Joan M. Grimes, 88, of Elkhart, Indiana, passed away peacefully on Sept. 29, 2025, in Elkhart. Born on Oct. 31, 1936, in Sullivan, Indiana, Joan was the daughter of the late Jesse and Mabel Gaines. She was also preceded in death by her beloved husband, Jon W. Grimes Sr., two stepdaughters, Julie and Nanette, and a sister, Millie Beeker.
Joan is survived by her children: Jon W. Grimes Jr., Matthew W. Grimes, Nicole J. Grimes and Margie Grimes-Adams; 11 cherished grandchildren; and 13 great-grandchildren.
A 1954 graduate of Lafayette Jefferson High School, Joan retired from Key Bank in 1998 after many years of dedicated service. She was an active member of the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Elkhart and a longtime volunteer at the Midwest Museum of American Art.
Joan had a vibrant spirit and a deep love for life. She enjoyed golfing, bowling, playing cards, crocheting, and following horse racing. A devoted fan of Notre Dame Women's Basketball, she rarely missed a game. She also found great joy in traveling the country by motorhome, often with ice cream in hand.
Joan never met a stranger – she had an infectious warmth and a genuine love for people. Above all, she treasured time spent with her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
In keeping with her wishes, there will be no public services. A private family burial will take place.
Joan will be remembered for her kindness, humor and the joy she brought to everyone she met.
Per her wishes cremation will take place and she will be laid to rest next to her husband.
In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be given to the Midwest Museum of Art or to the Elkhart County Humane Society.
Elkhart Cremation Services has been entrusted with her care.
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Janice Pritchard
Yesterday
My condolences to Jon on the passing of your mother.
Mary Adams
October 1, 2025
Joan was such a fun companion for this past decade or more for me. She always seemed to have a smile on her face and was so very cheerful often making a joke if there was something she wasn't that happy about. It seemed that she loved to play cards especially Euchre and she loved ice cream. I was fortunate to go and visit her along with some other women friends during the years she was no longer in her own home. While her cognitive decline became clear come she almost seemed increasingly engaged in activities where she was living and seemed to enjoy a variety of moments of pleasant time. She will be missed mark
Greg Purdie
October 1, 2025
I´m so sorry to hear of the passing of Joan. She was such a nice lady and a friend of our family for many years.
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