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Helen Bekierski Obituary

Helen Sarow Bekierski, 91, of Elgin passed away Tuesday, June 19, 2007 at Provena St. Joseph Hospital, Elgin. She was born June 26, 1915 in Sycamore, the daughter of Gustaf and Johannah Johnson Carlstrom. She had been a resident of Elgin since 1933. She had been employed by the Elgin National Watch Co. in the plate room, McGraw-Edison and then McGrath Buick in Elgin before retiring in 1981.

She was a member of Bethlehem Lutheran Church of Elgin, was a member of the Craft Circle of the church and loved to do ceramics.

Surviving are her daughter, Margaret Drafall of Elgin; two grandsons, Todd (Melissa) Drafall of Aurora and Ryan (Karla) Drafall in Romeoville; four great grandchildren, Madeline, Logan, Kaitlyn and Gabriella; step daughter, Gerry (Jim) Nendick of Elgin Grove Village; step son, Joe Geiger (Jan Macasek) of Inverness; four step grandchildren, Kelly Wells-Dudka (Victor) and Shannon (John) Masini, Craig and Kevin Geiger; four step great grandchildren, Victoria, Alexander, Marissa and Monica; and several nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her parents; first husband, Frank J. Sarow in 1970; second husband, Stanley Bekierski 1987; four brothers, Carl, Edwin, Arthur and Emil Carlstrom; two sisters, Selma Carlstrom and Jennie Olson; and son-in-law, Kent Drafall.

Funeral Services will be held 11 AM, June 22 at Bethlehem Lutheran Church, Elgin with Rev. Arthur Poutinan officiating. Burial will be in Lakewood Memorial Park, Elgin. Visitation will be held on Thursday from 4 to 8 PM at Laird Funeral Home, Elgin and Friday from 10 AM until the time of services in the church. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be given to Bethlehem Lutheran Church, Elgin.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Courier News from Jun. 20 to Jun. 21, 2007.

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Carolyn Mackelprang (Sico)

June 24, 2007

I will always remember Helen as a wonderful neighbor and friend. When we moved into the neighborhood Frank and Helen were right there to help us with new homeowner decisions and help. As the years went by, Helen and Stan were always there for drinks/laughs. And Helen in the later years was always a good time. Such great wit and friendliness. I loved her as a friend/neighbor. Margaret you have my sincere condolences, I'll miss your Mom.

Sue Balmes

June 22, 2007

Gerry, Jim and Family, our prayers and thoughts of comfort are with you all for the loss of your step-mom, grandmother & great grandmother. Very sorry, Sue and Tom

Renee Leclerc

June 22, 2007

I was a college student while working with your Mom at McGrath Buick. I can't tell you how enough how kind and loving she was to me. I remember getting there in time so that she could go home for lunch to watch One Life to Live. My prayers are with you during this time when memories often hurt.

JO ANN MARSHALL

June 20, 2007

YOU HAVE OUR SYMPATHY AND OUR PRAYERS. OUR FOLKS SPENT MANY FUN TIMES TOGETHER.

Nick & Anne Console

June 20, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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