen years. Please know John, Ann and Barbie that I share your loss and will be wearing bright colors in Cindy's memory.

Old friend and neighbor,

Dick Broughton

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