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for Starla Anderson
Lee A Evans
February 28, 2024
Missing you everyday.
Lisa Flory
March 6, 2006
The 5th of March is another day we celebrate our love of you, Starla ! We think about you all the time, and when my sisters and I cry for missing your physical presence~ we know our tears and joy both honor what you mean to us. Until we see each other again, you are never far away~Our hearts are full of you. Love, all your Flory girls: Lisa,Lizzie,Jennie,Hayley,Cheryl and Marian.
Cheryl Anderson
March 4, 2006
Starla Jeanne: You are terribly missed. I can't believe you've been gone for a year, and now today, March 5th, brings to mind your 59th birthday. I wish I could pick up the phone and call you or come over for a visit -- just to tell you that you are always in my heart and mind. You were such a tremendous friend and hostess, and I truly miss your wonderful sense of humor and your smile. Thank you for sharing your life with me -- for being such an awesome sister-in-law. I love you!
Dave and Leslie: Although you may be struggling today, please trust that God is with you -- eternally and faithfully restoring perspective and peace to your souls. May He bring you both healing and comfort. May God's love shine through you and to you through others.
I love you both, Chershal
Dave & Leslie
March 1, 2006
In Loving Memory of our
Dear Starla Jeanne Anderson
March 1, 2005
“I’ll be seeing you in all the old familiar places”
It’s been an entire year, but our memories of you are so vivid and strong that it seems like just yesterday you were here with us on Earth. You left us too soon. We miss your laugh, your smile, your caring, and your love. We will always cherish every moment we had with you.
Our only salvation is knowing that, with God’s Grace, we will once again be with you in Heaven. You are now our shining Star from above, watching over us. We are blessed to feel your spiritual presence.
We will always love you, up to the sky and back.
Husband Dave, Daughter Leslie,
and your Furry Kids, Abby & Margie.
Paul Weir
March 22, 2005
Dearest Leslie,
She was a wonderful lady, Mom and most importantly . . . your best friend. Her spirit will live on inside of you and make you an even more beautiful person than you already are.
My memory of your Mom will always be her glowing and cheerful look on her face when we saw you all down at Disneyland (waiting outside the Monorail station). She was truly one of the great ones and I feel honored to have met her in my life's travels.
My hearts truly goes out to you & your family.
Love,
Paul Weir
Robin and Rich Foreman
March 20, 2005
Dear Leslie and Dave,
We were so touched by the truly beautiful and life affirming ceremony last Saturday and it was such a perfect reminder of how truly beautiful Starla was and will always be in our hearts and memories! What an extraordinary life she built and lived and what an absolutely extraordinary woman, wife and mother! Starla lives on in our hearts and in all the love and joy and friendship Leslie has brought to our lives and continues to bring. Starla was a shining star in her life here on earth and she will continue to be a shining star for all who knew her and loved her. All our love to you, Leslie and Dave.
robin green
March 19, 2005
Dear Leslie and Dave,
I am sorry that I was not able to make it to the memorial, but I am sure it was wonderful. I want to thank both of you for allowing me to be a part of your and Starla's life. She was a wonderful person and I am glad that she came into my life. She will forever be an important person in my life.
Erin Kvistad
March 15, 2005
Leslie:
The memorial for your mom was a beautiful tribute to her life. One of the points that touched me most was about your mom's devotion and loyalty to her friends. In so many ways I think you have been the glue that holds all of us gals from Davis together ("If it wasn't for Chi-Omega"). Your loyalty to your friends and family is incredible and an example to us all. I didn't know your mom, but I know so many of her beautiful traits were passed on to her beautiful daughter.
The vision of your mom worshiping Jesus in heaven brings a smile to my face. I know your mom's love for the Lord touched many. That was clearly reflected in her memorial. We know that He has a purpose and a destiny for each of us. And we know your mom lived her life fulfilling her purpose here on earth. Bless you and your family!
Erin
Anderson Family
March 15, 2005
Our Family in Paradise
March 15, 2005
Starla with her "Girls"
March 15, 2005
Our Special Angel
March 15, 2005
Suzi Reed
March 15, 2005
Thank you for the wonderful opportunity to celebrate Starla's life and share the memories. I was so moved by the ceremony, it was a beautiful tribute to a remarkable woman. Your pictures and words showed us all how amazing Starla was and how she reached others through her heart. I think she was there with us. That kind of light never goes out and is always in our hearts. I will feel Starla every time I see a smile in Leslie's eyes and in every hug (cuz Starla gave GREAT hugs). My love to both of you now and always!
Heather Atkins
March 15, 2005
My sympathy and best wishes to you both. I will always remember what a beautiful and inspiring person Starla is.
Nisha Attri
March 14, 2005
Dear Dave, Leslie, and Family,
What a beautiful memorial for such a phenomenal bright star as Starla. Every single tribute was well- spoken and touching. The slide shows showed such thought and care to detail - and for a few brief moments, we were all able to see that special smile again, and the bright eyes that always showered love upon all who knew her. You are all in my prayers. We will all miss Starla and think of her often. Thank you for including me in the celebration of her trip to Heaven to be with her parents.
Love,
Nisha
Alison Vidal
March 14, 2005
Dave and Leslie:
The memorial for Starla was so moving and a wonderful tribute on her life. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Lynn Ragghianti
March 14, 2005
Dear Dave and Leslie - Thank you for the labor of love you displayed with a beautiful memorial to a beautiful person. Starla was a great friend and a bright light in my life for many years. Looking at the scenes of her joyous life brought back the person I knew and loved and left me with memories I will always cherish.
With love and sympathy,
Terry Bowman
March 14, 2005
Dave and Kefer,
Saturday's memorial was so moving. It was such a great tribute to Starla's LIFE. I have been thinking about her a lot and now I have this great picture of her in heaven, thanks to the last video. My thoughts and love are also with you both.
Mary McCall
March 13, 2005
Dear Leslie:
The service yesterday was such a lovely tribute to you mom; the photos so touching. After learning about your mom, I can see the evidence that you've been raised by her in the way you've dealt with her illness and death and your caring manner.
Lee Anne, Phil, Jessica and Stephen Evans
March 13, 2005
We miss Starla. We learned from her and will forever be grateful. We feel the loss, but we're the lucky ones to have known her.
She was Family - She opened her heart to David and for that we're thankful.
She was a Mother – Loving Leslie, then Lori, with all her heart. She always showed an abundance of love and affection to their friends and families.
She was a Friend – She loved her friends and we loved her. She always looked for the positive, first to laugh during the good times. Offering advice when asked, always ready to listen.
She was Strong - What will stay with us is her courage. She had no choice but to let the cancer change her life. Where some would be ugly and hateful, she fought to the bitter end, but accepted her fate with grace and dignity.
With Consternation, she slowed down. She paid attention. She stopped doing things she didn’t really want or need to do. She prioritized. She paced herself. She respected her body. She spent time with those whose presence was healing.
With Awareness, she noticed the small miracles that occur daily--the chorus of bird songs in the morning air, the fragrance of one pink rose, the melody of raindrops, the sweetness of a child’s smile, the presence of her beloved family and friends--which, before cancer, she may have overlooked or been to "busy" to really enjoy or appreciate.
With Recognition, she let love in. She opened her heart and opened ours. She told the truth. She asked for help. She accepted the profound generosity of her many friends. She let whatever kindness given in the past return itself to her.
With Wisdom, she allowed the Cancer to remind her of what is actually important in life and what is less so, by seeing the uninvited guest as an opportunity for learning and growth.
With Acceptance, she acknowledged daily the gifts and joys which life offered. She didn't waste time complaining about things she could not change or wish was different. She understood, that you dance when you can, you weep when you must. She noticed and loved what she had instead of focusing precious time and energy on what she didn’t have. She practiced thankfulness, and forgiveness.
With Grace and the Love of God, She did not hide from her fate. She fought the disease and its effect, but she acknowledged it, accepted what it meant to her and her family and prepared for it.
She is gone, but her kind words, quick smile and compassionate heart will forever be with us and with those who loved her.
Erlene DeMarcus
March 11, 2005
Dave,
I was greatly saddened to hear of the passing of Starla, I will never forget her smile and how it brightened the day. I will always be thankful for the help she gave to me. My prayers are with you and your family.
My deepest sympathy,
Erlene DeMarcus
Marian and Michael George
March 11, 2005
Dave and Leslie,
Please accept our sympathy regarding the passing of Our dear Starla. What a wonderful woman with a great attitude and spirit of generosity. We enjoyed spending time with You all, Your hospitality is always warm and welcoming. Starla had a great laugh, and I loved the timbre of Her lyrical voice. She was a very special lady, and She will live on in Our hearts and memories. The good news is that
She is free from earthly concerns, and enjoying eternity with Her Heavenly Father. We will miss Her,
but We look forward to the time when We will see Starla again. There is so much more to the story....God has made great plans for all of Us! Peace and many blessings to You both.
Much love always, Marian and Michael
Lisa Flory
March 11, 2005
We give thanks to Awesome Heavenly Father for His loving grace~ and for pulling Starla back safely to His shore after her brave battle. Thanks to Mo and Hazel for bringing Starla Jean into this world, making and marking it a brighter place for having had her in it for such a brief time. Thanks to Dennis and Tom for naming her, loving her and protecting her as brothers.Gratitude to Cheryl for being such a devoted sister-in-law. Star was appropriately named...and her life burned so warm & bright with her light. We will miss her until we can hold her in our arms again.
Love always from another part of her family,
Lisa, Kevin, E.A. Jennie and Hayley.
Cheryl & Dennis Anderson
March 10, 2005
Dave and Leslie, as you know we are truly missing our dear Starla. It's not the same without her -- she had an amazing ability to make us laugh and feel loved in spite of the fact that she was fighting her own battle. We know she loved you both very much and would have stayed with you if she could have. She was just too much of an angel for this world.
Starla was a wonderful sister and a great sister-in-law. There is a huge hole in our hearts, but we feel some comfort in knowing that she is whole again, cancer free, and probably having a blast on the other side. We will miss her terribly and share in your loss.
We love you both. Aunt Cheryl and Uncle Dennis.
Linda Anderson
March 10, 2005
God blessed our family when He placed Starla in it! She brought so much love, laughter and happiness to each of us. She will continue to live in each of our hearts and memories always. Dave and Leslie, you brought her so much joy while she was here on this Earth and will continue to as she watches over you both from Heaven. We now have three more special angels who will one day greet us with their arms out stretched to welcome us home!
My love to you both!
Love, Cousin Linda
Scott Anderson
March 10, 2005
Dave and Les, Our deepest sympathy to you both. Aunt Star sure had the right name - a bright light over all of us, a twinkle in the sky - Someone to now watch over and make sure we are protected and loved.
Aunt Star was also my Godmother and I will miss her very much. I am thankful for all of the good she has given to us all.
God bless you both and try to smile knowing that she will never leave our hearts.
Scott, Andrea, Jordan & Krystina Anderson
Julie Jurich
March 9, 2005
Dearest Dave and Leslie....Starla was not just my cousin, but my best friend...I will miss our daily phone calls, shopping sprees, floating in your beautiful pool and her very comforting hugs....You were both so wonderful to her all through her illness...she was truly blessed to have you both. I love her more than words can say...and I will think of her everyday for the rest of my life...I look forward to seeing her again in heaven.....Love to you both XXXOOOXXX cousin julie
Chuck & Ann Tarski
March 6, 2005
Dave - please accept our deepest sympathy. Starla affected everyone she had come in contact. Her infectious smile and her demeanor brightened everybody’s day.
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