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Henry Raymond Helger

1940 - 2025

Henry Raymond Helger obituary, 1940-2025, Little Compton, RI

BORN

1940

DIED

2025

Henry Helger Obituary

Well known and respected antique automobile collector and mechanic| Henry Raymond Helger Jr., 84, of Little Compton, Rhode Island, passed away on January 7, 2025 at home surrounded by his family.

Henry, commonly known as "Ray" is survived by his loving wife Sally Ann (Jean) of 61 years. He also leaves behind his son Henry Raymond Helger III and his wife Leslie of Little Compton. He was the devoted grandfather of Jesse (Karrissa) and their daughter, Lainey Mae of Tiverton and Cody (Macy) of Little Compton. He is reunited with his late son Jamie.

He is survived by siblings Donald and Barbara Helger both of Tiverton. He is predeceased in death by brothers Bobby and Richard Helger.

Born on July 4th 1940, Ray was the oldest son of the late Henry Helger Sr. and Gladys (Sherman) of Helger's Turkey Farm Tiverton RI. He grew up at the family farm which established his strong work ethic. He also would spend time on the Sakonnet River quahogging with cousins. He graduated from DeLasalle Academy in 1959.

At a young age he developed a passion for automobiles, a passion that he would become most known and respected for. He started collecting cars in the early 1950's, the first being a Model A Ford about the age of 12.

After their marriage in December of 1963, Ray and Sally headed on a lengthy ride to Niagara Falls during a snowstorm in their 1930 Model A Ford. This was the same year that Ray was drafted into the U.S. Army serving two years as a corporal working in the motor pool. After this time, he opened a Sunoco Service Station on Main Road in Tiverton. Offering gasoline for .27 cents a gallon and auto repair to the locals.

The couple found their forever home in Little Compton in 1967 and resided there for 60 years. This was a loving home where they raised their two sons, ran a small hobby farm, and relocated his auto repair business to this location. Ray's Auto Repair serviced a long list of loyal local customers.

Ray and Sally tragically lost their son Jamie in an auto related accident in 1990. This difficult time was alleviated in 1992 by the birth of their twin grandsons, Cody and Jesse. "Pops" was always supportive of the business endeavors and hobbies of his son Ray and grandsons Jesse and Cody. Even if it caused him aggravation, the next day he would recall it to the amusement of one or more of his customers.

He was widely known and respected for his knowledge of all makes of models of antique cars. Besides collecting and repairing antique automobiles, he collected vintage outboard motors and all kinds of memorabilia. If you needed car parts, he had them, if you had questions he had the answers. Ray was a living encyclopedia for antique cars and parts. That is how his reputation developed. He took pride in his work and vast inventory. His collection was more of a self-made museum. The fact that one man could collect, catalogue, and display so many parts was and still is truly astonishing. He met people at swap meets and traveled all over in his 1931 Ford panel truck to clean out garages and businesses. Many of these people became lifelong friends. Everyone knew him as "the man in Little Compton with the antique cars." They not only came to him for parts, but his entertaining stories (whether true or embellished). He would sit in his old golf cart and entertain for hours at a time with a grin on his face and his ever-present cigar.

As years passed, Ray dedicated all his efforts to his auto parts business. With Sally's help and computer skills they began selling his auto parts online to buyers all over the world. A successful business that brought them right up to 2023 when his illness made it difficult for him to stay out in his beloved buildings.

He was very proud of the family he and Sally had built. They were a true American family. Ray was a hardworking, loving, family man. He provided for his family and made sure they never went without but always lived within his means. It was his greatest achievement, which was in some small way reciprocated in the end by the care all his family gave him at home right to his last breath. His great-granddaughter Lainey "pretty girl" brought him smiles right to the very end.

He will long be remembered as an honest, hardworking man who had built a wonderful legacy for his family and a good friend to many. He will be missed by all who knew him.

In lieu of flowers please make a donation to Stay At Home in Little Compton, Inc. P.O. Box 353, Little Compton RI. 02837

At his personal request there will be no funeral services. A memorial antique car show is being planned for summer 2025.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Sakonnet Times (Tiverton & Little Compton), Portsmouth Times on Jan. 12, 2025.

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Robert H. Canfield family name

June 28, 2025

May he rest in peace my mother Maureen Canfield was his cousin and his aunt my grandfathers sister. May memories of him last forever. my mother used to tell us of her summers with the Helgers. We lost mom in 2021
May Ray rest in our savior's arms

Steve and Cheryl Bolger

January 27, 2025

Dear Sally and family,
We are so sorry to hear about Ray's passing. Steve has many great memories of he and Ray Viveros driving to see Ray for a part they needed. They would always say "Ray will have it".
He will never be forgotten.
Sending our sympathies.

Walt and Donna Clark Menzi

January 23, 2025

Dear Sally and Family, Walt and I are so sorry to hear that Ray has passed away. You have had a wonderful life together with your beautiful family. He will be missed by all who knew him. With deepest sympathy....Walt and Donna

RONNI "GIBLIN" GANNEK

January 19, 2025

I am so sorry for your loss Sally. Love & blessings to you & your beloved family. 61 YEARS SHOWS "TRUE LOVE" LASTS - R I P - RAY, XOXO

Stephen Paquin

January 19, 2025

A great man, with a great family

Jay Miller

January 16, 2025

For the relatively short time that I had good fortune to know Ray, Sr., I enjoyed bringing him a cigar and watch him find a part hidden to anyone else but location known precisely by him. Talking with him about his collection and hearing the stories behind the cars and outboard motors was always pure joy. He was a character and don't we all want and need such characters in our lives. Be at peace, Ray, Sr. Be at peace.

Ray Belsito

January 16, 2025

Deepest condolences to the family. A great guy, a good friend for so many years.

Meada Daly-Cano

January 16, 2025

My condolences to the Helger family. Ray was always so welcoming when my father and I came to visit. They were so welcoming that my husband and I continued to visit after my father died. Ray was a lover of people, animals, birds, cars, boats and storytelling. We will miss him.

Tom Saleeba

January 15, 2025

I first met Ray some 20/25 years ago? I needed some parts and Ray was always fair and good to me !! Then meeting Raymond, just taking a ride to Little Compton just to say hi on a Saturday morning. He was a real good guy !!
Condolences to the Helger family.

Ginny

January 15, 2025

Ray was a wonderful kind man with many stories. I would sit by the pond and he would come over on his golf cart with his cigar with many a story. We will miss you.
Ginny and Jesse B.

Juan Cano

January 15, 2025

It was a pleasure to have known Ray; always kind and friendly and happy to educate on any car related questions.

Paul Burke

January 14, 2025

Helger Family; Sincerest condolences concerning Ray's passing. Ray was a "great example of a great example", and will be remembered always.

Jay Murphy

January 14, 2025

My deepest condolences to the HELGER family. I considered Ray to be a good friend and we both shared a love of cars, mostly Fords.
I will miss him dearly.
Jay Murphy

Carolyn Moore

January 13, 2025

My deepest condolences to the family..Ray was my brother in law's nephew and we knew each other since grade school....He will be greatly missed..With prayers and Love..Carolyn

Henry S. Wordell

January 13, 2025

my condolences to Helger family. Henry Wordell Belmont Maine.

Single Memorial Tree

Carole Flores

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Sal Marinosci

January 13, 2025

We have lost an institution, one that cannot and will not be replaced. It was a real pleasure knowing him. A big part of our past. I smile when I think of him.

Lori A Lemos

January 13, 2025

I'm so very sorry to hear about the passing of Mr.Helger ,he was a kind man with a sense of humor who will be greatly missed by many ,my condolences from me ,mom ,Shawn, Kim go out to the family an much love to Sally ,your in my prayers!!! Love ,Lori Lemos

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