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for Joseph LaFleur
Dan Hendricks
February 1, 2023
Time passes so quickly. It's hard to believe it's been 10 years. I have happy memories of Joe and the time we had together as roomates along with my brother Jim. He was loyal to his friends, had a great sense of humor and was incredibly bright. He left us far to early but he is fondly remembered by all those who knew him well.
Scott Nichols
February 1, 2021
It has been several years now, but it still seems like yesterday I heard of Joe's passing. Joe and I were lifelong friends from Kindergarten and all through school and young adulthood. I knew a different person than the one I read about here. I knew the young man who always read, was a great athlete, and wanted to be a drummer so bad! We all came from humble beginnings so "drums" would be quite a luxury. Life went on and we grew apart, but were always "brothers" in many ways. It was strange, but Joe was in my dream last night. He is often. I guess he just stops by to say hello now and then. Miss him too much.
Doug Schloemer
February 1, 2021
Hard to believe it's been 8 years. RIP. my friend.
Alan McDonald
May 18, 2013
When I came to Honda as an outsider Joe took me in and taught me "The Honda Way" more than anyone else. We ate lunch together almost every day. I just learned of his passing and am saddened for his family and all who knew him. He was one of the few people I missed when I left.
March 31, 2013
In Memory of Joe, one our honored colleagues in the close-knit supplier risk community:
Joe flew high above the fray
Was thoughtful in every way
His client's best interest held to his heart
We could count on him to always do his part
For without Joe's steady hands and strong analytical stand
The group would quickly mire
Into deals less desired
A superb elder statesman with a voice deep and soothing
He would soon have us moving
Along the updward trajectory
Joe would always tell the story
How easy it is argue, much harder to find glory
In a finely crafted solution
This was always his contribution
Joe was fun and witty
We all enjoyed his company
He was supportive and complimentary
We were all so so lucky
To have sat around the table
With someone so kind and so wise
He made our days, months and years
Go as the crow flies
So straight and so fast
From one place to another
We miss Joe immensely for his sense, humility and laughter
Our lives are much richer forever and after.
With much gratitude to Joe,
Alicia Masse, Ernst & Young
Lisa Ford
March 5, 2013
Hi Kathy,
Just learned of Joe's passing while reading the Catholic Times, I am so sorry for your loss:( Both Mason and Rachel remembered your boys and Mason remembered Joe coaching him in some sport along the way!
God must have needed a new drummer for His Heavenly Band and knew Joe could do the job, may you find comfort knowing that Joe is at Peace entertaining the Lord.
Hugs...
February 15, 2013
Kathy, Jake, Phillip and LaFleur Family,
I wanted to let you know that we are thinking of all of you and you are in our prayers. Love, Wende, Abbi and Brady
Emile Di Serio
February 14, 2013
It was a pleasure to work with the Barry White voice and the nice french name you can easily remember. Thank you for your professional and always human behavior.
Walter May
February 14, 2013
I knew Joe only as a lawyer on the other side of a difficult deal. He was a gentleman of unfailing courtesy, tenacious in advancing his client's interest, but always willing to listen and always ready to work across the table to find solutions to thorny problems. They should make more like him. My sincerest condolences to his family, friends and colleagues.
Jeannie Zenere Cancialosi
February 12, 2013
My dear cousin Kathy, Jake, Phil, and and the Englehardt and LaFleur families, may god bless all of you during this difficult time . Kathy, I know distance has kept us apart, so I didn't get a chance to know Joe very well, but I have read all the messages..... And what a wonderful extraordinary and special man, what a legacy he has left for you -Kathy, and his boys. My heart breaks for all of you ((((HUGS)))) from me to you! With love and prayers to give you strength, your cousin Jeannie
St. Charles Cafeteria
February 12, 2013
Kathy,Jake,Phillip and LaFleur families,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Ed Jackson
February 11, 2013
Joe and I worked together quite a bit at Honda, I always appreciated his cool, calm, collective style. It was a privelidge to work alongside Joe. May he rest in peace, God Bless his family-Ed Jackson
Michael Nelson
February 9, 2013
Joe was my law school mate. For nearly 30 years, I had the privilege of his enduring brotherhood. I only hope that the interval between now and when we see him again passes as swiftly as those 30 years. To Kathy, Jake and Phil, we send our prayers, our condolences, our love, and our pledge of continuous support. To your families and friends, may God provide His comfort in time of sorrow. To Joe, the peace of resting in the arms of our Savior forever.
Jeri Markwood Comer
February 9, 2013
Family and friends of Joe LaFleur -- So sad to hear of your loss. I knew Joe in his first few years at OU and always thought so much of him. It warms my heart to see that he grew into a really wonderful man. May God's promises and your loving memories of Joe comfort you in your grief. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Terry Howe
February 9, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
The Herfel Family
February 9, 2013
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. We are here if you need anything.
Mark Novak
February 9, 2013
It was a pleasure to know Joe.
Billy Taylor
February 9, 2013
To The LaFleur Family
Our deepest sympathy to the family. There are no words that can console in this hour. Lean on the blessed arms of our Savior, we love you.
Bill, Alecia & Aaron Taylor
February 9, 2013
LaFleur Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Patrick and Jeanne Stock
Naveena Paladugu
February 9, 2013
Phil,
I am very sorry for your loss. Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family.
Ceci Griffiths Martinez
February 8, 2013
Kathy, I am so sad to hear of Joe's passing. I have such fond memories from our OU past, visits to your home-and you two as new parents ... And Joe always with that sharp sense of humor. I wish you peace and comfort--my sincere sympathy .
Steve, Cathie, and Matt George
February 8, 2013
Kathy, Jake, Phillip,
Our heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family.
Matt Daniel
February 8, 2013
It was a pleasure to work with Joe over the past few years - he had an infectious personality and possessed a great knowledge of corporate law. It was a pleasure to know him. May peace be with his family and friends during this time of grief.
Steve Grady
February 8, 2013
Mentor, friend, colleague, motivator, loving father and husband, coach, lunch buddy, problem solver, fearless, laughter.... Are but a few words that come to mind. I would pick joe any hour of the day any day of the week for help,to lead or just be there bisiness or personal..... He had your back..... My deepest sympathy to Kathy and the boys.
Terry Baker
February 8, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of Joes' family and friends. It was my great pleasure to work with Joe and to know him outside the office - he was my friend and we miss him....
Julie Ruland
February 8, 2013
I worked with Joe through TRC/ Honda. He was such a kind, down to earth man. Our recent conversation was about his son's college prospects. He mentioned UD as one of them and as a fellow Flyer it stuck in my memory. He was very proud of both of his boys.
I am so sorry for your loss. May you be comforted by your faith that you will be joined again one day.
February 8, 2013
To The LaFleur Family,
Joe and i were good friends for years, when he moved, we simply lost contact. Joe, you and your family are in my prayers. God Bless Brad Woodruff
February 8, 2013
To The LaFleur Family, Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you. With deepest sympathy.
Garyn Metoyer
St. Charles '12
Melissa Williams
February 8, 2013
Sorry for the loss my thoughts are with the family at this time.
February 8, 2013
What a wonderful family ~ I know you are grieving so deeply. I was one of Jake's elementary school teachers at Norwich, and even though that has been many years ago, I smile when I think of every single member of that sweet family. Luckily, your dad spent your lifetime making wonderful memories that will carry you through the difficult times ahead. My deepest sympathies to each of you.
Cheryl (Rice) Gehres
Lew
February 8, 2013
I struggle to express how much Joe meant to me. My life was so much better because he was in it. He enriched my life, and the lives of so many others, with his wit and wisdom and gentleness. I consider myself lucky to have worked closely with him for many years at Honda, to have laughed so often with him, and to have come to know Kathy, Jake, and Philip, Joe's wonderful family. My heart goes out to them. They lost a wonderful husband and father and we all lost a special friend. Rest in Peace, Joe.
Barb Rozen-Bernhardt
February 8, 2013
Kathy & boys,
Joe was my college buddy. I have so many wonderful and funny memories. Our small group of friends always got into mischief, and Joe, in a pinch was "the litigator" getting us out of hot water. He was a GREAT guy! He will be missed, but not forgotten.
Nancy DuBoise
February 8, 2013
Kathy, I would not have lasted 5 years in Marysville without the friendship (and daily lunchtime banter in the HAM cafeteria) and mentoring I received from Joe. He was a great colleague and friend. My heart out goes to you and the boys at this time of loss. He will be missed.
Cecelia Norwood
February 7, 2013
To the LaFluer Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you in the loss of your loved one. I had the pleasure many times to interact with Joe when I worked at Honda. He was such an honorable and great person to work with. I have always had high respect and regards of him. May God bless and keep you and your family. You are in my prayers.
Sherry Thomas
February 7, 2013
Shailer and I were so sorry to hear about Joe. He had such a sweet and gentle smile and was so wonderful with our grandchildren. We are so glad we had the pleasure of knowing him. Kathy, you will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Mark Leon
February 7, 2013
I am a much better person for having had Joe's friendship almost 30 years. Words cannot adequately express how much I will miss him. Maria, Nicholas, and I hope that Kathy, Jake, & Phil will find solace in all the good that Joe accomplished as a husband, father, and friend.
debbie Stephenson
February 7, 2013
Kathy and family- so sorry to read the news of how's passing. You all are in my thoughts and prayers! Can remember many good times with joe n you at Ou, just like it was yesterday! Reading through others messages sounds like he remained good and true just like I knew him when we were all at Ou! So saddened by the news! May god be there for all of you!!
Dan Hendricks
February 7, 2013
I am very saddened to hear the news. Joe was a great friend. We had some wonderful times when we shared an apartment together while he was I'm law school. Kathy, I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
February 7, 2013
Kathy, Jake & Phil,
There are no words for your loss except that your loss is all of our's. Joe "is a great guy". Sounds kinda crazy...but I know that anytime I stand at the westend of the chain link fence of Cardinal Stadium...on a Football Friday Nite...Joe will be there with me cheering the boy's on. Hang tough my Cinti. Bro!!
Karrie Miller
February 7, 2013
Lisa....my condolences to you and your family mourning this loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you. I know there are no words that will provide you comfort, but I am here for you. Love Karrie, Joe, Emily and Gabby Miller
Katie Russell
February 7, 2013
Joe was my manager, mentor and friend. He had amazing energy and understood what was important in life. I will miss him deeply, but I am thankful for having known him. My thoughts and prayers are with Kathy, Jake, Philip and the rest of his family.
Stephen Campisano
February 7, 2013
I worked with Joe for many years at Honda. He was genuine and kind. All of us at Honda will miss him deeply
Jay Ryan
February 7, 2013
Kathy, Jake & Phil
Our deepest condolences on the loss of your husband & father. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers and that we will all be here for you now and in these difficult months ahead. May he rest in peace.
Jay, Teri, Jason, Michael & Jim Ryan
Diane Moore
February 7, 2013
HAM Legal will be a quieter place without Joe. We will miss his booming voice, wide smile, and his many stories.
Al Hostetler
February 7, 2013
Kathy, Jake, and Phil,
My heart is deeply saddened about your loss.
Joe was a good man. I greatly appreciated his unwavering support for the SC track program and his positive attitude about everything. I will greatly miss his smile and his "Hey Hos! how's the track team looking this year?" every time I saw him. I also enjoyed his efforts at trying to raise money for the track team with the date night parties for the parents with the Klatt Brothers and his support with the Mulch delivery.
I will always remember his attempts to get me to sing "Heart of Gold" by Neil Young. Even though I could not sing it very well, he always made me feel like I could. That is the way Joe was, he always made you feel like you did great without hesitation: always positive, Always smiling, always seeing the best in people, and always doing the best for people.
Take care Joe, Coach Hos will truly miss your "Heart of Gold"
Kathy, Jake and Phil my thoughts will always be with you.
Never be afraid to ask me or my family for anything
Sincerely,
Coach Hos
February 7, 2013
I will never forget Joe's smile and the deep dimples. I am so sorry for your loss Kathy. Love always, Dee Dee Chesley
Matt Dajnowicz
February 7, 2013
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I had the honor to interact with Joe during my years at Honda. He was a pleasure to work with and was well respected by all. He will be missed.
MB Wozniak
February 7, 2013
Joe was an amazing attorney and a very respected manager, but everyone knows the role he loved the most was as Father to two amazing boys and husband to a wonderful supportive wife. Such a proud Father. Some memories fade over time, but the ones that Joe left are too big to ever leave us and they make us smile.
Frank Lambert
February 7, 2013
Joe was a blast when we were in school! I lost touch with him after while, but always remember his quick whit! RIP you went too soon!
Karen Borchers
February 7, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. Lisa, I remember when we all went to St.Margaret's. And what a good friend you were to Peggy.What a nice family.You're in my prayers.
Dan Kemme
February 7, 2013
I met Joe as a freshman in high school and we became very close friends throughout high school and college. Joe was always a lot of fun to be with. When I think of him, I'll remember him smiling and laughing. We had some great times together.
Kathy & family, my heart goes out to you. I can't believe that he's gone. He will be greatly missed.
Chris Richardson
February 7, 2013
I worked with Joe several years ago at Honda. He was a strong, firm, results-oriented attorney, but always maintained his gentlemen lawyer approach. I learned a lot from him and always enjoyed his company. My prayers are with him and his family.
Michael Reggie
February 7, 2013
Phillip,
My condolences to you, your brother Jake, your mother, and all of your family mourning this loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you. Having lost my father when I was just a little younger than you, I know there are no words that will provide you comfort, so instead I will just say that we are here for you. As with all of the St. Charles family, we will be there to offer whatever support you want or need.
Michael Warner
February 7, 2013
As a teacher of Jake and Phil, I know that Joe's character, humor, intelligence, and strenght continue to be present through his sons. God has visited St. Charles through the LaFleur family, may God's grace be with you in the love, prayers and support of the St. Charles community.
Celebrating the end of a case.
Rob Quick
February 7, 2013
Working with Joe was always an adventure! He filled the room with his personality and leaves a huge hole in our hearts. I think we've seen every football video of his sons. (He talked about you two all the time). I recall the time Kathryn surprised him at work for his 50th birthday. He was proud to introduce her to all of us and his love for her and his sons was extremely evident. We are lifting your family in prayer and ask God to give His comfort to you at this time.
Karen & Mike Pinsky
February 7, 2013
We did know know Joseph, but know John and Joanne & kids very well. We can only imagine that Joseph was as special a man as is his brother and our hearts are aching for you all!
Pinsky's
john heller
February 7, 2013
Kathryn, Jake, Phillip and LaFleur families, you are in our thoughts and prayers. We worked with Joe at HAM, St. Charles/City of Hillard and with his band..he was an awesome drummer. He was a fine attorney, a good man and always strived to do the "right thing". We will sadly miss his dedication, guidance and wit. Deepest sympathies, the Hellers.
Tom Lake
February 6, 2013
Intelligent, wise, professional, dedicated, grounded, willing to help, family-oriented, very cool, funny, fun to hang out with, a great friend. That's how I remember Joe LaFleur. May time bring God's peace to those who are hurting.
February 6, 2013
Our hearts and prayers are with you Kathy, Jake and Phillip. We will all miss Joe. Please know we are here for you if you need anything. God bless you.
Craig, Kathy, Lindsay, Jake and Matt Seeds
Penny & Tom Boes
February 6, 2013
Rest in Peace, Joe.
God Bless, Cath, Jacob, and Philip.
Penny & Tom Boes
February 6, 2013
Cath,
Our most heartfelt sympathies/condolences to you, Jacob, and Phillip. Remembering Joe with a huge smile and several laughs that we all shared in our earlier adult years and more recently...so glad to be a part of your lives and to have you as part of ours. We will all miss Joe terribly but retain those wonderful memories with which we are left....thinking of you with positive vibes and lots & lots of love at this extremely difficult time. Love, love, love to you all.
Elaine Eskay Zins
February 6, 2013
I met Joe camping in rural Stockport, OH. I had donated a Father/Son camping weekend to the St. Brendan school auction and Joe was the lucky bidder who purchased the weekend for himself and Jake. I admired how he valued spending time with his family and found a way to make it happen.
May you find peace and comfort in Jesus' loving arms.
Pam and Marshall Bennett
February 6, 2013
Kathy,Phillip and Jake,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. May you heal and find strength in faith and each other.
Sincerly,
Pam and Marshall Bennett
Pam Heminger
February 6, 2013
I can honestly say that my life is better having known Joe LaFleur. Joe was a witty, smart, genuinely funny man. At Honda, he always took a balanced approach to any problem resolution. Finally, Joe was extremely proud of his family..speaking about his sons successes many times. God Bless your family during this difficult time.
Penny & Tom Boes
February 6, 2013
Cath & Boys,
Our heartfelt sympathies go out to you all. What fond and fun memories we have of our younger adult years together with you guys, Cath...thinking of Joe, always brings a smile and several laughs! Peace to him as well as your family...sending love and positive vibes for you, Cath!
Barbara Belville
February 6, 2013
Kathy, Jake, Phillip, and all of Joe's family- it was my great pleasure to work with Joe at AEP. He was so well regarded and liked by all who knew him. I am heartbroken for your loss.
Scott Nichols
February 6, 2013
Joe and I grew up together. I always considered him to be more of my brother than a friend. He was the smartest guy I knew and he never had to try. He was amazing.
Ann Clark
February 6, 2013
I know joe by cleaning the legal office at honda .i would talk to him about. My son and he till me about his sons. You will be miss.
Ken Arnold
February 6, 2013
Jo was without a doubt a friend and a fellow associate I worked with at Honda. He always had a solution to all things.
So sorry for the family.
Jeff Tomko
February 6, 2013
Joe was an exceptional attorney with a strong commitment to help others. More importantly Joe was a great friend. He will be deeply missed by all those he came in contact with. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Jim Homan
February 6, 2013
Joe was a great man. I will always appreciate his kindness and consideration to me. You will stay in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Cathy, Mark, and Josh Novak
February 6, 2013
It was a pleasure working with Joe in the St. Charles Football Booster Club. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Mike Myers
February 6, 2013
I always enjoyed running in to Joe at work, in Hilliard and at Buckeye games. He had such a great demeanor and was always a pleasure to talk to. He will be missed by many at Honda and in the community.
Steve
February 6, 2013
Joe was a great friend and colleague at Honda. We worked together on many issues and Joe was always a true gentleman and professional. He often spoke about his sons and their involvement in sport - he was a very proud father. We will all miss Joe. God bless you.
Brian Newman
February 6, 2013
I am honored to have worked with Joe for several years during my time at HAM, HTM and HSC. He was always very professional and willing to share his knowledge and expertise. Joe will be greatly missed by many at Honda and my Prayers and thoughts are with the Family and the many friends and co-workers thoughout North America.
Joe performs with the Navigators
Scott Whipps
February 6, 2013
Joe was someone I looked up to, who lived life at full speed, and gave 100% effort at whatever he focused on. He was not interested in being happy, but in making a positive difference in the world! He was a wonderful friend and colleague who was always the life of every party. His spirt was best reflected when performing with the Navigators rock band. That is why I will miss him so much!
February 6, 2013
Kathy, Jake, and Phillip our thoughts and prayers are with each of you at this most difficult time.Gods blessings to you. Janet, Stacy, Kelly and Todd Williams
Lori amd Nick DeVito and Family
February 6, 2013
Even though we have known the LaFleur's for a short period of time, we met during Phi Deltas mom's weekend 2011, I feel like they are family. You are always in hearts and in our prayers.
Standley Law Group LLP
February 6, 2013
It was our pleasure to work with Joe on various legal matters over several years. Our hearts are deeply saddened to lose a friend and peer. Joe was a gentleman in his daily life as a lawyer. He was a talented lawyer who could analyze and solve legal issues without complicating matters for his client. We enjoyed the accounts he shared of his son on the football field. Joe will be missed by all of us who had the privilege to work with him. Our heartfelt condolences go out to his family.
Lori and Nick DeVito
February 6, 2013
We got to know Joe and Kathy through our sons at Case Western and have quickly developed a strong bond. Joe was a terrific man and devoted father. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jeff
February 6, 2013
Joe was a pleasure to work with and interact with. He often beamed when speaking of his boys, one of whom I coached in baseball yrs. ago. He will truly be missed..
Edward Miller
February 6, 2013
Joe was a gifted attorney, always willing to give generously and cheerfully his time and talents to co-workers. He was one of a kind.
Mike Jackson
February 6, 2013
I am so sad to hear of Joe's passing.
I was fortunate to work with him for many years here at Honda. He was so proud of his family and he spoke about his sons to us often. I will miss him, as will many others here.
God Bless you.
Ed & Beth Abbott
February 6, 2013
We've only gotten to know Joe and his lovely wife Cathy since their son and our's began playing football together at Case Western. We are deeply saddened to learn of his passing, he will be truly missed in our football family at Case. Our hearts go out to the LaFleurs. Ed & Beth Abbott and family
Doug Schloemer
February 6, 2013
I am deeply saddened to learn of Joe's death. Please accept our sympathies on your loss.
Stephanie Dawson
February 6, 2013
Joe was a very kind and special man that touched so many lives. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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