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Thomas R. Messex

1952 - 2023

Thomas R. Messex obituary, 1952-2023

BORN

1952

DIED

2023

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Oltmann Funeral Home - Union

103 North Church Street

Union, Missouri

Thomas Messex Obituary

Thomas "Tom" Ray Messex, 70, Gerald, passed away Saturday, May 6, 2023, in Washington.

He was born Aug. 8, 1952, in Richwoods to Frank Messex and wife Elizabeth, nee Heads. Thomas grew up in Richwoods and attended school at Turkey Branch in Richwoods. Thomas joined the U.S. Army, Aug. 10, 1972, and proudly served his country. He was honorably discharged, July 18, 1974.

After Thomas' service in the U.S. Army, he lived most of his life in Colorado Springs, Colorado. Thomas enjoyed spending time with his family playing poker. He also enjoyed bowling, traveling, and most of all, hiking and walking. Thomas was a member of the American Legion in Colorado Springs. After retirement, he moved to Gerald where he was closer to his family.

He is survived by three sisters, Evelyn Vanderpool, Pearl Courtway and Mary Jane Zekoll, all of Gerald; many nieces and nephews; other relatives and friends.

Thomas was preceded in death by his parents, Frank and Elizabeth Messex; six brothers, Joseph Messex, John Messex, Edward Messex, Jimmy Messex, Henry Messex and Jerry Messex; and one sister, Anna Mae Hill.

Visitation was held from 1-3 p.m. Thursday, May 11, at Oltmann Funeral Home, Union. A funeral service followed at 3 p.m., with the Pastor Roger Johnson officiating.

Interment was private.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Messex family. Checks may be made payable to Evelyn Vanderpool.

The Messex family was served by Oltmann Funeral Home, Union.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Missourian on May 13, 2023.

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Oltmann Funeral Home - Union

103 North Church Street, Union, MO 63084

May

11

Funeral service

3:00 p.m.

Oltmann Funeral Home - Union

103 North Church Street, Union, MO 63084

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