VILARDO Philip J. Vilardo, age 86, died Sunday, April 19, 2009 at Riverside Methodist Hospital with his family at his side. Born December 30, 1922 in Columbus, he grew up in Grandview, and lived most of his life in Upper Arlington. He is a veteran of World War II, serving in the U.S. Navy, Pacific Theater. Following the war, Phil was a builder and developer for over 50 years. It is a family business, and he watched proudly as his children joined him to carry on the tradition. He is a long time member of St. Agatha Catholic Church, a past member of the St. Agatha Men's Club and the Greater Columbus Home Builders Association. He is preceded in death by his parents Frank and Venera Vilardo, brother Samuel, son Frank, and nephew Samuel Jr. Phil is survived by Helen, his wife of 57 years; daughters, Mary Jo Vilardo and Linda (Geoff) Bevan; son, Phil (Michele); brother, Danny Vilardo; grandchildren, Jen and Joe Bevan and Philip and Patrick Vilardo; sister-in-law, Charlotte Vilardo; niece, Susan (John) Tehan; and nephew, Steve Vilardo; and many additional relatives and friends. Friends may call WEDNESDAY, April 22, 2009 at the JOHN QUINT TREBONI FUNERAL HOME, 1177 W. 5th Avenue, from 6-8 p.m. followed by a Prayer Service at 8 p.m. Funeral Mass will be held 10 a.m. on THURSDAY, April 23, 2009 at St. Agatha Catholic Church, 1860 Northam Road. Rev. Fr. Daniel L. Ochs, Celebrant. FRIENDS ARE ASKED TO MEET AT CHURCH. Interment will follow at the St. Joseph Cemetery, 6440 South High Street, Lockbourne, Oh. In lieu of flowers, friends who wish may contribute in memory of Phil to Nationwide Children's Hospital, 700 Children's Drive, Columbus, Oh. 43205. Condolences may be sent via www.johnquint.com.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Apr. 21 to Apr. 22, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Philip Vilardo

5 Entries

Earl & Debbie Butcher

April 27, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Mary Merullo-Eppert

April 23, 2009

Helen, Mary Jo, Phil, Michele, Linda and Geoff.

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your husband and dad. I have many great memories of my growing up years hanging out with all of you; but will truely miss your Dad's humor and fun loving pesonality. He loved to harrass me and I will always remember the good times all of us had together.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time.

Love,
Mary, Mark, Lauren and Monica.

Bill Clarkin

April 22, 2009

Dear Phil, as your father grew older he never lost his spirit. I will always remember that in him...what a great example he was... He had a long life and I am sure he was a great father to you as you were a great son to him. What a great life you shared with him. Hang in there. Bill Clarkin

April 22, 2009

Deepest sympathy, I will always be grateful, I was able to buy my first home because of him. Condolences. Jacqueline Leary

Sam,Jeanine Allen

April 22, 2009

Dear Helen and family members,
We were so sorry to hear of Phil's passing.Sam,especially since they were long time friends. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time. Will offer up Mass this Sunday for Phil and your family. Give Danny our love too.
Will contact you when we return. love Sam and Jeanine

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