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Elbert Ray Cain

1944 - 2014

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1944

DIED

2014

Elbert Cain Obituary

Elbert Ray Cain
August 8, 1944-
January 16, 2014
Resident of Pittsburg
It is with heavy heart we announce Ray passed away peacefully with loved ones by his side. Ray is survived by his two children Helen and Bobby Ray Cain. He was a loving father figure to David Hair, Jaclyn Ellsworth, and Stacy McCraney, as well as a best friend to Ellen Ellsworth and Tim Grace. He has a host of family in New Mexico and California. Ray was an excellent mechanic and could fix anything you put in front of him. He was always there for you anytime you needed him. A celebration of life will be held February 8th at 1pm under the Antioch Bridge.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Inside Bay Area News on Feb. 6, 2014.

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betsy dunivan

January 25, 2015

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jaclyn ellsworth

April 13, 2014

Uncle ray.... Where do I even begin..... Its taken this long to not cry my eyes out thinking about u. I love you so much for everything you've done for me from ice cream sundaes to driving at 13 on the paper route to u getting my first car u were a staple in our family. I know you're still watching over us.never imagined life without u in it! Love u always and forever. Till we see each other again xoxoxo!!!! I'll cherish every moment and feel so blessed for our last month together

Latisha Boyd

February 10, 2014

Uncle Ray, so glad I got to see you last year an got you to take a picture! You'll definitely be missed. Love you.

Donna Cameron

February 10, 2014

I love you uncle Ray! I will always cherish my childhood memories of you. Please give my daddy a hug for me and you two stay out of trouble.

Stacy,Trinity,Lillian

February 10, 2014

Uncle Ray!! :) You are the best!! Words cant explain how much we miss you and want you back! You were the one we could count on when we needed anything! You were our ROCK!! I wish we could have ONE more day! I'll Love you FOREVER and you will always be in my heart***

February 6, 2014

February 6, 2014

Jaclyn Ellsworth

February 6, 2014

Love and Miss you Uncle Ray. I think about you everyday.

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