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Robert Vanderhoof Obituary

With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Robert "Bob" Vanderhoof on January 30, 2025, at the age of 77. Bob's legacy is one of hard work and loyalty and he had a witty sense of humor. He was a true gentleman and he passed his ideals to his children and grandchildren. Bob was always generous with his friends and family. He left an indelible mark on his community and his family.

Bob showed endless love for his mother, Barbara (Hazel) Vanderhoof, who grew up in the Newport area. He was deeply protective of his mother and her comfort until the moment of her passing. He was loved by her extended family and he spent a lot of time through his younger life with his Uncle Eddy, Aunt Norma and his cousins in Rhode Island. He passed this family connection to his children.

After graduating from St. Peter's High School in Worcester, Bob earned a license as a Dispensing Optician from the Worcester Institute of Technology. He later moved to Western Massachusetts with the goal of starting his own optical business. Bob began his life with Barbara in November 1969 in Agawam, MA and together they built a beautiful life and family. In 1972, Bob opened Agawam Opticians, a family business that is now proudly operated by his son, Aaron. Bob was incredibly proud that his son recognized the business's value and purchased ownership of Agawam Opticians in 2001, ensuring its continued success. He also took a lot of pride in working closely with his brother Mike to ensure the growth and success of Southwick Opticians.

Bob spent over 25 years enjoying the Rhode Island coast and building strong bonds in both Newport and Bristol. Bob embraced his interest in the restaurant business and partnered with Bobby Meyers to open Roberto's in 2001. The restaurant quickly became a beloved local spot with a staff that became family to Bob. He was immensely proud of his team who helped make Roberto's a success. He will be sorely missed by all that were a part of the Roberto's journey. When Bob decided to step away from the business he felt comfort in the restaurants future success after selling to a close friend in 2021.

Throughout his life, Bob lead by example, demonstrating hard work, perseverance, and leadership. He was sworn in by Governor Michael Dukakis to serve as the President of the Opticians Association of Massachusetts, where he was an influential leader from 1979 to 1981. He later served as Chair of the Board of Registration for Opticians. His dedication to his community also led him to serve on the Agawam Liquor Commission while living in the community. During the COVID pandemic, Roberto's restaurant donated food to hospital workers in the area. Bob was also a supporter of the 100 Club of Rhode Island and donated time and money to Mount Hope Farm.

Bob had a healthy and almost comical competitiveness, in business, sports and anything he was involved with. He was an excellent billiards player and rarely lost a game as partners with his son Aaron. He played golf religiously as long as his arthritic hands would let him and was an original member of the Oak Ridge Country Club in Agawam. He was also a longtime member of Wanumetonomy Golf and Country Club in Middletown, Rhode Island.

Bob loved to watch Boston teams and praised NESN for adding "Sox in 2" to their broadcast so he could catch the game after a night at the restaurant. Bob spent endless hours analyzing the NFL, which was a constant source of entertainment (and possibly more frustration). Most importantly, he enjoyed camaraderie and laughs during football season and he will be remembered fondly by everyone who was lucky enough to sit with him on Sunday afternoons.

He will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing him. The outpouring of messages from Bob's family and friends to his children is a demonstration of the impact he had on so many and serves as a true comfort.

Bob is survived by his children, Aaron Vanderhoof (and his wife Alissa), and Erica Vanderhoof Palm (and her husband Randall) and their mother, Barbara (Lamothe) Vanderhoof. His children were a true source of pride and he was tirelessly proud of his grandchildren ranging in age from 19 to 12 years old. Aaron's children— Cameron Vanderhoof, Kate Vanderhoof, and Reese Vanderhoof— as well as Erica's children— Aaron Palm, Jake Robert Palm, and Teddy Palm always knew that "Poppi" loved them. He is also survived by his sister Jane Hanlon (and her husband Paul), his brother Mike Vanderhoof (and his wife Mary). His nieces and nephews will remember "Uncle Bobby" fondly.

A celebration of Bob's life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, his friends and family request that donations be made in his memory to Mount Hope Farm, a nonprofit organization dedicated to preserving open spaces and historic architecture. Donations can be made online at Mount Hope Farm's donation page or by mail to Mount Hope Farm, PO Box 66, Bristol, RI 02809.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Bristol Phoenix on Feb. 4, 2025.

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Paul Alony

March 25, 2025

I am so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. Bob worked for us in Springfield after graduating WITI. He was the very very best. I recall that I had tears in my eyes when he told me that he was leaving to open his own business.

steve richter

February 28, 2025

Tammy and I wish to express our sincere condolences to All. He was a great man.

George Corgan

February 11, 2025

Erica and Aaron:
I´m so sorry to hear of your Dad´s passing. He was always there for us. I have so many fond memories playing golf with him and his buddy Bob Green. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Beth Whittaker

February 10, 2025

Aaron and family, I am so sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences to you all. I remember meeting your Dad at the hospital after your car accident and he was so very kind.

Nicole (Racicot) Reis

February 10, 2025

Aaron and Erica, I was so sorry to hear about your father´s passing. Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.

Aaron

February 8, 2025

Erica and I have read and discussed every message. Thank you for sharing your love and stories with us... it really means a lot.

Ron Geida

February 8, 2025

Condolences to you and your family, Aaron. May your father rest in peace.

Joanne Willis

February 7, 2025

Aaron and Erica,
We remember Bob fondly as our optician and his service to the Town of Agawam. May your memories give you comfort and solace in the days ahead.
Joanne and Jim Willis

Greg Andros

February 7, 2025

Aaron and Erica. I am deeply saddened upon hearing of the passing of your father. I will be forever grateful for our business association. He will be greatly missed. Keeping you and your families in my thoughts and prayers.

Merri Russo

February 7, 2025

I'm so sorry for your loss and the sadness that comes along with it. Bob was a very special man to me. We had such a wonderful relationship. I had been cutting his hair for over 25 years he called me his hair follicle engineer. I remember the honor of being asked to do Erica's hair for her wedding and running into Bob and Aaron out in Bristol. He always had a big hug for me and a glass of wine. During COVID he knew I wasn't working so he rallied up a bunch of his friends for haircuts out on the front deck. One of my favorite memories was when he asked me to help him pick out furniture for the condo. We had a ball trying out couches and chairs. I just loved him with all my heart. He will be greatly missed.

Mike and Pat Scheer

February 7, 2025

Aaron. Our sincere condolences to you and your family on Bob's passing. He was a wonderful guy and every transaction with him, business or pleasure was always a great experience.
Sincerely, Pat and Mike Scheer

JOE LIQUORI

February 6, 2025

Aaron,Erica & family,
I am saddened to hear of your dads passing he was a great guy. My Sincerest Condolences he will be sadly missed. Think of the good times & he will be there.

Scott Litz

February 6, 2025

Aaron & Erica I'm sorry to hear of your father's passing. He was always a gentleman and a guy in the know. I enjoyed and was frequently better informed after our conversations.
God bless his soul!

Lee A.Vaughn

February 6, 2025

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Tim Kery

February 6, 2025

Erica and Aaron,

I am very sorry for the loss of your father. In 2013, as a newcomer to Bristol, I walked into Roberto's, and your dad became my first local friend. As a 'commuter' to town, I would spend many nights at your father's restaurant, hearing how proud he was of his children and grandchildren. Your dad was kind, witty, generous, and will be greatly missed. I am praying that the memories of your father will help you through this challenging time. Tim Kery - Bristol, RI

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Paula Girvan

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Ernie and Nancy Oliveira

February 5, 2025

Aaron & Erica - Nancy and I have had so many great memories with your dad over the last 20+ years. From numerous visits; both at your mom and dad's home on Goat Island; to the many great meals at both "Roberto's". He even set up a "Colonel's Corner" in each Restaurant in my honor. The precious hours we spent together on the golf courses were great! But the many times that Luke Hyder and I spent with your Dad during our frequent lunches remain as "The Most Precious". GOD Bless you All!

Luke Hyder

February 4, 2025

Aaron & Erica-May great memories of your father help you and your families through this very difficult time. Yor father was one of my dearest friends! We had so many good times together over the years. I would have loved one more lunch with him and The Colonel!
With love, Luke & Rose Hyder

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