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December 14, 2010
I can't believe it has been over 2 years already! They say time heals all pain but it makes you question it, huh! Prayers and love coming your way! Tricia Stahmer
July 10, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. We were great friends in High School. I'm sure you all miss her.
Ruth Overton
Cassie Butscha
May 30, 2010
I didn't know that Amy had started up this web page. It's a good idea. But,It's been so hard trying to handle life without you in it.!! We all miss you so terribly much.. No one could replace you. It still hurts 'till this day that your not around anymore, it brings tears to my eyes. I Love You&Miss so much!!!
Amy Perry
January 6, 2010
Hi Mom, Its been a rough couple days. heather is now engaged. I wish you knew winston, hes a wonderful kid, i wish you would of known him. His mom passed away yesterday at a very young age. I miss you and love you.
Cookie Shaw
October 24, 2009
WOW Amy I didn't realize you had this website. This is wonderful!! I'm sure you find comfort when you visit here, your mom was so loved, this will carry on her legacy and memories. Almost like a journal for you to share your inner most feelings. You are making it, all of you and Elaine is watching over you and giving you guidance. I love you Amy and I'm always her for you denise and carrie.
sallymowery
April 1, 2009
ELAINE, REST IN PEACE AND KNOW WE WILL ALL BE OK AND JOIN YOU SOMEDAY.
LOVE YOU,
SALLY
Amy Perry
March 31, 2009
Hi mom we miss you we are thinking of you on the year anniversary we love you
Carrie Colarik
February 21, 2009
Hey mom,
Just been thinking about ya A LOT lately. I wish you were here when I need you most. I know you are in spirit, but I NEED A HUG..... I love you,...
sally MOWERY
February 16, 2009
ELAINE,
I THINK OF YOU SO OFTEN. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART.
LOVE,
SALLY
Amy Perry
February 15, 2009
Mom, I cant believe how much things have changed in this past year. I miss you more everyday. Its just not fair. I still pick up the phone to call you. Gramps has been almost 1 year and it seems like yesterday. I dont think I will ever understand why GOD needed you and him there and not here with us. keep watching over us. I know you are, but I miss you...I love you Mom...
We miss you Mom..
February 15, 2009
Amy Perry
August 21, 2008
Hi Mommy...Just wanted to let you know Im always thinking of you. I cant believe this still...when will I wake up?
Amy Perry
May 11, 2008
Happy Mothers Day Mom. I love you and miss you. The days are so long without you here. Watch over us.
Amy Perry
April 12, 2008
Hey Mom,
Its been a week since we said our final goodbyes, but it feels like it has been years. I cant even to begin to tell you or explain how much I miss you. I keep waiting to wake up from a bad dream. Just watch over us...Love you Mom
Susie Moore
April 8, 2008
Denise, I am so sorry that your mom has gone on before us but try to remember that she's in a much better place and not in pain anymore. You are such a joy to work with and we have missed you terribly but are really glad that you have had the time with your mom and that Carson was able to meet his grandmother. Please know that I am thinking about you and saying prayers for your family.
Love you, Susie
Roger & Debbie Snyder
April 7, 2008
Jeannine, Just to let you know that we received the news about your sister, Elaine. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know you have many wonderful memories to cherish. Hope to see you soon.
Amy Perry
April 7, 2008
Hey Mom,
Its been 1 week since you have left us. Its so hard to believe. I miss my best friend. I bet you were looking down this weekend smiling at the service. Everything was so beautiful, just like you. I am glad the pain is gone, but we miss you. Love you Mommy...
Jennifer Cordray (Zang)
April 5, 2008
To the entire family,
I wanted to share with you that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I have such wonderful and funny memories of Elaine. I can remember my mom (Sally) and Elaine working away in the back office at Dr. Barry's....Elaine was always upbeat and made me smile. She has been a wonderful friend to my mom over the years. I will continue to pray for all of you.
Al and Lori Cline
April 5, 2008
Jeannine,
We are sorry to hear about your sister. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Shelly Rogers
April 4, 2008
Jeannine,
Please know that you are in our thoughts and our prayers. We are so sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Ernie and Julie Rogers
Terry Stump and Shelly Rogers
John Beams
April 4, 2008
Denise, Carrie, & Amy - You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this time of grieving. We wish we could be there with you... John T. Beams and Ashley Gonzalez
Melanie Webb-Albert
April 3, 2008
Denise, Carrie, & Amy -
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Your mom was like a second mother to a lot of us when we were younger. She will be deeply missed.
Laura Lanuto
April 3, 2008
Denise,
You and your sisters are in my thoughts and prayers. There's not much I can say to take your pain away but may you find comfort as you share the stories and memories of how she lived her life. I am here if you need anything, shoulder, ear...just let me know.
Love,
Laura
David and Kelly Ganz
April 3, 2008
Jeannine, Was sorry to hear about your sister's passing. I know how hard it is to lose a family member, but time does help. I'm sure you have a lot of great memories that will help you get through this. We are thinking and praying for you. The Ganz family
paula butscha
April 3, 2008
Paula Butscha
Gwen Bragg
April 3, 2008
Amy,
We're very sorry for your loss. It's hard to say something to make you feel better. You'll ALWAYS have the memories & remember that she is no longer in pain. We'll keep you in our thoughts & prayers.
Love You.
Friends: Rob, Gwen, Brittney & Shane
Dan Underhill
April 3, 2008
Elaine- I wanted to share some of my thoughts with you. Words cannot adequacy describe how much admiration I have for you during your difficult times. The courage, love and support you shown those you care about; will be something I will always remember. While things are what they are, the dignity and grace in which you displayed truly shows me how much love, hope and caring you had for your daughters and those you love. I am just so mad, it hurts... I don't understand why this is happening and I'm having a difficult time coming to grips with it. It seems like just yesterday we were off of Lazelle Rd and you were sitting me & TJ down to help us work out our puppy love issues, or chasing TJ around the car because Denise couldn't go somewhere with her... ah the good old days! Where has time gone? I'll leave you with this Irish Blessing that my grandmother made me promise to remember. I have never been good at goodbyes, as I always think it is not goodbye but rather until we see each other again and I cannot think of better words I could write to convey how I feel so here it is... May the Road rise to meet you. May the Wind be always at your back. May the Sun shine warm upon your face and Rains fall soft upon your Fields and until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand. Love Dan Underhill
Carole Hendley
April 3, 2008
I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.
Susan Phillips
April 3, 2008
My heart hurts and I cry everytime I think of what it is like to go through losing your mom. You've been in my thoughts and prayers so much. The bond between a mother and child is so deep and it hurts so when one passes on. I'm glad you were with your mom in her last weeks. I know you've shed a lot of tears and some smiles thinking back on fun memories. May those precious memories carry you through this sad time. I trust you will fine comfort in knowing she is pain free, in a better place now, and knowing that one day you will see her again.
I know the days ahead are going to be very tough and you'll miss her so much. Great memories, family, freinds and loved ones will carry you through. My heart go out to all your family. I miss you and hate I can't be there to give you a HUGE hug. It's waiting for you when you get home to Charlotte. I love you!
Susan
Leigh Thomas
April 3, 2008
Denise
My family thoughts and prayers are with yours during this tough time. We love you!
Leigh Thomas and Family
Samara Cassidy
April 3, 2008
Denise,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time. Stay strong, we love and miss you very much!
Love,
Scott and Samara Cassidy
TJ Underhill
April 3, 2008
Elaine, I am so glad that I got to come Easter weekend & visit with you. I will always smile when I reminisce of all the good times. My blonde moments(& boy there were many) always made you laugh & I promise, I will never have a criminal background. LOL, Your favorite that you would never let me forget. Ha Ha Ha. I will always remember the Knotslanding & Melrose Place nights, Spending 4th of July with you in the Big Bear Parking lot watching the fire works from your car, Making runs for you to UDF, Rooming with you on Lazelle Rd, Super Mario Brothers & Tetris(you were the first Mom that I ever met that loved those video games as much as we did), The bicyclist streaker that you chased down, & when we tried to talk in teenage language so you wouldn't know what we were talking about, you always knew exactly what we were saying & would call us out on it. You are the coolest Mom that I have ever met & you have blessed me with 3 wonderful daughters that have remained in my life since I was 15 & hopefully for many many more years to come. I will never truly understand what the purpose of you leaving this earth so soon & so young, but I know that you are in a much better place than we are and as you are rejoicing we will be mourning & time will only heal our broken hearts. You will always remain in sooooo many hearts forever. I truly miss you & you will NEVER be forgotten. Rest in Peace Elaine & one day we will all be reunited again. Love You, TJ Underhill
Tonya Neibarger
April 3, 2008
To A Strong, Wonderful, and Funny woman. Elaine, thanks for being there like a second mom when I was younger. To Carrie, Denise, Amy love you girls. I know how it feels to lose a Mom. My Heart feels your pain.
sile singleton
April 3, 2008
Amy I am lighting a candle for your Mom---and hugging you best I can. I am sorry for your loss and sending light and love to you and your family
Sile (Erin and Eden) PS if there is anything you need don't hesitate
Tony Cates
April 2, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Dan & Stacy List
April 2, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
SALLY MOWERY
April 2, 2008
ELAINE WE HAD A VERY SPECIAL FRIENDSHIP. YOU WILL BE IN MY HEART FOREVER.
AMY I AM SO PROUD OF YOU. YOU WERE AN ANGEL TO YOUR MOM AND UKE. MAY GOD BLESS YOU FOR DOING HIS WORK.
LOVE YOU
Maryellen Blankenship
April 2, 2008
Amy,
Thoughts and prayers from your Blog Buddy cyber friend. I know the void it leaves when "Mom" passes away. I lost mine in 2005. Just remember all the great times you shared with her and she'll never be far from your heart. {HUGS} to you and your family. This will be ONE of the hardest things you'll ever have to go through but you CAN do it. Stand strong and honor her memory!!!!
Dianna Herman
April 2, 2008
My heart is filled with much saddness over the loss of Elaine. May the memories help ease the pain.
Ryan Carman
April 2, 2008
My Sympathy to a great family, hang in there, she loved you so much. God Bless, Ryan C
Carrie Colarik
April 2, 2008
I miss you Mom...... Please watch over us from up there like you did when you were down here..... you will FOREVER be in my heart! I love you for all eternity!
Crystal,Dennis,& Sean Packard
April 2, 2008
We give are sympathy to all the family members.
Candy Zarr
April 2, 2008
Girls, Kara has informed me about your Mom's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I have fond memories of her and you gals.
Candy Zarr
Kat Burke
April 2, 2008
We will miss you very much Aunt Elaine. You were such an inspiration to me especially your strength, endurance and your smile when you were battling your illness.
To family and friends we will take comfort in knowing that now we have a special guardian angel to watch over us.
Amy, Carrie and Denise we are thinking of you and please know if you need anything, we will be there for you.
Love, Jim, Kat, Matthew & Katie
Amy Perry
April 2, 2008
I miss you Mom. This wasnt suppose to happen this soon. Watch over us. They took a x-ray of our hearts and you were there. Love you mommy...
Lucy Perez
April 2, 2008
The moving hand writes and having writ, moves on
Nor all your piety, nor wit shall lure it back to cancel half a line
Nor all your tears wash out a word of it.
The beautiful poem that your mother has written is you three girls. I hope every single word of love that she wrote in her life comes to comfort you in your deepest sorrow.
Denise Lytle
April 2, 2008
I miss you mom... :(
Bev Shaw
April 2, 2008
I can't even begin to imagine the emotions that you girls are trying to endure right now. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. I will always be here for you. I pray that your pain will lesson with time and that it turns to love in your heart. I love you girls.
Cookie
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