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Richard Perry Obituary

Richard passed away at home surrounded by family after a four month courageous battle with several serious illnesses. He is predeceased by his loving parents, James and Eileen Perry, and his adored brother, Dennis Perry. He is survived by his wife of 52 years, Carole. He is also survived by his brother-in-law and sister-in-law, Leonard and Trish Ratto; his sister-in-law, Cindy Perry; his nephews and nieces and their families; Megan Ratto, Molly Ratto, Christopher Perry (Lauren), Philip Perry (Amalya) and Tracy Adams (Jason); and so very many other relatives and friends that loved him. He worked for Oakland Scavenger Company and then Waste Management from 1970 until 2004. He was also a proud member of the Alpicella Club in Alameda. In retirement, he enjoyed the gym, golf, travel and time with friends and family. And, that time with family and friends was always a highlight for him. He was a total people-person; he enjoyed conversing with all the neighbors, his gym pals, the families at our community pool, the postal worker, the grocery cashiers, and the delivery drivers. No one was a stranger, his goodness reached out to everyone. He will be remembered for his warmth, his easy-going nature, his fabulous dance moves (he especially loved the Jitterbug) and his amazing smile. And, for me, my darling husband will be remembered for being my best friend, my champion and the absolute love of my life! He brought sunshine and joy into my life every day, and I will forever be grateful for his love. Any future services will be private. Richard was very proud of his military service (4th Infantry Division of the US Army). He will be interred with some of his Army gear and medals. Donations may be made to any of the worthwhile veterans groups or to your own favorite charity. For further information call Harry Greer, Funeral Director (FDR-745).

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Published by East Bay Times from Mar. 17 to Mar. 19, 2023.

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Lorna Mulkey

October 30, 2023

What an honor to care for Rich as he was hospitalized at my place of work. He was nothing short of a class act, never complaining, always smiling, always hoping he wasn't putting any of the staff out because he didn't want to be a 'bother'. Rich stands out as my patient of the decade, due to how uncomfortable and painful he was, yet never wanting to inconvenience any of us with his needs. What a gentleman, what a fine man he truly was. I know he will be missed greatly. It is so wonderful to see this smiling happy man in the picture above, because his attitude while sick was certainly a testament to the life he lived while well. God be with you, Carole.
XOX
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Nancy Caruso Mesquite

March 23, 2023

Carole, I am so saddened and sorry for the loss of your wonderful husband.
We were neighbors, friends, and even dance partners througout the many years I had the privledge of knowing him.
Dickie as I knew him was one of the most kind, warm, happy, and loving kid, teen, and man that I knew.
May you be comforted with the beautiful life and memories you shared.

Nancy (Caruso) Mesquite

Robert Chambers

March 22, 2023

He was a man with the biggest heart and welcome smile to light anyone day.One of the most joyful and positive person anyone could know.

CURTIS L WATSON

March 19, 2023

Carole.
May God Bless You by keeping you strong during this difficult time. Over the years we respected Richard for all of the love and caring he showed toward you. We called him the model husband and you the model wife.


Flora and Curtis Watson
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Stan Olsen

March 19, 2023

We were neighbors and friends for many years. Elementary school, Junior High and Sunset High, Little League and many more. God Bless you my friend.
Stan Olsen

Mahlon Duke

March 18, 2023

From my memories of Richard, you got it down to a "T." The only thing more, that I remember, was his love of golf and getting out the door to play with an Hawaiian shirt on...Great smile and person. Mahlon Duke

Sally & Kent

March 17, 2023

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Jo Anne Scruggs

March 17, 2023

I am so very sorry for your loss, Carole. You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.

Linda and Steve Bristow

March 17, 2023

Ah yes Sweet Richard Great photo Great person Rest well

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