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1966
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2016
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John Lye Obituary
Jay was a 1984 graduate of Harbor Creek High School and a graduate of Penn State Behrend. He was employed at Carter Lumber and was a supervisor with Harborcreek Youth Services. He attended Our Lady of Mercy R.C. Church and enjoyed playing on various softball teams.
In addition to his parents, Jay is survived by his wife, Kim Getto Lye; one daughter, Kaitlynn Lye; one son, Garrett Lye; two sisters, Cheryl Grugin (David), and Megan Senderak (Mark); one brother, Eric Lye (Angela); brother-in-law, Dan Getto (Arlene); and many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews.
Friends may call at the Dusckas Funeral Home, Inc., 2607 Buffalo Rd., on Sunday from 2 to 8 p.m. and are invited to attend a Funeral Service there on Monday at 11 a.m. conducted by Msgr. Gerald Ritchie. Private interment will be held. Memorial contributions may be designated to Great Lakes Hospice, 1700 Peach St., Ste. 244, Erie, PA 16501.
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Memories and Condolences
for John Lye
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Bob Etter
January 27, 2017
John & Barb:
I just heard about the news. I am so sorry for your loss.
I can remember growing up & having Cub Scouts with you & Jay at your place on 29th street.
I will be saying a special prayer for you all this coming Sunday at church. I know I never kept in touch very well, but he was a good friend.
Bob Etter
Raleigh, NC
Carrie Krill Hershberger
January 10, 2017
Dear Barbara and Family,
Please accept my condolences and prayers on the passing of your son. My heart is with you.
Dawn (RAY) Cappelli
January 8, 2017
I can always count on John for a smile. All through school my gentle friend had a calm demeanor and upbeat presence. The many church activities we participated in, whether volunteered by our mothers or not, I knew we would have fun. Through the years, as I came home to visit, I knew there was always a hug or a quick comment, joke or retort to put another smile on my face.
RIP buddy, the pain is gone for you and we will eventually focus on the smile. Put a smile on my mom's face when you see her.
Ron Haury
January 5, 2017
So sorry to hear of Jay's passing. He was a great employee, friend and all around great guy. He will be missed.
Ron Haury
Linda Pawlik
January 3, 2017
I am truly sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Judy Kern
January 2, 2017
Kim, I am so sorry to hear about Jay's passing away. I worked with Jay for over 25years and he was one of the nicest people I have ever known. He will be greatly missed. May God be with you and your family and you find peace knowing Jay is with the Lord.
January 2, 2017
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. God bless.
The Gustafson Family
Craig, Melissa, Kaylyn & Evan
Janet Landi-Laughlin
January 1, 2017
Dear Barbara, John, Kim, Eric, and family,
Our hearts are broken over your loss! We grieve with you, but our grief is tempered with the blessed hope that Jay is in a far, far better place....with our Precious Lord! Paul and I are with you in spirit! Love and Blessings!
Pat Kaulis
January 1, 2017
John was a man of few words but was always there to help at any time. I always enjoyed working with him and his wonderful Mom. Rest in peace, John.
Brian Dustin
December 31, 2016
To the entire Lye family. My deepest condolences to all of you on John's passing. He was a great guy and I know he will live on in all of your hearts.
Jen (Kavanagh) Kovach
December 31, 2016
Kim,
My heart goes out to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
John MsIntyre
December 31, 2016
Barb, John, and Kim,
So saddened to hear about Jay.
We are sorry we can't come up and be with you. Please know our thoughts and
prayers are with you.
Christina Iacobozzi
December 31, 2016
Barbara, John, Eric, & the entire Lye family, My deepest condolences go to all of you. My sincerest prayers are with you all during this time of great grief. Love to you all.
Jenn Cirrito
December 31, 2016
Eric - I am so sorry to hear of your brother's passing. May you find some peace in the happy memories together as a family...Will keep your family in our prayers.
Mary Ann Lewis
December 31, 2016
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this most difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss.
December 31, 2016
Prayers and love to you and your family, so very sorry for your loss, Kelly Harris Chernichky and Jeff
Gloria DeMilly
December 31, 2016
Barbara and John, No words can express how sorry we were to hear of Jay's passing. We can't imagine the pain you and his family are going through. Please let us know if there is anything at all we can do.
Kim and Chuck Kissling johnson
December 31, 2016
My thought's and prayers are with you and your entire family. May god be with you all at this time. Jay was a great person.
Lisa (Pietrasiewicz )Martin
December 31, 2016
Kim,I am so very sorry to hear about Jay...Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers...May God wrap his arms around all of you and help you find peace...
cindy (peters) Treacle
December 31, 2016
Growing up with Jay brings so many found memories. He was a great friend through ccd classes, church, and school. May a peace fall upon his family know his altamit gift is given and his new body is free of pain.
Kim Mills
December 31, 2016
May all of the wonderful memories help you through this very difficult time. My deepest sympathy to the entire family. I hope you find peace in knowing that he is in a beautiful place.
Craig J Heuser
December 31, 2016
I am very sorry to read about the passing of John and praying for you and your family during this difficult time. May your memories bring comfort and peace. Rest in peace John.
Mary
December 31, 2016
Praying for peace and comfort as you go through this difficult time. Love to you all.
December 31, 2016
Kim and family, we were deeply saddened to hear of Jay's passing he was a wonderful person and friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. David and Karen Greene.
Brenda Sidun class of 84
December 31, 2016
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family of John. May all the happy memories of good family times be with you always and may the peace of God get you through this time of loss.
Dave Eschenbach
December 31, 2016
My thoughts and prayers are with Kim and her family. Great memories of Jay from softball games and tournaments.
December 31, 2016
Barb and John, My heart is heavy thinking about the pain you must feel from the loss of Jay. Praying that you with know the comforting arms of God and the peace that comes from him. With love, Katrina DeVore
Mark Opalenik
December 31, 2016
I worked with John for a short time (night supervisor). Sorry for your loss Barb and family.
Kellie (Johnson) Clark
December 31, 2016
Kim and Barb,
I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your families are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jeanmarie Wozniak
December 30, 2016
John "Jay" was a kind, quiet, and gentle person. God bless his wife, children, parents, brother and sisters, nieces and nephews, and friends. You have my sympathy.
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