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david
February 25, 2023
never forget
Katwoman
February 13, 2008
I know that its been four years, but I only just now heard about Lydia's death. We spent four years at Providence College together, and I enjoyed her so much. She was so beautiful, so unique, and so much fun. We lost touch after I graduated, but I have always thought of her fondly. My sincere condolences to all who loved her.
Eileen McEnery Mashimo
June 24, 2004
I opened my Providence College Digest today and was absolutely shocked to see Lydia's name amoung the Alumni deaths. I had the priviledge of meeting Lydia in biology class back in St. Xavier's. Our personalities and looks could not have been more different. But her bubbly way was so infectious that we connected and had many hours of laughter (much to the annoyance of our teacher.) Later I went to PC and worked with her in the security office at the college. I'll never forget all the fun we had teasing and playing jokes on the security guards. My heart goes out to all her loved ones.
Josie Rotondo
April 1, 2004
Chris and I where so happy that we had the chance to spend some time with lydia and you in Fl. Going to the Blues House and seeing the Sunday Gospal show with her was very special to me. Lydia is a buitiful girl and I feel I knew her well from the wonderful words Bobby always had to say about her. After reading the words friends and Family have expressed, I feel privilged to have known her, if only for a brief time. God bless you and your family. You are in our thoughts. Josie and Chris
Christine Hamor
March 29, 2004
Ulana & Family:
I was so very sorry and saddened to hear of the loss of Lydia. Although I did not know Lydia very well, I can tell by all the guestbook entries that she was something special. I did have the pleasure of meeting her once at Ulana's office when she was helping out, and I was struck by how beautiful and friendly she was. It is always very difficult to lose someone so young and full of life, but I hope that with each passing day, the pain becomes a little less and the happy memories visit more often. Please accept mine and my family's deepest and most sincere sympathies and know that Lydia will always be with you in spirit.
Marie and Duane Simonds
March 26, 2004
Reading over the entries of those who knew and loved Lydia, I feel somehow at a loss for not having met her. However, I sort of "met" her through Ulana and gained an affection and respect for the strength and humor she so obviously had in difficult times.
Because Christ offers everlasting life in His presence to those who belive in him, Christians can sing songs of hope in these sad times. As mourners we lament the loss of loved ones in this life, but we can rest in the confidence and hope of being reunited with them in heaven.
God bless Lydia's and Ulana's families, especially Lydia's partner.
Anna, Bernard and Myron Krawczuk
March 21, 2004
Dear Tasiu, Ula, Viktor, Julian & Roman,
There no words to ease mother's sorrow who bids farewell to her youngest child. There are no words to ease sister's and brothers' pain when their youngest sibling is laid to rest. Lydia passed on engulfed by your love and encircled by your prayers.
We loved Lydia dearly and together with you we struggle in accepting God's will. We pray to God that Lydia has found eternal happiness and peace.
Dear Greg - thank you for loving Lydia!
We know that she loved you very much!
You were her guardian angel here on earth - now it is her turn to be yours from above.
As our dear niece, cousin and Bernard's beloved Godchild, Lydia will remain in our memories and prayers forever.
Vichnaja Jiji pamjat!
May God Bless each and every one of you!
Anna, Bernard and Myron Krawczuk
Julie Magner/Kruczkowski
March 19, 2004
Dear Ulana, and family
I can't begin to tell you how saddened and ill I was to hear of Lydia's death. I remember her as my best friend, dancing partner, and partner in crime back at St. Michael's Church. If I could only turn back time, and take the time to look up all my friends she would have been one of the first. I've read some of her messages from friends, and theres one we have in common. Therefore we were probably alot closer in area then I thought. Please extend my sympathy to your mom. I was able to get her phone number, and I will call. I have not stopped thinking of all of you, and I will continue to do so. With all my love, and sorrow
Julie
Ukranian dancing partner
Harry and Bonnie Faulkner
March 17, 2004
Greg, Lydia's family and friends,
Although we only spent a week with Lydia on a cruise in May of 2002, her quick wit and winning smile and obvious intellectual gifts remain in the forefront of our thoughts. We always looked forward to receiving her next email...always cheerful and funny inspite of all she dealt with every day. We stayed in touch with her and had hopes of meeting Lydia and Greg for a cruise reunion. Unfortunately, this did not occur. We join all of you in your sadness with Lydia's passing, however rejoice in the positive influence she had on all of us.
Greg, thank you so much for your thoughtful telephone call last week. We have joked about "Lydia's address book" which was her incredible memory! She was so fortunate to have you in her life. We only wish that the two of you could have had a lifetime together.
Kathy Burns
March 16, 2004
Ulana and family,
I am so saddened to hear about your loss. Although I haven't seen you in so many years, I have many fond memories of the times we laughed and played together as kids here at St Raymond's. I remember Lydia as being a very beautiful little girl. From reading the previous entries in this guest book, it is clear to see that Lydia grew up to be a very wonderful, special, and loving person. Why God takes these beautiful ones from us so soon, we cannot understand. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Kathy Burns
Lydia 2002 Marika's graduation
March 14, 2004
Rork Hilford
March 14, 2004
There have never been words or expressions sympathetic enough to show one's true sorrow for the death of someone dear and loved. All we can do is take time to reflect and morn the seasons of life.
Even in darkness there is light. It's only the bright and beautiful lights in life that we remember. Lydia was truely a mighty light in our lives.
Roberta Meier (Tamborelli)
March 13, 2004
To Lydia's Family:
Although we were not in touch after graduating from St. Xavier, I have very fond memories of Lydia, always laughing and making other people laugh. I found out about her passing from another graduate of St. Xavier that I had not seen since graduation. It is only at a time like this that you realize how precious time really is. My deepest sympathy goes out to her family and friends.
Barbara Manni
March 11, 2004
TO Greg, Lydia's Family and Friends:
"LYDIA'S GIFTS"
The GIFTS that Lydia gave were'nt always packaged up with bows. She gave the gift of FRIENDSHIP to everyone she knows.
She gave the gift of KINDNESS to everyone she'd meet. Not only to her family and friends, but a stranger on the street.
She gave the gift of COURAGE and of Faith that only grows, and she gave the gift of LAUGHTER that was contageous - as we know.
She gave the gift of LOVE so UNSELFISH and so TRUE. She gave the gift of "LYDIA" as only she could do.
She was a SPECIAL PERSON a GIFT from GOD above,so let us now share her gifts with others that we LOVE.
This can only make her HAPPY, from in HEAVEN she will see - although on earth so little time.... HER LIFE WAS MEANT TO BE!
She touched us in so many ways with lots of GIFTS to give. If we continue what she started IN OUR HEARTS SHE"LL ALWAYS LIVE!
WE LOVE YOU AND WILL MISS YOU LYDIA!
john, barb, joseph, and cassie
Lydia Ortiz
March 10, 2004
Our Deepest sympathy during your time of loss.
I had the privilege of booking reservations for Ms. Decyk to stay in the Millennium Broadway Hotel, and she remained in my memory because of her kindness, she was very nice and we had a kick of the fact that we shared the same name.
Pleace accept our condolences on your loss.
Sincerely,
Chris Kavanagh
March 9, 2004
Dear Ulana and Taissa,
I haven't been able to get you far from my mind since I heard the sad news of Lydia's passing. I just wanted again to express my deepest sympathies for your loss, to Greg and to all the Decyk's. You were/are such a wonderful family.
You brought a great gift to us at St. Raymond's. We were all so Irish, catholic and our world was opened much wider when you moved to Tenth St and then to Eleventh St! You shared your culture with us and taught us about the Ukraine, your songs and dances, taught us to make the Ukrainian Easter eggs, and about the Ukrainian Church. You opened your home and your culture to us. I just wanted to thank you for all you did to make our world bigger and better than before you came.
Ulana, you taught me to drive my first standard shift car. I think it was Julian's car!
Taissa, you quietly showed what love and commitment was all about in your love and care of Mr. Decyk.
Lydia was such a beautiful and spunky child. It sounds like her beautiful spirit helped many people and touched many more.
I just wanted to thank you for being a part of my life; you all added so much to it.
Love and prayers,
Deb Grant
March 9, 2004
Dear Ulana and family,
I was so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Another friend from St. Raymond's,
Ellen Conroy
March 8, 2004
Dear Ulana and Family: I was saddened to hear about Lydia's passing. She was a beautiful woman. Since I'm still living on Tenth Street, I often look out at your house, and remember all the good times we had. May you get comfort from your friends and family.
ellen
Stephen Hartley
March 8, 2004
My Friend, My Sister, My Rock - First to Greg and Lydia's family and friends you know my thoughts are with all of you. We will all miss the fun times, laughs, jokes, and Lydia's beauty. Lydia was one of a kind and the most giving person in the world. Lydia was one of my biggest fans when I did my shows as Kitty Litter alway making everyone come to any show I was doing. Always watching out for" Her Girls" well Her Girls are going to miss you Lydia more than you will ever know. I keep thinking each day it will get a little less painfull but I have to tell you each day gets a little harder knowing I will never see you again my friend. All I know is that they must be having a good time in heaven with Lydia becouse we never had a bad time on earth with her. As time goes by we as her frinds must stay in contact to keep her memory alive OK. Lydia you were a strong person during all the rotten stuff you had to go through. I will miss you and never stop thinking of you my friend.
Veronica Ferranti
March 8, 2004
There are no words, poetry, music, or art that can describe the person of Lydia Decyk. She made dreams come true and people feel special. To me, she is the epitome of what God intended his people to be, and now she shall reap her reward ten fold.....of this I have no doubt !! My life is better for having known and loved her.
Greg...keep smiling.... she loved you very much.
Alfred and Mary Anne Mignacca
March 6, 2004
Greg,
Thank you for taking care of Lydia the way that you did through all of this.......She was very lucky to have found someone like you. It is very unfair that she did not have the chance to experience all the joy I know you two would have found together.........Thank you again for taking care of her and making her life worth while at the end.......She will be missed....
Scott & Anita Stuart
March 6, 2004
Greg,
We didn’t have much time to get to know Lydia but know how she touched the many lives of those around her. May God bless you and provide you and her family comfort.
JOE NERO
March 6, 2004
DEAR LYDIA: I KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE, FREE FROM PAIN AND SORROW...I'LL NEVER FORGET ALL OF THE GREAT TIMES WE HAD, ALL THE TIMES THAT WE WOULD LAUGH FOR HOURS. MOST OF ALL ,THOUGH, I'LL NEVER FORGET WHAT A GIVING, CARING AND THOUGHTFUL PERSON YOU WERE, AND HOW YOU ALWAYS WENT OUT OF YOUR WAY TO MAKE A NEW FRIEND FEEL LIKE AN OLD FRIEND, AND AN OLD FRIEND FEEL LIKE TIME NEVER PASSED. YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR, YOUR COMPASSION, AND YOUR ABILITY TO FIND THE BEST IN EVERYONE THAT YOU BEFRIENDED, HAS LEFT MANY OF US FEELING THAT WE'VE LOST ONE OF THE BEST FRIENDS WE'LL EVER HAVE. REST PEACEFULLY, LYDIA, KNOWING THAT YOU LEFT THIS WORLD A MUCH MORE BEAUTIFUL PLACE, FOR THE MUCH TOO BRIEF TIME THAT YOU WERE HERE.LOVE ALWAYS, "SCROD", CORY, JOE,JR. AND MARISSA
Eve McClanahan
March 5, 2004
For Lydia's Family:
I didn't get to tell you today how much I LOVE YOU ALL because of how important you were to me and my family in my early life.
Lydia's intelligence, compassion, and capacity for love will never be forgotten by those who were touched by her. I am sorry she passed so soon. Please stay in touch.
Peace and Love,
Eve.
Chris Kavanagh
March 5, 2004
My deepest sympathy to all of Lydia's loved ones. I was so shocked to hear the news. I hold you all in my thoughts and prayers. From your old friend from Tenth Street and St. Raymond's days.
Love,
Chris
Friends - Junior Prom 1980 Lydia, Cindy and Cristine
March 5, 2004
Alan Pasqualetti (P.C. Security)
March 5, 2004
To Lydia's family,Greg,and friends:
I had the honor of knowing Lydia while she was at Providence Coll. From the very first day she started working in the security office up until she graduated, she was nothing short of amazing. She was an inspiration to us all, and I will miss her very much. Lydia, may the peace of God be with you and your family, as you will be in my thought's and prayers forever.
Terry Corcoran
March 5, 2004
Greg,
I never met your Lydia. I really wish I had. She must have really been a special person to modify your life style so much. As my dying Grandmother once said: "Life is for the living...but cherish the memories..."
Deborah Garcia (and Family)
March 4, 2004
To the family of Lydia:
Our deepest sympathy to all of you.
Lydia was a good friend we will miss her smile, laughing, and bubbly personality. God bless all of you
Carol Bujold
March 4, 2004
Greg,
My sincerest condolences to you and Lydia's family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Carol
Sue Coutu
March 4, 2004
Dear Greg, Ulana and Bob, Mrs. Meleshko, Viktor, Julian and Roman,
My sympathy to each and every one of you as I know how much Lydia loved and cherished you all.
Greg,you and Lydia shared a very special love that I am so grateful she was able to experience in her lifetime. You are a wonderful person and made her last years very happy.
Ulana, you have always been Lydia's stability, her friend, and cherished sister. Many special moments have been shared with you and Lydia was always thankful that you were such a loving and supportive sister.
Lydia and I have been friends for twenty-six years and spent as much time getting each other out of trouble as we did getting into it.We had so much fun together. I will always remember Lyd as a loving and loyal friend who went out of her way for the people she cared for. After sharing high school, college, and many years since college with Lydia,I just told a friend that much of my life history died with her. He reminded me that instead maybe much of her life history will live on in me.
One thing Lydia could always be counted on to do was to make me laugh and I sure hope she is in heaven right now enjoying a big laugh and having a great time. I will pray for her every day as I remember my beautiful friend who was taken from us too soon.
I love you Lyd and I will miss you every day.
Wendy (Feeney) Olivo
March 4, 2004
When I opened the newspaper yesterday morning, my eyes were drawn to this beautiful girl, and to my surprise I couldn't believe I knew her. She had grown up with my sister, Cristine,we'd all gone to St. X. One of those girls you could say she was as nice as she was pretty. God is lucky to have her back, I feel lucky to have known her. My deepest sympathy to her family and companion and Tasha.
Sincerely,
Wendy Olivo
Narragansett
Deanna Fitzpatrick
March 4, 2004
Greg,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you...
cristine (feeney)sammarco
March 4, 2004
I would like to send my deepest sympathy to Lydia's family and also to Greg. I' ve never met you Greg, but know if you we're part of Lydia's life, you are a very special person. I met Lydia, freshmen year of high school, 1978. I'm very grateful to be able to say we shared a friendship. We had been out of touch, but knew of her ilness.She was always in my prayers and thoughts. I'm only sorry I never took the opportunity to express this my self. To Lydia, thanks for the friendship, much laughter, and wonderful memories. Love always, Cristine
Madeline St Onge
March 4, 2004
We have known Lydia for the past 15 years on a proffesional basis. She had a way of making you feel cared for and special. We know that Dr. Joe Fellers Office will never be the same without her. Our deepest sympathy go to Greg and her Family and Friends. There is truly another angel in heavan.
Bill & Madeline St.Onge
Anne Parent
March 4, 2004
Dear Greg
My heartfelt sympathy to you and Lydia's family.
God Bless,
Anne
Paula Greene
March 4, 2004
I met Lydia when I was at a very challeged time in my life. I was on a mission to find the doctor that I felt could care for my newly diagnosed disease and my emotions. I finally found him, Dr. Feller. When I met Dr. Feller I put my trust in him. I knew he would be the one to care for me through my treatment for breast cancer. That's when I met Lydia. Lydia helped me so much through my journey. She was always there when I needed to reach out. Each and every time I spoke to Lydia is when I knew I could go on. She gave me the courage and strength. I will miss Lydia so much, although, she has touched my heart and will always be remembered. Lydia was truly a special person. Lydia will be remembered in the same special way she has cared for others. Thank you Greg for taking care of my special friend.
Bob and Kim Morrissey
March 4, 2004
Greg,
Our deepest sympathies to you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Lydia's family at this difficult time.
Kristen Coutu
March 3, 2004
I'm not sure where to start, since this comes as quite a shock to me. I guess being like an aunt or even second mother to me, Lydia wanted to shelter me from the truth of her illnesses. Lydia was a caring, happy, and vivacious person. I can't think of a time when she wasn't smiling wide or laughing big. From being there when I was born, to helping Felicia 'tease' my hair in Cape Cod, to College reunions, she has always been the humor and big heart I needed. The last time I saw Lyd was when she, although feeling sick, came to my High School Graduation, putting a wonderful smile on my and my mothers face. She was a crazy, and amazing person. And she will forever be remembered by me, my mother, grandmother and entire family. You are in our hearts. With Love Forever and Always, Kristen Coutu
Bob and Jan Chaplin
March 3, 2004
Greg
Jan and I are thinking of you and wish we could be there. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely
Bob and Jan
David Marshall
March 3, 2004
Lydia,
May God hold you and give you life Everlasting in Heaven. The Security Officers at Providence College who had the privilage of being a friend to you, while at school and stayed in touch with you. WILL MISS YOU ! Remebering all the good times that we had together over the college years.
Our sympathy goes out to Greg and Lydia's family.
From the Prov. College security Officers O'Brien, Mansuetti and Pasqualetti and Dave Marshall
Debbie Zambarano
March 3, 2004
To
To Greg,and Lydia's family,I'm deeply sorry for your loss. Lydia was such a special and beautiful woman,inside and out. I'll always remember all our great times in St. Raymonds and St.X's and growing up on 3rd st. Always fun to be around, we had so many laughs! You were such a kind and generous person, always thinking of everyone but yourself. Never wanting to put anyone out, even when you were so sick. I,m so glad we had the chance to reconnect the past few months. I only wish I could have done more to ease your pain. It broke my heart to see you suffer. But I know you're at peace in heaven now, watching over all your loved ones. Always loved and never forgotten, my good friend, Lydia.
Ramona Braza
March 3, 2004
I never met Lydia but felt as if I knew her. My mom, Eunice, met her in church and always spoke fondly of her (and Tasha!). My mom has also battled cancer and tried to give Lydia strength, encouragement, lots of prayers and, mostly, her friendship. My mom cared deeply for Lydia and will truly miss her special friend. Know our thoughts, prayers and love are with you at this difficult time. I'm so glad to know she had so many special people in her life - she must have been a remarkable woman. I'm sure Lydia will be watching over all of you.
Gloria Crowley
March 3, 2004
When I worked with Dr. Peter Eller, I had the privilege of becomming a friend to Lydia. I am just so sorry for Greg, and her Mom as well as her entire family. She will be sorely missed...
Sadly,
Gloria
kate cox
March 3, 2004
To Lydias family, Greg and friends:
We had the honor of knowing Lydia through the radiation oncology unit at rhode island hospital. Lydia was a beautiful person on the inside as well as the outside.She had courage and humor throughout her entire illness. She went through a great deal with dignity. Greg and her close friends and family allowed that to happen. How fortunate we were to have known her. the staff of the radiation oncolgy unit.
Felicia Manni-Paquette
March 3, 2004
To Greg:
Thank you so much for taking such wonderful care of Lydia. You are truly a Godsend and showed tremendous strength and love. You are an inspiration. Our heartfelt condolences to you on your tremendous loss.
Sincerely,
Michael and Felicia
Dave Marshall
March 3, 2004
TO:Greg and family Members:
Sorry for your loss.
Lydia was a friend to us all at Providence College. We enjoyed her company in our office, where she worked as a student. Lydia was always upbeat and great to be around. We at the security department, who knew her will MISS HER.
Lydia is in Gods hands now and she is at peace with no pain! God Bless you.
Thomas O'Brien, Dave Marshall, Al Mansuetti--PC SECURITY OFFICERS THAT WORKED WITH HER
Evan Boorstyn
March 3, 2004
My thoughts and prayers are with Lydia's family, Greg, and all of her devoted friends who lost a truly loving, kind, and gentle woman.
David Tacey
March 3, 2004
Well this is the first time I have done this. I sure wish I did not have to. Lydia is a super person! I only recently meet her and I feel like I have known her for ever. She made me feel special and I am going to miss her very much!
Super Dave
Mary (Kavanagh) Anderson
March 3, 2004
Ylana, I'm so sorry for your loss. I went to elementary school with Lydia at St. Raymond's. I'm Chris Kavanagh's neice. I lived on 9th Street where my parents still live. I laughed when I read that Lydia enjoyed going to church. I remember Lydia and I playing church using sugar cubes as communion (our way of getting a sugar fix without getting in too much trouble). She's much too young to die and I hope she was comfortable and with people she loves. Thank you for this opportunity to write this short message. I hope you, your mom and brothers get through this difficult time with the help of family and friends. Take Care, Mary (Kavanagh) Anderson
Linda St. Ours
March 3, 2004
I did not know Lydia personally but I do have the pleasure of knowing some of her close friends......through them I feel like I know Lydia and that she was a fun, caring person. I would like to send my condolences to her family and friends.....thank you.
Linda.
Felicia Manni-Paquette
March 3, 2004
To Lydia:
My best friend, the sister I never had....we had a lot of fun. I will always remember all the trips to New York, shopping, and eating dinner in Little Italy. You always knew how to have a good time. I choose to remember all of the laughter watching Seinfeld, going to Disney, the Cape, or just "lurking". You are a true friend, through thick and thin. You are forever in my heart and thoughts. Now you are a guardian angel for Amber Rose, your Godchild. You touched many lives and your work here is done. Now you are at peace. Love always, Felicia
Elaine Gottlander
March 3, 2004
Greg,
With deepest sympathy.
Elaine
Kimberly (Kimmy) SanSouci
March 3, 2004
I will miss Lydia and her laugh and bright smile very much. I will always fondly remember the times we worked doing transcription together; she was always so funny and so much fun to talk with.
She is soaring with the angels in heaven now, but she will certainly be missed here on earth.
I can only offer my prayers for Lydia and my condolences to her family and especially to her sister and my dear friend Ulana.
May God bless Lydia and take her into his care.
Kathy Lee
March 3, 2004
My sincere sympathies are sent to Greg and Lydia's mother and family. Such a loss will be felt for a long time. My prayers are with you all.
Rosalyn Patterson
March 3, 2004
What a gift you are! I am so blessed to have known you and twice blessed to have been able to spend a few moments with you this past Saturday. Your beauty and courage was ever strong as you faced your surgery. Your sense of humor always present. Only you could make me laugh at such a serious time. I thank God that he gave me the chance to say I Love You. Your love for Greg was so evident as he was your strength to face this final challenge. You knew he was coming home so it was okay.
I will still think of you every day as I view your gift that I keep in my room. An ever present reminder of your love of family and tradition, my psyanka will always be a cherished part of my own family and the importance of continuing tradition. I love you.
Ros
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