1976
2025
Benjamin S. "Ben" Jeffery, 49, of Elkhart, passed away Monday, Jan. 27, 2025 at 5:30 p.m., in a senseless violent act at Martin's Super Markets in Elkhart. Ben, as he was known to family and friends, was born on Jan, 6, 1976, in Hancock, Michigan, to James Drew Jeffery, who is deceased and Judy Ann (Crawford) Caswell of Ceresco, Michigan.
On Nov. 10, 2011, he married his true love and best friend Valarie L. (Slauf) Bailey. Valarie survives, as well as his siblings, Adam (Tina) Jeffery and Aaron (Michelle) Jeffery, both of Lake Linden, Michigan, Ann (Randy) Haywood of Hancock, Michigan, and Andy (Paula) Jeffery of Grand Rapids, Michigan, Mike Jeffery of Marshill, Wisconsin, and Robert (Pam) Jeffery of Warroad, Minnesota; as well as several nieces, nephews and cousins.
Ben was preceded in death by his first wife, Angela Jeffery, and two daughters, Sarah and Kaitlyn Jeffery, in a tragic house fire in 2001.
Ben worked as a CNA in the health care industry for many years, He also worked in area manufacturing businesses.
Ben loved being a docent at the Ruthmere-Havilah Beardsley House, many were amazed at his knowledge of the Beardsley family and local Elkhart History. Ben also served with EMA (Emergency Management Assistance) and the Red Cross, helping during any emergencies for many years. Ben was an avid painter and artist. He was in the process of mapping all the coal mines in the area around his hometown of Hancock, Michigan, and Keweenaw Peninsula. Ben was also authoring a book on grief, which the family hopes to finish and have published. Ben also had two support animals, a Morkie Saydee and cat Jackson. Ben also loved serving at area churches.
Ben had a kind and loving soul; he loved God and people. He was loved by all. Ben had a great sense of humor and was a "comedian's best friend." Val's mom nicknamed him "Giggles."
Services celebrating the life of Benjamin S. Jeffery will begin with visitation with the family from 2-4 p.m. Sunday, Feb. 2, at The Vine Church, 2616 Peddlers Village Road No. 2, Goshen.
The service will follow at 4 p.m. Pastor Al Kinsey will officiate. Kindly direct any memorials to Jeffery's family. Billings Funeral Home is honored to be in charge of arrangements. Condolences may be shared online to Ben's family at www.billingsfuneralhome.com.
"The shooter didn't know he could not kill a Christian. But instead, he changed his address to heaven."
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Marjorie Knowles
February 22, 2025
When I saw this name I thought it was the one who worked where I was a secretary when he lost his first wife and daughters in fire It was such a tragic day I remember them coming in to tell him I wondered what ever became of him he helped my husband one time when he locked himself out of his truck Ben was small enough to climb in back window to open it up RIP
Xxxxxx
February 4, 2025
Good guy will be dearly missed rip Ben you always had a gentle soul
Mary Nagy and Austin Shultz
February 2, 2025
Soo sorry for your loss. Many hugs and prayers. We volunteered with him at the Red Cross.
Linda Baker
February 1, 2025
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Rich tyson
February 1, 2025
Ben and I worked at the American Red Cross together. So sorry Valarie God bless you . Ben will be missed he was great friend.
Deborah Keeler
February 1, 2025
I didn't know Ben. But after reading about him I wanted to express my condolences to his wife and family. He sounds like a wonderful person who will be greatly missed.
Richard Lyons
February 1, 2025
Deepest Condolences Valarie. May you find comfort in his selfless act of true Christ like love.
Susan Chopp
February 1, 2025
My deepest sympathy to his family. I only knew him briefly as he was employed by the Houghton, Michigan K-mart where I worked with his mother Judy also for many years. May he rest in peace .
Juanita Loflin
February 1, 2025
We are sorry for your loss.
April Wesley
January 31, 2025
So sorry for your loss, sending hugs and prayers for Val and all the family
Pamela Deitch
January 31, 2025
I would like to send my sympathy to the family. I never knew Ben but I wish I did. He was being his Christian self to help in what was his final gift here on earth. I truly believe he went straight into the arms of Jesus. He can now have heaven giggling and see his children again and their mother. His life was filled with sorrow however he was a bright and shining beacon to many that knew him. God bless his wife and family during this very difficult time. I'm so sorry this happened.
Pastor Kory Bell
January 31, 2025
Met Ben for the first time last year and we really enjoyed meeting him and spent a half hour talking and chatting about our faith in Christ. Agreed with his sense of humor which we picked up on and thankful for his love for people and Jesus. He will definitely be missed and our prayers go out to his loved ones. Love ya brother!
Pastor Kory Bell
Redeemed Life Bible Church
Micah 6:8
Jodi
January 31, 2025
So sorry for your loss. Sending you love and hugs and prayers.
Gina Covey
January 31, 2025
I am so very sorry for your loss. This is a true tragedy. Sounds like he was a very decent man. Praying for you and your family.
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