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Erik Patterson Obituary

Patterson Erik Sean Patterson, 44, AKA "Bigboi", March 15, 1971 - August 25, 2015. Erik published a book of his poems entitled "Father of two children, Child of one God" He graduated summa cum laude May 2015 from The Ohio State University in social work. He was also a renown tatto artist. Preceded in death by his grandparents Dist. Eld. Floyd and Willa Johnson, Wesley and Sadie Patterson and his beloved other mother Rose Turner. He is survived by his children, Allison Nicole and Elijah Trevon; parents, Larry and Saundra Patterson; brothers, Brian (Melissa), Billy (Lori) and David (Betty); his aunt, Patricia Edwards; uncles, David and Ralph Patterson, all of Steubenville, OH; and many other family and friends. If desired, please wear scarlet and gray. Special thanks to Dr. Lee Jordan, Erik's hero, and all of those that helped him while he was in Riverside and Grant Hospitals. Funeral service 12 noon Saturday, August 29, 2015 at Grace Apostolic Church, 1743 E. Lakeview Ave., Columbus, OH. 43224. Friends may call 10 a.m. and with family 11 a.m. until time service. Interment Obetz Cemetery. Arrangements entrusted to CALIMAN FUNERAL SERVICES, 3700 Refugee Rd.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Aug. 27 to Aug. 28, 2015.

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Gracie Davis

August 21, 2022

Sup Bro,I miss you bunches,I talk about you often,folk still trying to get a tatt appt that's because they are still freshtodeaf(Word). I work on the weekends now so I don't get to cook on Sundays like I used too. Seth is Graduating this year, wish you could see him walk. I'll have to come and chop it up with you and finish the scoop...Love You

Johnna C Bailey

August 22, 2020

I've known him since 07 & he was a great friend that always had my back ! I want to say more but can continue because it just makes me cry , I miss him soooo much

Gracie Davis

August 21, 2020

Oh how i miss you Erik I am in need of some new ink,i just can't do it though,i haven't gotten the nerve to let someone else draw on me,not yet anyway. I have definitely had some rough times i know wouldn't have existed if you were still here,You made life so much easier to deal with cause you were so easy to talk to.I would give anything to get one more call saying Sis you gon fry this chicken for me and Eli(chicken again)...Sunday dinner in the makingThey just haven't been the same without you Bro Love You Bunches

Gracie Davis

August 22, 2016

Sup Bro, there's not a day that goes by that I don't think about you,I miss you the mostSeth is getting really big...Growm man status,you would definitely get a kick out of himNY is bad as ever but you knew that,Munkadunk is doing alright,she's a really good mother Pooder is still Pooder Momdukes...A+ We love you and miss you infinity

Johnna Bailey

November 28, 2015

I will always love & miss u !

August 31, 2015

Sending prayers to the family and friends of Erik Patterson. Erik is a friend of mine as well as my two children and he will truly be missed. We started out as neighbors and became friends, one that I am blessed to have touched my life and the life of numerous others. He was truly a blessing to us all. RIH Big E

Lemikal Miller

August 30, 2015

Erik, you will ALWAYS be my guardian angel. Thank you for always being with me, in person and in spirit. I love you, and will see you again when it's time.

Donneca J McGrew

August 29, 2015

My Heart goes out to The Patterson Family. You all are in my prayers along with everyone that knew & loves Erik. Erik will always be missed never forgotten. Such a Great man, Son, Dad, Brother.

Erik has been a part of our family since our childhood years. He is a Brother to me and my siblings.

Love & Miss you Big Brother!!

Tracie Fields

August 29, 2015

Sending prayers to your family, children and all of the people who have been blessed to know Erik. Erik was a one of a kind guy, talented (I've got 2 tattoes to prove it), caring, sincere, dedicated and God Fearing! I will miss his words of encouragement, his debates, as well as his humor!

August 28, 2015

To the Patterson Family,

You have my sincere condolences regarding your loss.

I met Erik when he was a student at Columbus State Community College. Although our meeting was brief, I KNEW he was a very special man! He was such a compassionate person who LOVED LOVED LOVED his son and daughter with EVERY OUNCE OF HIS HEART as well as the rest of his family!

May God comfort you with His peace during this most difficult time.

Tiffany Banks

August 28, 2015

Erik didn't make friends, he collected new family. He didn't simply "like" people, he loved with his whole heart. During a conversation with him, Erik made u feel like the single most important person in the world. No matter what was going on in his life, you would always find him with a smile on his face and a "Thank You Jesus" on his lips. He was certainly one of a kind!!! Erik made this world a brighter, more cheerful and happy place to live!!! I rejoice and take comfort in knowing that he is in the arms of the Jesus that he loves so much. The tears I shed are just the overflow of my heart...to be a friend of Erik's was to know you were loved and all you could do in return was love him back, genuinely.
You are missed already BigBoi!!!
Love And Cherish You Always,
Tiffany Birden-Banks

Dana Barlow

August 28, 2015

Prayers going out to the family, we could always count on him for a good hearty laugh :) he will be missed!

ANNETTE BROWN

August 28, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kisha

August 28, 2015

Condolences to the Family and his children. You were a sincere person who touched my heart with the love for your children . Rest In Peace

Emery Lee

August 28, 2015

So talented, fun loving and most caring type of guy a person could know. I will always cherish all the great childhood memories we spent growing up together. So much laughter was shared. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Nurse

August 28, 2015

Although I cared for him one night, he was a wonderful person to meet. Too young and gone too soon. I pray for his family and give my most sincere condolences

Jeff Colquitt

August 28, 2015

My thoughts and prayers goes out to all of Erik family and friends. I will miss us cracking jokes and talking about The Ohio State Buckeys.
R.I.P Erik, You will truly be missed.

Jennifer Adams

August 28, 2015

I will miss his encouraging words and your momma jokes. Rest peacefully.

Lisa Brown

August 28, 2015

GONE way to soon...praying for your family

Cindy Compton

August 28, 2015

You will be missed I will pray for your family and especially your two beautiful children you were taken to soon but I'm sure heaven will have some wonderful fried chicken lol R.I.P.

Tina Dorsey

August 28, 2015

Prayers for the family. He will be dearly missed.

jessica johnson

August 27, 2015

You were such an amazing person artist I will miss seeing your jokes all the time rip fly high see you again one day prayers for the family

Fonshell Banks

August 27, 2015

You are truly an awesome person. There's not too many people like you that's just an all-around awesome person. You will be greatly missed. I am blessed for knowing you thank you I love you

Denise Anderson

August 27, 2015

My condolences go out to Eriks kids and his family, I will truly miss my friend Erik, he was funny, caring, an all around wonderful person. RIH my friend,I will never forget you!

Victoria Winn

August 27, 2015

E! You were so much more than "my tattoo guy". I considered you to be one of my best friends. It has been such a privilege FOR ME to be a part of YOUR life. I thank you for all the laughs and advice and cracks you gave me! You left your mark on the world and definitely on my heart. To the family, Alison, and Elijah, my sincerest prayers are with you. May God grant you comfort during all of the rough times.

I love you homie! You're forever in my heart :)

Robert Hewitt

August 27, 2015

One of the best people I have ever known has past away. Eric was my classmate at osu. I am engaged to the woman of my dreams because he encouraged me. He always had a joke and any class we had together we always sat with each other. I even have one of his tattoos on me. Any time I told a joke that crossed the line Eric always had one that crossed it further. We were not even aware he was sick. The last time I saw Eric was at graduation. He was so proud. I do not have many friends. I considered him one of the few that was. He touched my life in such a profound way. He is my idea of what a social worker should be and is one of my heroes

Rae Ann Smith

August 27, 2015

Gone way too soon. You will be missed.

Shelia Wilson

August 27, 2015

My condolences to the family. What a great guy, he will be missed

Michele Leonard

August 27, 2015

Prayers for the family...may God comfort you during this time.

tamara kirk

August 27, 2015

RIH E ..YOU WILL TRULY BE MISSED ..PRAYERS FOR HIS CHILDREN AND FAMILY.

Tracey Burgett

August 27, 2015

I met Erik quite a long time ago through my Aunt Rose Turner. I remember how funny he was and how talented he was he was an amazing person to be around with a heart of gold. He was family to me and always will be I know my Aunt Rose is embracing him now. We love you Erik you will always live on in our hearts.

Jennifer Porter and Family

August 27, 2015

My condolences to the family. Prayers going up. Peace and God Bless.

August 27, 2015

God is healing the broken hearted and binding up their wounds.

Carla Hester Sowell

August 27, 2015

My Codolence To His Family And Children May God Be With You At This Time Erik Was A Wonderful Person He Will Truly Be Miss

Shawnetta Epps

August 27, 2015

Sending my prayers to your family, im in total shock. My heart truly goes out too your family.

Gracie Davis

August 27, 2015

Sup bro,I just can't believe you're gone,I guess the pain gets better with time.I will forever cherish our friendship,our talks,our cries and most of all the Sunday dinners even though you chickened me to death lol,I would definitely kill for one of your bearhugs right about now though,luv u bro...

joan and jimmy jones

August 27, 2015

condolences and prayers to the family.there are no words.know our love with you at this time.

Jasmine Moore

August 27, 2015

I must say God has one heck of an angel up there. You were a really great man, father, confidant, etc and so much more. Thanks for being there when I needed you. You're an amazing guy and will truly be missed by so many.

Allen Jones

August 27, 2015

Bro,RIH,AMEN!

Ranata Burge

August 27, 2015

I really don't know what to say or how to go about saying it, Erik the love you showed to everyone is a life long lasting feeling that will never be replaced by another. I know you are in Heaven just smiling, grinning & strutting around like a champ. I thank God for your friendship of 25 plus years. Dude it don't get any better than you!
P. S. #DemBuckeyeBoys
To the family I'm sending prayers & condolences to you. You knew him best. Erik brought smiles to faces every time he stepped into a room. Thank you for sharing him with us. Thank you for raising the man that we grew to love & respect. May God continue to keep you close.

Lisa Taylor

August 27, 2015

I send my sincerest sympathy to his children and family...

angie

August 27, 2015

Thoughts and prayers with his family and friends

Jakki Byrd

August 27, 2015

Erik
You were such a wonderful soul and we were blessed to be able to know a person of your character. May you rest easy my friend.

Candace Weatherly

August 27, 2015

God has Order Your Steps! No more pain, rest my dear friend. Until we meet again.

Mell G. Ross.

August 27, 2015

To. The Patterson family my condolences on the passing of Erik he was a great guy who will be missed but never forgotten I send my Prayers to the entire family and wish you all the best because God has his arms wrapped around the family at this time.

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