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Oscar Aguilar Obituary

MCSHERRYSTOWN Oscar Banda Aguilar, 17, died Monday, December 5, 2011, from injuries sustained in an automobile accident. He was born January 27, 1994, in Hanover, the son of Hipolito M. Banda and Angelina Aguilar of McSherrystown. Oscar was a member of St. Francis Xavier Church in Gettysburg, and a senior at New Oxford High School where he played soccer and ran track. In addition to his parents, Hipolito and Angelina, Oscar is survived by two brothers, Manuel Banda Aguilar and Esteban Banda Aguilar, both of McSherrystown; paternal grandfather, Esteban Banda, Sr. of Abbottstown; maternal grandfather, Manuel Aguilar of Mexico; and maternal grandmother, Filomena Aguilar of Mexico. Following cremation, a Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday at 6 p.m. at the Xavier Center, 455 Table Rock Rd, Gettysburg, with Father Jonathan Sawicki as Celebrant. Burial will be private and at the convenience of the family. The family will receive friends at the Xavier Center on Friday from 5 p.m. until the time of the service. Feiser Funeral Home, Inc, 302 Lincolnway West, New Oxford, is in charge of arrangements. Memories may be shared at www.feiserfuneralhome.com

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Published by Evening Sun on Dec. 7, 2011.

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R Carr

December 15, 2011

May God's peace support you as you cope.

Philippians 4:6

SFC Gallagher

December 13, 2011

Banda and Family,
First I want to send a message to Oscar. I know we only met once but it was a pleasure to have met you and your family. You all welcomed me into your home with open arms! May you rest in peace beautiful angel.....to the family stay strong, need anything please reach to me and know there will always be an angel watching over you!

mulkey's

December 11, 2011

R.I.P. Oscar shine on us all.Our thoughts and prayers r with u taken 2 soon but never forgotten

Danielle Dondero

December 11, 2011

Oscar was a one of a kind person to know. His smile lit up a room and his spirit brought joy. He will always be remembered and loved. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Mandy Campbell

December 11, 2011

Our prayers are with your entire family. We will continue to keep you in our thoughts in the days and weeks to come.

Mike, Mandy, Noah, & Emma Campbell
(friends of Pops)

the Brunner family

December 10, 2011

We do not know each other but we are so sorry for your loss. We pray for your family and ask God's blessings to bring you peace and comfort.

Atkins

December 10, 2011

Thoughts and prayers are with you all @ this sad time. May the Love of God <3 see you through. ~God Bless~

December 9, 2011

The Lord has 5 new soccer players on His team

Deborah Knaub

December 9, 2011

I did not know your son,but my thoughts and prayers are with your family

Reberts

December 9, 2011

Sorry for your loss

December 9, 2011

I have been praying for you all the entire week. Take comfort in the support of your community and know that Oscar's memory will never die. God bless.

Sherry/Jorge CERVANTES

December 9, 2011

We are sorry for your lost may GOD be with you and your family you are in are prays and thoughts.

Vinny Minardi

December 9, 2011

Estaban and family you are in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time.

Sandy Sheaffer

December 9, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss, My son was in track with Oscar and also a senior. You and your family are in our prayers.

Rivera

December 9, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss.

Rob Williams

December 9, 2011

Sharing in your sorrow and sending prayers and sympathy as Oscar enters God's endless loving presence. - The Diocesan Office for Youth and Young Adult Ministry.

Damiana Melendez

December 9, 2011

Mi mas sentido pesame. No es facil comprender el dolor que etan pasndo en estos momentos tan dolorosos. Que Dios les de mucha fortaleza en estors momentos tan dificiles.Usteds estan en mis oraciones.

December 9, 2011

Oscar you were an amazing person its so hard to see that i will no longer see you at church when i go to the gettysburg one i miiss you so much and i know you are in heaven. Que descanses en Paz amigo te quiero mucho<3

Heather

December 9, 2011

You do not know me but my heart is extremly heavy for your family. Lean on God and let him give you the strength. In my prayers.

Miriam Gramajo

December 9, 2011

"Que Dios les de mucha fortalesa, y serenidad, en estos momentos tan dificiles. Mis oraciones estan con su familia" Miriam (katy TX)

tammy patterson

December 9, 2011

May God grant you strength and courage as you face this most difficult day. Praying for you.
Tammy

Pam K.

December 9, 2011

I am sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers.

Maria Perez

December 9, 2011

Accept my sincere condolence. In this moment of sorrow, my prayers are to his family.
Mis más sincera Condolencia. Estamos orando por la familia en este momento tan doloroso.

Jeanne and Jesus Moreno

December 9, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss. No words can express how deeply sorry we are. No parent should ever have to bury their child. Oscar is an angel of God that will be with you always.

Becca Colgan

December 9, 2011

Oscar was an amazing person. He always knew how to make social studies with mr. weidler fun. Fly high buddy! My prayers are with u and ur family!

December 9, 2011

may you find peace. sorry for your loss.

Teresa Morales

December 9, 2011

Esperamos que encuentren el consuelo por la perdida de su hijo que ya esta con Dios, no los conocemos pero viviamos en Hanover y tenemos un hijo asi que nos imaginamos como se encuentran esperando su pronta resignacion y que descanse en paz. Fam. Torres-Morales.

Kelly Sullivan

December 8, 2011

I did not know Oscar but am praying for your family and everyone affected by this tragedy. As a parent myself of 2 young ladies, I can only imagine what you are going through. My hope is that you find solace that heaven now has another beautiful angel. May God Bless you and give you strength in your darkest hours.

Luis Mora

December 8, 2011

Although I never knew Oscar, I can only ask for you to accept my sincere condolences and my heartfelt thoughts for your loss. I know that is not easy to understand something like this but my heart is broken knowing that Oscar has been taking away from you, so young in this tragic accident. Please remain strong.

Carole Valenzia

December 8, 2011

May God be with you at this time.

December 8, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Know that you have a guardian angel watching over all of you. May God be with you all!

Jana Haines

December 8, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. Our hearts ache endlessly for you and your family. I did not know your son but can tell from the photos and videos I have seen the past few days, that he was a bright, young man. Lifting you and your family up in prayer each and every day.

Will Doron & Family

December 8, 2011

Manuel & Esteban, we are so sorry for the loss of Oscar. We are praying for you and your family.

Laura Koller

December 8, 2011

Mucho amor y luz, mi amigo.

ELISA ANGELES

December 8, 2011

NO HAY PALABRAS PARA DECIR LO QUE SIENTO
DESCANSA EN PAZ, Y QUE DIOS LE DE FORTALEZA A TU FAMILIA PARA SEGUIR ADELANTE

Arslan Rashid

December 8, 2011

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayer are with Oscar and your family. He was good person and friend and will always be with you in your memories and hearts. Take care.

Cheryl

December 8, 2011

i do not know your family but as a parent I can extend my sympathies to you. May God help ease some of your pain during this difficult time. God Bless your entire family and all the friends. Take care.

Sandra Gouker

December 8, 2011

Our deepest sympathies on Oscar's passing. I hope in time you find peace and comfort in the many memories you have built together. His life may have been short but he has touched the lives of so many others in such a positive way. The Goukers, Brian, Sandra, Zach, Emma & Alex

The Palmer's (Ron, Lisa & Jasmyn)

December 8, 2011

We are sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Take comfort that you have a guardian angel to keep watch over you.

Sincerely,

K Murphy

December 8, 2011

We are so very sorry for the loss of your beloved son. We are friends of the Sheridan family and know that Casey was so happy being a part of Oscar's life. For her to have felt so strongly, he must of been a wonderful young man.
With deepest sympathy,
The Murphy Family

Chrystal Lozier

December 8, 2011

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

myrta lopez-flores

December 8, 2011

I am sorry for you loss I don't know any of the kids but my heart goes to all the families I know what you going thru and its not easy but remember he is an angel now watching over his love ones. Remember the good moments and the laughts. Sorry again my prayers are with you and your family

December 8, 2011

Our family is deeply sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find peace and comfort. God bless you all!

The Bahous (Sam, Grace, Gabrielle, Danielle and Alexa) Hanover, PA

The Still Family

December 8, 2011

Thoughts and prayers go out to your family...may God bless you all. We are so sad for your loss.

Dwayne & Jenny Long

December 8, 2011

Our Sincere Thoughts are with you all in this tragic loss. Always remember Oscar will always be with you as an Angel on your shoulder for Guidance & Protection. Take Care

Dee Megonnell

December 8, 2011

Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. May God bless you in your time of loss.

The Shermeyers

December 8, 2011

We are praying for your family. God bless you!

Terri Stonesifer?

December 8, 2011

U will be greatly missed. And. Loved and always in our. Hearts

susan rosul

December 8, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know any of the teens,but thus has affected me as I have children. They are angels now and will still be with you...may God bless you and all the families affected by this tragedy

Kelly Sullivan

December 8, 2011

My thoughts are with you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.

Matthew Staub

December 7, 2011

Oscar was someone who could always make you laugh. We worked together at KFC and he always kept things fun and interesting. Oscar was a great person and a true friend. I'm going to miss sitting with him at lunch. They're all going to be greatly missed. Your famiy is in my prayers

The Baumgardners Baumgardner

December 7, 2011

Though we didn't know Oscar or any of the other kids, we are just in tears over the loss of these 5 beautiful children. May they rest in peace. May God Bless the families.

December 7, 2011

so sorry for your loss. my prayers are with u and your family at this difficult time.gold bless

kimberly mummert gardners pa

rebecca trautfelter

December 7, 2011

I am so so sorry for your loss. May God bless your family at such a difficult time.. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.. God bless..

December 7, 2011

May God heal your hearts during this sad time, and always remember you are not alone. Think of that young mans bright beautiful smile and know that he is always with you!!!! God Bless

Alayna Fair

December 7, 2011

r.i.p Oscar my thoughts and prayers go out to your family. we will miss you

Krystal Strine

December 7, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers go out to your family and friends in your time of sorrow.

December 7, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss. May God be with you all. The Langleys, New Oxford, PA

Sue and Eileen LoncarSnyder

December 7, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are sent to your family from ours may God be with you at this time....

Neiderers

December 7, 2011

So sorry to hear of your tragic loss. May the love of family and friends and God carry you through this most difficult time.

desiree morgan

December 7, 2011

Im so sorry for ur lost,i didnt know oscar.My sister was friends with him.My prayers go to u and ur family.again ONE DAY WE WILL MET AGAIN

Angela McMaster

December 7, 2011

We are praying for your family in this time of sorrow. The McMasters

Troy & Jennifer Wagaman

December 7, 2011

We did not know your son or his friends, but we feel your pain. May you find the comfort that only God can give. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Christine Stanley

December 7, 2011

I am truely sorry for the loss of this wonderful guy,Oscar.I am truely honored to have played with,against,and spend countless days being picked on or attempting to pick on him for 10 years.My thoughts and prayers are with you all.Stay strong.

Patti Trimmer

December 7, 2011

Your are in our thoughts and prayers Trimmer Family ( New Oxford)

Karen Bell

December 7, 2011

I am sorry for your loss, my thoughts and
prayers are with you

Karen and Sarah Bell

Lori, Hannah and Brenden Foster

December 7, 2011

My daughter and I lived in Hanover up until this past summer. We were living alone as my husband worked in TN. Oscar and Diego would come over often just to check on us and do any chores I may have had. That meant the world to me that they would go out of their way like that. I know they are both closer than you know. They werer wonderful people and will be forever missed.

Deb Brandberg

December 7, 2011

I am so sorry for the lost of your son, Oscar. I am one of Chelsea's aunt and my heart aches for you at this time of your loss. God has just taken 5 angels and they will watch over us. my prayers for your family

The Stultz Family

December 7, 2011

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Vicky Howard

December 7, 2011

my thoughts and prayers go out to you and all your family..may God comfort your family in this time of great loss.

December 7, 2011

Please know that you are not alone in your grief. Many are lifting you up in prayer and sharing in your sorrow. We pray that God's grace will give you comfort in the coming days, weeks and months.

The Messinger Family (Kevin, Lori, Colin and Erica)

Cherie McMaster

December 7, 2011

I am so sorry that you lost your wonderful son to such a horrific accident. My prayers are with your family.
God Bless you!!

Michele Sterling

December 7, 2011

Hipolito and Family,

My deepest sympathies are with you during this time. I am extremely saddened by your loss. Know that your dearest Oscar will be with you always.

-Love and prayers, Michele Sterling and family

Lateisha Murray

December 7, 2011

Our thoughts and prayer are with the family. May God with you all at such a very difficult time.

Angel Hartman

December 7, 2011

We will miss you a lot Oscar!
R.I.P Oscar Banda :/

December 7, 2011

r.i.p Oscar you will always be in our hearts and in our prayers. you were an amazing soccer player & friend. we miss ad love you <3

Andrew Fontaness

December 7, 2011

I am deeply saddened. Rest assured that Oscar is in the care of God and through his grace in time Oscar shall be reunited with his love ones. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Christine

December 7, 2011

The tragic loss of your precious child has affected our entire community. Many of us are thinking of you and praying for God's grace, mercy and strength to carry your family through this time of exquisite pain and grief. Your son will never be forgotten, his memory will live on in all of us.

December 7, 2011

I did not know your son personally but my daughter who is a freshman did. There are no words to ever express the sympathy we have for your family at this time. Your loss is one that no parent should ever know. May you find comfort in God who is the strength of us all. May you know that He is at your side through this most difficult time. You are being remembered in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you. The Lawrence Family (McSherrystown, PA)

Cheryl

December 7, 2011

I do not know your family but as a parent of a teen I wanted to express my sympathy to you. May God comfort you in this time of need. God Bless

December 7, 2011

I Didnt know you personally but this tragedy hits home cause I have a daughter same age I hope for atleast some peace for you over the holiday season

Andy and Vanessa Buchma

December 7, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find peace and comfort.

deborah knaub

December 7, 2011

I didn't know your son,but my thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends.

The Bateman Family

December 7, 2011

Such a tragic loss of vibrant young adults...our thoughts and prayers go out to all the family involved.

Amanda Cunningham

December 7, 2011

I'm so sorry to hear this traggic news! As a mother my heart goes out to you and your family and friends! This is terrible!

Vicki

December 7, 2011

I did not know your son but wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time in your life..My wish for you is to find comfort in Gods loving arms..Heaven has a angel watching over you...God bless

Robert, Sue, Bobby, Brandon, and Brianna Etzler

December 7, 2011

We are sorry for the loss of you son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Teresa Sheely

December 7, 2011

It was nothing short of beauty in motion to watch him dominate on the soccer field or fly over the track. His smile was amazing, his eyes, mischievious, and his laugh contagious. We will miss him as a friend and a vital part of our NOHS soccer team. We love you Oscar.....

Coach Jesse, Teresa Sheely and family

Jennifer S

December 7, 2011

My thoughts & prayers are with you. My son is a JR @ NOHS & is saddened by this as am I. God bless you.

Brend Bankert

December 7, 2011

You have my deepest sympathies for the loss of your beloved son. Oscar's time on earth, while short, will be forever remembered by the light of his soul that will always be seen from the heavens above. May you find peace knowing he is now safely in God's arms.

December 7, 2011

We will always remember Oscar's fun-loving spirit, big smile, and love of soccer. Please know that you and your family are being lifted up in prayer...

Steve, Sue, Noah & Faith Spangler

December 7, 2011

Hipolito, We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Joan and Tyler Fiscel

charles and carol mason

December 7, 2011

are love and prayers are with you. our family is deeply sorry for your loss.

A Mother sharing her grief w/you

December 7, 2011

Words cannot express the saddness my husband and I feel for you and your family.. God put his hand out and Oscar took it and went to his heavely home..Much, much tooooooooo soon ... He has left beautiful memories for those left behind and he would want you to smile when thinking of the many, many fun times you all shared together... your son is resting in peace with his earthly friends... Remember that the brightest star up there is him, looking down on you. The unknown feeling you will get sometimes when something happens to make you happy, well, that is him sharing the moment with you... God be with you and keep you strong during this very, very, sad time.

December 7, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss, prayers for your family.

Heidi Lombardi

December 7, 2011

So sorry for your loss keeping your family and the other childrens families in my prayers.

Debbie Louey

December 7, 2011

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. May you find comfort and peace from the Lord in the days ahead.
Debbie and Shawn Louey

December 7, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss,my thoughts and prayers are with you...

Melissa Potter

Jessica Noel

December 7, 2011

To The Banda Aguilar Family,

Our family is deeply sorry for your family's loss. May you find comfort in your faith, and know that this community is grieving the loss of your child.

May God bless you!

Jennifer Fink

December 7, 2011

In the arms of the Angels, may God bless and comfort you.

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