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Shelly Clay Obituary

Clay Shelly Clay, age 48, Monday, April 8, 2013 at Riverside Methodist Hospital. A Human Resources Director and a member of Scioto Ridge United Methodist Church. Preceded in death by her mother Marcia (Rosengarten) Clay, grandmother Alberta Clay, grandfather Darrell Clay, grandmother Margaret "Peg" Rosengarten. Survived by her husband, Christopher Bender of Hilliard; and daughter, Gillian Bender; father, Tom Clay of Mendon; friend, Mary Lou Buschor; sister, Pam (Jeff) Lightle of Defiance; nephew, Matthew Lightle and niece, Sarah Lightle. Funeral service will be held 10:30 a.m. Friday at Scioto Ridge United Methodist Church, 4343 Dublin Rd., Hilliard, where friends may call 9:30-10:30 a.m. in the church narthex. Burial Mendon Cemetery 2:30 p.m. Friday. In lieu of flowers, friends may contribute to a favorite charity in her memory. Arrangements by EGAN-RYAN NORTHWEST CHAPEL.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Apr. 9 to Apr. 11, 2013.

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Scotty Elliott

May 3, 2013

Chris and Gillian

My deepest sympathies to you. Shelly was a warm, special person; and although she will be missed, nothing can take away your fond memories to treasure forever.
Thoughts and prayers to you!

April 12, 2013

Chris & Gillian, I am so sorry to hear about your loss and ask that God may be with you during this time of grief and sadness. Just hold on to all the happy times and moments you had with her and know that she's in a better place.

May God Bless
Adrienne

April 12, 2013

Dear Chris and Gillian,
May you feel the love and care of Jesus at this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Remember you can call on us at any hour. See you and Gillian soon. Kathryn and Wilbert Wiley

Claudette Clyde

April 12, 2013

Chris and Gillian,
I am so sorry to hear about Shelly's passing. She was a strong woman with a big smile and heart. You and Gillian will have memories that will keep you smiling for the rest of you life.
Keep in mind that Shelly is now your special GUARDIAN ANGEL and she will always watch over you both.

Jean Rausch

April 12, 2013

I did not know Shelly personally; only knew about her through my sister (Linda) who works at the day care. We had prayed for her as we now pray for you and Gillian; for great comfort and peace during these days and following. Our greatest sympathies in your loss.

Vivian Fielder

April 11, 2013

Chris,you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.

Sincerely, Vivian and Fred Fielder
Clark Memorial United Methodist Church Nashville, TN

Cheray Holmes

April 11, 2013

Chris and Gillian, I was so sorry to hear of Shelly's passing. I pray for you and your family, heaven has a beautiful angel in their mist. Love to you both, Ms. Cheray

April 11, 2013

Chris so sorry to hear about Shelly, I always liked her at AP Tech. Take care of yourself, Mike Fullenkamp

dwight fisher

April 11, 2013

CHRIS ,So very sorry to hear this buddy. i ,to lost my wife less than a year ago and i know what you are going through.my condolences friend

Jenny West

April 11, 2013

Chris, Im so sorry to hear about Shelly... Thinking of you and your family...

Rex Ray

April 11, 2013

Chris, Sorry for your loss. We'll keep your family in our prayers.
Rex & Cindy Ray

Leigh Tennison

April 10, 2013

I worked with Shelly at MDK & am shocked & saddened to hear of her passing. We will hold you in our prayers.

Jami Jackson

April 10, 2013

Shelly was one of my first impressions of MDK, and one of the lasting impressions. She had a kind heart and a welcoming personality. She will be missed.

James Ritchey

April 10, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss.
I worked with Shelly @ MDK since '08.
GOD Speed Shelly Clay.

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