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Lisa Simpson
January 30, 2010
Hey Son,
Wow today if you were here you'd be celebrating yes 21 yrs of being Joshua Aaron Simpson. I can't believe that today 21 yrs ago I became a mom-am I really that old?? I can hear you kidding me now. Oh son I'm glad even though you are not here and we miss you that I had you to love for 18 yrs. I miss being able to celebrate with you, but I am definitely still celebrating your birth. I made another memory book at Christmas. This time with all the memories from this site, emails, FB and ones I've written down from your brothers. I have been sitting here reading through them. Hey did you know you were pretty special to a lot of people:)! You still are special to us even now.
One of your brothers was crying the other night-I asked him why and his answer was, "I miss Josh." We all do son!
One thing I can say is I don't have to worry about what you are doing today or tonight that is with you turning 21. You are in the safest place! I love you son-Happy 21st! Mom
Mom
September 16, 2009
Wow I haven't left anything on here in awhile, but don't think a minute we don't think about you Josh. By now you know a friend of mine died a little over a week ago. Her name is Bonnie. I flew to TX to go to her memorial service in Bowie. She wasn't quite 50 yrs old. She was a great friend. Yes every funeral makes me think of you more. It still hurts son.
I just moved your senior collage picture to the end of the stairs and put Daniel's underneath it. That wall is going to be for all my seniors:)
I love you Josh and miss you so much.
Evie Gonzales
May 26, 2009
So it had been 2 years and 2 days since you left us Josh. I miss you so much.I called and talked to your mom which helped me a little. I know how hard it is on them and the boys to be without you. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you or the family. I wish that I could have gotten to know you more like the other kids in the Youth Group. I have been staying with my bf and he came to the room to check on me and I told him that I had just got off the phone with your mom and he held out his arms and told me everything would be fine that it won't be soo hard the next time and I hope he's right. I told Tiffany to tell you hi if she went up to see you. Well man love you and miss you and nothings gonna change that.
Love Always and Forever,
Evie
May 23, 2009
ugggh i dont wanna believe its been 2 years ... i hate to think about the day i found out that nu were gone when days before i was talking to you on the phone...
i love you and miss you very much
lisa & cliff you are in my thoughts and prayers ... god bless
Tannis
Tannis
January 30, 2009
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOSHI
i love you and miss you very much
hope you and my pops are having a good day with the BIG GUY ...
see you in my dreams ... xoxo
Casidee Vaughn
January 8, 2009
Hey dude, you were just in my homeroom our Senior year but I still think about you. I picked up our Senior yearbook and flipped to the graduation section, your quotes and pictures brought tears to my eyes, I can't explain why but you've touched me. I have the ribbon from graduation I wore in memory of you in my car hanging on my tassel.
Hope you're having fun kicking it with God.
And to your parents. Your son is loved and missed by more people than you could know.
Tannis
January 2, 2009
hello
i really have no words to type that can explain how much i miss you ...
i saw your parents and brothers for Christmas ... and me and your dad looked at your memory book and just cried ...
i love you josh and i miss you so much
Lisa (Mom) Simpson
July 31, 2008
Just wanted all to know I still miss you Josh!! I still feel like a part of me is missing-I guess it always will be that way here on this earth.
I went to a funeral on Monday at Calvary-the first one at the church since yours. It was hard, but I did ok. It was Wonda Drake-I'm sure you know already:). It was a great service-she served God so faithfully all her life.
Even though we've had a busy summer, I still have thought of you often. I went by and watered the flowers at your headstone today. I love you son!!!
Sheila Yancey-Bicknell
June 4, 2008
Dearest Lisa,
Thank you for sharing your deep love for your son with us. I am wiping my tears as I read of your grief and yet your joy.
I am so glad you are writing your thoughts and feelings down. I wish I had known Joshua better. I only saw you guys a few times when we would run into you in Texas. I know he was special, however, because I know his Mom.
I have said a prayer for you and your family that God would richly bless you all.
Blessings and love,
Sheila
Lisa (Mom) Simpson
May 24, 2008
Today is the 23rd of May-I can't believe it's been a year already-it doesn't seem possible. I still miss you so much Josh.
Today you'd be very proud of your friends. Many of them came over throughout the day. They shared lots of memories-they made me laugh. They miss you too.
Josh I love you and know that no one will fill your place in my heart. God has given us grace and has helped us to continue on. At times we haven't wanted to. So many people have prayed for us. Somehow I think you are praying for us too. Your memories will never leave us. 2 Cor. 1:3-5 Eph. 3:20
Sara Swank
May 19, 2008
Today marks one year since my senior prom... the one year anniversary of the last time I saw Josh. I wish I could say that I faced today with courage and strength in knowing that Josh is at peace now, but I can't. I dreaded today before it was even here. Many who know me will agree that I am an overly emotional person and well, today was no different. It seems like every song on the radio today was there just for me and every little thing that was said was meant for my ears. Just a little while ago I was talking to Alyssa and trying to remember what everything was like that night, and it was so great to once again hear her view of the night and to share mine. I've shared this before but I remember telling Josh that night that before the evening was over I would take a picture of us but at that moment I couldn't get the camera to work. I never took that picture and I wish every single day that I had. To some it may just seem like a picture, but to me pictures are everything, they capture moments that you'll always remember and memories that you'll always be able to share. As great of a memory my senior prom was it is also a great memory of an awesome gift that God gave me- one last night with Josh. I thank God for that memory of that conversation with Josh and hearing him call me "Chuckie" one last time and giving him a hug that made him know I was glad to see him.
In the midst of all these images and thoughts running through my head today I came back to the verse that was our "theme" for 2007, Philippians 4:13-I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me. Right after Josh died I truly embraced that verse and made it my everything and I thought about it daily. Lately I have relied on it less and today realized that that particular verse means so much to me and hopefully to others. It is one reason I am able to say that, although I miss Josh more than ever, I can make it through a day even though some days are better than others. And I hope that others are able to look to God's word to do the same and to know that he is the best comforter and he knows what you're going through.
So I am not going to say that this week isn’t going to be a difficult one for me and for others as well, but I know that it will be slightly less painful knowing that God is on my side. This week I will remember a lot of the good times that I was lucky enough to share with Josh and our friends and I hope everyone is able to do the same. You all will be in my prayers this week and I hope that everyone is able to enjoy the memories of Josh that God has blessed you with. I know Josh brought a great deal of energy and fun to my life and there is not a day that goes by when I do not think of him, and this week will be no different. I love you Joshie-poo! ~"Chuckie"
Mother's Day 2007 family picture at Calvary Bible Bpt Church
May 11, 2008
Mother's Day 2007 family picture at Calvary Bible Bpt Church
May 11, 2008
Mother's Day '07-Josh helping trying to help Andrew swing:)
May 11, 2008
Mother's Day '07-Josh pushing Daniel on the swing
May 11, 2008
Mother's Day '07-Josh pushing Daniel on the swing
May 11, 2008
Mother's Day '07-Boys jumping on trampoline
May 11, 2008
Mother's Day '07-Boys jumping on trampoline
Lisa (Mom) Simpson
May 11, 2008
Mother's Day pictures from 2007
Mother's Day '07-Boys jumping on trampoline
Lisa (Mom) Simpson
May 11, 2008
Tomorrow is Mother's Day. Part of me wants to skip it, but no-Josh is still my son and I have 4 other wonderful sons here with me. I did want to share about the Mother's Day God blessed me with last year with all 5 of my sons.
First Josh had already moved into his apartment a couple of weeks before Mother's Day so I wasn't for sure when I would see him on Mother's Day. When we got to church he came in a few minutes later-he rode his bike to church in his suit:)! He sat by me during the service. We got a kick out of watching Timothy "not" sing in his children's choir.
After church and SS were over Josh changed at the church and rode his bike over to our house. Cliff cooked hamburgers and hotdogs on the grill. I remember Josh taking his shirt off and sitting in a chair outside saying he needed to work on his tan.
After we ate the boys went to the backyard and all of them got on our trampoline. They took turns jumping. Then Daniel and Josh started doing flips. Daniel was landing his and Josh, well he was landing on his knees so he had to keep doing them because he was the best of course. Then they started swinging on our swing hanging from a tree. Josh pushed Daniel and Daniel pushed Josh etc.
It was awesome-5 boys were back to being little boys and playing outside while Mom and Dad watched. I took pictures that day-what awesome treasures they are to me now.
God gave me the perfect Mother's Day last year with memories that will last a life time!
Even though I know tomorrow may be hard because I will miss Josh, I am also looking forward to the new memories God will give me with my husband Cliff and our sons Daniel, Nathan, Andrew and Timothy.
I pray all the Mother's I know will have a great day!!
Lisa (Mom) Simpson
April 28, 2008
Lately, as I've been thinking about Josh, I realize how God through the years prepared me for what He knew I'd be going through now.
Within two months after Cliff and I got married (Oct '87) we found out we were going to have a baby. Believe it or not we were excited. We had given it to God-His timing and how many. At about 10 weeks I miscarried. It was tough but a few months later I was expecting again and on January 30th, 1989 Joshua Aaron Simpson was born weighing 12 lb. and 1/2 oz.(that is not a typo).
A few months later, about 7 to be exact I found out we were expecting again. Yes, I was excited! About 4 months along we found out I would need a C-section, but nothing too serious. At 7 months I had a 2nd sonogram which showed something wrong with Jacob-we had a 3rd sonogram which showed a mass on his neck. This was on a Monday and the next Sunday I went into labor. Jacob was delivered C-section, but died as soon as he was born-April 29th 1990. Our world turned upside down. We grieved, but God brought us through.
God gave us a gift of another son Daniel Keith on August 7th, 1991. Daniel healed us greatly. Again on September 13th, 1993 God blessed us with another son, Nathan Wesley.
Near the beginning of '95 we found out we were expecting again (as I said God was in control). We went to the doctor in April because of some problems I was having and found out I was miscarrying again. We had left the boys at a friend's house about 25 minutes from the doctor's. Josh thought we were going to the doctor to find out if the baby was a boy or a girl (he of course wanted a boy). I remember getting into the car. I was mad and I was mad at God. I told Cliff this is not fair! We've already lost 2 babies now 3-Why??? Then God as clear as could be asked me, "What are you going to tell Josh?" Would I tell Josh God had failed me or that God didn't love me or care for us. How would I answer him? Did I want Josh to love God and believe in Him or did I want to push Josh away from God. Well that did it-I prayed and by the time we picked up the boys God had my heart where it needed to be.
A few months later Josh and I were in the kitchen talking. He said, "Mommy, why did God take 3 of our babies?" Wow, was I so glad God and I had already had that conversation! I sat down and told him I didn't know. But I did know that even though God had taken 3 of our babies He had blessed me with 3 beautiful little boys here. How that some people couldn't have any babies. And that God very much loved us. I don't ever remember him asking me again-that was enough.
Thank you Lord for giving me that answer so long ago. My heart asks now, why have you taken 4 of our babies-I answer, I still have 4 babies here and God still loves me and He never will stop. We still hurt and grieve and will always miss Josh, but God continues to love us. His grace is sufficient!
Lisa (Mom) Simpson
April 23, 2008
Today makes 11 months since I last spoke with my son. It's so hard. We miss him so much. Life has not stopped though. All Josh's brothers still keep us busy. I know they miss him. I am very thankful they do talk about Josh. He is still very much apart of our lives. It seems each week at least once, one of them will say, remember what Josh did or how he liked or didn't like that. They often remember things I have forgotten. I am so thankful for their memories. I still would love to read memories friends and family have. Please never think it's too late to leave a memory on this site. We will never forget Josh-as my mom told me today-"He was one of a kind"!! We know you are in Heaven but we miss you being here son! I love you so much Josh! Mom
Lisa (Mom) Simpson
March 24, 2008
It's about 2:00AM Monday morning the 24th of March, but to me it is still Sunday the 23rd of March. Today is 10 months. I honestly don't know how, but it is. 10 months since I last saw or talked to our son Josh. I guess that's not exactly true I do still talk to him sometimes and I tell God to tell him how much I love and miss him.
I had not noticed when the 23rd would hit until Friday the 21st. Then I had to smile-of all days it would hit on Easter Sunday-the day I and my family celebrate Jesus' resurrection from the dead. The event in history that has given me hope and a promise that I will see Josh again someday. What a gift God planned 10 months ago for us for today.
This week beginning with Monday and off and on the rest of the week has been extremely emotional for Cliff and me. God knew we would need something special from Him. I don't believe this was just a coincident. Yes, during our Sunday service, at one point Cliff and I both began to cry-sad because we miss him, but happy because this is not the end!
After church we came home and ate a nice meal with the boys. We played some card games with them. Later Cliff and I went to the cemetery. We don't go often-we know he's not there. But I think we just needed to today. It may make it hurt worse but facing it together and crying together this weekend I believe has helped Cliff and me heal just a little more.
On Friday I took our sons to get individual pictures taken. On the way there Daniel brought up a story about Josh and then later so did Timothy. I am so thankful his brother's keep him alive in our family. We only have memories now, but someday we won't need the memories anymore!
I pray all had a Blessed Easter!
Josh's Mom
Misty Simpson
February 4, 2008
Well since Lisa was just talking about the boys I had to share the conversation about Josh's birthday. It is precious coming from the minds of little boys. We were talking about it being Josh's birthday over breakfast and it was some good conversation. The first question the boys asked, I think it was Jax, was so - do we get to go to Ohio for Josh's birthday party, like it was just around the block. Jaxon, Jake, and Shane are very jeolous because Slade still brags about going to Alaska and Ohio without them. The next question was- will he still get birthday presents in Heaven?- and the last question was- does God have big bithday parties with ice cream and cake like we do. So if Josh was listening he got a great birthday morning laugh. He is missed!!!!!and loved so---very much!!! I'm sure he appreciated the party in his honor! He was always about the party!Thanks for sharing Lisa- it's wonderful to hear the stories and know we're still celebrating his life and that God is taking care of those temporarily left behind.
Lisa Simpson
February 1, 2008
Wednesday the 30th of Jan. was Josh's birthday. I knew it would be difficult not just because of his birthday but because that also was the day 19 years ago I became a mom. So we decided to have a time of celebrating Josh's birth and life with his friends at our house. They came over around 7:00. We snacked and shared stories. They looked at all the scrap books 2 of my friends have made for me. His friends went to the cemetery for awhile and told more stories. They came back over and we just spent time together. We laughed and yes cried, but with each other about you, Josh. You haven't been forgotten and never will be. I know you had your greatest birthday ever-Happy Birthday kid-Mom misses you today a lot!
Backside of headstone at cemetery
January 1, 2008
Josh's headstone-artwork designed by his brother Daniel
January 1, 2008
Slade, Jaxon, Josh, Jake and Santa Clause-Christmas 2006
Lisa Simpson
January 1, 2008
It's Mom again. Thanksgiving came, then Christmas and now the New Year. Last Christmas Josh, well Josh and his parents, decided he would ride with us to TX instead of getting to fly. His brothers were not that excited-3 of them would have to share one seat. They all survived and God game us another special memory with our son. Josh has very long legs like me and of course he always had to stretch them over the back row to the middle row. No, his brothers didn't care to wake up to his feet in their face.
Josh enjoyed TX so much he didn't want to go back with us when we left. My dad just happened to have an airline voucher. Josh stayed at least 2 or 3 more days visiting with family and friends last year.
God gave me a special gift when I went to TX this yr. When Josh would go to TX he would stay with Cliff's parents. Cliff's brother Bryan, wife Misty and 4 sons (6, 5, 5, 3 yr) live behind them. Josh spent a lot of time with them. Misty showed me a picture I had never seen. They went to eat breakfast last yr on the 23rd and then to a carwash that had an inside. Santa Clause was there. She had a picture with Josh and three of my nephews with Santa (see picture). I scanned it to my computer. What a gift!!!
While we were in TX this yr we shared a lot of tears, memories and laughter about Josh with family. It was a great trip. I believe God used it to help heal us a little more.
I also want everyone to know we were called the day we left for TX and told they were putting Josh's headstone out the next day. I called Doug one of his good friends and asked him if he would call some of the other guys and go check it out for me. They didn't hesitate. They went right after work the next day and called me and all talked to me. They told me it looked great! Josh has some great friends-we love you guys!!!
Cliff, me and the boys went out this past Sunday to see it. I agree it looks great! Daniel (Josh's brother) drew a soldier and they etched it onto the stone. (picture attatched)
I know this is a long memory, but lastly today is the first day of 2008. Yesterday was very difficult for Cliff and me both. He was at work and I spent the day with Andrew and Timothy shopping. At the end of the day we shared that throughout the day we had cried several times. I didn't want to let go of 2007-it was the last year my son was here with us. God knows our pain and thankfully He understands it too. He let us cry and then have an enjoyable evening with Andrew and Timothy while Daniel and Nathan were at a Youth group activity. It ended well and with Family and lots of LOVE!!
Sara Swank
December 17, 2007
A few years ago, probably around 9th grade, Josh and I were sitting in youth group on a Wednesday night not so patiently watiting for it to be finished. Josh asked me what time it was and when he couldn't read my up-side-down watch I took it off and handed it to him. A few seconds later I heard a small clank and looked over and Josh had this awful look on his face like he had just done something really bad. The next thing I knew Josh was handing me my new watch, smashed from being dropped on the floor. He apologized and I told him not to worry, it really wasn't a big deal at all, I just shoved the broken watch in my purse nad never really thought of it again.
A few days ago I got out that old purse and was cleaning it out to switch purses. In the front pocket I was shocked to find that same watch just where I had left it. It brought tears to my eyes to think of that night but then when I thought of that sad, pathetic look on Josh's face I just laughed to myself. I left the watch in my purse as a reminder of Josh and just one of the good memories I have of him.
Amy McGraw
December 16, 2007
Hey Simpsons,
I just received your Christmas card and am so touched. I never personnally had the priveledge of knowing your son but I feel as though I do through all I've learned about him from you. As a mother of two "active, explorative, energetic...etc. boys" (and a daughter who keeps me saine)=)I can relate to you and your boys. Please know that I pray for you every day and more now that we've reached a time in the year when memories are fresh and so are heartaches. Please know you are always thought of and prayed for and Josh's legacy lives on through you all.
In Christ's Love
Amy McGraw
Kathy Larson
December 4, 2007
Dear Cliff, Lisa & Boys:
I remember Josh at Adam and Jenn's wedding. What a sweet and shy little guy he was. He had that funny little cockeyed grin and that look on his face like "Do I really have to be here?" I laughed so hard when it was his turn to walk down the aisle with the ring pillow. He stopped half way down and visited with Jenn's Uncle Steve and talked about the camera equipment he was using for the wedding photos. Steve had to prod him along and remind him "folks were waiting for him down there".
Another memory was when we were all at the hospital waiting for Matthew to be born. Josh was wandering around the waiting room looking for a place to sit. (There were a lot of us waiting that day.) I scooted over and told Josh he could sit next to me that "I don't bite." As he sat down I looked over at him with a wicked grin on my face and said "I just nibble." He looked me over very carefully not sure if he was going to stay there or not. I had to promise to not to nibble. It was tough, but I managed. I always thought you had the sweetest boys and you can ask my kids, I still like to nibble.
I love you.
Josh with his brothers-Christmas 2006 (photo by Amy Harcar)
November 24, 2007
Josh senoir picture
November 24, 2007
Sr Pic in his ACUs
November 24, 2007
Josh senior Picture
November 24, 2007
Josh's tattoo-"Death before dishonor"
November 24, 2007
Josh & Max at boot camp in MO summer 2006
November 24, 2007
Josh in his Career Center Law Enforcement uniform
November 24, 2007
Lisa Simpson
November 24, 2007
It's about 12:30 AM Friday evening. Today marked 6 months without our son Josh. I can't believe it has been 6 months. I ask myself didn't I just talk to Josh last week? The answer is no. In ways today was hard yet God helped us. Many of Josh's friends called or came by to see us. I just want to personally thank everyone that called, came by or sent me an email-it means my son is remembered and that he had some awesome friends. You cared not just for Josh but for his family too. Thanks to all of you who gave me big hugs-I needed them.
Cliff and I went to the cemetery and placed 2 yellow roses there. There was another yellow rose and a small plant. I'm so glad others came to visit him too.
We know many have prayed for us especially today-Thank You. I know God is answering! Please continue to pass on our request for memories-we truly love to read them. Mom
Jenn Cook
November 23, 2007
Before the move to Ohio, Adam and I often kept the boys at our house for the weekend. Cliff and Lisa always said that the younger boys had to take afternoon naps but they'd leave it up to me as to whether or not Josh needed one. Well, of course, I'm not going to make him nap. I had to be a "cool" aunt, right? And, nephews must be spoiled.
This provided many hours with Josh and I wondering how we'd spend our free time. Josh loved to play board games with me. After having played every children's board game in the house, he brought Yahtzee to me. "What's this? Can we play this?" I told him that I didn't think he'd like it because there was math involved. Anybody that knew Josh, knew how he felt about math. He still wanted to learn so, I taught him. He loved it! He especially loved using the plastic cup to shake the dice before throwing them on the board. I thought he'd drive me insane with that constant rattling but, I wouldn't dare spoil his fun. He won his first game against me...big time! Beginners luck? No, he beat me repeatedly. I'd never just let him win. He had to earn it. So, when he reigned victorious, he was especially pleased with himself. I never heard the end of it. Each time he came to stay at our house he'd ask if I was ready to lose another game of Yahtzee.
I recently pulled down our game of Yahtzee to see if his score cards were still there. Sure enough, they are. I'm so happy to have them and the memories that go with them. There is one score card from a game that he never finished. Tonight, I think I'll sit down at the table and finish his game and I'll make sure to give the cup an extra rattle or two.
Sara Swank
November 20, 2007
I just read Lisa's entry about Thanksgiving being this week and I have to admit I'm feeling the same way. I am so beyond thankful for all those memories that I have with Josh and all our friends, and although it's hard knowing that this Thanksgiving he isn't here with us it's comforting to know where he is and that he is with God and not just 'somewhere else'. Josh truly was one of the best friends that I had and I'll always be thankful for that and also for getting to know the Simpson family through Josh. I love you all. Happy Thanksgivig, Sara
Lisa Simpson
November 19, 2007
This is Mom again. This week is Thanksgiving. Yes it is rough, yet how many things we have to be thankful for. The memories that Josh's family and friends have left are truly something I am thankful for right now. I am thankful that Josh is spending his Thanksgiving with Jesus even though I'm not with him.
My memory is from last Thanksgiving. Josh was sick-very sick. He had fever, aches etc. We made him stay in his room all day because we had people over. We brought him food, water, and medicine off and on all day. He was pretty sad looking.
The next day he felt a little better. He came upstairs and played 42 (domino game) with my aunt and uncle from IN. The positive about him being sick was he was home, not at work, not out with friends, but home with us. Thank you God for giving us that Thanksgiving memory! Mom
lisa simpson
November 5, 2007
This is Mom again. If you knew Josh well you knew he always wanted to be older than he was. At 10 he was preteen and all he could talk about was almost being a teenager. He did finally hit 13 and made it sound so awesome I remember when Timothy was about 3 or 4 saying he wanted to grow up and be a teenager. Of course when Josh made it to 13 then he talked about being 16 and driving. 16 came and it was all about being 18 and moving out. Which leads me to the end of April, 2007. Josh finally found 2 friends who would join him in moving out to an apartment. He moved out before graduation because the apartment people told them they would get a free month if they moved in right then so they did. It was actually nice-Josh came by pretty often and always hugged me when he left. He was always calling Cliff or me about something. I would not have chosen it if I had known the future, but I look back now and know it was definitely something God planned for our best. Josh got to do one more thing on his list and I'm very happy for that! Mom
Terrelle Williams
November 5, 2007
Josh was a one of a kind person. I mean the memories that i had of him were the best anyone could ever have. I just seen Cliff and Lisa today. Then i went to the cemetery to visit josh.I remebered the last memory of me and Josh.It was May 23 and we were leaving law enforcement class.Josh and max were like, "lets go to Chipotle". And let me tell you this i hate chipotle but for some reason we ended up being at that place for 2 hours just shooting the stuff. plus i went burrito for burrito with josh. Josh only beat me by .5 i had 2 and he had 2.5.the last thing said to josh was that give me a week and we will be riding bikes together. That statement is still correct but we will be riding at a different time and place.
Tracy Chesney
November 4, 2007
For now, I would like to share just a couple of stories about Josh. Three or four years ago, I sat with Lisa in her room, talking. All of the kids were either finished with or home from school and one after another were pestering or interrupting. Josh just hovered in Lisa's doorway, listening and not saying anything. So, Lisa told him to go away and shut the door. Not long after, we saw through the sliding door that adjoins a balcony porch, Josh climbing over the rail, grinning and all full of himself with thinking he got the better of his Mom. He was always so quiet and cool around me that it seemed so out of character for him to do something so goofy (guess I was wrong) which made it really funny.
It was a few days after Josh had come home from boot camp. Lisa and I were sitting out on her deck at night and Josh came out to join in on the conversation. He was very talkative and comfortable which I had not witnessed over the past five years that I had known him. Josh informed me that he had been talking to my daughter, Molly,
on-line over the past few days. She had already told me, but I learned from Josh that he was working on recruiting her into the National Guard. He said he was close, but he needed me to convince her that enlisting was the right thing for her to do. He smiled a lot as the conversation went on yet he was still serious. I told him that if he wanted my help, I expected a cut of his commission if Molly signed. Well, he was not about to do that, though we negotiated back and forth for some time. Finally, he bluffed with a"it doesn't matter anyway"
attitude. He was confident that he could convince her, and it was
just a matter of days before he had another friend signed. Then, he coolly boasted, he would have commission from two recruits (which I think would have been about $4,000). He told some other stories, too, but I mostly remember thinking how relaxed and animated he was, and how tall, grown-up, and handsome. It was probably, the first and last time I got to be around Josh when he was really being himself. It was a simple moment I enjoyed at the time and now remember even more fondly.
By the way, Molly and the other friend never did join-up, but he did
recruit a few others!
Robb, Lisa, Reed & Kelsi Teakell
November 4, 2007
Dear Cliff, Lisa and boys,
We have very dear memories of Josh. He and Reed had so much fun together as boys. We remember dropping Reed off to spend the night with Josh and the pure joy as they set off to do the boy things that they did. Exploring, running and all of the boy games that you could imagine. Josh was always quieter (than Reed,most people are) but he was always smiling. We enjoyed Josh when he came to our house. The boys would wolf down whatever I had fixed to eat, and then hurry back outside to complete the fort, or whatever they had going on outside. The imaginations were big, the smiles were big and the laughter abundant. We missed Josh and you all when you moved away, and now we miss you still. We won't get to see Josh again here in this life, but I know that one day we will again in the next life. The imaginations, smiles and laughter will be around us again.
One of the best attributes I saw in Josh was how true of a friend he was, always. Reed could always count on Josh "having his back" no matter what anyone else would say or do. True friends are hard to find, and Reed was very lucky to have Josh as a true friend.
With all of our love,
Robb and Lisa Teakell
Tammy Gould
November 4, 2007
I really wanted to leave a memory of Josh, but part of me did not know what to say. I know Josh was loved by his family and he had many friends which was apparent at his memorial service.
I remember several occasions that will always bring a smile to my face when I think of them. The first time I got to really get to know Josh and his whole family was at our twin son's 12th birthday party. My husband met Cliff and Lisa first at Calvary. They were sitting behind us durring services. Jay asked Cliff if their boys would like to come to our house for a birthday party. I remember telling my husband, they don't even know us..they won't want to come. Well...I ate my words...Cliff brought the boys and Josh and Aaron and Nick hit it off right away. They played football outside and a few silly games inside followed by pizza and cake. When it was time to go home, they did not want to go, so Cliff called Lisa and she agreed the boys could stay longer. Cliff left to pick up Lisa and they stayed until 11pm. Josh was so funny as he exclaimed he was surprised to find someone else who was home schooled and had strict tv rules! I laughed so hard as he thought he was the only kid who homeschooled and had strict parents! LOL!!
The second memory was about a month before Josh's accident. Friendships were sometimes up and down, but this time was defiantely an up time. Josh and a few other guys came to our house one night on the spur of the moment. I was sick with pheumonia when they came over. After about 30 minutes, Josh called to me "Mrs. Gould...do you have any potato's"? Then he said "how about onions and seasoning salt"? I told him where everything was and then he said oh yea...how about foil. Oops...I was out. Next thing I knew Josh said they would be right back as they needed to pick up some foil. I laughed as I thought...how many guys does it take to buy a roll of foil! Anyway, they were gone and back in about 20 mins. I heard dishes clanking and the guys all chatting quietly and working together so I had to see what they were up to. They were hungry, so Josh took control of the situation and he was cooking. He cut up potato's and onions and made little foil pouches to cook them over the bonfire that they had started earlier. Josh was so cute, slaving away in the kitchen. I left to go back and lie down and when all was quiet again, I thought I would check out the kitchen. To my amazement Josh (alone) had cleaned up all the mess! What a great kid I thought! Most guys would have made the mess and left it, but not Josh. He got brownie points with me for this! :)
My guys did not particularly like potato's or onions, but htey said that was the best food Josh made!
Josh will be greatly missed!
I am thankful that even though loved ones leave this earth, that God gives us a great gift....the gift of memories! What a blessing to see and share memories together.
Oh yes...one more thing...I loved Josh's half pout half smile he would give when he wanted something he figured he might not get! Who could resist that face! :)
Lauren Simpson [duh]
October 31, 2007
something that surprised me was one- how many ppl just that came to the viewing and funeral were there and that in some way my big brother-like joshiepoo had made an impact on each and everyone of them. of course it didnt really surprise me to see so many girls... he wasnt exactly nervous around girls. but it just made an impact on me to see how many ppl he impacted. i love that kid. and i hope to be able to follow in his example of a good Christian [girl] and let that be very much known to everyone i come in contact with. miss you joshiepoo [heh, that rhymes]
Ryan Knight
October 30, 2007
I only knew Josh as Private First Class Josh Simpson, one weekend out of the month over the last year or so. Josh was a great soldier. He attended weekend training during the school year and, of course, successfully completed basic combat training in the summer of 2006. After speaking with Josh many times, I always remembered him talking about how he was not afraid to go to Iraq and fight for the freedom of other countries, not just the ours. Sometimes Josh was soft-spoken and other times he would make sure you knew how he felt. The latter would get him in trouble at drill!
There was one specific memory myself and other instructors at drill would always laugh about. When Josh would take his Physical Fitness test each and every month of Guard training, he would always end up getting sick. He would start the 2-mile run and end up throwing up his breakfast just after the half-way point....everytime...every weekend. It was like Josh was allergic to running! SSG Ben Wischmeyer and I would always dog on Josh and accuse him of being out of shape. In the military, especially the Army there is a saying: If you're not puking, you're not running hard enough (or giving 100%). After looking back on things, I know that Josh gave 100% and that is the one thing I will never forget.
Josh never officially received the opportunity to fight in combat, but he did influence many-many lives that will help support and defend the freedoms that many of us take for granted everyday. It is very satisfying to know that people will always remember Josh as a caring person, a loving brother and son, a soldier and a friend. I truly hope that is a legacy we can all leave behind.
SSG Ryan Knight
Career Counselor
Ohio Army National Guard
jordan nettles
October 29, 2007
paintball...getting attacked by snakes at church camp....movies at brendans...so many good times!
miss you josh
Lisa Simpson
October 24, 2007
This is actually not a memory, but a current event regarding Josh. Today Cliff and I went and turned in the design for Josh's headstone. The story behind the design is pretty cool. One evening after taking someone home we had to drive by the small cemetery where Josh's grave is. Daniel and Nathan were in the car with me and they started asking me questions about his headstone. Daniel then said he thought it would be neat if there was soldier on it. We all talked it over and agreed it was the perfect thing to represent Josh. The neatest thing is Daniel did the drawing of the soldier. A man from our church helped us with the layout and then we inserted Daniel's drawing which will be hand etched into the granite. Our prayer is it will be ready and be placed on the grave by Josh's birthday at the end of January. We also are placing a part of the speech Josh wrote prior to graduation on the back. Our hope is the headstone will honor Josh, comfort family and friends and be a testimony of our faith in God.-Mom
Jenn Cook
October 23, 2007
While shopping for Christmas gifts last December, I came across a ceramic M&M candy jar of the character Red who was wearing a camouflage military fatigues hat that said "Major Attitude" on the front (see photo). Well, it was too perfect and just had to be Josh's.
We gave it to him as one of his Christmas gifts while at the Cook family Christmas party. All the presents had been ripped into. The entire living room was knee high with gift wrap. Josh waded his way across the room, grabbed me and gave me the biggest hug. "I love this, Aunt Jenn! It's sooo cool. It's one of my favorite presents. Thanks!" I remember thinking how funny it was that such a little token gift had made him so happy.
Josh and I shared a few brief phone calls and messages after that night but, that was the last time I saw my nephew and that was the last hug we shared, a hug that I'll carry with me until we meet up again.
Daniel simpson
October 21, 2007
Ok, so one day josh was freakin out because he couldnt find his wallet. It was after church and we were downstairs. Most of the time we just watched and laughed but he needed it for work. We all kinda looked for it but turned up nothing. He came flying down the stairs, looked over at us and asked us if we'd seen the phantom wallet. Timothy raised one finger like he was at an auction or something and said "oh, josh, I have." Josh's glare jumped to Timothy and he asked where it was. Timothy looked at him in all seriousness and said in a deep voice "buried in the deepest sea, that is good enough for me". ( a line from one of the old school hymns that we had sung that morning). We all busted out laughing, including Josh. It was even funnier watching him laugh after he had just been so angry.
Kevin Brockmeyer
October 19, 2007
Josh used to eat lunch with me, Chris Barthel, Ben Pinkerton, and Mikey Mazzola at Genoa Christian. Definitely good times. He was a nice guy to be around and always had something funny to say!
Caleb Griffin
October 16, 2007
The best memories I have of Josh were during baseball season. He would always have a smile on his face. He wasn't the best, but that didn't keep him from trying hard and sticking with it. I lost touch with Josh in the last few years, and was heartbroken when I heard about his accident. He was the kind of guy that bettered everyone's day that he came in contact with. We can hope in in the fact that we know where Josh is today. He is sharing his smile with God. I will be sure to look for him when I get there.
Courtney Doucette
October 15, 2007
Josh was amazing and stood up for everything he believed in. He was sooo strong and i wish i could have got in to know him better, he was so nice to everyone.. he is deeply missed and i will never forget him! love you Josh
Evie Gonzales
October 15, 2007
Back with another memory.I had a crush on him when the Simpson's moved here to Ohio.And I took the risk and asked him out one day,and his answer to me was that: "Evie no I don't want to go out with you. It's not you." It meant so much to me not to hear him say what others have. He was the first one I knew that I could not only trust,but that would tell me that truth. Josh I know we weren't close but you were the first one to be nice to me and it meant alot then and still does till this day. You were always like a bigger brother to me.I miss you and love ya bro.
Evie Gonzales
October 15, 2007
My best memory of Josh was Sunday mornings. I would get up in the middle of the service to go use the restroom or to get a drink or something and he would be walking in late and would ask me:Is service over? And this was almost a weekly thing. I just wish I knew him like everyone else did. Josh even though we didn't talk much you were always nice. I miss you man.
Casidee Vaughn
October 15, 2007
The BWHS class of 2007 lost an amazing person. He was in my homeroom, and although he was quiet in there you always missed him when he was gone. He was a good man and will always be remembered as one.
Lisa Simpson
October 15, 2007
Well I'm here with another memory of my son. For some reason I'm having a hard day-I miss Josh very much so maybe sharing another memory will help. Josh was out of town the week before he died. He went to MO for a friend's wedding. Just so happens I went to the same wedding with 2 of my friends. He left with 3 of his friends about 3 hours before we did. He would call me when he got bored, or to warn us about speed traps. I enjoyed those phone calls very much. Mom
Daniel Cook
October 11, 2007
Cliff, Lisa, family and friends
All my memories of Joshua were always cheerful and
happy ones. This is probable due to the fact that I
usually saw him at Christmas and he was always in a
good mood at that time of the year. I felt a special
kinship with Joshua, because he shared a weakness of
mine called Baseball. I was amazed at how much he
kept up with the Rangers. I think he knew more about
the day to day transitions than I did. He was really
passionate about it. My other special memory was
playing forty-two. He was somewhat subdued in his
playing of the game,(he didn't get into the Mike and
Daryl attitude of playing the game) but he really enjoyed playing. I had him as a partner many times when he was younger and
while we didn't always win, we always had fun. Come
to think of it, he was never the first one to want to
quit playing. I think he would have played all night
if given the chance. Joshua was always respectful to
me and polite. Whenever I'd try to cut up with a
corny joke he would flash this shy grin that his
trademark. I will always think of Joshua as a good
kid. Cause that what he was whenever I was around
him.
All of our Love,
Daniel and Connie
Raychelle Neff
October 9, 2007
i'm not even sure where to begin with josh. the one thing that stuck out to me about him was that he wasnt afraid to let people know who he was. i remember the first time i went to calvary close to 4 years ago he was one of the first people to just say hey! he was always such a good person to be around and i know that god has such a special plan for him. he did so much good while he was here and all you needed to see was his smile and nothing else was needed. i miss you josh!!! lisa and cliff and the little ones hang in there!
Lisa Simpson
October 9, 2007
My last memory of my son was on May 23. He came by again after his morning classes at school. This time it was different. His youngest two brothers and I had just finished our devotions upstairs when he came. I was still sitting on one of the couches in the livingroom and Timothy was on the other one. Josh sat down beside Timothy. We sat there for about 30 minutes and just talked-he didn't get on his phone or fix himself some food. He told me he was about to go take his final test in Law Enforcement-a test over the last two years of learning. He said he wasn't nervous-he either knew it or didn't. (We found out he tied for the highest grade with one of his friends-yes we were proud.) We talked about different things that day while he sat and played with Timothy. They punched on each other and did their break the rock thing. He finally got up to leave. By the time I got up to hug him he already had his helmet on. I was not going to tell him to take it off just for me to hug him, so I hugged him around his helmet. I actually watched him drive off on his motorcycle. God gave me a special time with Josh that day-I will always be grateful!
Lisa Simpson
October 9, 2007
I decided as Josh's mom I also should be sharing my memories of Josh. I am going to begin with the last ones God gave me. To begin Josh moved out to an apartment with two roommates at the end of April this year. He wanted some freedom before going back to bootcamp for his AIT training in August. We understood this and he had our blessings. Josh only had two classes in the morning at his public school and then attended the Career Center for Law Enforcement in the afternoon. On Tuesday May 22 he came by our house handed me about a 6 page paper and said proofread this. I really don't like proofreading but I started reading it. Josh went and made himself some lunch, got on the laptop then ran down and grabbed the first two pages and ran back to the computer corrected those came back for the next two until done. He quickly said thanks and said he had to get this back to the school. I am so happy I proofread that paper. Mom
Sara Swank
October 8, 2007
Josh was one of the best friends I could have ever asked for. God truly blessed me in the time that He gave me to know Josh and to be with him. I have so many memories with Josh that I don't even know where to begin, although as of now one particular memory sticks out.
When we were in 7th grade, not long after the Simpsons moved to Ohio and started attending Calvary, our AWANA JV group participated in the AWANA Olympics & Bible Quizzing. During one of the marathons I was the runner that received the baton from Josh. As I began to move out and reach for the baton, Josh stepped on my shoe and ripped it off my foot leaving me to run the race with only one shoe. At the time of course that wasn't the greatest or the funniest thing that could happen, but looking back now it just brings a smile to my face. That was the start of many good memories! (as i think of more i'm sure to be back)
Phyllis Jarvis
September 28, 2007
My very best memories of Joshua was anytime I got to see him. From the time he was born he was so very special. When he was around younger children even before he had brothers he was so loving. When he smiled it would light a fire in your heart! I know God has rewarded his faithful servant and now holds him close. I pray everyday for the ones that still suffer from the loss of a very great Child. Josh's aunt Phyllis
Kathy Abel
September 27, 2007
Cliff, Lisa, Daniel, Nathan, Andrew, Timothy: I was the "crazy" lady to Josh ever since our trip to Nova Scotia when he discovered that TOO much chocolate made me hyper. But, he must have enjoyed it because every time we stopped at a store, he and the "other" Josh insisted on buying me MORE chocolate. When he worked for security at the JPMorgan Chase facility at Polaris, I would "check" on him to make sure he was working. And, he always was (or so he said). Psalm 116:15 Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints.
Kathy Abel
September 27, 2007
Cliff, Lisa, Daniel, Nathan, Andrew, Timothy: I was the "crazy" lady to Josh ever since our trip to Nova Scotia when he discovered that TOO much chocolate made me hyper. But, he must have enjoyed it because every time we stopped at a store, he and the "other" Josh insisted on buying me MORE chocolate. When he worked for security at the JPMorgan Chase facility at Polaris, I would "check" on him to make sure he was working. And, he always was (or so he said).
Lauren Simpson
September 27, 2007
Josh was always "too cool" to hang out with Daniel and I (atleast in public, or when our adult relatives were around). But we still goofed around and had fun. My sister and I always tried to get him out of his "I'm too cool to notice you" stance. So we'd start picking on him and he'd put us in a headlock or tell us that he didnt want to hurt us but to just leave him alone. Heh, which satisfied us b/c we got a rise outta him. Whenever he and his family left, I prolly cried for a few days b/c Daniel is for sure one of my best friends. But thankfully, atleast Josh got to come and visit without everybody else pretty much every year. That kid got us all into liking paintball. And he was always the one at the adults table for playing Rook with the family or Risk. He deff wanted to take over the world. Hahaha. To be completely truthful, Im kinda scared of what Christmas is gonna be like without him there. Theres gonna be a seat at the Rook table filled in with one of the younger kids.
*sigh* The last time that I was actually with him was last Christmas, what I remember is #1 all the kids & dads went to Main Event & some of us went to Grapevine Mills Mall afterword. But I was in the group with Josh, Daniel, and my sister, Julie. I was there to get a jacket... and it really surprised me at how incredibly patient he was being when I didnt find what I wanted. If it had been any other guy, they prolly woulda dreaded every minute of it, but he didnt and that really left an imprint on me. Then another thing that happened last Christmas with Josh, we both were supposed to get something from our aunt's house and take it back to our Grandad's but instead we stayed at my aunt's and he played on the PS2 while I talked to one of his friends that had called him on the phone. We just sat there playing video games and talking, playing video games and talking.. and then we were found by my uncle that we stayed at his house and played games...(and talked on the phone)..
I miss the goofy times we had when we were super little playing around in their backyard.
Hah, my mom says that when I was born he hated it at first b/c then my parents' attention was no longer on him but on me. But then after a year or so, he kinda got used to it and loved me to death. :) -Josh I love you and miss you. see you again someday buddy <3-
Mandy Harless
September 27, 2007
Simpson Family
We felt such sadness and grief to learn of Josh's accident. Our sadness was soon overwhelmed by the awesome funeral and celebration of Josh's life that occurred at Calvary. We continue to be amazed each and everyday at God's love & mercy. We have Josh's picture hanging up in our kitchen. We talk about God's will and power to remind each of our children how important God was in Josh's life and should be in theirs. Although you grieve his loss be assured that God's plan is faultless.
Sheila Yancey-Bicknell
June 11, 2007
Dearest Lisa,
Our hearts were broken with yours when we heard of your son's tragic accident. Eddie & Kristie, Michelle, Sharla & Steve and Gene and I all send our love and prayers for you and Cliff and the other boys. God will hold you in the palm of His hand until we reach Heaven's land and the tears are all wiped away.
We love you...The Yancey's; The Belcher's and The Bicknell's
Kay Ottinger
June 11, 2007
To the Simpson and Cook Families,
How very sorry we are to hear about your son. May God's grace be sufficient to carry you through the days ahead.
Danny and Kay Ottinger
Evie Gonzales
June 11, 2007
Man you will be missed terribly. Cliff and Lisa I am so sorry for your situation. I love you guys.
Wanda Dalton
June 10, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with ya'll. Jimmy and Wanda Dalton
Albert R Long
June 10, 2007
Linda, Fulton and family. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Our prayers are with you and Joshua's parents and
siblings.
Uncle Adam & Josh - garage sale before big move to Ohio - May 23, 2002
June 2, 2007
Uncle Adam & Aunt Jenn's sweet little Ring Bearer - July 1, 1994
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