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Ricardo Butler Obituary

BUTLER Ricardo Butler Jr., 16 years old, went home to be with the Lord on Tuesday, May 25, 2010. Visitation will be on Tuesday, June 1, 2010, 11 a.m.-1 p.m., with Funeral Service immediately following at 1 p.m., all at Upper Arlington Lutheran Church the Church at Mill Run, 3500 Mill Run Drive, Hilliard, OH 43026. Interment immediately following in Green Lawn Cemetery. Memorial donations for funeral expenses may be made at any Huntington Bank, Rico Butler Memorial Donation Account #044000024 / Routing #04898475720. Messages for the family may be left on www.NewcomerColumbus.com.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch on May 29, 2010.

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May 20, 2011

It's been almost a year and wow where still missing, still thinking about the would if's this year "Class 2011",18 years rest in peace take care of all our friends coming your way. Love you Lil Ric

adrienne boone

June 8, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Reesheda Evans

June 5, 2010

I am a parent of a Darby student that knew Rico very well, I never met him personally but I can say that when I heard of his passing it was a moment of shock and disbelief. I know my son took it hard as well as many young people around Hilliard. My heart goes out to the Butler family and I hope that hearing all of the great stories about their son helps them smile a little more every day as they attempt to pick up the pieces after this devastating tragedy. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Jessica Irving

June 5, 2010

Our prayers go out to your family during this time of sorrow may God heal your pain and give you strength. May the good memories help to erase the sorrow. I only met your son once and as a mother my heart goes out to your family. Blessings from the Irving's

June 4, 2010

Butler Family, I am a parent to a current Bradley Junior. My heart goes out to you all! May God continue to bring you strength. Love and Sympathy.

June 4, 2010

When I heard the news report the night Rico died, I simply cried! I didn't know him, but I'm a mother of two & couldn't imagine the pain his family would go thru. He sounded like an outstanding son & now he's playing on another winning team. GOD'S TEAM! May God Bless each of you.

The Satterfield's

June 3, 2010

With heart felt sympathy our thoughts & prayers go out to ALL of Rico's family & friends. You will be dearly missed!!

June 3, 2010

To the Butler family, My name is Michelle Williams and I lost my son to a drowning in Lakeland Florida in Sept 09. His name was Chase and he was 20 years old. There are no words to explain the pain that you are now feeling. The only thing that I can say is to hold on to your faith in the Lord. It has been 9 monhts since my son passed and with each new day I wish that he was still here. Only time will help you to heal from this. From the reports he sounded like a wonderful son and I know that it is hard. I and my family will be praying for you as I for one know what you are going through. May God bless you and keep you in this time of grief.

Michelle Williams

Clayton Lenneman

June 2, 2010

You are my champ brother. Much love and thoughts are constantly being sent your way. R.I.P. Beloved Brother ?

Bonita Warner-Payne

June 2, 2010

TO THE BUTLER FAMILY, You have my deepest condolences. God has called Rico to be one of his Star Football player, for he has a team that has never lost, and with him he'll always be the CHAMPION. May God continue to Bless and strenghten you.

June 2, 2010

RIP Rico<3 u will never be forgotten...we love you!

June 1, 2010

R.I.P Rico
my brother used to study with him. Rico was a great person always helped my brother with his Math class. After he told me about all this, I became so emotional and start crying. I'm actually crying right now.

June 1, 2010

Ms. Butler;
I am truly sadden to hear of the loss of your son. I know how painful is it to lose a love one; but just know that God will see you though it. Praying for you and your family.

Delores Williams

The Hilliard Community

June 1, 2010

In memory of Rico Butler. God Bless you. RIP

Brenda Ramsey

June 1, 2010

My prayers are with you and your family. I understand your pain your going through. I lost a son almost 4 yrs ago at the age of 22 yrs.
Life goes on, but it's hard. Hang in there.

Michele Leonard

June 1, 2010

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

The Finleys

June 1, 2010

Our son played with Rico at Davidson in the 2008 season. It was a joy to watch Rico play football. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.

June 1, 2010

Yvonne and family,
I'm very saddened to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time. May God keep you close.
Mindy Rodgers McSweeney

June 1, 2010

To the Butler family:
My prayers are with your family. May God surround you with His love and comfort always. My son went to school with him. God bless you and care for you. Susan Musto and Caleb Yiutzy

Twila Wellmaker

June 1, 2010

My prayers are with you, may God sustain you during this time of great loss. Yvonne if you need anything do not hesitate to let me know.

lisa spradlin

June 1, 2010

god bless you all

Pollards

June 1, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

June 1, 2010

Although I did not know your son personally, I was saddended to hear about this tragic story as I have a son the same age who plays football too. May you find strength in God to help you through the days and weeks ahead and have faith in knowing your will be re-united with your son in Heaven.
Our family is praying for you all.
God Ble.ss

Mins. R. & P Jones

June 1, 2010

MY the Lord Jesus Christ be with you , the Lord said in his word Iam Jehovah God I am strong I a mighty you belong to me You are mine I have places a hedge of protection around you and nothing can take you form Me not even yourself I am stong I am mighty I am Jehovah God now rest in his word.

Danielle & Cathy Woodfox

June 1, 2010

Our sincerest and deepest sympathies to you and your family; may God continue to keep you strong and able...

tamika

May 31, 2010

To the Butler family I am very sorry for your loss May god bless you.

The Lomax Family

May 31, 2010

Dear Butler Family,

Please accept our condolencess for your loss. We all feel the pain in your loss, and share your grief! The world shines a little brighter with its newest
angel in Heaven. God Bless you and we will keep you in our prayers!

Lomax Family!

Sonia Smith

May 31, 2010

My deepest sympathy to the mother of Rico and other family members. As a mother myself, I cannot imagine the pain you are going through right now but we have a God that is more than enough. Hold on to him knowing that he will bring you through. Rico is in Heaven . He made it in. Thank God

Denise \White

May 31, 2010

No words, blessing and prayers to the family
From a Coffman Parent

May 31, 2010

Dear Butler Family-

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May your memories of Rico bring you comfort.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Walker's

R. Brannick

May 31, 2010

Dear Butler family, I didn't know Rico, but heard and read about his passing on a sports website. He must have been a very special and talented young man. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss.

Jennings Family

May 31, 2010

Yvonne and Butler Family,
Our hearts go out to the family, we are praying that God will give you all comfort and strength. We can't begin to imagine your pain but will be praying God will walk and carry the family every step of the way. We love you and will be continually praying for the family's strength and comfort.

Sherita Taylor-Montgomery

May 31, 2010

Yvonne and Butler Family,
My heart truly go out to you and your family. I don't even know the words to say except to ask God to comfort you and give you all comfort in knowing Rico is resting in His arms. Although you will miss him down here on earth, know that you will see him again in heaven. May God give you strength and my prayers are with you!

Diane Evans

May 31, 2010

To the Butler family, My deepest sympathy to you all. Rico was a friend of my grandson at Davidson and we watched him play football. Another shining star watching down on us. God give you the strength to go on and peace with your memories

LYDIA WEBB

May 31, 2010

MYHEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO THE BUTLER FAMILY.I DID'NT KNOW HIM ,BUT HE WAS A FRIEND OF MY GRANDSON. I PRAY THAT GOD WILL STRENGTHEN YOU AND THE FAMILY. LYDIA WEBB/DETROIT MICH

Tonia Steed

May 31, 2010

To the Butler family, may God give you strength in your time of sorrow. Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.

Cynthia Figgins

May 31, 2010

Although I did not know Rico or the Butler family, my prayers and condolences are with you. May God give you strength, grace and peace as you go through this valley of greif.

May 31, 2010

I did not know Rico or the Butler family,but was saddened by the story. I pray that God will give you the strenghth as you go through this valley that seems so dark, and unbeleiveable at this time.

julie sowers

May 30, 2010

i would like to say my deepest sympothy go out to you....God may have taken your angel early but he needed great football player to start on the team....so now hilliard davidson high school has a new angel guiding and watching over each and everyone on that team......Rico you will live in many hearts but we all will meet again.... so have that stadium ready buddy

Jake Campbell

May 30, 2010

How sad that a kid so young would die, My heart goes out to the family of Rico Butler!

SJCF Cafe

May 30, 2010

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

May 30, 2010

When I read the article about your son my heart dropped and prayers went out. May 31 2006 my son drowned at Alum Creek park, he was 17, he also played football. With the 4 year anniversay coming up, I thought another young person leaving to soon. My heart and prayers will be with you not only today but always.

Gleims

May 29, 2010

To the Butler Family,
We have been praying for your strength and comfort during this difficult time. Loosing a child is never easy. We thought a lot of Rico and enjoyed watching him play football. Our payers are that you take comfort in knowing what a great young man he was. Lean on the Hilliard community and your Lord.
Love, Trige, Lezli & Brandon Gleim

JeNisha King

May 29, 2010

i just wanted to say that me and rico were reaLLy good freiends, and i am so sad to see him go, but god called him home. he truly was a star and something special!

Malaki Gravely

May 29, 2010

May the comfort of GOD help you during this difficult time. You are in my prayers.

May 29, 2010

Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us everyday, unseen, unheard, but always near. Still loved still missed and very dear. I will miss you very much, but will carry you in my heart everyday with all the memories we share. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Butler family.
God's peace

May 29, 2010

I didnt know Rico, but as a alumni of Hilliard Davidson High School, my thoughts and prayers go out to your loving friends and family at this time. Its so sad to have you taken away so soon, but know that you are in a very good place right now. RIP.

seth gamby

May 29, 2010

my son seth and i watched rico, number 5 play football vs. pick central at gahanna this past season. regardless, he is a special man. my son and i were in shock of his passing. my son is 16 also, a sophomore at pick north who also plays football and he was so impressed with rico's athleticism and ability to succeed. our entire family, the gamby's, grieve with you and our prayers are with you. may gods eternal smile be upon rico, your family and friends. god bless. sincerely, larry, lisa, brittany, and seth gamby.

Scarffol Family

May 29, 2010

Our condolences to the Butler Family. Such a shock to hear of Rico's passing. He & my nephew played together for the Georgian Heights Packers in 2005 season. May you find comfort in knowing...God has taken him into his arms; he is not alone.
The Scarffol Family

Tami Null

May 29, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

May 29, 2010

I don't know Rico or his family but my heart breaks for you. May God bless, keep, and comfort you during this very sad time....

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