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Shirley MacFarlane Obituary

SHIRLEY A. ("SAMMIE") MacFARLANE Died in her native Oakland on December 19, 2002. Daughter of the late Donald L. MacFarlane (MacFarlane Candies) and Edith MacFarlane. Sister of Donald L. MacFarlane, Jr. and Donna Guest. Dear friend to many. Shirley was a graduate of Mills College, an accomplished tennis player and a brilliant, talented needlepoint artist. She retired from her job as secretary for the Alameda County Probation Department in 2000. She was a long-time member of Alameda County Legal Secretaries Association. As she wished, no services were held. Contributions may be made in Shirley's memory to the Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals.

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Published by Oakland Tribune on Jan. 4, 2003.

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